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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Excuse my 'innocence' or maybe ignorance, but what does vanilla mean??

Can't believe i don't know but I'm sure you Fab people will enlighten me

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

It's a flavour.

Hope that helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight sex missionary style

Nothing kinky

This is a sliding scale depending on what you consider kinky

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It's sex in the missionary position where you use ice cream as a lube

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Straight sex missionary style

Nothing kinky

This is a sliding scale depending on what you consider kinky"

Its only Kinky the first time

Gimp

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By *leasuresharerMan
over a year ago

southampton


"It's sex in the missionary position where you use ice cream as a lube "

I showed a friend of mine an alternative use of a mini-milk lolly the other day - safe to say she enjoyed it as much as me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it meant non swingers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Excuse my 'innocence' or maybe ignorance, but what does vanilla mean??

Can't believe i don't know but I'm sure you Fab people will enlighten me

"

it's a term that people use (not always in a flattering way) to describe sex that is what they consider not kinky or "normal", it is also used to describe people as in "oh he's vanilla".

Some people even use it to describe people who don't swing.

I think if you need a word to differentiate between kinky sex and normal sex you just aren't doing it right

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By *leasuresharerMan
over a year ago

southampton


"...I think if you need a word to differentiate between kinky sex and normal sex you just aren't doing it right "

good sex is good sex, I don't understand why people say they are kinky or not, what you think is kinky may bear no relationship to what I do, just do what you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it meant non swingers "

It can do too

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"Excuse my 'innocence' or maybe ignorance, but what does vanilla mean??

Can't believe i don't know but I'm sure you Fab people will enlighten me

"

boreing partner seldon shags

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla = people that masturbate about kinky sex (but won't admit it)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shagging with your nightie rolled up a few inches

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it meant non swingers "
swinging =kinky

Therefore......

Actually you do the maths, you might understand it better that way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love everything vanilla

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it meant non swingers

It can do too"

It is to me. I had dinner with vanilla friends last night = non swingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A Term classed as Non Kinky or Non BDSM orientated I believe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it meant non swingers

"

I thought they were called muggles.

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By *ppunxbearMan
over a year ago

Manchester

it's used everywhere, most in gaming where you play the game as it ships, rather then add expansion packs etc.

the term 'plain old vanilla' is used a lot

though there's nothing wrong with sex without kink at all!

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By *ixmaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


"I thought it meant non swingers "

It is, everyone else are just trying to be funny when all the OP was asking a serious question

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I thought it meant non swingers

It is, everyone else are just trying to be funny when all the OP was asking a serious question "

Er no. My answer was serious and vanilla is used by some peoole into BDSM to describe those who aren't too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Wow. Life is more complicated than i ever imagined!

I knew i could rely on Fabbers fir clarity.

Thanks Pixma

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Swingers borrowed the term from the kinksters

Most swingers are very vanilla in their sexual orientation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Swingers borrowed the term from the kinksters

Most swingers are very vanilla in their sexual orientation"

I am very vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vanilla - lesbian bar in Manchester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought it meant non swingers

It is, everyone else are just trying to be funny when all the OP was asking a serious question

Er no. My answer was serious and vanilla is used by some peoole into BDSM to describe those who aren't too."

Ditto Vanilla means lots of things to different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just like with ice cream, it means the standard stuff you get unless you ask for something special.

In bdsm it means non-bdsm sex. If a bdsm club says the dress code is vanilla, it means your normal clothes. Don't turn up in a latex gimp suit.

In swinging it means non-swinging. "My vanilla friends have no idea" etc.

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