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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do women get the same 'pressure to perform' on a meet? I mean the worse thing is to be labelled a shit shag.

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

Do you know when i meet up if its for sex i never get nervous just excited and eager andam not worried about my preformance as i feel i usually do that well, but i really feel the pressure when its a meet for a drink because that i usually feel i am more likely to cock up why is that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know i'm a shite shag but when i do meet i let them know so im not under any pressure.

Some are not as gifted as others

There are other ways to have fun other than a shag.

That will be me crossed off a few list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sex should be a go with the flow kind off thing so their shouldn't be any pressure. However yes if someone is rubbish in bed it is frustrating, once i was having sex with a girl an all she did was lay their like a lead weight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

There are other ways to have fun other than a shag.

"

lots of other ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think that ladies feel the same way.

That they have to be not only gorgeous , smelling fantastic, everything shaved to within of its life and then to perform like olga korbut in the bedroom.

Its not just men who have it hard ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the thought of performing like Olga Korbut had me sniggering to myself....

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By *iceguydaveMan
over a year ago

Monmouth

I'm closer to Ronnie Korbut myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad sex takes two people to create.

one womans bad sex is anothers hope and glory.

if the chemistry is wrong, it won't work...no matter what kind of wonderfuck you think you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonderfuck .... Im adopting that word

What a wonderfuck day .....

Wonderfuck shoes dear

What a wondefuck idea !

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By *ickens CiderMan
over a year ago

taunton

um... going back to basics... um... whats a meet? hum...

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By *he BananamanMan
over a year ago

WORCESTERSHIRE

i always tell them the fact that i have only a little penis and that i am single because i am no good in bed!,it eases the presure for me and i think it pays to be honest & upfront about things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmmmm, disagree: being called a bad mother, awful friend, cold person, useless employee are far worst for me than whether a casual playmate thinks I'm a good shag or not!

This is fun for me, I'm not looking for a boyfriend, it is what it is so I never feel nervous or under pressure of any sort.

I always meet socially first and spend time letting my playmates know what I like. I suppose it's different for me as my playmates just want to please me, their nervousness is exciting and a major turn on for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bad sex takes two people to create.

one womans bad sex is anothers hope and glory.

if the chemistry is wrong, it won't work...no matter what kind of wonderfuck you think you are"

I simply couldn't have out it better myself. And wonderfuck is a wonderful word.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm closer to Ronnie Korbut myself "

oh no you are not

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I think everyone is under a certain amount of pressure to "impress" on a meet. But one persons "shit shag" can be anothers"best ever"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women get the same 'pressure to perform' on a meet? I mean the worse thing is to be labelled a shit shag."

Well as a woman you can perform what ever. I have had a couple of men loose control and cum too quickly which lets face it is a bit of a disappointment and a the odd one who got penis shy and couldn't get it up so i think you have to say there is more pressure on the men.

It might be not helping with the ratio of men to women making men worry about getting labelled as a poor performer and struggling then to get future meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do women get the same 'pressure to perform' on a meet? I mean the worse thing is to be labelled a shit shag."

your only as good as the person your shagging.......

so i give everyone 10 out of 10

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" I mean the worse thing is to be labelled a shit shag."

Sure about that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i always tell peops am a shit shag. then my way of thinking if its a bit better than that...hey ho they got a good deal and no one disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i think im a shit shag lol

(cant bloody reach half the time)

But my ploy is try an make em laugh and they wont notice,worked up ta now lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm closer to Ronnie Korbut myself "

I'm more like Mr Corbett off Sooty & Sweep. Good with my hands lol

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore


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Its not just men who have it hard ya know "

well physically we are,lol,,

any way ,have a meet monday wasnt nervous,but i am now cheers guys grrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't know we were supposed to "perform" ...didn't see that in the guide book...how long does it take to learn to juggle?.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"how long does it take to learn to juggle?. "

Not long. It's quite straightforward actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"how long does it take to learn to juggle?.

Not long. It's quite straightforward actually."

While riding a unicycle?

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

how about multi tasking ?? lol

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"While riding a unicycle? "

Depends - do you already have the unicycle skills, or are you looking to learn both simultaneously?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"how about multi tasking ?? lol"

What did you have in mind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"While riding a unicycle?

Depends - do you already have the unicycle skills, or are you looking to learn both simultaneously?"

Thinks it's going to have to be both...I suppose if I have to "perform" I may as well put some effort in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its the same for us and annoying when pressured to shag someeone as my heart really isnt in it, so ive got to put extra effort into it. Or if im tired, it works the same

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"how about multi tasking ?? lol

What did you have in mind? "

riding a rollercoaster and breathing at the same time

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Yes its the same for us and annoying when pressured to shag someeone as my heart really isnt in it, so ive got to put extra effort into it. Or if im tired, it works the same "

I've had that where Ive physically been so tired that its just not happened lol..not sleepy just worn out!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"riding a rollercoaster and breathing at the same time "

Oh I seeeeee that went right over my head....

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"riding a rollercoaster and breathing at the same time

Oh I seeeeee that went right over my head...."

grin, well thats just one example...i'm generally rubbish at multi tasking !

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

..and I'm rubbish at replying privately....

Still, could have been more embarrassing...

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