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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

has anyone let feelings get in the way of fun ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

surely you can have feelings and fun??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,I don't like anything to get in the way of fun

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"has anyone let feelings get in the way of fun ?"

No, I always say 'feelings! Ya bloody stoopid dog! Get out of the damn way!'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol good answers-whats love got to do with it

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

You can't help feelings but it's when it unrequited that sucks...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's just sex for me. Intense and enthusiastic and passionate, yes. Love? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah, I tend not to want fun when I feel ill.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"has anyone let feelings get in the way of fun ?"

No, but it will happen because human beings often equate sex with love or at least affection.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i do fall for my fbs .. cant help it ... but they are not my property .. im just honoured to be their fuck partner when im with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Cheeky, feelings can't be helped and when they're unrequited it can be hard to handle.

Love and feelings are necessarily the same thing tho.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

If they do, keep it to yourselves and be happy.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I agree with Cheeky, feelings can't be helped and when they're unrequited it can be hard to handle.

Love and feelings are necessarily the same thing tho."

Not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I did and we both fell in love !!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't help feelings but it's when it unrequited that sucks... "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You can't help feelings but it's when it unrequited that sucks... "
cheekychops your profile is amazing lol.....funny as fuck too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. Probably, the most emotionally challenging feelings I've ever had lol

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"You can't help feelings but it's when it unrequited that sucks... cheekychops your profile is amazing lol.....funny as fuck too lol "

I know

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By *uby0000Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

its easy to confuse love and lust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm a cold hearted bitch. I want your mouth and cock not your heart

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I did start to get rather close to a fb a few years ago, but she moved away because of her oh's work commitments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

most meets have been one off meets

only met a frew3/4 times

bit difficult to fall in love in short space of time....plus swinging mode is easily

switched on if you cant separate sex and love best not be a swinger

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

Nope, I'm quite good at keeping that line drawn.

Maybe more so because I can honestly say I have never been in love in my life, so its not like its something I've experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree with Cheeky, feelings can't be helped and when they're unrequited it can be hard to handle.

Love and feelings are necessarily the same thing tho.

Not? "

No, because you can have feelings for someone which are amazingly intense especially if you click sexually but it's not love in the true sense of the word.

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"has anyone let feelings get in the way of fun ?"

Came close with an FB a few years ago but we both agreed not to take it further. Was that the right decision? I still don't know.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice "

Some people do that...I can't be arsed and usually meet someone more than once

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

Some people do that...I can't be arsed and usually meet someone more than once "
ehats the longest uve seen the same person ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

Some people do that...I can't be arsed and usually meet someone more than once ehats the longest uve seen the same person ?"

About 4 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could it be I'm falling in love, witcha baby

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice "

The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Nope, I'm quite good at keeping that line drawn.

Maybe more so because I can honestly say I have never been in love in my life, so its not like its something I've experienced."

same thing here

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you "

That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you

That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc "

Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you

That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc

Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out "

Well if it works well for you then fair play

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . "
and how did thatend up ?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . and how did thatend up ?"

They are still together

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . and how did thatend up ?

They are still together "

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . and how did thatend up ?

They are still together

"

When's the baby due?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . and how did thatend up ?

They are still together

"
wow.....congratulations

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . and how did thatend up ?

They are still together

When's the baby due? "
call the baby fabio lol

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By *bi HaiveMan
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over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"This first time I met someone more than once we ended up getting together . . . and how did thatend up ?

They are still together

When's the baby due? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you

That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc

Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out

Well if it works well for you then fair play "
not had a man fall in love with me yet

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.

I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

You can have the best of both worlds....

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.

I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.

"

Um

excuse me

but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.

I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.

Um

excuse me

but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?! "

How could I forget the first woman to motorboat me? I assumed it was lust and not love but I'll now have to rethink my _iews and say that lots of people have fallen in love with me. In fact, I think at least 10 people may have fallen in love with me on Saturday.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.

I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.

Um

excuse me

but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?!

How could I forget the first woman to motorboat me? I assumed it was lust and not love but I'll now have to rethink my _iews and say that lots of people have fallen in love with me. In fact, I think at least 10 people may have fallen in love with me on Saturday.

"

10?!

My cheeks feel used and violated now, like a learner dildo when it is tossed out and replaced with the multi function rabbit

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"Enjoy your feelings but also check that they aren't just the natural high of great sex and the closeness of warm intimacy.

I've have developed love for some people, one on a closer level than any others, but not in love and no one has fallen in love with me.

Um

excuse me

but I fell in love the moment my cheek touched your boob - or have you forgotten our time together?!

How could I forget the first woman to motorboat me? I assumed it was lust and not love but I'll now have to rethink my _iews and say that lots of people have fallen in love with me. In fact, I think at least 10 people may have fallen in love with me on Saturday.

10?!

My cheeks feel used and violated now, like a learner dildo when it is tossed out and replaced with the multi function rabbit "

Think about my poor, abused, beautiful breasts! People just kept doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have feelings for all my friends, to be honest, it enhances the fun for me. Still don't get how you can be intimate and passionate with someone you feel nothing for.

Then again, the psychiatrist did say I'm pretty fucked up

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

The trick is to meet people who will never want a relationship with you

That's pretty hard I don't think people set out to fall in love or want a relationship on here...while I would love to settle down I don't look for it on here or everyday but you sometimes can't help who you meet and how they effect you emotionally etc

Someone who will want children I'm safe with as I can't have them. Confirmed bachelors, men who work way too much. I tend to feel comfortable with these men,it's probably why I steer clear of men my own age. Anyone who could be possibly boyfriend material I mentally block out "

I know what you mean - I don't block but I am a lot more cautious with men nearer my age, they are more dangerous for me, though I am attracted to far fewer anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can't help feelings but it's when it unrequited that sucks... "

too true, i spent almost 3 hrs chatting with a friend tonight, because she told her former flatmate and fb that she had fallen for him and hes not interested.

How ironic that i should be the shoulder to cry on when i have a crush on her.

c'est la vie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice "

Are you ready for this lifestyle?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol we was fwb but didnt quiet carry on like that, were now a couple lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ive a long term fb 8 years or so and have feelings, but it is also good to shut the door and have no responsibilities for their lives. Great sex, a connection and tenderness, but no great plans together.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Ive a long term fb 8 years or so and have feelings, but it is also good to shut the door and have no responsibilities for their lives. Great sex, a connection and tenderness, but no great plans together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe the trick is never to meet the same person twice

Are you ready for this lifestyle?

"

You don't have to meet the same people again if you don't want to.

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