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By *ppunxbear OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I'm not a thin, athletic person, i'm a cuddly hairy bear. But there is a stigma around us chubby people. Women as well.

When i came out as bi i had to do it twice basically once that i was bi, and the second time that i liked bigger people like myself.

I've never had an issue with my weight, being in the bear scene from an early age i learnt to love myself for me. My inspirations in life are chubby people in bands that don't give a fuck, this is to the point that i play half naked when i play on stage. but it seems other people have an issue. people like Damian Abraham from Fucked Up and Beth Ditto.

ok there's got to be a mutual attraction anyway, but from a time when being big was a sign of wealth and something to be desired to now where we get people on our case all the time, and skinny tweens grace the covers of our culture.

in when i go to saunas i'm always 2nd best. why? most chubby dudes aren't small in size downstairs. i'm certainly not i'm a decent size but very thick. I'm clean and well presented. I'm funny and enjoy the little things in life. I'm a better lover then most people i think.

I became a nudist a couple of years ago, and it's been an eye opening experience. Finally a place i'm treated equal to those with a more condensed form. like i said before, i couldn't give a fuck what people think, i'm happy being a chunky fella, but i notice the difference between us all, i notice the looks in the corner of my eye.

what i'm trying to get at i guess it, give the bigger people a chance (i'm sure many do) but when i see profiles that seem aggressive in their stance on the size of people, i don't want to see that shit. if you're so once sided that you believe we aren't good enough then rethink your priorities in life. cause 9/10 you're not good enough for us.

remove any pre conceived notions brought on by years of bigger people being openly ostracised.

and to those always concerned about their weight, don't purposely make yourself into those people for the sake of it.

a load of shite i know but i wanted to write something meaningful so thanks for reading

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

The first stage of acceptance is to accept yourself...once that is achieved you are half way there...don't let the shit get you down

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

focus on the ones who are looking to play with bigger people...

and let the others be, it makes life so much better.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"focus on the ones who are looking to play with bigger people...

and let the others be, it makes life so much better.

"

View you are back

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"focus on the ones who are looking to play with bigger people...

and let the others be, it makes life so much better.

View you are back "

aye, was on my holidays, actually still am

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I like to meet people I find attractive and who find me attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weird post shel is a BBW and she gets loads of attention guys seem to love some "cushion for the pushin" and know that she can be fucked well without worrying.

Personally I don't find skinny girls attractive and I'm a slim runner - Paul

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