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a word of advice when messaging people

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How about giving us a chance to reply before sending another message and indeed two more before had chance to reply to first.

It's a sure fire way to get nowhere.

Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How about giving us a chance to reply before sending another message and indeed two more before had chance to reply to first.

It's a sure fire way to get nowhere.

Thanks "
its worse when you reply to a message immediately only to find them off line

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had this, question and answer get out of sync like in a comedy sketch by the Two Ronnies, it is very annoying!

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull


"How about giving us a chance to reply before sending another message and indeed two more before had chance to reply to first.

It's a sure fire way to get nowhere.

Thanks "

we have had this, tho the second message have been a little aggressive

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Or when you are logged in, but tootle off downstairs to put the kettle on and someone thinks you are blanking them

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

My favourite is when I get a second message 3 minutes after the first one asking if they've upset me.

Well as I haven't yet had chance to open the first message and it's the first time you've contacted me, I would guess no, but you have now!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My favourite is when I get a second message 3 minutes after the first one asking if they've upset me.

Well as I haven't yet had chance to open the first message and it's the first time you've contacted me, I would guess no, but you have now!!"

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"My favourite is when I get a second message 3 minutes after the first one asking if they've upset me.

Well as I haven't yet had chance to open the first message and it's the first time you've contacted me, I would guess no, but you have now!!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just send one, cos I know 99 percent of the time they wont reply .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well frankly I am shocked that you don't drop everything your doing to answer the message.

This is disgraceful behavior OP you must try harder and answer the message as soon as it props into your mail box and then agree to everything and anything the sender has requested.

This should stop the 2nd message from being sent causing the sender to think they have upset you

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Depends on my mood, sometimes I will answer each message seperately some times in one message. Do it too often and you will get ignored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I much prefer to send facetious replies.

What am I into...well I like baking, crafts, swimming and rom coms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just send one, cos I know 99 percent of the time they wont reply ."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best ones are when they then go UNLOS

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best ones are when they then go UNLOS "

Because of this I don't open messages for 6 months now...I like to make sure they're serious about swinging before I waste my time reading them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously what is wrong with some me

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Best ones are when they then go UNLOS

Because of this I don't open messages for 6 months now...I like to make sure they're serious about swinging before I waste my time reading them "

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't send preemptive messages, unless it's on a forum related matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't send preemptive messages, unless it's on a forum related matter "

Have you got your bum out for chimans thread?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Best ones are when they then go UNLOS "

Lots of people were asking after UNLOS on Saturday night!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I don't send preemptive messages, unless it's on a forum related matter

Have you got your bum out for chimans thread? "

Thought it was about time I gave it an airing, I've not flashed it for about a year

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet and mobile communications have made everything near instant; sadly this has carried over into the expectation for instant gratification, or replies.

It's just how it is. Ignore it, respond to it. Just don't see ether reason to get mad at it. I mean I bet half the people on here are all up in I.M with the likes of Kik and Snapchat. It's a logical extension of that 'instant expectation'.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Sometimes it is worth waiting for the out of synch later messages, just to check for aggressive tendencies. I have getting swamped and have added pressure just because In online,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moan Moan fuckin Moan

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's a lot of people no here who wouldn't last 3 months at the post office!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whingey whiney whinge......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously what is wrong with some me "

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

getting the name right helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep that's pretty annoying and defo a turn off. Had it recently, had about 5 from the same guy, the first one was a really nice message, then they got quite crude as to what they wanted to do to me which is a guaranteed way to get a big no from me!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously what is wrong with some me "

"Some me" are you schizophrenic? Well at least you are thinking about it.

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