FabSwingers.com forum: I think some guys get off on rejection...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Im sorry I cant help it its been part of my life for years its like an addiction to be turned down time and time again !!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

It does make you wonder doesn't it - I can only assume they just don't read?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

It does make you wonder doesn't it - I can only assume they just don't read?"

Oh im not talking about the non readers im talking about the ones that do read and then still want to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Im sorry I cant help it its been part of my life for years its like an addiction to be turned down time and time again !!

I knew it!

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

Agreed. We have had guys message us so persistently and creepily that the only conclusion we could come up with was that they wanted us to block them. It seemed like their goal, as if it was something they got off on. Not a major issue for us or anything, we dont take it to heart, but since you posted a thread, just wanted to say we have experienced this as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Im sorry I cant help it its been part of my life for years its like an addiction to be turned down time and time again !!

I knew it!

I am a masachist what can I say I love emotional turmoil and pain oh lord wont you help me ??

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I had a guy the other day asking what my problem was when he's read my profile and messaged me and I just ignored him..I told him he was pretty much the exact opposite of what I'm looking for. Too old by 15 years, married, 300 miles away etc and he didn't understand why that was a problem.

Peculiar!!

Good job I met lots of lovely single guys this weekend who are now on my shopping list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must do. We've blocked one chap about six times but he keeps making a new profile and trying again. The messages always follow the same patern.

He asks for a meet

We simply reply no thanks

He asks why

We block

Then a couple of months later it starts again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

It does make you wonder doesn't it - I can only assume they just don't read?

Oh im not talking about the non readers im talking about the ones that do read and then still want to meet

But did you reply...

"you're not what we usually look for... and outside all our preferences... but... fancy a fuck?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They must do. We've blocked one chap about six times but he keeps making a new profile and trying again. The messages always follow the same patern.

He asks for a meet

We simply reply no thanks

He asks why

We block

Then a couple of months later it starts again. "

Do you know how much effort I go to to do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wishful thinking. Hoping you might change your mind

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

It does make you wonder doesn't it - I can only assume they just don't read?

Oh im not talking about the non readers im talking about the ones that do read and then still want to meet

But did you reply...

"you're not what we usually look for... and outside all our preferences... but... fancy a fuck?"

I have ignored todays......but now you are putting ideas in my head

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Preferences are not always set in stone. So you might make an exception on that occasion.

I think that's enjoying optimism

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have to say I do love men and never have any trouble on here so its not a moan,I just wonder why when its hard enough for some to get meets that they willingly set themselves up for rejection?

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i dont .. i will push my luck and message someone whose limits are slightly outside how i am .. but even a social meet and flirt with someone fairly local could be fun .. and who knows .. it could go further

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Tell me again

*wanks furiously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because no matter what you say you're looking for they think that they are the exception. They're special. I dont think it's a love of rejection i think it's sheer arrogance. Followed sharply by anger when you say no. *Sigh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to say I do love men and never have any trouble on here so its not a moan,I just wonder why when its hard enough for some to get meets that they willingly set themselves up for rejection? "

Some people are strange ?? I have seen lots of lovely ladies and couples on here perused the profiles read them and gone BUGGER I aint what they are after . Its not hard to realise your wasting yours and their time

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Tell me again

*wanks furiously"

Nooooo!!!!

No no no

Noooooooooooo

Quickly now

No no no no no no no no no

Was that ok

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By *adgodCouple
over a year ago

Greensburg

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Tell me again

*wanks furiously

Nooooo!!!!

No no no

Noooooooooooo

Quickly now

No no no no no no no no no

Was that ok

That's some really good technique right there......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Horndogs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

It does make you wonder doesn't it - I can only assume they just don't read?

Oh im not talking about the non readers im talking about the ones that do read and then still want to meet

But did you reply...

"you're not what we usually look for... and outside all our preferences... but... fancy a fuck?"

I have ignored todays......but now you are putting ideas in my head

Excellent. You're not looking for women... but send me your address and I'll be round later.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Tell me again

*wanks furiously

Nooooo!!!!

No no no

Noooooooooooo

Quickly now

No no no no no no no no no

Was that ok

I'm spent

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Tell me again

*wanks furiously

Nooooo!!!!

No no no

Noooooooooooo

Quickly now

No no no no no no no no no

Was that ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a guy the other day asking what my problem was when he's read my profile and messaged me and I just ignored him..I told him he was pretty much the exact opposite of what I'm looking for. Too old by 15 years, married, 300 miles away etc and he didn't understand why that was a problem.

Peculiar!!

Good job I met lots of lovely single guys this weekend who are now on my shopping list

You're on my shopping list miss Hottie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet

Fess up guys some of you must love it

Been rejected quite a few times and it still hurts like a bitch each time

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

I must be missing out !!!! I never get rejected

Please please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejection becomes water off a ducks back the more one experiences the feeling.

I should know.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I must be missing out !!!! I never get rejected

Please please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Lol"

No one could resist that bottom

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

"I must be missing out !!!! I never get rejected

Please please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Lol

No one could resist that bottom

It only got spanked a few times at the weekend. ;( so it must be getting less firm ;(

Lol

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I must be missing out !!!! I never get rejected

Please please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Lol

No one could resist that bottom

It only got spanked a few times at the weekend. ;( so it must be getting less firm ;(

Lol"

I would be happy to spank it for you if you feel it didn't get enough attention. I have a wide selection of percussive implements

available

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"I must be missing out !!!! I never get rejected

Please please tell me what I'm doing wrong

Lol

No one could resist that bottom

It only got spanked a few times at the weekend. ;( so it must be getting less firm ;(

Lol"

Looks bitable to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must have this rejection thing I keep hoping the lovely lady above me will take notice of me but it seems I will have to admire her pert rear from afar

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah but when a message is penned, you have to appreciate that the author is oblivious to any other people on the site. We believe we can sway you and tempt you to break your preferences....After all its only us who exists at the point we press send ignoring the warning were not in your age range etc.

How about ladies actively send messages and men aren't allowed to ?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I must have this affliction too. I message men and get rejected about 90% of the time. I think I have read the profile but perhaps there is a bit profile blindness going when you see something fanciable.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Rejection is a major motivator for some. Spot them, ignore, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They enjoy a good wank over " fuck off"

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They enjoy a good wank over " fuck off"

Her"

'Mmmmmmmmm', now you're talking!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well they don't actually think from their brain, a lot of guys on here let their dicks do the thinking for them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well they don't actually think from their brain, a lot of guys on here let their dicks do the thinking for them!

Gizza shag!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well they don't actually think from their brain, a lot of guys on here let their dicks do the thinking for them!

Gizza shag!!

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By *ackandkateCouple
over a year ago

Truro

I read an article about Billy Connolly a few years ago and he said he gets loads of letters from guys asking him to write to them or to phone them to tell them to fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it's more that some people like the challenge of turning someone's option of them round

must air I do sometimes

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

"Why else would they make it clear they know what your preferences are,make it clear they know they're not your preference and yet still want to meet."

Perhaps they miss being rejected by their mother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because no matter what you say you're looking for they think that they are the exception. They're special. I dont think it's a love of rejection i think it's sheer arrogance. Followed sharply by anger when you say no. *Sigh."

So true. And on their profiles you always find "non-pushy"

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I love the messages that start....I know you're not into married men and I'm married but.... BUT WHAT? I'm NOT into married men!!

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