FabSwingers.com forum: Would you contact you?

By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Setting aside the issue of gender, if someone had a profile and photos similar to yours, (but for their gender), would you contact them?

I've asked a couple of guys this recently. They contacted me, they said, because they love my profile/photos. Neither had any photos, an avatar or more than a few words on their profile. Yet they seemed flummoxed at the question and couldn't understand why I might need the same thing in order to initially decide if I am interested.

Would you contact you? Do you offer similar to what you like/expect from someone else here?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I would contact me...I think I'm a pretty cool lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too right we would

In fact.........just off to send us a 'fancy a fuck'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd contact me yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would contact me whats in my write up is honest and true my pics give an idea of the things I like so yea I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too right I would...Im freaking sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've already contacted us... They turned us down

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I mailed myself 4 years ago and got a reply too...

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Yes I would. I like my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes because we would both like the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I mailed myself 4 years ago and got a reply too...

Lucky you, all I got was a block from myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I'm just a chin

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By *leasuresharerMan
over a year ago

southampton

Hell yeah,in fact I'm going to invent a cloning machine just so I can clone myself but as a woman and get it on lol

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

No I wouldn't but that's coz id read my profile and see where it says contacting me is pointless unless I've got a meet ad up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I'm too old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This one... no.

Other one... yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ooh god no

Far to many big toys I'd be scared

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would email the woman with the 6pack if she was up for a shag tonight lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ooh god no

Far to many big toys I'd be scared"

They aren't that big lol

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

On the one hand I'm both gorgeous and sexy as fuck.

On the other I wouldn't bother cos I'd be too much hard work and I don't run around after anyone!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

No: as I'm not looking for a Dom/Domme.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My profile says everything. Think i would yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tried.

But I'm blocked

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Oh Yes! I would contact myself and make sure not to ask... are you really French? in my first message

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

Too right I would, yes!! I could do with an xbox loving playmate that smokes and likes toys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told not to talk to me cos I look like a bum ,,,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I would message me . I seem a ok kind of guy

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By *lam rockerMan
over a year ago

Easter Ross

I'd send me a fancy a fuck message.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Hell no!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'm too old

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If your old I need to be on antique road show

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I think I would, I seem a bit of a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would Stalk me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh Yes! I would contact myself and make sure not to ask... are you really French? in my first message

Why? Are you French ?

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By *leasuresharerMan
over a year ago

southampton

"Oh Yes! I would contact myself and make sure not to ask... are you really French? in my first message

Why? Are you French ?

I don't think she is sure, you'd better message her and ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would, I seem a bit of a laugh

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you look the kind of lady who likes her PPPS

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Oh Yes! I would contact myself and make sure not to ask... are you really French? in my first message

Why? Are you French ?

Aye!

lol

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Would Stalk me

Saves me doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would Stalk me

Saves me doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd contact me, at least that way I would have had some interest

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I'd send me a fancy a fuck message. "
Would it be the same if someone told you to go fuck yourself?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'm too old

If your old I need to be on antique road show

Too old for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'm too old

If your old I need to be on antique road show

Too old for me

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I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah we would contact ourselves !

Shame there aren't more like us on here , who are just here for real meets and nsa sex .

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

With the amount of information and pics I have on my profile? Damn right I would!

I'm lucky if the men up here have a cock pic and a 1 liner that say's, 'Here looking for fun'

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I think I would but only to say hello since I'm not my type!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Nope, I have far too many verifications - it's quite obvious I'm not selective and probably riddled with the clap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a known time waster

Anyone would run a mile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would send me a wink first see if I get one back. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

with my profile no i would just add to friends lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I think my profile is quite interesting. Obviously the first meet would then be a total let down and I would have to sadly remove myself from my friends list and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'm too old

If your old I need to be on antique road show

Too old for me

I know

I meant I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'd say hello, I seem friendly and fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I'd be too scared

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I already have!

It says I PM'd myself three years ago on my profile. I can't remember what I said but knowing me it was utter filth! Dirty bastard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I left myself an awesome veri

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I wouldn't contact me. I have far too many veris on show which suggests I'm a slut. My profile text is too long - who the fuck wants to read on a 'sex site'? And there's no face pics.

Honestly, I really should try harder to get a meet with myself.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

No, I'd think fruit loop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No: as I'm not looking for a Dom/Domme."

wow i always thought u as a domme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I'm too old

If your old I need to be on antique road show

Too old for me

I know

I meant I am

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At 52 it would be hard to find anyone that was to old for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would send me a wink first see if I get one back. X"
i sent myself a friends request . I declined

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would send me a wink first see if I get one back. X i sent myself a friends request . I declined

Fussy bugger. Lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would send me a wink first see if I get one back. X i sent myself a friends request . I declined

Fussy bugger. Lol xx

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Well I sound a right prat . And them pics pfffft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would contact me...I think I'm a pretty cool lady

I'd definitely contact you lol

Yes I'd contact me, thing is we have very similar requirements

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I think I would, I seem a bit of a laugh

you look the kind of lady who likes her PPPS

And a damn good F

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

Nope , as I'm not gay !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I would, I seem a bit of a laugh

you look the kind of lady who likes her PPPS

And a damn good F

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Fsssss

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I'm a known time waster

Anyone would run a mile

And a lazy fuckwit

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By *aughtystuffCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Lol.... Xx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

i would contact and tale me for a coffee .. i might even 69 me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too young...

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By *win PeaksCouple
over a year ago

Northamptonshire

We had to block ourselves, way to pushy. Lol

Dave

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm a known time waster

Anyone would run a mile

And a lazy fuckwit

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and I don't accommodate me either

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By *ing and RideCouple
over a year ago

stockport

I would contact us....we are great fun, great night all round would be the order of the night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say erm yeah they seem ok, but not on your nelly... They are fookin barking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I'd contact me....I sound nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would contact me, hoping to find the inner slut behind the refined exterior!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes defo nothing ventured nothing gained lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance !!! I fall in love to easy lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

No! What the blazes am I on about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just had to read my profile again. Might do can't find a reason not to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would contact me, hoping to find the inner slut behind the refined exterior!

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should I contact you and help you search?

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By *oeyleicesterMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I would fir sure, I think I've done my profile quite well from west I've been told

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

No, I'm too fussy to message a fussy person

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Bloomin right I would..

I often feel like an uncomplicated,anonymous blow job.

Simple physical release... When?? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At this moment in time no cos I'd have to delete my message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would...I'm in love with my huge boobies!..plus I have a heart of gold

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

No I don't contact people first so Id wait for me to contact me......um?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we definitely would.

We are even on our own hot list too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would I contact me?

Get real, - I know where I've been!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Setting aside the issue of gender, if someone had a profile and photos similar to yours, (but for their gender), would you contact them?

Would you contact you? Do you offer similar to what you like/expect from someone else here?"

I would. If I could find a female as easygoing as me, I'd probably marry her!

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Even though I don't send preemptive messages, I'd get in touch with me and suggest I take me for a pint or 3 then a bag o'chips followed by a knee trembler up a dark alley in town.

Me being me would have to turn I down and insist that we went for a few cocktails followed romantic candlelit dinner in a secluded restaurant.

I would now be getting somewhat moist between my legs and start flirting outrageously with the hot waiter.

After a while me would ask if I wanted to go to The Attic and we would go. An hour later me saw the waiter and pointed him out to I, he was with her and we all discovered that we were bi. She and I would start a little light fondling and kissing while me and him decided it was time to go and find a private room for us all.

I at this point was very glad that I mailed me and the feeling was mutual. I will deffo be mailing me again and wish I had done sooner.....

Sorry, got a bit carried away there

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By *indys loverCouple
over a year ago

Stratford on avon

not a hope in hell as I don't meet fat ugly bastards

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes its not a bad little profile, and when you meet us for a laugh even better.

Her

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By *udistnorthantsMan
over a year ago

Desborough

I'd certainly send a Wink for starters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah i think i could connect with me, Maybe meet up with myself for a few sherberts

Would have to go Dutch tho

Gimp

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Honest profile why not

Not looking for perfection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah i think i could connect with me, Maybe meet up with myself for a few sherberts

Would have to go Dutch tho

Gimp"
me me, and me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope wouldn't contact me

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Nah,, not a chance I know I d be out of my league,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I wouldn't because I read profiles and so I would be wasting my time as I'm not meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've winked myself

. Winked I said !!!

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By *aughtystuffCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

Oh yes!

Just read our profile..To find out we've friends anway..wmyl...lol.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they were flummoxed because the concept of a woman ever first contacting a guy is highly unusual on Fab.

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By *aughtystuffCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

lol I bet

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By *aughtystuffCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

I'm the one that always does the looking, once I've cut the weak from the chaff...Then he looks..lol..Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would as my profiles a bit off beat and silly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know what a nice guy I am so it depends if I wanted to meet someone nice and respectful.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd read the profile and think lunatic, but then look at the boobies and think

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd read the profile and think lunatic, but then look at the boobies and think

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"they were flummoxed because the concept of a woman ever first contacting a guy is highly unusual on Fab. "

Not as much as you might think, but in this case I asked them after they contacted me.

They contacted me saying it was because of my profile and photos but couldn't understand how I might like to see the same, and find it hard to know if I might be interested without.

I do sometimes contact men first. Only when they have decent photos and a profile though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what would you regard as decent photos that dont display the face?

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

I'd consider it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Still wouldn't contact me although my profile has been upgraded from a chin to eyes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd add myself to my Hotlist so I could stalk myself

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"what would you regard as decent photos that dont display the face?"

Just clear ones that show what they look like, (not their face), and aren't 50 slightly different close-ups of their cock.

Just enough to get an idea of what they look like physically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would i fuck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK sounds reasonable

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"OK sounds reasonable"

Basically, not blurry, not too dark to make anything out etc etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like I am going to have it get it done professionally. any offers?

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

No I'm too short for myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I would, mostly because I'm not what I'm looking for.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"sounds like I am going to have it get it done professionally. any offers?"

No you don't. Ask Ryan for tips. He's an expert at selfies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wouldn't be the first time Ive messaged myself. I've done it by accident before.

I added myself as a friend and even hotlisted myself.

Now I've blocked and reported myself for stalking.

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By *ee Viante OP Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It wouldn't be the first time Ive messaged myself. I've done it by accident before.

I added myself as a friend and even hotlisted myself.

Now I've blocked and reported myself for stalking.

I've accidentally messaged myself more than once

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