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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get very nervous before a meet.

I don't know why.

You'd think I'd be used to it by now, having had a few in my time...*ahem*

Anyone here get a dry mouth and start rambling?

It's hilarious what I come out with.

Anyone wise tips to calm the nerves?

Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I get very nervous before a meet.

I don't know why.

You'd think I'd be used to it by now, having had a few in my time...*ahem*

Anyone here get a dry mouth and start rambling?

It's hilarious what I come out with.

Anyone wise tips to calm the nerves?

Thanks.

"

*Anyone have any wise tips*

sheesh...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I begin to babble like an inept Hugh Grant!

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

sip red bull haha .. he s just as nervous as you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"sip red bull haha .. he s just as nervous as you x"

Red bull?

Are you mad?

All that caffeine in my already hyper system?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get very nervous cant help it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I begin to babble like an inept Hugh Grant!"

That can be sexy especially if you're wearing a towel...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get very nervous cant help it "

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I begin to babble like an inept Hugh Grant!

That can be sexy especially if you're wearing a towel... "

What do you mean, I have all my meets in a damp towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jools always has a glass or two of vino.

I get really nervous and chatty also, waffling Crap.

Tbh nerves are good adds to the excitement.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet me, I find nervous babbling a turn on

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meet me, I find nervous babbling a turn on "

Lol..

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do."

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

A meet what the fucks that then

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I get nervous too... usually my French accent gets stronger and I speak faster ... Eventually I take a big breath, I tell myself he is/they are too and I wear something sexy am comfortable in

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing "

Last time I ended up talking about the homeless, the NHS and David Cameron then skipped maniacally onto playing with food in bed.

Oh yes.

It's a whirlwind in here...*points to head*.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't tend to get nerves, but I'd recommend practicing pulling faces in the mirror just before the meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get nervous too... usually my French accent gets stronger and I speak faster ... Eventually I take a big breath, I tell myself he is/they are too and I wear something sexy am comfortable in "

My Irish accent gets stronger.

I had the same thing on the phone to the HMRC this morning...I nearly said bejaysus and top of the morning hahaha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing "

Re Lavender oil. You can't go to meet a man smelling like your nan

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't tend to get nerves, but I'd recommend practicing pulling faces in the mirror just before the meet "

I will practice those!

Thanks.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing

Re Lavender oil. You can't go to meet a man smelling like your nan "

This is true! Scrap thhlavender oil I prepeat SCRAP.....phew that was close Ms Cake

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing

Re Lavender oil. You can't go to meet a man smelling like your nan "

Hahahahaha....made me laugh.

No suppose not but I don't have any.

Might get some sage.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing

Last time I ended up talking about the homeless, the NHS and David Cameron then skipped maniacally onto playing with food in bed.

Oh yes.

It's a whirlwind in here...*points to head*.

"

sounds like a normal day on planet Nicecouple to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Meet me, I find nervous babbling a turn on

Lol.. "

Let's meet and put my theory to the test?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Meet me, I find nervous babbling a turn on

Lol..

Let's meet and put my theory to the test? "

You asking me out on a thread about me meeting?

Bravo M.G. new heights of charm there fella...laughing, well it can't hurt to say yes, can it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing

Last time I ended up talking about the homeless, the NHS and David Cameron then skipped maniacally onto playing with food in bed.

Oh yes.

It's a whirlwind in here...*points to head*.

sounds like a normal day on planet Nicecouple to be fair "

Is it good weather on your planet?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics


"I don't tend to get nerves, but I'd recommend practicing pulling faces in the mirror just before the meet "

Make sure you do stop before you arrive though....

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing

Last time I ended up talking about the homeless, the NHS and David Cameron then skipped maniacally onto playing with food in bed.

Oh yes.

It's a whirlwind in here...*points to head*.

sounds like a normal day on planet Nicecouple to be fair

Is it good weather on your planet?

"

It's nearly always good weather....in our heads

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I don't tend to get nerves, but I'd recommend practicing pulling faces in the mirror just before the meet

Make sure you do stop before you arrive though...."

oh lol. This made me laugh...imagining the op turning up talking nineteen to the dozen and gurning

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't tend to get nerves, but I'd recommend practicing pulling faces in the mirror just before the meet

Make sure you do stop before you arrive though....

oh lol. This made me laugh...imagining the op turning up talking nineteen to the dozen and gurning"

I was cool and calm...ish.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"I begin to babble like an inept Hugh Grant!

That can be sexy especially if you're wearing a towel...

What do you mean, I have all my meets in a damp towel "

Most of my meets end with a damp towel

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I begin to babble like an inept Hugh Grant!

That can be sexy especially if you're wearing a towel...

What do you mean, I have all my meets in a damp towel

Most of my meets end with a damp towel "

Lucky you!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I get very nervous cant help it

Yes but do you make a fool of yourself?

I bet you don't...I bloody do.

consciously slow yourself down ten minutes before hand. Stop, breathe in hold for twelve and breathe out for twelve (seconds not minutes ) five or six times, relax your shoulders and face muscles, have some lavender oil on a piece of cotton wool and inhale that. Promise yourself that you will pause for three seconds before you say ANYTHING except "Hello, nice to see you". OR just carry on as you are, it's probably quite endearing

Last time I ended up talking about the homeless, the NHS and David Cameron then skipped maniacally onto playing with food in bed.

Oh yes.

It's a whirlwind in here...*points to head*.

sounds like a normal day on planet Nicecouple to be fair

Is it good weather on your planet?

It's nearly always good weather....in our heads "

Blue sky thinking huh?

Hahaha...

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By *leasuresharerMan
over a year ago

southampton

I have to say that I find it good when people are nervous and come out with random stuff - I find people are more likely to be themselves and honest when jibbering - I always get nervous and talk total garbage but at least I know that if someone wants another meet with me they must actually like me to put up with my level of randomness and insanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervously excited. Its quite a nice feeling actually. Xx

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I've been meeting men off the Internet for about ten years. Never suffered from nerves: excited yes, nervous, no...until my meet seven months ago.

He's now moved in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always get nervous. But since reading similar threads, I know that most people get nervous so it doesn't bother me (as much) anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get nervously excited. Its quite a nice feeling actually. Xx "

This is me also^^

I do talk a lot though as I'm not good with silences until I'm comfortable with a person.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I've been meeting men off the Internet for about ten years. Never suffered from nerves: excited yes, nervous, no...until my meet seven months ago.

He's now moved in! "

Every time I read your story it makes me smile...I just remember you before you met him...you were so happy with what you was doing but now you sound contented and happy x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I get very nervous before a meet.

I don't know why.

You'd think I'd be used to it by now, having had a few in my time...*ahem*

Anyone here get a dry mouth and start rambling?

It's hilarious what I come out with.

Anyone wise tips to calm the nerves?

Thanks.

"

I always get extremely nervous when I meet someone new. Borderline panic, like a bloody first date FFS, what if she doesn't like me etc etc. then I remember, they are probably just as nervous. I do try to get to know someone a bit on here first, Got to say that all the people I've met, have been lovely people and, when the ice is broken, were like old friends lol

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By *picyspiregirlCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

I always get nervous before a meet but I think it is one of the best parts of a meet! All those butterflies whilst waiting for that first touch, the nerves soon disappear then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im usually alright before meets to be fair

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