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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi.. as a single male its hard enough to find a couple or single female, but as i have done some serious profile searching over the past few days.. I see either WHITE ONLY or BLACK COCK LOVER etc.. ive actually been suprised about how many people say WHITE ONLY on their profile.. i know its not racism its jst preference etc.. but i still get a sense that swinging is a white world.. unless you go in the other direction and you get white people asking for Big Black Cocks only etc..

Im mixed race.. im fucked either way !!! LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not all black and white

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

It's called preference, their preference is white men/women....I would say swinging is a white world what I like about fab is that there are lots of people from lots of different places and different ethnicities....it's so diverse it's great..

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Avoid those profiles that state a preference and move onto one of the countless other thousands that don't

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

The colour of someones skin is not a selection criteria for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could argue that swinging is for slim people then, if you note the amount of profiles that say 'sorry, if you are more than a size 14, you are not for us'..............I think that it is a good thing that people specify their preferences upfront personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could argue that swinging is for slim people then, if you note the amount of profiles that say 'sorry, if you are more than a size 14, you are not for us'..............I think that it is a good thing that people specify their preferences upfront personally."

Only if you were mahoosively short sighted!

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

I suffer because i am older than some carrying a few pounds extra and my hair is grey in places but not going without

Just allow other people to make their choices and you yours

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You could help yourself by showing your face. Your body looks good, but it's not enough to sell you, or to make you stand out from the herd.

There are some people that want black/white/Northern/people from Thundercats, etc, but as other peeps have said, there are thousands of other people on here.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I'd say for every "white only", "black only" there's as many will meet all spectrums of colour...maybe it sometimes seems if someone is discounting you for whatever reason (i.e. No gobby, fat, northern birds) it sometimes seems like those not wanting to meet your type is prevalent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You could argue that swinging is for slim people then, if you note the amount of profiles that say 'sorry, if you are more than a size 14, you are not for us'..............I think that it is a good thing that people specify their preferences upfront personally.

Only if you were mahoosively short sighted!"

It isn't my personal belief, just an example of how swinging profiles can be misinterpreted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi.. as a single male its hard enough to find a couple or single female, but as i have done some serious profile searching over the past few days.. I see either WHITE ONLY or BLACK COCK LOVER etc.. ive actually been suprised about how many people say WHITE ONLY on their profile.. i know its not racism its jst preference etc.. but i still get a sense that swinging is a white world.. unless you go in the other direction and you get white people asking for Big Black Cocks only etc..

Im mixed race.. im fucked either way !!! LOL"
I am sure you have your preferences too . Does not make it wrong

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yer i 100% respect preference etc.. but i dnt get why people have a preference.. i wouldnt say i dnt find sum1 sexually attractive jst cuz i here they are a dif colour.. I prefer brazilian tannned big butts with double Ds and a beautiful arse.. but that doesnt mean i dnt find any other race UNATTRACTIVE.. i jst thing to dismiss getting 2 know sum1 sexually or nonsexually jst cuz dif race still shows prejudice.. not racist (as racist is hatred).. unless u dnt wana sleep wit them cuz u hate them lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not all black and white "

You mean 'not everything is black and white' lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it some peoples selfish aspirations seem to render them completely unable to accept the concept of personal preference extends to all site members.... eh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The 'white only' 'no Asians' etc. profiles just stand out more I think and so make it seem disproportionate.

It does surprise me too and I don't like the tone of many of them - but I do appreciate that it's a very good way of filtering out people I'd never want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a grey area lol... seriously though, there are also lots of people that like mixed race guys - you have a fine body by the way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's not all black and white

You mean 'not everything is black and white' lol "

Nope, I meant exactly as I wrote thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have preferences but we do the people that mail us the cutesy of dealing with them on an individual basis not excluding their whole race

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I'd say for every "white only", "black only" there's as many will meet all spectrums of colour...maybe it sometimes seems if someone is discounting you for whatever reason (i.e. No gobby, fat, northern birds) it sometimes seems like those not wanting to meet your type is prevalent "

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird. "

Woooooooohooooooo...

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"Yer i 100% respect preference etc.. but i dnt get why people have a preference.. i wouldnt say i dnt find sum1 sexually attractive jst cuz i here they are a dif colour.. I prefer brazilian tannned big butts with double Ds and a beautiful arse.. but that doesnt mean i dnt find any other race UNATTRACTIVE.. i jst thing to dismiss getting 2 know sum1 sexually or nonsexually jst cuz dif race still shows prejudice.. not racist (as racist is hatred).. unless u dnt wana sleep wit them cuz u hate them lol. "

I'm going to stick my head above the parapet here and say I kinda get what you're on about as I've seen several posts in the past where folk have said they've had a bad experience with Asian guys/black guys/gobby fat northern birds (sorry about that) and it's put me off...I don't understand one bad experience with one section of the populace putting someone off the entire group, but at the end of the day (sorry for the footie cliche) it's still a personal preference and I would just say move on to the next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd say for every "white only", "black only" there's as many will meet all spectrums of colour...maybe it sometimes seems if someone is discounting you for whatever reason (i.e. No gobby, fat, northern birds) it sometimes seems like those not wanting to meet your type is prevalent

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird. "
I will introduce you to my Xwife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fabswingers please do your best to add in a like section or a thumbs up section on these forums like you do on the pictures.. Fab'd for example.. because i would of liked to of FAB'd numerous peoples comments.. thanks for getting involved people.. i know its a bit of a touchy subject i respect peoples opinions who both agree and disagree..

Remember there is only one race.. THE HUMAN RACE.. all color is .. is different tones of melanin to fight rays of the sun..

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

An xwife? I can imagine it not being as fun as an xbox. Or an x-wing. Or an x-ray.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"An xwife? I can imagine it not being as fun as an xbox. Or an x-wing. Or an x-ray. "
all them are better trust me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Fabswingers please do your best to add in a like section or a thumbs up section on these forums like you do on the pictures.. Fab'd for example.. because i would of liked to of FAB'd numerous peoples comments.. thanks for getting involved people.. i know its a bit of a touchy subject i respect peoples opinions who both agree and disagree..

Remember there is only one race.. THE HUMAN RACE.. all color is .. is different tones of melanin to fight rays of the sun.."
that's the emotion you can use

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By *extoysareusCouple
over a year ago

kinky heaven

I know the thread count isn't high on this forum but there must be at least one of these theads every day....

And the same answers, sometimes its like ground hog day

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo... "

Get your coat Soxy, youve pulled...

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Their profile their choice, I find for some I m too old. too short . too this and that , I move on to the next profile that interests me and hopefully I do fit their preferences,

Now if all of you ladies can please adjust your filters for a 5'10" 50 year old bloke from Leeds please,

ta muchly,

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"I'd say for every "white only", "black only" there's as many will meet all spectrums of colour...maybe it sometimes seems if someone is discounting you for whatever reason (i.e. No gobby, fat, northern birds) it sometimes seems like those not wanting to meet your type is prevalent

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird. I will introduce you to my Xwife "

Feck off, I saw him first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Us WHITE guys might feel the same about seeing BLACK cocks only, see plenty of those.

Just remember how much easier it is for women on here, one profile and 100s of messages, men do a profile and zero messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i think its what you are used to, where i live you dont see any black people, i think its different meeting people at clubs because you can see what they are realy like where as online its not so easy to tell. i have met a couple of black men on here that was because they kept messaging me and were friendly.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo... "

I'll arm wrestle ya for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi.. as a single male its hard enough to find a couple or single female, but as i have done some serious profile searching over the past few days.. I see either WHITE ONLY or BLACK COCK LOVER etc.. ive actually been suprised about how many people say WHITE ONLY on their profile.. i know its not racism its jst preference etc.. but i still get a sense that swinging is a white world.. unless you go in the other direction and you get white people asking for Big Black Cocks only etc..

Im mixed race.. im fucked either way !!! LOL"

If you're fucked either way, what's there to complain about?

POSER!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

Get your coat Soxy, youve pulled..."

haha,,,,, I wish,,,,

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle


"Their profile their choice, I find for some I m too old. too short . too this and that , I move on to the next profile that interests me and hopefully I do fit their preferences,

Now if all of you ladies can please adjust your filters for a 5'10" 50 year old bloke from Leeds please,

ta muchly, "

Mine is always set to that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a 6pack .

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

Get your coat Soxy, youve

pulled..."

She's not fat.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"You could argue that swinging is for slim people then, if you note the amount of profiles that say 'sorry, if you are more than a size 14, you are not for us'..............I think that it is a good thing that people specify their preferences upfront personally."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

I'll arm wrestle ya for him "

OK but only if we're both naked apart from our evening gloves and feather boas ...

I'm told Steve sometimes dresses like that too.....

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

Get your coat Soxy, youve

pulled...

She's not fat. "

Awwww I didnt mean it like that

Anyway, she said it first ner ner.

Ill go ban myself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi.. as a single male its hard enough to find a couple or single female, but as i have done some serious profile searching over the past few days.. I see either WHITE ONLY or BLACK COCK LOVER etc.. ive actually been suprised about how many people say WHITE ONLY on their profile.. i know its not racism its jst preference etc.. but i still get a sense that swinging is a white world.. unless you go in the other direction and you get white people asking for Big Black Cocks only etc..

Im mixed race.. im fucked either way !!! LOL"

Consider yourself lucky you ain't older, then your options really do narrow lol. Anyway, I don't think swinging is a white world, I've made friends of quite a few nationalities including black girls. Keep trawling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

Get your coat Soxy, youve

pulled...

She's not fat. "

Eeeeeee you're such a flirt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about born northern, bought up southern, but living in the middle? Is that mixed directionism or is at all about One Direction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

Get your coat Soxy, youve

pulled...

She's not fat.

Awwww I didnt mean it like that

Anyway, she said it first ner ner.

Ill go ban myself..."

My love handles are made for pulling,,,

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

In my opinion, Swinging/Fab is not a white world at all on the contrary, lots of people of different background and ethnicity. Also so decent and some 'not so decent' people too. Viva diversity!

People express a preference. It is their profile, their body, so as far as I am concerned they can choose who they do it with and who they don't do it with.

And to be fair, I see a lot of profiles asking for Black men only...

We all have preferences

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

I'll arm wrestle ya for him

OK but only if we're both naked apart from our evening gloves and feather boas ...

I'm told Steve sometimes dresses like that too..... "

Will me posh marigolds do?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"

I'd like to meet a fat, northern, gobby bird.

Woooooooohooooooo...

Get your coat Soxy, youve

pulled...

She's not fat. "

So I am???

**Full sulk on, and cancels train ticket to Brighton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life is not a one-way street.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria


"What about born northern, bought up southern, but living in the middle? Is that mixed directionism or is at all about One Direction?"

BLOCK

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Avoid those profiles that state a preference and move onto one of the countless other thousands that don't "

Pmsl. Yeah that's true, some people will meet ANY fucker ! Even non white like you OP and bi like us. But they're just sluts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What about born northern, bought up southern, but living in the middle? Is that mixed directionism or is at all about One Direction?

BLOCK "

In fairness I would too

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I don't wear girls clothes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't wear girls clothes. "

Of course you don't,,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Avoid those profiles that state a preference and move onto one of the countless other thousands that don't

Pmsl. Yeah that's true, some people will meet ANY fucker ! Even non white like you OP and bi like us. But they're just sluts "

Reality dawns....I'm a slut!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Avoid those profiles that state a preference and move onto one of the countless other thousands that don't

Pmsl. Yeah that's true, some people will meet ANY fucker ! Even non white like you OP and bi like us. But they're just sluts

Reality dawns....I'm a slut!!! "

no I just checked you out. You're an ageist and you don't meet faggers!! You're an elitist slut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Avoid those profiles that state a preference and move onto one of the countless other thousands that don't

Pmsl. Yeah that's true, some people will meet ANY fucker ! Even non white like you OP and bi like us. But they're just sluts

Reality dawns....I'm a slut!!!

no I just checked you out. You're an ageist and you don't meet faggers!! You're an elitist slut "

I'm incognito

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remember there is only one race.. THE HUMAN RACE.. all color is .. is different tones of melanin to fight rays of the sun..

Shame so many people disagree

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Would you prefer to waste your time messaging others who would never meet you, or see that theyve made their interests clear and saved you the effort? Most would sensibly prefer the latter than flog a dead horse. One can wail and bemoan what one is missing out on or just get on and make the most of what can be achieved. Moaning is never going to encourage anyone to develop new interests, and ideally one would use fab to supplement swinging that is being done at clubs and elsewhere. Dont make a life out of profile gazing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Choice is everything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe the site should update the categories so that it would save time. Absolutely nothing wrong with Fabbers who prefer White Only or Black Only --- choice is everything

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By *arkbaneMan
over a year ago

East lerds

Totally goes against the “it’s the personality not the looks” saying doesn’t it....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi.. as a single male its hard enough to find a couple or single female, but as i have done some serious profile searching over the past few days.. I see either WHITE ONLY or BLACK COCK LOVER etc.. ive actually been suprised about how many people say WHITE ONLY on their profile.. i know its not racism its jst preference etc.. but i still get a sense that swinging is a white world.. unless you go in the other direction and you get white people asking for Big Black Cocks only etc..

Im mixed race.. im fucked either way !!! LOL"

It's a funny one really. Whilst I think everyone has a right to their sexual preferences and it's right that we accept it, I do think it's a shame to lump folks together but attraction is attraction at the end of the day. Personally I don't have any racial preferences, despite being mixed race myself I'm attracted to a wide range of women and actually find attractive women with rubbish chat a bigger turn off.

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By *ack n FoxyCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby border

At least the OP appears to take the time to actually read people’s preferences clearly stated on their profiles…. Ours starts with “WE DO NOT RESPOND TO ONE LINERS” and yet 90% of the messages we get are one liners…. Even if the guy ticks every single box looks and age wise he’s not worth replying to because he can’t be arsed to read our profile whilst having a wank over Foxy’s pictures before sending his one liner saying “how’s you” or “are you free now?”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least the OP appears to take the time to actually read people’s preferences clearly stated on their profiles…. Ours starts with “WE DO NOT RESPOND TO ONE LINERS” and yet 90% of the messages we get are one liners…. Even if the guy ticks every single box looks and age wise he’s not worth replying to because he can’t be arsed to read our profile whilst having a wank over Foxy’s pictures before sending his one liner saying “how’s you” or “are you free now?” "

I can't get my head around sending a one liner really as striking up a conversation and getting to know someone for me is half the fun.

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By *ack n FoxyCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby border


"At least the OP appears to take the time to actually read people’s preferences clearly stated on their profiles…. Ours starts with “WE DO NOT RESPOND TO ONE LINERS” and yet 90% of the messages we get are one liners…. Even if the guy ticks every single box looks and age wise he’s not worth replying to because he can’t be arsed to read our profile whilst having a wank over Foxy’s pictures before sending his one liner saying “how’s you” or “are you free now?”

I can't get my head around sending a one liner really as striking up a conversation and getting to know someone for me is half the fun. "

The majority of men appear to think the Foxy just lounges around all day in her finest lingerie, all made up, just waiting for their message and they’ll immediately receive an invite to our home.. the funniest part is, half of them have a one line profile with no pics at all or a badly taken dick pic. It really is hilarious..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least the OP appears to take the time to actually read people’s preferences clearly stated on their profiles…. Ours starts with “WE DO NOT RESPOND TO ONE LINERS” and yet 90% of the messages we get are one liners…. Even if the guy ticks every single box looks and age wise he’s not worth replying to because he can’t be arsed to read our profile whilst having a wank over Foxy’s pictures before sending his one liner saying “how’s you” or “are you free now?”

I can't get my head around sending a one liner really as striking up a conversation and getting to know someone for me is half the fun.

The majority of men appear to think the Foxy just lounges around all day in her finest lingerie, all made up, just waiting for their message and they’ll immediately receive an invite to our home.. the funniest part is, half of them have a one line profile with no pics at all or a badly taken dick pic. It really is hilarious..

"

Haha I can imagine! I've always wondered what a couple or woman's inbox must be like on this site. I imague very busy with people just chancing it and hoping you just happen to be in the middle of a double penetration session with dildos

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By *ic_khan2341Man
over a year ago

Manchester

That's a fair idea Claire

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