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By *winkletoes80 OP   Woman
over a year ago

redditch

My male friend wants to fist , I've never done it so couple of questions.

Men - why does it turn you on?

Ladies - is it enjoyable ? Does it hurt lol

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By *hybutnaughtyoneWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I love it...if done right it shouldn't hurt....don't be afraid to stop if it doesn't feel comfortable.

I hope this helps

Mx

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By *winkletoes80 OP   Woman
over a year ago

redditch

Daft ??? Back done right? Ie lube etc X

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Love it. Is a very intense and (excuse the pun...) intimate act Take it slowly, lots of foreplay. Get nice and wet, use lune if you like it (I dont) and most of all relax!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My thoughts on fisting are best represented by pulling a face like this,,,

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

It's fantastic from the guys point of view

The key is take time, be gentle and gradual and the rewards are very worth it

Most problems happen with trying to go too fast too hard

Not too dissimilar the advice for anal really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It annoys me when they hold me up and ask me to clean the upstairs windows as they haven't got a stepladder.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

You just have to take it steady and relax and let them ease their hand in, if at any point it hurts then stop, relax and start again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Relax and empty your mind first and start with slow movements building up...I find the twist of the wrist makes it easier. ..its a fabulous intense orgasm if done right...enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes it hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys a safety warning. Under no circumstances whilst fisting a lady it is not good form to "Clap Hands"!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

It great. Like most things though, it's the technique that makes it worth revisiting

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"yes it hurts."

No I it doesn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't ever get past 4 fingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't ever get past 4 fingers. "

Keep trying...even kitkat managed it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't ever get past 4 fingers. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't ever get past 4 fingers. "

Tuck yer thumbs in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thought for you, fist him first and see how he likes/takes it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men - why does it turn you on?

It doesn't I'm afraid, pussies were made for fingers, tongues and cocks in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes it hurts.

No I it doesn't"

It can really hurt

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"yes it hurts.

No I it doesn't

It can really hurt "

anything can hurt if done incorrectly....i have never found it painful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My male friend wants to fist , I've never done it so couple of questions.

Men - why does it turn you on?

Ladies - is it enjoyable ? Does it hurt lol "

It shouldnt hurt if you have a fanny like a welly top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not for me

i just don't like the idea of having a full hand up my chuff, i would like to think it wouldn't fit anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it for the first time recently and I was worried I would hurt the lady I met but we took it steady and she came twice ! I enjoyed it tho I'm not quite sure why ?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"My male friend wants to fist , I've never done it so couple of questions.

Men - why does it turn you on?

Ladies - is it enjoyable ? Does it hurt lol

It shouldnt hurt if you have a fanny like a welly top "

never had any complaints re my fanny always been told its nice and tight yet can take a fist now and then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has Letsbe... had his fisticuff fight yet? The snactionned one, not some Sat night tiff.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


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Has Letsbe... had his fisticuff fight yet? The snactionned one, not some Sat night tiff. "

nope....he's in training

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men - why does it turn you on?

It doesn't I'm afraid, pussies were made for fingers, tongues and cocks in my book

"

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By *all-Eddies QosCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Noooo I'm far too tight and small....couldn't possibly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on, who likes fisting? Put your hands up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love to be fisted feels great

have to do it slowly and ot shouldnt hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never fisted a lady but maybe a lady has .......... anyway I would suggest take your time lube and go slow

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

I cant see it would turn me on to do it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fisted a girlfriend recently for the first time, I got no pleasure from it, but she loves it. Took some great pics and then discovered fisting pics are 'to rude' for the site, I was most disappointed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fisted a girlfriend recently for the first time, I got no pleasure from it, but she loves it. Took some great pics and then discovered fisting pics are 'to rude' for the site, I was most disappointed "

I am pretty sure I have seen one or two floating about . Next question so how do we get to see them lol

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By *icefellatwoMan
over a year ago

hastings

Pics too rude for this site that does surprise me

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

Fisting......well if its good enough for Sooty.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had never managed more than 4 fingers and that always had me writhing in pain. However, met a guy who said he'd do it easily, I didn't believe him but he managed it without me even realizing it was a great feeling and an intense orgasm. Two have tried since as I wanted to experience it again but they were much to rough and I didn't find it enjoyable at all. So guys take your time and move with the woman's body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love to be fisted feels great

have to do it slowly and ot shouldnt hurt"

It is not to be rushed and it must never hurt. The woman dictates the speed and depth, just watch her reactions and react yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pics too rude for this site that does surprise me "
I can assure you they were rejected many times!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fisting is amazing but needs to be done correctly. Take your time tons of lube and he needs to build you up to it. It's something we do very rarely and the feeling has it be right, ie after a day of lazy sex. The orgasm you get is wow. And like anything do your pelvic floor and you will remain tight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of lube, nice and slow, relax everything as you go, then hold the woman high in the air and is a silly voice say..

"That's the way to do it"

watch out for the crocodile and sausages though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My male friend wants to fist , I've never done it so couple of questions.

Men - why does it turn you on?

Ladies - is it enjoyable ? Does it hurt lol "

Yes it is enjoyable. Have plenty foreplay before trying and as others say use lube if you like it and relax. Is a nice feeling if done properly. If you find it is hurting stop and start again. If you are unsure leave it until you feel comfortable and you will then enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an utterly unappealing thing process in both of our minds and I imagine it always will be. A fist disappearing up a minge does not look good at all.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

I've been fisted a few times, occasionally without even knowing at first as it's just been a really intense foreplay session and I've then realised he or she is wrist deep in me...it's never happened where someone's said "right, I'm gonna fist you now" so to speak and proceeded to attempt a James Herriot type strong-arm up the chuff...I like it, but deffo no to forcing it

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By *winkletoes80 OP   Woman
over a year ago

redditch

Thank you all I'm still very dubious but hey you only live once try anything at least once X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being fisting! My husband often encourages females and males that we play with to fist me but only ever had 1 get it right. It was fantastic and always looking for it when we meet people.

More people need to be brave enough to push it all in gently, so many seem to stop just short. x

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By *ig_BeardedMan
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

This has always been on my to do list.

But never managed to get past that last point. (felt like I'd have to dislocate my thumb)

One of my recent play partners felt as though she could probably handle it (and she did list fisting on her profile) but we were short on time and it was strictly a one time play.

Maybe one day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its not for me

i just don't like the idea of having a full hand up my chuff, i would like to think it wouldn't fit anyway "

Guess you're not intending to have any children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*Clamps legs shut*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do not wish to carry a lump of wood around with me

Her

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