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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shy, fear of rejection, going back to check something, didn't notice they had already looked, could be a number of reasons

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Not really. Its not doing me any harm if they want to look

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they're just perves

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe I am too paranoid (it doesn't mean they aren't after me )

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves "

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

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By *lleyCat1969Man
over a year ago

Folkestone


"Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ?? "

Why not message them, introduce yourself and ask?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume they like one or more of my pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just can't quite believe what they see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last person to view my profile multiple times in quick succession eventually went on to send me a slightly confused message about wanting to do me a serious physical discourtesy...so perhaps it's better if nothing comes from it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ??

Why not message them, introduce yourself and ask? "

noooooo

never mail someone who's looked at you and not made contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ??

Why not message them, introduce yourself and ask?

noooooo

never mail someone who's looked at you and not made contact "

Oooh is that a bad thing ?? And some I can't mail as they have blocked males lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they just can't quite believe what they see "

What do you mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they just can't quite believe what they see

What do you mean "

You could always message them and see what happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ??

Why not message them, introduce yourself and ask?

noooooo

never mail someone who's looked at you and not made contact

Oooh is that a bad thing ?? And some I can't mail as they have blocked males lol "

Yes it is a bad thing. I've done it. you get ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive mailed people that have constantly looked,ive scared some of them off the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe they just can't quite believe what they see

What do you mean

You could always message them and see what happens"

I meant what is there not to believe about my profile

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

They're just jealous of ya dildo collection mate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ??

Why not message them, introduce yourself and ask?

noooooo

never mail someone who's looked at you and not made contact

Oooh is that a bad thing ?? And some I can't mail as they have blocked males lol

Yes it is a bad thing. I've done it. you get ignored "

I shall take this on board thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe they just can't quite believe what they see

What do you mean

You could always message them and see what happens

I meant what is there not to believe about my profile "

I don't know as its not me thats looking at it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive mailed people that have constantly looked,ive scared some of them off the site "

With a bottom like that I doubt you scare them off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had 1 person look about 4 or 5 times so mailed them to say thanks for looking they mailed me back to say they had,nt looked at me went back on to my home page and found a friend invite from them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ?? "

No I don't wonder about it.....

I'm more than happy to let other people use the site however they see fit and if that means they view my profile multiple times without making contact, so be it!...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Sort of sometimes make me feel like a zoo animal to be looked at no sarcy comments thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards "

Yes we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some people only perv in stealth, shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beware...!!!!

It's like Betelgiuse... Look at me three times and it's a free shag offer...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok does anyone else ever wonder why people look at your profile multiple times but never message or contact ??

Surely if you keep looking something's bringing you back ?? "

I can't speak for other people, but if I'm drawn back to a woman's profile again and again without making contact, it's because the profile makes her sound very interesting but contains something which suggests she'd be unlikely to respond to a message from me.

Do you have anything on your profile which might cause an interested woman to hesitate over the "Send message" link? For example, "must have a fondness for hummus" or "priority given to fellow folk dancing fanatics".

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do "

Ouch Queen Ouch

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By *ex-a-frolicsCouple
over a year ago

Brizzle

When we first signed up we were viewing profiles multiple times, this wasn't because we were interested it's just we have bad memories & would forget who we have looked at!

After the few months we have been on here sadly our memories haven't improved, what we have done however is hidden our profile so people don't we have looked in stealth mode, we are now not creating interest although obviously we get the same from others who haven't yet found stealth mode!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just renewed my site supporter so I'm gonna see who's a perv.....if anyone at that is

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I look at profiles a few times especially if it's something on the forum that makes you want to fab a few pics

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"Shy, fear of rejection, going back to check something, didn't notice they had already looked, could be a number of reasons "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I regularly perve on the pictures of people who are too far away to have any realistic chance of doing the sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They were spanking one out and got interrupted several times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few but they cannot message me as they are below my minimum age filter, a pointless exercise for them but no big deal and they soon get bored and realise they aren't getting anywhere so give up. Then there are those who I am not looking for i.e. couples and those who live in another country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intend not to look at the who's veiwed me section now. It saves all the confusion you are experiencing now.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

In my case, they may be wondering just what the fuck it's all about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch "

just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe theyre trying to get noticed so you`ll eventually make contact

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch

just saying "

Yea I know what you were saying I has feeling to you know (blubs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I geherally put it down to short term memory problems and leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch

just saying

Yea I know what you were saying I has feeling to you know (blubs)"

I was admitting I'm a perve. That's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves "

I have been know to perv

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch

just saying

Yea I know what you were saying I has feeling to you know (blubs)

I was admitting I'm a perve. That's all "

you were saying I am not perv worthy (cries)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch

just saying

Yea I know what you were saying I has feeling to you know (blubs)

I was admitting I'm a perve. That's all

you were saying I am not perv worthy (cries) "

Hands over a dummy, now shush lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch

just saying

Yea I know what you were saying I has feeling to you know (blubs)

I was admitting I'm a perve. That's all

you were saying I am not perv worthy (cries)

Hands over a dummy, now shush lol "

Can I get a cuddle too

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Just put your attention onto those where something fruitful may develop. If users are not actively messaging or winking you, then look at others instead. Fab is full of people to get to know.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they look regularly then then are just looking at pics and not interested in meeting which is fine......I rarely look to see whos looked as am lot like me are I'm stealth mode anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just assume that they like a pic or to but we dont fit what they are looking for

They can look as they like as the pics are in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess if your pics are public,then they can look all they like!..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess if your pics are public,then they can look all they like!.. "

Wouldn't harm to say 'nice toys ' or 'like the piercing ' though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice piecing..fab collection of vibes too!..hell you have more than me!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind they can prev all they want makes me feel good when the keep wanting to take a peek

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice piecing..fab collection of vibes too!..hell you have more than me!..

"

Lol thats not quite the full collection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch

just saying

Yea I know what you were saying I has feeling to you know (blubs)

I was admitting I'm a perve. That's all

you were saying I am not perv worthy (cries)

Hands over a dummy, now shush lol

Can I get a cuddle too "

Blimey you don't ask for much do you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or they're just perves

Oooh if only they would contact me lol even perves have standards

Yes we do

Ouch Queen Ouch

just saying

Yea I know what you were saying I has feeling to you know (blubs)

I was admitting I'm a perve. That's all

you were saying I am not perv worthy (cries)

Hands over a dummy, now shush lol

Can I get a cuddle too

Blimey you don't ask for much do you "

I would ask for more but hate rejection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's the Chinese government spying on you!!!

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