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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. " | |||
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"I've only done it at Chams but I watched a programme about teenage (18+ before anyone days it!) naturists and I think I could do it at naturist clubs without it being a sexual thing. " yes there is a HUGE difference between naturist type nudity and sexual type nudity. | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. " I used to be very skinny once. Those comments stay with you for a long time | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. " well let me tell you as a completely unbiased observer that you should be VERY comfortable with your body, from what I can see it's great! In an ideal world everyone would be comfortable with their bodies but sadly peer pressure, the media and people using emotive and insulting language to describe natural variations in body type make that almost impossible | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. I used to be very skinny once. Those comments stay with you for a long time " You look alright I suppose | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. I used to be very skinny once. Those comments stay with you for a long time " That's sad. You look bloody great | |||
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"This is really quite sad in a way. If I'm comfotable getting it all out at my age what on earth have you gorgeous young lot got to worry about? " In my case, Greenpeace turning up to try to get me back to open water | |||
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"Thank you for the kind words guys " that's ok...now go and get naked! | |||
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"This is really quite sad in a way. If I'm comfotable getting it all out at my age what on earth have you gorgeous young lot got to worry about? In my case, Greenpeace turning up to try to get me back to open water " crazy woman | |||
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"Often naked at home. Did the naked bike ride in London a couple of weeks ago, disappointed that I can't do streaking for tigers at London zoo in August. " OMAG what if the tigers caught you? | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. I used to be very skinny once. Those comments stay with you for a long time " Sometimes people can't understand that even those perceived to be the 'body beautiful' can have sg image problems too. Don't forget to work on the most important part...your brain! You could be as beefed up as arne in his prime but until you learn to accept yourself for who you are it will never be enough. | |||
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"This is really quite sad in a way. If I'm comfotable getting it all out at my age what on earth have you gorgeous young lot got to worry about? " I wouldn't have been comfortable with doing it years ago when my body was pre children and gorgeous,now I don't mind,maybe its an age thing | |||
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"Thank you for the kind words guys that's ok...now go and get naked! " Yes ma'am | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. I used to be very skinny once. Those comments stay with you for a long time Sometimes people can't understand that even those perceived to be the 'body beautiful' can have sg image problems too. Don't forget to work on the most important part...your brain! You could be as beefed up as arne in his prime but until you learn to accept yourself for who you are it will never be enough. " | |||
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"This is really quite sad in a way. If I'm comfotable getting it all out at my age what on earth have you gorgeous young lot got to worry about? I wouldn't have been comfortable with doing it years ago when my body was pre children and gorgeous,now I don't mind,maybe its an age thing " maybe it is. I know I do think "f*** 'em" as I throw caution and my underwear to the wind | |||
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"This is really quite sad in a way. If I'm comfotable getting it all out at my age what on earth have you gorgeous young lot got to worry about? I wouldn't have been comfortable with doing it years ago when my body was pre children and gorgeous,now I don't mind,maybe its an age thing " oh and your body is still gorgeous. There are actually very few bodies that aren't and that is mostly because they aren't washed | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. I used to be very skinny once. Those comments stay with you for a long time Sometimes people can't understand that even those perceived to be the 'body beautiful' can have sg image problems too. Don't forget to work on the most important part...your brain! You could be as beefed up as arne in his prime but until you learn to accept yourself for who you are it will never be enough. " Amen to that | |||
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"we love naturism in a non sexual way as much as in a sexual way. but what confuses us on this thread, is that most the forumites who have said they couldn't go naked in public, have naked pics on their public profile. what makes it right in a pic of yourself as opposed to in real life?? just wondering out loud really lol" I don't have naked photos on my profile. I don't have any naked photos at all actually, (recent ones I mean). | |||
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"I've only done it at Chams but I watched a programme about teenage (18+ before anyone days it!) naturists and I think I could do it at naturist clubs without it being a sexual thing. yes there is a HUGE difference between naturist type nudity and sexual type nudity. " | |||
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"we love naturism in a non sexual way as much as in a sexual way. but what confuses us on this thread, is that most the forumites who have said they couldn't go naked in public, have naked pics on their public profile. what makes it right in a pic of yourself as opposed to in real life?? just wondering out loud really lol" I have naked pics so the poor unfortunate souls who think meeting me might work don't get a shock when I strip | |||
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"I have no issues about getting naked in front of people..." Come round here and strip off then. | |||
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"I have no issues about getting naked in front of people... Come round here and strip off then. " Be right there I hope you have chocolate biscuits | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. " Identical feelings here too. Deep breath and getting naked in a room I can just about do but as for the rest - just can't do it! I've even kept my one naked pic set to friends only although I might man up and set it to public for the day in an act of bravery! | |||
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"I have no issues about getting naked in front of people... Come round here and strip off then. Be right there I hope you have chocolate biscuits " I'll just pop out and get some while the kettles boiling. | |||
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"I have no issues about getting naked in front of people... Come round here and strip off then. Be right there I hope you have chocolate biscuits I'll just pop out and get some while the kettles boiling. " Good man | |||
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"This is really quite sad in a way. If I'm comfotable getting it all out at my age what on earth have you gorgeous young lot got to worry about? " But I think thats a good point though. I would never in a million years scare the natives by wandering around a club naked but I have no problems getting my kit off and going in the hot tub etc now, but I wouldnt have done that when I was a young 'un | |||
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"Fuck getting naked, my cock is a grower not a shower!!!!! And im a bit fat lol" I'm a lot fat. It wouldn't bother me,I'd skip about like a forest sprite | |||
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"Fuck getting naked, my cock is a grower not a shower!!!!! And im a bit fat lol I'm a lot fat. It wouldn't bother me,I'd skip about like a forest sprite " | |||
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" I'm a lot fat. It wouldn't bother me,I'd skip about like a forest sprite " The naked isnt a problem. The skipping might be a bit much at my age | |||
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" I'm a lot fat. It wouldn't bother me,I'd skip about like a forest sprite The naked isnt a problem. The skipping might be a bit much at my age " it's more like schlepping | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me." Is it compulsory to be naked? | |||
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"I feel the same too. Getting naked in a room with someone is fine but on public display I'm still apprehensive. Still not comfortable with my body. " Why not? | |||
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"Naked swimming in the heated pool at radletts is great as ya tits float! Lol .., think its like most things, once you do it a few times and get over the initial self barrier of actually doing it... It eventually feels very liberating! " Have to agree, mucking around naked in the pool is lush. | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me." Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh " really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL! | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL!" I love you x | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL! I love you x" | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL!" You haven't seen me naked !! | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL! You haven't seen me naked !! " Nope, but I do believe that the human body is quite beautiful in most cases unless someone deliberately presents themselves unattractively e.g. doesn't keep clean | |||
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"id never go to a club.. Private beach or villa on holiday, no problem..." That's my fantasy for tonight set up | |||
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"There is nothing better to be naked on a sunny nudist or naturist beach ....you feel so relax Naked everybody is the same, stripped of convention .. " Welcome to the forum. I think naked we don't all end up the same. Instead we swap the currency of clothing labels for body shape labels. Depending on the current aesthetics different shapes will carry more cache. | |||
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"My problem with nudity is not because I'm uncomfortable with my body or size etc, I'm quite happy with myself. I don't feel right being naked, it feels unnatural to me. I never sleep naked and after a bath I'm usually eager to dry off and put clothes on. Its the way I've been brought up and the influence of my parents that has stuck with me. My parents didnt encourage nudity and always ensured I was covered appropriately " I remember flashing my appendix scar to anyone and everyone. We weren't encouraged to be anything but covered up but I stopped wearing night clothes quite early and used to put the same clean nightie in the wash every week so that my mum could see it hanging on the line. I can't do barefoot though. | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL!" the front of me is all fat and wobbly | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL!the front of me is all fat and wobbly " So is the back now that I look lol | |||
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"Is it just me who has never done the public nudity thing? (Either at a beach, club or wherever) Who has and where? Who hasn't? I considered trying the hot tub at Jaydees last night but getting naked is still a step too far for me. Never done it, not sure I've got the confidence tbh really? This thread has really opened my eyes, not one person who has posted here has anything to worry about AT ALL! the front of me is all fat and wobbly " Me too. But it's all my fat and wobble! And some of the wobble is quite alluring to some people! I can choose to accept it or do something about it. Other people can like it or lump it. I'm still not entirely confident about the nudity thing though. | |||
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"My parents introduced us to nudity early on, so Im fairly relaxed. It is something that you can explore, even if your first time is just for a couple of minutes. Overall dont feel pressured into something just because most do it, there are alot of sheep around and sometimes body issues and confidence need to be respected more than fitting in. " You are absolutely right as usual | |||
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"If you have no body confidence then of course you are going to be uncomfortable naked...I can play dot to dot with my stretch marks and I've had no kids...I learnt a while ago that I need to let go of the issues I have with my body...I'm overweight but actually like my body now...so I am comfortable getting naked in the presence of others. " | |||
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