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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can people really have a fuck buddy without one of them getting feelings ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't become too attached. You need feelings for it to work but keep it realistic. No thoughts of the future or becoming anything more than what it is and you won't get hurt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why? Have you developed feelings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some can, some cannot. Honesty with each other is best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did many years ago. What a disaster ended in heartbreak mine. I become attached too easily. If I was a single lady on here, I would really struggle. I take my hat off to them, if I'm honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can people really have a fuck buddy without one of them getting feelings ?? "

If one of them is a woman, no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes! Way back when I had a guy who I had regular sex with, other than a physical attraction, in the 5 months we were FWB I can honestly say we had no feelings for each other, more than 2 normal friends would.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can people really have a fuck buddy without one of them getting feelings ?? "

No I don't think it's possible unless you have the ability to block your emotions out and use the site for the correct purpose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a FWB for a couple of years. We do have feelings for each other, an have been through a whole set of emotions as well, but just keep reinforcing and revisiting the boundaries. Great if you can as it leads to one hell of a fantastic relationship built on respect, trust and friendship.

If you can't then get the hell out of dodge quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you can, depends on your idea of a fuck buddie though, ive met guys several times for just sex, its the only time we have met and don't contact each other unless asking if we want to meet, keeps it simple, i think its when you start meeting for drinks, meals, shopping trips etc and texting all the time you have crossed the line of someone you just shag to a friend and that's when feelings develop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get such mixed messages from mine. He goes through phases of getting annoyed with me when I can't meet. He will message me expecting me to drop everything for him. I cannot always do that. He will then delete my number ect. Then a couple of weeks later begging me to see him :-/. When I do see him he's great. Told him recently that the stress of his outbursts are making me consider our arrangement. I feel he does it to get some kind of reaction. An affirmation I suppose. I love him as a friend. The fact he's so good in bed is a bonus. He's been ok lately. Despite me not being able to see him. He is busy and I am snowed under with work and uni.

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