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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Speaking with a couple and getting on famously and looking to meet tonight at mine. Out of the blue its becomes a requirement that we first meet in a well known food chain and I wine them and dine them. The words used were "you pay for our meals and drinks all night" Am I being too sensitive or is that just not cricket?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If its at a well known food chain it's not exactly fine cuisine? Cough up you ole mither

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Speaking with a couple and getting on famously and looking to meet tonight at mine. Out of the blue its becomes a requirement that we first meet in a well known food chain and I wine them and dine them. The words used were "you pay for our meals and drinks all night" Am I being too sensitive or is that just not cricket?"

Sounds like they are after a freebie I would tell them to do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a piss take,tell them to sod off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not cricket in my view...

If you still want to meet them tell them you are happy to split 50/50 or even 3 ways but not 100% you.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" If its at a well known food chain it's not exactly fine cuisine? Cough up you ole mither "
I do not mind paying not at all even fine dining it was just the starkness of the comment and an ultimatum. It was a Beefeater which I find gross!

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By *artinichilled1TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

The words "Taking the piss" spring to mind .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would drop them like a ton of bricks because they would expect you to pay every time.Also it sounds as if they are acting superior to you.If they are gorgeous looking people,they know they can get anyone at the drop of a hat.So my advice to you is forget them.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Get them 2 halves of shandy and a bag o' dry roast, that should get ya a spit roast later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to do one cheeky sods , there will be no afters for you mate and an empty wallet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Abominable display of egotistical greed. The mercenary tendencies that prevail on this site fill me with despair. Kindly suggest that they stick the feeble food chain squarely up there overrated posteriors.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yup you can just see it happening! them getting an emergency call just as the bill for the grub arrives and them saying " we will have to arrange another night to play" don't be a nug you know it's on the cards

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West

Definitely tell them to get lost your really not that desperate x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It would appear I am blocked by the said persons!

O well its all part of FABs rich tapestry!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


" If its at a well known food chain it's not exactly fine cuisine? Cough up you ole mither I do not mind paying not at all even fine dining it was just the starkness of the comment and an ultimatum. It was a Beefeater which I find gross!"

Their attitude sounds gross too! I would tell them to stuff it, I wonder if they're just after a free meal and no play??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd organise a meet with them and then not turn up.

I wouldn't actually do the above, but I'd have to have a word with them and explain if they're financially struggling to feed themselves maybe they shouldn't use sex as the way to change their situation! Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


" If its at a well known food chain it's not exactly fine cuisine? Cough up you ole mither I do not mind paying not at all even fine dining it was just the starkness of the comment and an ultimatum. It was a Beefeater which I find gross!

Their attitude sounds gross too! I would tell them to stuff it, I wonder if they're just after a free meal and no play??"
Seemingly so. I must admit I always like a social meeting with prospective playmates and happy topay for drinks and the like especially if its a lady but this more like if you don't there are loads who will!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them to find another mug .... crazy !!!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

I just had one that wound me up, about the third in an hour 'just passing', people I have never spoken to before. This one asked if I wanted to meet him at the local motorway services!!!

Oh fuck the fuck OFF!!!

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By *organ and rob zombieCouple
over a year ago

bradford

Alarm bells ring!!! Probably won't turn up, we wouldn't dare ask this of anyone!!!

Splitting room costs is one thing!!!

Don't do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just had one that wound me up, about the third in an hour 'just passing', people I have never spoken to before. This one asked if I wanted to meet him at the local motorway services!!!

Oh fuck the fuck OFF!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You would be better off meeting with an escort at least that way it's going to cost u but you get your happy ending xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You would be better off meeting with an escort at least that way it's going to cost u but you get your happy ending xx"
The thought did cross my mind..............!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a couple from manchester do it to me they wanted picking up and then for me to take them round the pubs buying the drinks all night then they wanted to spend the weekend at mine and if i was lucky id get a blowjob

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would be better off meeting with an escort at least that way it's going to cost u but you get your happy ending xxThe thought did cross my mind..............!"
u get the choice then of who you want to meet and you can pick the girls that r into the same things as you xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You would be better off meeting with an escort at least that way it's going to cost u but you get your happy ending xxThe thought did cross my mind..............!u get the choice then of who you want to meet and you can pick the girls that r into the same things as you xx"
Like fine dinning!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You would be better off meeting with an escort at least that way it's going to cost u but you get your happy ending xxThe thought did cross my mind..............!u get the choice then of who you want to meet and you can pick the girls that r into the same things as you xxLike fine dinning!!!! "
Yer lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were accommodating so that wasn't going to cost them anything. they should have split the cost. Two of them, one of you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell em to shove where sun don't shine....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think because im a single guy they thought they would get what they could out of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them table booked, Champagne on ice, Gordan Ramsey on the ready in the kitchen...

And then don't turn up...that will knock some sense into them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?"

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?"

no mate your not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha "
I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!"

Cheesy nuts in Cupids that's a first! At least it will be a cheap round lol they only sell soft drinks at the bar ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!

Cheesy nuts in Cupids that's a first! At least it will be a cheap round lol they only sell soft drinks at the bar ha ha "
I will bring a bottle or two!!

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!

Cheesy nuts in Cupids that's a first! At least it will be a cheap round lol they only sell soft drinks at the bar ha ha I will bring a bottle or two!!"

I'm on antibiotics so can't drink

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!

Cheesy nuts in Cupids that's a first! At least it will be a cheap round lol they only sell soft drinks at the bar ha ha I will bring a bottle or two!!

I'm on antibiotics so can't drink "
You can drink whilst taking antibiotics its a fallacy and urban myth that you cannot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are some lovely wonderful couples on here and that have equal, mutual respect for single guys like you. Try and stick to them and let the leaches buy their own food.

Total shame on anyone who suggests things like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!

Cheesy nuts in Cupids that's a first! At least it will be a cheap round lol they only sell soft drinks at the bar ha ha I will bring a bottle or two!!

I'm on antibiotics so can't drink You can drink whilst taking antibiotics its a fallacy and urban myth that you cannot!"

There are a few types that you can't. You really can't.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!

Cheesy nuts in Cupids that's a first! At least it will be a cheap round lol they only sell soft drinks at the bar ha ha I will bring a bottle or two!!

I'm on antibiotics so can't drink You can drink whilst taking antibiotics its a fallacy and urban myth that you cannot!

There are a few types that you can't. You really can't. "
Yes I know they are a special type of medication that can cause a reaction that makes you violently sick in extreme cases.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I would genuinely assume it was a joke if a couple asked that of me, so I'd probably laugh it off, turn up, eat and then refuse to pay for more than what I'd eaten.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are some lovely wonderful couples on here and that have equal, mutual respect for single guys like you. Try and stick to them and let the leaches buy their own food.

Total shame on anyone who suggests things like that. "
Thankfully you are correct and I have met some great people on this site ( a few fruit cakes) but yes most are nice and are very happy to engage with single guys.

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By *itten-xxxWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?

Very now grow some balls and get your ass to Cupids tonight.... See you at the bar later ha ha I am laughing my little testis off now.............if I can I will and buy you a drink and a Cupids meal of Bacon Fries, Cheddars and nuts.........!!!

Cheesy nuts in Cupids that's a first! At least it will be a cheap round lol they only sell soft drinks at the bar ha ha I will bring a bottle or two!!

I'm on antibiotics so can't drink You can drink whilst taking antibiotics its a fallacy and urban myth that you cannot!

There are a few types that you can't. You really can't. "

And it's really not worth it I've felt too rough the last few day

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By *ustforsexxMan
over a year ago

Derby

Anyone fancy cam chat?

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Anyone fancy cam chat?"

Superb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are some lovely wonderful couples on here and that have equal, mutual respect for single guys like you. Try and stick to them and let the leaches buy their own food.

Total shame on anyone who suggests things like that. Thankfully you are correct and I have met some great people on this site ( a few fruit cakes) but yes most are nice and are very happy to engage with single guys."

Lol yer we're a bit fruit and nutty

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are some lovely wonderful couples on here and that have equal, mutual respect for single guys like you. Try and stick to them and let the leaches buy their own food.

Total shame on anyone who suggests things like that. Thankfully you are correct and I have met some great people on this site ( a few fruit cakes) but yes most are nice and are very happy to engage with single guys.

Lol yer we're a bit fruit and nutty "
My kind of indulgence!!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"Thanks to all I do not think I am being overly sensitive then?"
hell no! Propa piss take and would bluntly tell them to fuck off! ( or if feeling polite to ' go away is small jerky movements'!!)

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay


"

Total shame on anyone who suggests things like that. Thankfully you are correct and I have met some great people on this site ( a few fruit cakes) but yes most are nice and are very happy to engage with single guys."

Oh it's not just single guys... we've been ripped off too but you live and learn.

And fruit cake is just a bonus for us lard arses

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord, and I thought a girl asking me to buy her fags was being cheeky!

Some people eh

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

id tell them to poke it .. fucking freeloaders

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By *exyLancs2Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"There are some lovely wonderful couples on here and that have equal, mutual respect for single guys like you. Try and stick to them and let the leaches buy their own food.

Total shame on anyone who suggests things like that. Thankfully you are correct and I have met some great people on this site ( a few fruit cakes) but yes most are nice and are very happy to engage with single guys"

....would that be a reference to me there sexy keks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are some lovely wonderful couples on here and that have equal, mutual respect for single guys like you. Try and stick to them and let the leaches buy their own food.

Total shame on anyone who suggests things like that. Thankfully you are correct and I have met some great people on this site ( a few fruit cakes) but yes most are nice and are very happy to engage with single guys

....would that be a reference to me there sexy keks "
Ha ha ha ha ha...................dinner is on me!

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I would genuinely assume it was a joke if a couple asked that of me, so I'd probably laugh it off, turn up, eat and then refuse to pay for more than what I'd eaten....."

I wouldn't think to do that. I'd turn them down flat. Bloody cheek! I like your idea better though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had a couple from manchester do it to me they wanted picking up and then for me to take them round the pubs buying the drinks all night then they wanted to spend the weekend at mine and if i was lucky id get a blowjob "

They sound very unselfish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Abominable display of egotistical greed. The mercenary tendencies that prevail on this site fill me with despair. Kindly suggest that they stick the feeble food chain squarely up there overrated posteriors."

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Tell them to fuck off

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