FabSwingers.com forum: why are single guys not welcome at parties?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

how come whenever we attend/are invited to a party it is couples or single ladies? Not all of us ladies are bi and love guys around. The single guys that we have met have all been gents and would have added serious sexiness to a party. Any explanations welcome.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody good point, there is never enough cock about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the party surely...

we have been to parties where single guys are there..

Don't think anyone has anything against them.. its more about balance! Not to mention preference..

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By *lirty14uMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Is it coz they eat all the vol-en-vents and spill red wine on the carpet?

Oh, you didn't mean that kind of party did you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a good party has to have a balance of people attending so things go with a "swing"

half a dozen cpls. a few single fems and about 6 single guys .

Well someone has to attend to the needs of the hostess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ohhh how very relevant to what i was thinking, i was contemplating having a party but was thinking the same thing , for example when a single guy decides to have a party how couples and single fems may see it , i dnt really know why single guys arent invited but ill be keeping an eye on this thread before i make any decisions lol .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any parties iv attended have never had enough single guys.........xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think its a case that they are not welcome. The parties I have been to (and theres been a few in the last four years) the amount of single men that are "No Shows" far outways the onces that turn up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well ive had loads in the past and if you know the cpls , you can sort of gage what each cpl like and lets face it, if you hand pick the single guys

Non pushy...respectful...confident and can have a laugh with

oh not forgetting nice dicks

then oooooo what a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well ive had loads in the past and if you know the cpls , you can sort of gage what each cpl like and lets face it, if you hand pick the single guys

Non pushy...respectful...confident and can have a laugh with

oh not forgetting nice dicks

then oooooo what a party

Can I come to your next party please :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

course ya can

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well ive had loads in the past and if you know the cpls , you can sort of gage what each cpl like and lets face it, if you hand pick the single guys

Non pushy...respectful...confident and can have a laugh with

oh not forgetting nice dicks

then oooooo what a party

"
and me peachy gal mwah xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have looked at the events list many times and alot of them state no single men or theres only a very small number of places for single men. Guess many people don't want single men at a party or social and maybe the man of the couple is making up the numbers in the male department?????

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

all the parties i have been to have had the same no. of single men as cpls, this gives the ladies more to play with and ensure they have a good time which is the whole point of the pary

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By *teve_SoleilCouple
over a year ago

Malaysia

I think it is cause...there's not many bisexual men...and well...swinging is still usually unbalance...we have met many couples where...they only play with single girls and couples...but never even consider a single guys...and the girl is not bi...

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon

"I think it is cause...there's not many bisexual men...and well...swinging is still usually unbalance...we have met many couples where...they only play with single girls and couples...but never even consider a single guys...and the girl is not bi..."

seems the majority of profiles are writen by the males and they just want another lady to play with and the wife gets left out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is this rapidly turning into a whinge thread lol....

Personal choices are just that... Just the same as one person likes marmite and another doesn't.

Couples who like couples like us have nothing against single guys.. nothing at all.

IF Mrs Notts wanted to try then so be it.. HER choice not mine nor would we be brow beaten into having one cause HE thought it unfair in anyway lol..

Ahhh not going to bang on... done to many times guys....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't seriously begin to imagine you guys sitting there sometimes thinking us male partners are somehow stopping all the women folk grabbing their heels and running to the nearest single male lol... Its just not like that. Most we know including ourselves have perfectly sound minds and are capable of thinking for themselves ...

There have been times we have discussed it.. and the idea appeals even to me... but, like most she shows NO interest and enjoys the social side, the company, the giggles that go with meeting other likeminded couples..

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By *eavensg84uCouple
over a year ago

Harrow

It all depends on the party - and the guys. Some parties are couples only because those couples prefer it that way - other parties want single guys because (usually) those women are a little bit greedier. Its about choice and what matters is that you go to a party or club that suits you. If you are a greedy girl, you'll be disappointed if there arent enough guys - if you want couples-only fun, you'll be pissed-off to get to a party and find 10 'extra' blokes. Its not rocket science. We all have preferences and if you're a single guy who is upset because some parties exclude you, then just accept it. Dont expect every swinging couple to want you around just because you want to be there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think most parties are basically governed by the cpls attanding.

so if you know a and b along with c,d and e and f love the extra dick...

then you invite a few more delicious single guys.

Meanwhile g and h and i and j prefer the single fem to add a little spice then some delicious fems are invited.

Its all about who you invite and not a slag off of single guys

so chill single men......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

aint it the case that if party quite often it is couples n maybe the ppl that through the party only wish couples x tgc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eh?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eh?"
Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social i arranged at the weekend was open to everyone i allowed 5-6 singles males to attend and only 1 turned up? all the rest where couples and single fems, not complaining mind

still had a cracking nite

Whats wrong with the you single guys these days? they shud be invited to parties i think as there are some sexy friendly ones out there. (obviously not random guys you dont know) I luv em.... cant get enuff

lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

hi guys

reading through the replies to my question I guess I have just been invited/attended the wrong parties! lol

If I ever have a party all you sexy guys are welcome...there girls... perfect ratio me thinks......xxxx

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Put it simple or as alexandra says *Simples* alot of guys are insecure and simply can't face that while they relish the idea of a mff experience, the idea of a mmf play must make them gay or bi!

We have no singles please, as wiggles being a domme, somthing that realy dosn't do it for me, get all the extra male female fun that she needs, yet at a club, nothing winds me up more than to see wigles totaly spolit be me + another male giving her a good roast!!

On the other hand all due respect, we have been to clbs wher wiggles can't even go for a bloody piss, without a train of 5 bloody single guys following her..

Or play in a room without idiot singles thinking the closer they stick there cock in mine or her face the more likely she is to say "hey handsome join in"

Crist we have been to clubs and even heard singles say "what a boring night, but ahh well if I pull here its cheeper than paying a pro"

Not saying couples can't be total twats too, at a party or a club, but singles are often not invited simply due to there propencity to tug a semi flacid cock constantly in vain hope a woman is d*unk enough to not realize she turned them down 5 minitues earlier..

when push comes to shove, swinging is a society, earn your place, prove you arn't pushy, can have a laugh, chill out and that sex is meerly the gravy on a good night and no bugger will care if yyou are single or a couple...

Do the oposite and your wrist is gona get sore...

(sory to d*unk to piss about the bush, so realy typing as I see it, which may not make scence to even me in morning lol)

Happy

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"The social i arranged at the weekend was open to everyone i allowed 5-6 singles males to attend and only 1 turned up? all the rest where couples and single fems, not complaining mind

still had a cracking nite

lol"

And can i just add- the one that DID turn up =- he was a complete gent and went away a VERY happy man!!!!

Another few "friends" on his list now!!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

If more guys DID make an effort - that chap would be sharing his new list of friends...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Put it simple or as alexandra says *Simples* alot of guys are insecure and simply can't face that while they relish the idea of a mff experience, the idea of a mmf play must make them gay or bi! "

I don't get that at all... Not even a little bit lol..

When you meet with couples there is mmf, ffm, ffmm..

We have had fun with just about every combination of the above so how in Gods name would playing with a single guy alter that lol..???

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Put it simple or as alexandra says *Simples* alot of guys are insecure and simply can't face that while they relish the idea of a mff experience, the idea of a mmf play must make them gay or bi!

I don't get that at all... Not even a little bit lol..

When you meet with couples there is mmf, ffm, ffmm..

We have had fun with just about every combination of the above so how in Gods name would playing with a single guy alter that lol..??? "

Exactly but the amount times I hear from the male half of friends that "ohh nooooo we never play with singles" then when asked why there reply is "well i'm not into men, so a single bloke joing would be like gay or wierd"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have parties on a regular basis and we always invited single guys although we do limit the numbers so please don't tar us all with the same brush

and just to add when we do invite single guys they don't even bother to turn up

we have put a party invite up for this weekend so why have we only had 4 single guy asked ????????? how many single guys are on this site?????????????

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"The social i arranged at the weekend was open to everyone i allowed 5-6 singles males to attend and only 1 turned up? all the rest where couples and single fems, not complaining mind

still had a cracking nite

lol

And can i just add- the one that DID turn up =- he was a complete gent and went away a VERY happy man!!!!

Another few "friends" on his list now!!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

If more guys DID make an effort - that chap would be sharing his new list of friends...lol"

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"The social i arranged at the weekend was open to everyone i allowed 5-6 singles males to attend and only 1 turned up? all the rest where couples and single fems, not complaining mind

still had a cracking nite

lol

And can i just add- the one that DID turn up =- he was a complete gent and went away a VERY happy man!!!!

Another few "friends" on his list now!!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

If more guys DID make an effort - that chap would be sharing his new list of friends...lol"

but we made him work hard for it....;)

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"The social i arranged at the weekend was open to everyone i allowed 5-6 singles males to attend and only 1 turned up? all the rest where couples and single fems, not complaining mind

still had a cracking nite

lol

And can i just add- the one that DID turn up =- he was a complete gent and went away a VERY happy man!!!!

Another few "friends" on his list now!!

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

If more guys DID make an effort - that chap would be sharing his new list of friends...lol

but we made him work hard for it....;)"

Actuslly there were TWO cos there was the TART & Bignblack.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we have parties on a regular basis and we always invited single guys although we do limit the numbers so please don't tar us all with the same brush

and just to add when we do invite single guys they don't even bother to turn up

we have put a party invite up for this weekend so why have we only had 4 single guy asked ????????? how many single guys are on this site?????????????"

Could it be something to do with the line in your profile that reads "SINGLE GUYS IF WE WANT YOU WE,LL FIND YOU"

That would stop me from messaging you, as I would take it that you didn't want to be bothered by singles.

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