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By *w33tCh33ks91 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

Are people using this feature too much or are people just a little too shy to send a message?

I seem to be getting bombarded with winks but hardly any messages...

I do use winks myself but only if the person isn't looking for TV/TS...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree winks are a pain. And wow your a hottie babe x

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By *w33tCh33ks91 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester


"I agree winks are a pain. And wow your a hottie babe x "

Thanks doll you're looking very sexy in those pics

Glad someone agrees though!!...

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

Sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't mind 'em, with filters in place we only get 'em from people who might interest us anyway so not that many to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind them, I've had 2 good meets that started as winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're quite shy (to start with), so for us it's just testing the waters to see if people want to chat or play.

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By *ornishBiLoverMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I use winks when I think someone is really hot n sexy but its unlikely we'd ever meet.

;-)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them. Met my fwb because she sent a wink.

Also made a few friends because of them.

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By *w33tCh33ks91 OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I don't want the feature to go I like it but I do think it's being overly used

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since I removed my 'wink and I block you' from my profile (seemed hypocritical having it up as I've recently started winking rather than messaging) I get buckets of them.

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

Not a problem I have,

I don t send them if someone interests me that much I ll send a message, and the number I receive (I like them) isn t a problem ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Winks are okay. Good at testing the water.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can imagine more winks are being sent because hardly anyone gets a reply from their messages. Reading the forums, a lot of threads in the last couple of months, it seems like the majority (not all) of people say they don't respond to winks but also do not reply to messages as they get so many. Why should people then take the time & make the effort to send a message & get nothing back. It's a case of sod it, I can't be bothered no more & send a wink instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Since I removed my 'wink and I block you' from my profile (seemed hypocritical having it up as I've recently started winking rather than messaging) I get buckets of them."

That shows that people do read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use winks exactly as they would face to face. A subtle hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I generally like them and have had good meets from winks but if someone who winks doesn't have a face pic I'd just delete it so I suppose on that occasion, a message with a face pic attached would be better.

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

I like winks, shows an interest without mithering. I'd message sweet but I'm an old man, sob.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use winks, just to show I've been there and as a form of hello, some people don't bother some wink back, and from there a conversation can ensue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are people using this feature too much or are people just a little too shy to send a message?

I seem to be getting bombarded with winks but hardly any messages...

I do use winks myself but only if the person isn't looking for TV/TS...

"

Have you got actual tits??

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

I use this function o let the person know I liked thier profile, it saves me writing a messge that will get deleted after being read.

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By *utifiedMan
over a year ago

Kilgetty

If somebody would send me some winks I could then qualify to comment seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've said it before and I'll say it again, I like winks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have never sent a wink, or responded to one . Would rather receive or send a message . .

(Her)

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