FabSwingers.com forum: For when you die suddenly...

By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Those of you with an interesting collection of toys, outfits, straps, ropes and whatever else you may like to indulge in when enjoying your sexual encounters... have you made plans for someone to come and clear out the sex stuff before the rest of your family start rooting through your belongings?

It is something I did think about once. Obviously not because I’d be embarrassed… but more to save the embarrassment of my mum and dad or to prevent youngsters in the family finding stuff. Those things are no longer an issue so I’m no longer concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder what the person who gets your laptop thinks about saved messages and on line history

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i remember this being discussed a wee while ago and someone had a friend i think was called dudley who knew about all the stuff and would go and remove it before family went round!

iv chose my dudley and they know where everythin is and to get it out the house quickly if anythin does happen to me! xx

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"I always wonder what the person who gets your laptop thinks about saved messages and on line history

And the photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OH JEEZ.....i never thought about this.......till now !!!

i need a dudley... and a removal van on standby...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always wonder what the person who gets your laptop thinks about saved messages and on line history

And the photos!"

There will be a spinster somewhere who every one thinks is a twice sunday church sort and after she passes away relatives will find on her computer a profile named ganbang-anytime-girl and pictures of her doing all sorts. The odds are this must have happened at some point

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

I have a very very very trusted friend who has my passwords etc to delete profiles etc and also numbers of certain people to contact.

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By *i 1 Get 1 FreeCouple (MM)
over a year ago

birmingham

There's one issue in life that scares the shite out of me, it''s dying

Trying not to think about it, means I don't have to take any action

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

When I go off on my road trips, I leave sealed instructions to be opened by a friend in the event of my untimely demise. It details all my accounts with various NSFW sites, passwords etc, so he can at least tell people what has happened. I don't like the thought of just disappearing one day, I have lots of "friends" on-line who ought to know why I no longer make contact.

There's also a breakdown of the numbers in my phone, who are friends and who are "friends", lol. Some may not wish to be asked by my next of kin how they knew me!

I don't have any real hangups though, I do what I do and am deceiving no-one, it would be different if I had children that I wanted to keep oblivious. My parents would have to accept that I am what I am too, and they KNOW anyway,to a certain extent, I'm sure. They certainly don't think I'm a celibate monk.

I'd rather they weren't confonted with a pic of me in full glorious pornographic technicolour though, so my friend would have to remove certain hard drives before turning the clean ones with my business accounts etc over to my next of kin.

I've also detailed various items in my home and work which ought to be removed but would probably be binned by anyone clearing my life out. For example, there are some old spanking magazines somewhere which are fetching a pretty penny (like hundreds of pounds!!) from enthusiasts, I'd prefer someone I loved profitted from them than they just get skipped by an embarrassed relative.

I guess I really ought to write a proper will....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh ............ Shiiiiiiii it!

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

I will be dead, what are they going to do......sue me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah wot id probably do is when i die or when my mum dies,,,,touch wood not 4 a very long time yet! phew! sorry ! But id transfer all the data from my computer to sum deletion bin n the good things goto decent members of ure family then delete my account n stamp on my pc! then im secret safe! lol

Id do this b4 i die. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates

awwwwwwwwwww billy! lol bless

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"Yeah wot id probably do is when i die or when my mum dies,,,,touch wood not 4 a very long time yet! phew! sorry ! But id transfer all the data from my computer to sum deletion bin n the good things goto decent members of ure family then delete my account n stamp on my pc! then im secret safe! lol

Id do this b4 i die. lol

You do realise don't you that Deleteing your data doesn't actually delete it from your PC or laptop? Just renders that disc space re-usable.

For better deletion use Eraser or Cleaner or similar.

I'm such a belligerent git i'm gonna outlive you all

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

CCleaner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

CCleaner"

Thats very good advice mate very sound good advice...cheers!

Or i could just get a bottle of tipex!!! lol

amo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id do this b4 i die. lol

You do realise don't you that Deleteing your data doesn't actually delete it from your PC or laptop? Just renders that disc space re-usable.

For better deletion use Eraser or Cleaner or similar.

I'm such a belligerent git i'm gonna outlive you all

Or just STAMP on the fucker!! or throw ure pc into sum lake! or throw it outta 90 story sky scraper!! lol lol

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By *heWolfMan
over a year ago

warwickshire

"Or just STAMP on the fucker!! "

Close. Take a hammer to the hard drive, that is serious deletion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or just STAMP on the fucker!!

Close. Take a hammer to the hard drive, that is serious deletion."

2rite fella!!

Good 1

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

I have a friend that knows what to do if the worst should happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have a friend that knows what to do if the worst should happen

Oh yeah wots that?

get sum1 to raid ya house?! lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Pictures, pictures, .....shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pictures, pictures, .....shit

yeah innit Help! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think best bet----Give all ya good stuff to ya family whos still around etc or new ones,,,all the bad stuff u dont wanna them to see,,,

before u die ,,,,just stamp on the pc! or get a hammer! simple

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"Think best bet----Give all ya good stuff to ya family whos still around etc or new ones,,,all the bad stuff u dont wanna them to see,,,

before u die ,,,,just stamp on the pc! or get a hammer! simple

I think you are missing the point. If you have enough warning to hammer your pc/laptop, then you have enough warning to bin the sex stuff. What happens if there is no warning... if you get run over or hit by a chunk of blue ice or shot by a pissed off taxi driver.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

if thats the case BB would have to sift through it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Think best bet----Give all ya good stuff to ya family whos still around etc or new ones,,,all the bad stuff u dont wanna them to see,,,

before u die ,,,,just stamp on the pc! or get a hammer! simple

Very few choose their time of departure from this world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I totally agree with the two comments yes u r both rite thats very true..

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I suppose we are very lucky where this is concerned. About 6 years ago we had to tell the kids what we do because some arse (who was also on a swinger site) told everyone where Mrs R works and had printed pictures of us both!

We have a file on the PC and the backup hard drive called "At your own peril, our pics" Everything even slightly risque is in there and it is very easy to delete that one file. It also has all of our messages and emails, so nicely contained!

Because the kids know, it makes it very easy for us to forget about what will happen when we are no longer here, but reading this thread has certainly made me think.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I suppose we are very lucky where this is concerned. About 6 years ago we had to tell the kids what we do because some arse (who was also on a swinger site) told everyone where Mrs R works and had printed pictures of us both!

Because the kids know, it makes it very easy for us to forget about what will happen when we are no longer here, but reading this thread has certainly made me think.....

Yea! on yer own head be it.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"Those of you with an interesting collection of toys, outfits, straps, ropes and whatever else you may like to indulge in when enjoying your sexual encounters... have you made plans for someone to come and clear out the sex stuff before the rest of your family start rooting through your belongings?

theyll probably think.hope i get them in the will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

theyll probably think.hope i get them in the will.

yeah! 2rite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i hope who ever finds mine has a good laugh. i won't be around to get embarrassed so no skin of my nose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh my. I've never considered this. My Husband would obviously spare the blushes of others but if we were both gone then there's no Plan B

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock

once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"once i've gone i won't care so sod it BUT i was unexpectedly admitted to hospital a few years ago and (as moms do) my mom came to my place to pack me a bag. wasn't until i was lying in my hospital bed unable to sleep that night that it suddenly struck me what she would of found whilst hunting for undies, dressing gown etc

That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her.....

Sorry to hear that love x

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By *nkednkinky_bbwWoman
over a year ago

cannock

That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her.....

don't know which one is worse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her.....

don't know which one is worse

Would be worse if they were Dads

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates

aw - but you do

On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think.

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates

aw - but you do

On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think.

wow thats ace and brave"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates

aw - but you do

On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think.

wow thats ace and brave"

well, they are old enough now... and it also means if ever anybody accidentally gave it away, my friends etc... it would not be an issue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ok so basically embaresment factor for those after.....ermm thats their problem, however, if you don't want anyhting to show up ( anywhere )after you die don't have in house beforeehand is my thought, likewise anything on computer - set it up so that it deletes history / cache have an overwrite for eveything at end of online session, know not easy but hey if don't want your history known it isn't too hard to keep things private

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By *he_original_polo OP Woman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

" ...however, if you don't want anyhting to show up ( anywhere )after you die don't have in house beforeehand is my thought, ..."

So where does one keep one's toy collection.... not to mention ball-gag, nipple clamps, gimp mask and whatever else floats the owners boat?

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

"i just realised ,,,,,,, i got no mates

aw - but you do

On the topic : I am not worried as kids are actually aware of my lifestyle - so nothing would really shock them - they would just have a giggle I think.

wow thats ace and brave

well, they are old enough now... and it also means if ever anybody accidentally gave it away, my friends etc... it would not be an issue."
true very protective admire you a lot for that

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

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thats not what i heard

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

thats not what i heard

They said they wouldn't tell...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" ...however, if you don't want anyhting to show up ( anywhere )after you die don't have in house beforeehand is my thought, ...

So where does one keep one's toy collection.... not to mention ball-gag, nipple clamps, gimp mask and whatever else floats the owners boat?"

not in house, iof don't have partner to remove/. not easy but then I wouldn't have anything in house that couldn't be seen as otherwise than innocent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That happened in reverse to me. My Mum was in hospital and I was packing a bag for her.....

don't know which one is worse

My Hubby can barely look her in the eye still

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My best friend is also my naughty friend who knows everything, and she has already been asked to be the executor of my will and clear my stuff when I die!

Problem solved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or just STAMP on the fucker!!

Close. Take a hammer to the hard drive, that is serious deletion."

magnet better lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My best friend is also my naughty friend who knows everything, and she has already been asked to be the executor of my will and clear my stuff when I die!

Problem solved.

everyone should be lucky enpough to have a fiend like that, alas us singles habe to work to delete etc,.

matter of course now really lol

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By *mcouple1Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

revo uninstaller pro is the best deletion programme

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but ive told the kids where i want and dont want to be buried and what music i want played at the funeral as i dont want my mum interfering and doing it how she would want it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!! "

well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

"lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

"Oi!!! Reaper!!!!!!

Nooooooooooooooooooooooooo!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!!

well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"

lol - will send you the certificate of immortality

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!!

well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"

lol - will send you the certificate of immortality

thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!!

well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"

lol - will send you the certificate of immortality

thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others."

That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?

Go on - spill

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!!

well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"

lol - will send you the certificate of immortality

thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others.

That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?

Go on - spill

50m Breaststroke for starters

thats mins not metres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!!

well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"

lol - will send you the certificate of immortality

thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others.

That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?

Go on - spill

Wot u guts?? or ya beans?

which is best? lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I refuse to die. This is a courtesy to those who would otherwise be traumatised by having to delve through my porn collection....

But then I'm a giver...

Actually - you have a point there - lets just all declare ourselves immortal

how do i do that then?

Some of us need no certification

You re in!!

well thank you, it avoids the greatest insult of all "is it in"

lol - will send you the certificate of immortality

thank you yet again. i'll put it with the others.

That will be a new thread then - what certificates and what you had to do to gain them?

Go on - spill

50m Breaststroke for starters

thats mins not metres

You are just sooooo in the zone

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