FabSwingers.com forum: is it time to walk away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

been dating a guy (hence dating aswell as swinging...

now after a year he tells me he not ready to commit...

always leaves me when we go to clubs...

is it time to kick this guy to the kerb...

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

yes, it doesn't like you want the same things.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been dating a guy (hence dating aswell as swinging...

now after a year he tells me he not ready to commit...

always leaves me when we go to clubs...

is it time to kick this guy to the kerb..."

Only you can decide on that one. Weigh up the pro's and cons and make a decision upon that.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

Depends what you want out of life hun

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

yes should never leave your side till you request it,

hes blind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"been dating a guy (hence dating aswell as swinging...

now after a year he tells me he not ready to commit...

always leaves me when we go to clubs...

is it time to kick this guy to the kerb..."

I'm surprised you haven't already if you both understood you were dating and not just swinging as playmates. xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here."
thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him...

all i get is "i thought we having fun"...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here.thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him...

all i get is "i thought we having fun"..."

You are still asking members to discuss another member (your profile partner) and to be honest it's pretty much naming and shaming.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here.thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him...

all i get is "i thought we having fun"..."

thats a pretty detailed response from a bloke

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"As you have a couple's profile.... I don't think it is appropriate for you to ask here.thanks for that but i have already discussed it with him...

all i get is "i thought we having fun"...

You are still asking members to discuss another member (your profile partner) and to be honest it's pretty much naming and shaming."
oh yes, i forgot bout that..oops...suppose its time to close the thread...

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By *eritageMan
over a year ago

weston super mare

sounds like you want different things,

perhaps could sit and discuss what you both want and meet in the middle for now see what happens befor making rash discisions

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact that you are asking the question should tell you what the answer is without anyone else commenting on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the sex is good, keep him as a playmate, as in one of many!

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

"If the sex is good, keep him as a playmate, as in one of many!

i like your answer - esp as it seems it was only for the sex anyway - cos any man that left me at clubs would not be any more than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The fact that you are asking the question should tell you what the answer is without anyone else commenting on it."

My thoughts exactly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one could reach a decision on the little information you give.

I don't see why he should commit.

I don't see anything wrong with him leaving you in clubs.

When you ask him about it he says 'but we are having fun?'

All I can summise is that both of you have NEVER sat down and said what you want from your 'relationship' for want of a better word. You did say dating which ; however you feel about him is NOT engaged or committed in any other way?

Have you said - We are dating. We are a couple. We should commit to each other. When we go out we stick together?

I'm imagining the blokes version of this ...

We've been seeing each other for months for fun and now she thinks we are engaged.

We go to swingers clubs to meet others and she won't swing on her own.

I like seeing her but I might as well be married. etc etc etc .......

I don't think it's time for you to cut and run yet.

I DO think you should think about what you want. Sit and talk with him. If you both agree - stick together. If you want diff things.... split.

xx Gran xx

P.S. If i was at a club with a bloke and he left me - I wouldn't go with him again. He'd be no bloody use would he.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No one could reach a decision on the little information you give.

I don't see why he should commit.

I don't see anything wrong with him leaving you in clubs.

When you ask him about it he says 'but we are having fun?'

Have you said - We are dating. We are a couple. We should commit to each other. When we go out we stick together?

I'm imagining the blokes version of this ...

We've been seeing each other for months for fun and now she thinks we are engaged.

We go to swingers clubs to meet others and she won't swing on her own.

I like seeing her but I might as well be married. etc etc etc .......

I don't think it's time for you to cut and run yet.

I DO think you should think about what you want. Sit and talk with him. If you both agree - stick together. If you want diff things.... split.

xx Gran xx

P.S. If i was at a club with a bloke and he left me - I wouldn't go with him again. He'd be no bloody use would he.

"
thanks for your wise words...

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

did you agree what you both wanted out of the relationship before you entered into it? if not, either sort it now or move on.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place

"No one could reach a decision on the little information you give.

I don't see why he should commit.

I don't see anything wrong with him leaving you in clubs.

When you ask him about it he says 'but we are having fun?'

Have you said - We are dating. We are a couple. We should commit to each other. When we go out we stick together?

I'm imagining the blokes version of this ...

We've been seeing each other for months for fun and now she thinks we are engaged.

We go to swingers clubs to meet others and she won't swing on her own.

I like seeing her but I might as well be married. etc etc etc .......

I don't think it's time for you to cut and run yet.

I DO think you should think about what you want. Sit and talk with him. If you both agree - stick together. If you want diff things.... split.

xx Gran xx

P.S. If i was at a club with a bloke and he left me - I wouldn't go with him again. He'd be no bloody use would he.

good post.....I agree with what gran said 100%

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Well if I was a guy 'dating' a woman and found a thread like this (started using our couple's profile) ... you wouldn't be left with a decision to make about whether to walk away or not.

And I seriously can't believe this is being allowed to run.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

She is asking advice in her relationship.....lots of people ask advice about their other halves.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"She is asking advice in her relationship.....lots of people ask advice about their other halves."

i was just thinking.nice stockings rugby.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ty saucy

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"Ty saucy

Yeah nice stockings ruby he says in a deep manley voice lol xx(guess who)xx

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

lol hello little man...........with the deep manly voice but now with boobs too

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"lol hello little man...........with the deep manly voice but now with boobs too

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Are you at Chezzas or she at yours?

~~nosey

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow

"lol hello little man...........with the deep manly voice but now with boobs too

if yous two want to get it on.i can wait.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

"Are you at Chezzas or she at yours?

~~nosey"

Yeah ya are alnt ya lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well if I was a guy 'dating' a woman and found a thread like this (started using our couple's profile) ... you wouldn't be left with a decision to make about whether to walk away or not.

And I seriously can't believe this is being allowed to run."

I agree with you on that score polo and did when you mentioned it before.

Im imagining being a couple and my other half discussing me in public and the 'public' aware of who I am

I'd be gone too ..... or at least peeling myself of the ceiling.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what your heart tells you but any doubt get rid don't waste another year to get your heart broken hun,

Tez xxx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

time to walk away?

not on your nellie it's not

love Rafa

PS you'll never walk alone when u have £6 in the back pocket

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

to everyone thats commented on this thread...thanks for your advice(hence the word advice)

the person mentioned does know about the thread and if he was bothered he could report me...lol...

but you will all be pleased to know we have reached a decision...

xxx

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"to everyone thats commented on this thread...thanks for your advice(hence the word advice)

the person mentioned does know about the thread and if he was bothered he could report me...lol...

but you will all be pleased to know we have reached a decision...

xxx"

which is?...common.... spill

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"to everyone thats commented on this thread...thanks for your advice(hence the word advice)

the person mentioned does know about the thread and if he was bothered he could report me...lol...

but you will all be pleased to know we have reached a decision...

xxx"

Glad to be of ( cough ) assistance.

So , ure gonna mug Rafa are you.

Seriously, even i await with baited breath.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah "just walk away,,walk away ,,walk away" as in the song..

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By *uss PussWoman
over a year ago

east cheshire

"Yeah "just walk away,,walk away ,,walk away" as in the song..

that was out of tune

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yeah "just walk away,,walk away ,,walk away" as in the song..

that was out of tune

Who do u think ur BGT Judge? lol

how do u know its out of tune how can u tell???

its a pc !! its a pc! u miles away anyway! lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Hello , Hello

Was you thinking of Rene?

As in "walk away Rene"

Not him from Rene and Renato, god forbid. And bless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No that song by that group from the 90s! lol

And ure RENE charater i was thinking same as u -ELLO ELLO,,

arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrg RENE!!!!

lets make passionate love!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Walk Away - by Cast?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tHATS the one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets just say it not "stand by your man." lol...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)...

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

lets make passionate love!

Thort you'd never ask

was hoping actually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lets make passionate love!

Thort you'd never ask

was hoping actually."

er YUK! no thanks!

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)..."

good for you

once a pussylover , always a pussylover

nice avatar too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)...

good for you

once a pussylover , always a pussylover

nice avatar too"

cheers my old taeta!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)..."

Cor! His loss chuck .... xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oops ......sorry male half . quite forgot you were here......

Uhmmm congrats on your newfound independence

xxx

cough ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"as you might have guessed this is now my single profile....(formely known as pussylovers)...

good for you

once a pussylover , always a pussylover

nice avatar too

cheers my old taeta!

Why do you always assume comments are aimed at you?!!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

Ok looks like this is all sorted.

Good luck to both parties, but I will shut this.

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