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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Are they still your kids or your mates ?. Im out with my lad having a few pints playing pool generally having a laff. Hes no longer my son he has my back an I his hes my best mate. Is this normal or is everyone like this with there grown up kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm the same with both my son & daughter. You're still their parent but they are also adults. Glad to hear you have such a great relationship with your son. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lost my dad 7 years ago but I always said I didn't just lose my dad I lost my best mate too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope I have a strong friendship with my son when he is grown up. Whatever happens though I'll remain his Dad

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I have a lovely relationship with my daughter and we get up to all sorts when I visit her. But I'm still her mummy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I remember my daughter falling out with 1 of her friends when she was13. They were discussing best friends, my daughter told her " my mum will always be my bestest friend". Her friend felt a bit put out. They are still friends & although I'm her mum & she has just become a mum, nothing has changed. I'm still her best friend. Even to the point when she had her baby & asked me to be with them she introduced me to the midwife as" this is Lynne, my mum & best friend" xx

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies "

How old are your kids ? My lad stopped being a baby when he could put me on my arse lmao

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies

How old are your kids ? My lad stopped being a baby when he could put me on my arse lmao"

My mum still calls me and my sister her babies and we are 34 & 29!

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"I remember my daughter falling out with 1 of her friends when she was13. They were discussing best friends, my daughter told her " my mum will always be my bestest friend". Her friend felt a bit put out. They are still friends & although I'm her mum & she has just become a mum, nothing has changed. I'm still her best friend. Even to the point when she had her baby & asked me to be with them she introduced me to the midwife as" this is Lynne, my mum & best friend" xx"

Awwww ya big softie.... im a gramps to but sadly because of my lads ex gf im only just starting to see him hes almost 3 now. Makes my blood boil wjen I think what iv missed an for nothing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies

How old are your kids ? My lad stopped being a baby when he could put me on my arse lmao

My mum still calls me and my sister her babies and we are 34 & 29! "

I think that's a mum thing. As a man I didn't give birth to my son, so perhaps that's why I dont see him that way even now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both our boys are like mates to me, but I still have to put them right at times. They both still live at home, although they have both left to live with their girlfriends on two occasions. They're 25 and 28

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Both our boys are like mates to me, but I still have to put them right at times. They both still live at home, although they have both left to live with their girlfriends on two occasions. They're 25 and 28 "

Mines 27 I no I no I dont look that old do I

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I take it all back hes a bad bad man im pished

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son thinks he's my dad sometimes

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

My own dad was a compleat tosser. Least I got it right

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids are my mates, however they know who is boss, and their mother.

Her

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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago

from a town near you

im not best mates with my kids,im still their Mum and I like it that way,i have a best mate and she knows everything about me,i don't want my kids to know everything

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By *ire_blade OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"im not best mates with my kids,im still their Mum and I like it that way,i have a best mate and she knows everything about me,i don't want my kids to know everything"

I don't think there's anything my lad doesn't no about me. When me an his mum split 13/14 yrs ago she made a point of telling him all the bad things I used to do when I was young as my past is of a colourful side but it is however past but rather than turn him against me it made me a hero in his eyes an although im far from proud of my youth I decided he would at least no the fact. so I leveled with him an it just carried on from there. Now hes the same with me theres nothing we need hide an I love it like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My kids will always be my kids, even though they are grown up and we are close, I'll never see them as a mate they are my babies "

This

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