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"Yep it is and being honest if it was my daughter I would rather she was under my roof with him than anywhere else. " so ya could steal him!?-disgusting! JK for u next! | |||
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"Dont think there is a law to dictate the legal age for dating.. heck my first bf was 12 lol" Lol I guess we are all just assuming they are sleeping together | |||
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"Dont think there is a law to dictate the legal age for dating.. heck my first bf was 12 lol" That sounds so wrong Giles | |||
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"met my hubby when i was 17, didnt elvis start dating pricila when she was 15?" I'm pretty sure Jerry Lee Lewis married his cousin at 13, not sure social services would be OK with that these days though... | |||
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"met my hubby when i was 17, didnt elvis start dating pricila when she was 15?" Well if Elvis did it that's OK then lol | |||
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"Dont think there is a law to dictate the legal age for dating.. heck my first bf was 12 lol That sounds so wrong Giles " Oh that does sound wrong lol.. we were the same age | |||
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"Kate was 17 when we met,I was 24. Both my parents and her parents were against our relationship. It's nearly 34yrs this year " I was 18 & my ex hubby was nearly 27, we managed 15 years | |||
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"if the guy is 25 he is still a young man, not like some dirty old man. when my hubby met me i was 17 but he thought i was in my twenties, i acted older because the rest of my family were much older than me." Awch | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal?" what does the mothers relationship status have to do with the question and what bloody business is it off yours ? | |||
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"No, it's completely illegal and we should send a mob with pitchforks to his house immediately to drive him out if town or string him up. Signed Sheriff Buford T Justice" He'd fry their asses in molasses | |||
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"it's only an 8 year age gap. Add 10 years to each of them and noone would bat an eyelid" The eight years as a proportion of life lived is where the concern comes in. It means nothing about maturity and how people feel though. | |||
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"it's only an 8 year age gap. Add 10 years to each of them and noone would bat an eyelid The eight years as a proportion of life lived is where the concern comes in. It means nothing about maturity and how people feel though. " and its legal which was the original question | |||
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"No, it's completely illegal and we should send a mob with pitchforks to his house immediately to drive him out if town or string him up. Signed Sheriff Buford T Justice" I saw this in a film once.. All because the locals saw strange lights and goings on at night up at the Baron`s house .. | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal?" Would it make a difference if she were 18 and him 26? | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal?" You are not clear on what you mean by 'stay' so i'll assume you mean he visits their house and stays until the next morning. You are not clear whether the male and the daughter are in a sexual relationship but for the sake of this thread i'll assume they are or that it is sex that you are concerned about. You ask if it is legal. Yes. | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal? Would it make a difference if she were 18 and him 26?" Of course. She'd be able to vote. | |||
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"Of course it's legal and 17 isn't young in today's society it wouldn't really raise a eyebrow with me, if he was some 40 plus guy I'd be thinking dirty old sod " Or lucky old sod :D | |||
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"Yep it is and being honest if it was my daughter I would rather she was under my roof with him than anywhere else. " | |||
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"They could get married in scotland" Every cloud and all that. | |||
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"the only reason I mentioned that the mother was a single parent was that she spends a lot of time away with her partner and don't really seem bothered." If she's not really bothered it may be because she knows the two of them really well, and that there is nothing to worry about. In ages gone by she would have been married and had a few kids by now! And is more of a relaxing influence, and people will get and experiment with it, regardless of whether dating. | |||
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"Yep it is and being honest if it was my daughter I would rather she was under my roof with him than anywhere else. " Same here.....ruby | |||
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"Thanks for the response guys, I do know the age of consent is 16 but I'm sure certain laws were changed recently so this has been cleared up" I don't understand this. What do you mean? | |||
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"At 17 she is over the legal age of consent so it's legal. Unless she is registered with a mental health issue in which case it would be for her parents to protect her. " I dont think it sound like she has major learning disabilities... | |||
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"Thanks for the response guys, I do know the age of consent is 16 but I'm sure certain laws were changed recently so this has been cleared up I don't understand this. What do you mean?" yea teachers cant fuck anyone under 18 that they are teaching. | |||
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"Thanks for the response guys, I do know the age of consent is 16 but I'm sure certain laws were changed recently so this has been cleared up I don't understand this. What do you mean? yea teachers cant fuck anyone under 18 that they are teaching. " Is the 25 yr old the girl's teacher then? | |||
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"My daughter is almost fifteen but she is very tall and looks about 18. She is pretty mature and doesn't really have an interest in boys her own age, or boys older than her. When she is ready to date, I think she may go for someone older than herself, but if he hurts her, her dad will do for him and bury him in the garden!" Is your OH Tony Soprano | |||
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"How can you not know that the age of consent is 16? " Not if your in a position of trust it's not. | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. " But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! | |||
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"How can you not know that the age of consent is 16? Not if your in a position of trust it's not." You haven't answered. Is the 25 yr old the girl's teacher? You hadn't mentioned that so I'm confused about why it's coming up now? | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! " But you're not a 25 year old | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old " Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally. | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally." That's your personal choice. Your moral standpoint isn't the only one or the "one true way". There may well be things you do that he wouldn't. We're all different. It makes life interesting. You're happy, as has been pointed out, to fuck women 11 years younger than you. He's happy to date, (we don't know they are having sex), someone 8 years younger than him. They're both happy, it seems. You aren't the young woman's parent. You aren't either of the people involved. It's not illegal in any way. I'd say you should probably mind your own business, to be frank. | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally. That's your personal choice. Your moral standpoint isn't the only one or the "one true way". There may well be things you do that he wouldn't. We're all different. It makes life interesting. You're happy, as has been pointed out, to fuck women 11 years younger than you. He's happy to date, (we don't know they are having sex), someone 8 years younger than him. They're both happy, it seems. You aren't the young woman's parent. You aren't either of the people involved. It's not illegal in any way. I'd say you should probably mind your own business, to be frank." Bit harsh as the OP was asking ( for enlightenment ) if it was legal not if she was being a nosy busybody. | |||
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"My mum started dating my dad when she was 13 and he was 18. Wrong in your eyes OP? They've been married for 46 years. Sometimes age gaps work." Well maybe not back then. But would be considered wrong now | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally." Yeah it's not right | |||
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"I am 62 m'y Wife is 51 thats à bigger age gap.have we been wrong all These years?lol" You are both mature individuals so it is fine. 11 and 22 is same age gap but completely wrong isn't it? | |||
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"Yep it is and being honest if it was my daughter I would rather she was under my roof with him than anywhere else. " This I have two now grown up daughters. I think if they are going to Have sex anyway... Where there's a will there's always a way, at 17 she is definately legal. So I'd rather at least although, not perhaps being best pleased keep an eye on them. Rather than them shagging in some back Alley or park. Prob been already said but, too lazy to read the whole thread, | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally." I was seeing a 17 year old when I was 26, met him on a night out and thought he was older. Guessed he was about 22, didn't find out how old he was for a few weeks, by the time I did we were getting on so well I didn't care. 4 years we were together x | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal?" To clear up the ambiguity....are they having sex?...this would help a lot of bad judgement calls, as a lot of assumptions being posted the forum. | |||
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"It's legal. If it wasn't I would have thought her parents wouldn't have allowed it" Lots of parents dont care if its legal or not. | |||
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"Legal but frowned upon " Only frowned upon be some not all. | |||
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"Even if they are having sex its still not illegal UNLESS he a Duty of care ie teacher or carer etc then its totaly legal " TBH as it's not the OP's child and initially the post gave a half story I doubt any reply would give the answer as we only have a " friend of a friend " type thing, we don't know the full story - we don't know if an educator or care taker is involved...if the post had said either were then I would have replied otherwise, so I appreciate your stessing the of duty of care. | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally. That's your personal choice. Your moral standpoint isn't the only one or the "one true way". There may well be things you do that he wouldn't. We're all different. It makes life interesting. You're happy, as has been pointed out, to fuck women 11 years younger than you. He's happy to date, (we don't know they are having sex), someone 8 years younger than him. They're both happy, it seems. You aren't the young woman's parent. You aren't either of the people involved. It's not illegal in any way. I'd say you should probably mind your own business, to be frank. Bit harsh as the OP was asking ( for enlightenment ) if it was legal not if she was being a nosy busybody. " To begin with, yes but they've since said they know the age of consent is 16. And since then it's moved on to "I don't agree with...", "I wouldn't. .." and "I would...". The original question had been answered by then so that was obviously taking the thread in a new and judgemental direction. | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally. That's your personal choice. Your moral standpoint isn't the only one or the "one true way". There may well be things you do that he wouldn't. We're all different. It makes life interesting. You're happy, as has been pointed out, to fuck women 11 years younger than you. He's happy to date, (we don't know they are having sex), someone 8 years younger than him. They're both happy, it seems. You aren't the young woman's parent. You aren't either of the people involved. It's not illegal in any way. I'd say you should probably mind your own business, to be frank. Bit harsh as the OP was asking ( for enlightenment ) if it was legal not if she was being a nosy busybody. To begin with, yes but they've since said they know the age of consent is 16. And since then it's moved on to "I don't agree with...", "I wouldn't. .." and "I would...". The original question had been answered by then so that was obviously taking the thread in a new and judgemental direction." Yes I agree. my apology, a lot of replies took a long time to load on my browser and I missed them before replying to you, yes it has become very judgemental I agree as we haven't had the full story - unless I missed an update from OP, I keep scrolling to find out if it was a sexual "thing" btw why does Windows keep using American blooming spelling for judgemental? grr lol | |||
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"Well you are 36 and happy to meet people from 25 which is 11 years younger than you. A Just saying. But I wouldn't meet a 16/17 year old! But you're not a 25 year old Even if I was 25 I wouldn't date a 16/17 year old. I would feel ashamed personally. That's your personal choice. Your moral standpoint isn't the only one or the "one true way". There may well be things you do that he wouldn't. We're all different. It makes life interesting. You're happy, as has been pointed out, to fuck women 11 years younger than you. He's happy to date, (we don't know they are having sex), someone 8 years younger than him. They're both happy, it seems. You aren't the young woman's parent. You aren't either of the people involved. It's not illegal in any way. I'd say you should probably mind your own business, to be frank. Bit harsh as the OP was asking ( for enlightenment ) if it was legal not if she was being a nosy busybody. To begin with, yes but they've since said they know the age of consent is 16. And since then it's moved on to "I don't agree with...", "I wouldn't. .." and "I would...". The original question had been answered by then so that was obviously taking the thread in a new and judgemental direction. Yes I agree. my apology, a lot of replies took a long time to load on my browser and I missed them before replying to you, yes it has become very judgemental I agree as we haven't had the full story - unless I missed an update from OP, I keep scrolling to find out if it was a sexual "thing" btw why does Windows keep using American blooming spelling for judgemental? grr lol" No problem. The OP has been very vague on a number of points. I don't think they know if it's a sexual relationship, and why would they? It's a personal thing between the two people involved. And the comments about adults in positions of responsibility seem totally irrelevant, based on everything said so far. My 'phone defaults to all sorts of random spellings and words. The joys of auto-correct | |||
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"FFS only asked a simple question and got my answer! Personally I wouldn't allow it under my roof. But I guess it all comes down to what kind of parent you are! I don't think most decent fathers would agree with it. But each to there own." Never see the point in this kind of statement. Surely nobody on here can in any way judge what kind of father the person is in question, or the daughter, or her partner. It just leads to lots of ignorant twaddle based on actually nothing. And why end it with 'each to their own' when that's clearly not what you believe? At least have the substance to stand by your opinion. | |||
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"FFS only asked a simple question and got my answer! Personally I wouldn't allow it under my roof. But I guess it all comes down to what kind of parent you are! I don't think most decent fathers would agree with it. But each to there own." i think you are probably right. | |||
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"Although having read the original question there's no mention of a father - just a single mother?!" Dads are usualy more strict with their daughters though. | |||
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"Legal but frowned upon " Not by everyone. | |||
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"Legal but frowned upon Not by everyone." Definitely not by me I did used to get some funny looks though x | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal?" Seriously? Of course it's legal! | |||
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"Legal but frowned upon Not by everyone. " Lets just give a smile to the responsible parent who is smart enough to know you can't order a 17 year old about, and it's better to give safe space than force them to use the back seat of the car in some dodgy layby frequented by doggers | |||
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"Yep it is and being honest if it was my daughter I would rather she was under my roof with him than anywhere else. " . I was going to say the same as you. | |||
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"Legal but frowned upon Not by everyone. Lets just give a smile to the responsible parent who is smart enough to know you can't order a 17 year old about, and it's better to give safe space than force them to use the back seat of the car in some dodgy layby frequented by doggers " Oh but it's so much more fun to rant, moan and be hysterical - don't be all rational | |||
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"It's disgusting , the world has gone Mad , I Was saying the very same thing to my sister in bed this morning ??????????" That sounds interesting. | |||
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"It's disgusting , the world has gone Mad , I Was saying the very same thing to my sister in bed this morning ?????????? That sounds interesting. " YEs it sounds like some role play lol. | |||
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"It's disgusting , the world has gone Mad , I Was saying the very same thing to my sister in bed this morning ?????????? That sounds interesting. YEs it sounds like some role play lol." | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal?" Completely legal. She is old enough for consensual sex, and marriage, under British law. | |||
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"met my hubby when i was 17, didnt elvis start dating pricila when she was 15? I'm pretty sure Jerry Lee Lewis married his cousin at 13, not sure social services would be OK with that these days though..." Was legal in Missouri .... But not in other states or when he brought her to uk. | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal?" It's legal yeah is bit of age gap but so what if he treats her well not anyone else's business or up to them to judge | |||
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"A person who we know (single mother) is allowing a 25 year old male to stay with her daughter, to us this seems bad! Just wanted to know if this is legal? It's legal yeah is bit of age gap but so what if he treats her well not anyone else's business or up to them to judge " The most sensible thing i have read on here so far! | |||
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"I have a young daughter, when she is 17 I do not want her going out with a lad who just wants her for sex, unfortunately that means she would be better off with an older man. I know what 17 year old boys are like, i used to be one myself." It'll be ok when she's 18 to have casual sex though? | |||
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"I have a young daughter, when she is 17 I do not want her going out with a lad who just wants her for sex, unfortunately that means she would be better off with an older man. I know what 17 year old boys are like, i used to be one myself. It'll be ok when she's 18 to have casual sex though?" No what i am saying is that when my daughter is 17, or 18 for that matter, she is more likely to find a man who will treat her right if she is with an older man. Trust me on this one ok. I know what 17/18 year olds are like i was that age myself once. | |||
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"I have a young daughter, when she is 17 I do not want her going out with a lad who just wants her for sex, unfortunately that means she would be better off with an older man. I know what 17 year old boys are like, iused to be one myself. It'll be ok when she's 18 to have casual sex though?" Any how we're not talking about casual sex, we're talking about age gap relationships | |||
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"I have a young daughter, when she is 17 I do not want her going out with a lad who just wants her for sex, unfortunately that means she would be better off with an older man. I know what 17 year old boys are like, i used to be one myself. It'll be ok when she's 18 to have casual sex though? No what i am saying is that when my daughter is 17, or 18 for that matter, she is more likely to find a man who will treat her right if she is with an older man. Trust me on this one ok. I know what 17/18 year olds are like i was that age myself once. " But you're happy to have casual sex with an 18 year old yourself | |||
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"What is most shocking is that some don't know what the age of consent is in the UK. " No one waits till there 17 to have sex anyway. | |||
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"young women, females or girls are by and large more mature than lads, boys, young men of the same age.. for most 17 yr old young women their opposite 17 yr old male is a giggling child when they want to be 'grown up' and treated like women.. " Exactly!! Age and maturity are so misaligned between the genders. A young woman reaches full maturity, in terms of brain development, between 21 and 22 years of age. A young man does not reach full maturity, in terms of brain development, until nearly 30 years of age. So a 17 year old female and a 25 year old male are probably around the same maturity levels!! As long as he's treating her right it's no ones business than there's and it's completely legal | |||
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"I have a young daughter, when she is 17 I do not want her going out with a lad who just wants her for sex, unfortunately that means she would be better off with an older man. I know what 17 year old boys are like, i used to be one myself. It'll be ok when she's 18 to have casual sex though? No what i am saying is that when my daughter is 17, or 18 for that matter, she is more likely to find a man who will treat her right if she is with an older man. Trust me on this one ok. I know what 17/18 year olds are like i was that age myself once. But you're happy to have casual sex with an 18 year old yourself" If a 18 year old girl wants to have sex with me and I want to have sex with her then that us between me and her and non of anyone else business, its not illegal | |||
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"I have a young daughter, when she is 17 I do not want her going out with a lad who just wants her for sex, unfortunately that means she would be better off with an older man. I know what 17 year old boys are like, i used to be one myself. It'll be ok when she's 18 to have casual sex though? No what i am saying is that when my daughter is 17, or 18 for that matter, she is more likely to find a man who will treat her right if she is with an older man. Trust me on this one ok. I know what 17/18 year olds are like i was that age myself once. But you're happy to have casual sex with an 18 year old yourself If a 18 year old girl wants to have sex with me and I want to have sex with her then that us between me and her and non of anyone else business, its not illegal " I never suggested it was. I would have thought however that you might have the same respect for your daughter to make a judgement about her choice of future sexual partners and activities in the same way you are happy for girls of 18 to with you (or not). | |||
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"I have a young daughter, when she is 17 I do not want her going out with a lad who just wants her for sex, unfortunately that means she would be better off with an older man. I know what 17 year old boys are like, i used to be one myself. It'll be ok when she's 18 to have casual sex though? Again the question was about a weather it is right for a 17 year old girl to go out with a 25 year old man, it was not about casual sex. No what i am saying is that when my daughter is 17, or 18 for that matter, she is more likely to find a man who will treat her right if she is with an older man. Trust me on this one ok. I know what 17/18 year olds are like i was that age myself once. But you're happy to have casual sex with an 18 year old yourself If a 18 year old girl wants to have sex with me and I want to have sex with her then that us between me and her and non of anyone else business, its not illegal " | |||
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"As legal as it is for him to fuck her at 16 it is actually deemed illegal for him to posses explicit images of her until she is 18." Crazy but true | |||
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