FabSwingers.com forum: Nerves!!!!

By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

So as you all know it's the big party this time next week... So now the nerves are setting in!! Meeting new people, looking ok, not making a twat of myself, having a good time with my date for the night (although we have met before so not quite as terrified about this as I would be)

BUT.. I think the nerves is part of the fun. And if the last big social is anything to go by after about 5 minutes I'll be having a whale of a time!!

So do you still get nervous??

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I probably won't get nervous until the day. I have two meets to get through before Saturday anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll be nervous as it's our first big social gig. Always a tad shy in a new crowd even though we've exchanged plenty of banter/flirts with quite a few of the attendees. Hugely looking forward to seeing everyone.

The only downer is money's a bit tight so I can get my dinner suit look rocking

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

I'm used to making a twat of myself, it's a way of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is there a Party somewhere ?

Captain Twat

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I probably won't get nervous until the day. I have two meets to get through before Saturday anyway

I won't disclose when my last meet was! Let's just say we arranged it by telegram

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"I probably won't get nervous until the day. I have two meets to get through before Saturday anyway

I won't disclose when my last meet was! Let's just say we arranged it by telegram

Awww. Better than smoke signals though!

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Is there a Party somewhere ?

Captain Twat

There's is indeed!! You coming?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm not nervous about the social, as I rub along ok wherever I am, mostly due to being a happily oblivious nincompoop. I am a bit nervous about doing a comedy routine in front of 200 people, though, but I'm sure I'll be fine once I start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a Party somewhere ?

Captain Twat

There's is indeed!! You coming?

If i get Lucky

Gimp

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"I'm not nervous about the social, as I rub along ok wherever I am, mostly due to being a happily oblivious nincompoop. I am a bit nervous about doing a comedy routine in front of 200 people, though, but I'm sure I'll be fine once I start.

I'm well excited about this!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't generally get nerves before meets but have put my name down for social and admit to being nervous about attending, not done one before but as with all things there has to be a first time and nothing ventured .........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nerves are part of the fun gets the adrenalin pumping around the body.

What I need to curb is my tendency to talk to much when I meet people for the 1st time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gutted the timing was off else id have loved to attend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll smash it for sure.

From our messages I think your life is one long comedy routine, better than any TV show xx

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Nerves are part of the fun gets the adrenalin pumping around the body.

What I need to curb is my tendency to talk to much when I meet people for the 1st time!"

Hahahha!! I can relate to that! X

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Nerves are part of the fun gets the adrenalin pumping around the body.

What I need to curb is my tendency to talk to much when I meet people for the 1st time!"

I've heard that said before

A spare pair of knickers usually comes in handy for those situations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww gutted I can't make it now, really wanted to see you doing your routine.

as for nerves I feel like throwing up backstage but once I'm performing I'm okay...it's the waiting I don't like.

You'll be fab x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always joke at socials that I'm wary of people taking issue with me about forum posts... As ever, the list has must meets, hopefully meet, general indifference and a few avoid at all costs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

awww gutted I can't make it now, really wanted to see you doing your routine.

as for nerves I feel like throwing up backstage but once I'm performing I'm okay...it's the waiting I don't like.

You'll be fab x"

I have a few backstage rituals that I always carry out before a gig, the main one being annoying the crap out of the sound guy with an overly loud amp and specific things coming through my monitor. If he looks seriously pissed I know everything is gonna go fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i just request you all take pics in your outfits and masks.. just cos i think your all gonna look ace and im nosey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always joke at socials that I'm wary of people taking issue with me about forum posts..."

You and me both!...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't wait! Am totally cacking myself though! First forum social, going as a single, I must be mad! Bring it on!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

eBay pops. Mine was a fiver and arrived within a week x

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

There ya go Lou and cheeky you're not the only ones going as a single..

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"I'm nervous about getting d*unk and falling asleep at the table again....lol keeps the vodka under lock and key...I'm nervous about going on me own as I don't have a date and sitting there with Billy no mates

You can always sit with me and Wyrd...another one for the coven is always welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're the only one going I've met before! I'll have a drink with you! Be good to catch up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cheeky n dangerously you could go together

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

You're the only one going I've met before! I'll have a drink with you! Be good to catch up!

Cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How are the bites on your bum now then Hottie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a great time guys. So wanted to attend but moving house next weekend.

Going to the venue tonight though xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

You need a mask pops! Have a look in the works if you have one close to you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm also nervous that people will foolishly make the assumption that I will remember their names just because I've met them before...

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"How are the bites on your bum now then Hottie?

No new ones. They must still be full up from the night before x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the nerves, definitely adds to the whole experience x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a mask pops! "

That's a bit harsh!

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

You need a mask pops!

That's a bit harsh!

Hahahha!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a mask pops!

That's a bit harsh!

...may just have to follow Lucy around and get her to grope my beard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not nervous about meeting new people,

I am a tad nervous though, as I want you all to have a fun packed night with lots of laughs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a mask pops!

That's a bit harsh!

...may just have to follow Lucy around and get her to grope my beard.

You can follow me around as much as you want pops!! You may fit under my dress

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I'm nervous because I have difficulty with faces and won't recognise anyone.

I'm also stressed about what to wear, money being short and having to pack, (I hate packing for anything, even just an overnight stay. It usually leads to a near breakdown).

Otherwise I'm fine. People can take me or leave me and if I'm not having a good time I can leave, so I'm not worried about it.

I'm looking forward to meeting a few people for the first time and to seeing some people again.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I've had such a shit week this week, the social can only be an improvement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

Get creative pops and make one - cornflakes box, scissors, glue, glitter, felt tips and a bit of elastic and you're sorted - and unique!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a mask pops!

That's a bit harsh!

...may just have to follow Lucy around and get her to grope my beard.

You can follow me around as much as you want pops!! You may fit under my dress

Oh my.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

I've just ordered one on eBay, 3 quid, will be here Thursday at the latest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a mask pops!

That's a bit harsh!

...may just have to follow Lucy around and get her to grope my beard.

You can follow me around as much as you want pops!! You may fit under my dress

I know I won't fit.... but can I try!

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

Just make your own. I have.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23

My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)

Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

Just make your own. I have. "

Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

You can always sit with me and Wyrd...another one for the coven is always welcome

Yep. Come and cackle with us.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I'm not wearing heels so on the look out for some nice sandals

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

Just make your own. I have.

Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!"

But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not wearing heels so on the look out for some nice sandals

Primark have some really pretty flip flop type sandals atm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm also nervous that people will foolishly make the assumption that I will remember their names just because I've met them before...

Same here

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

Just make your own. I have.

Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!

But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole

Are you sure that's something you want to happen though?

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"I'm not wearing heels so on the look out for some nice sandals

Primark have some really pretty flip flop type sandals atm

I have a look after work this week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm nervous because I have difficulty with faces and won't recognise anyone.

I'm also stressed about what to wear, money being short and having to pack, (I hate packing for anything, even just an overnight stay. It usually leads to a near breakdown).

Otherwise I'm fine. People can take me or leave me and if I'm not having a good time I can leave, so I'm not worried about it.

I'm looking forward to meeting a few people for the first time and to seeing some people again."

Make a list of what you want to pack, takes the stress out of it as you can tick off things as they go in your bag.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are the guys wearing by the way? I've kind of put on a lot of weight lately.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

Just make your own. I have.

Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!

But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole

Are you sure that's something you want to happen though?"

Will it burn holes in my socks?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the guys wearing by the way? I've kind of put on a lot of weight lately.

Luke is wearing a tux! And I think lots of the men are coming booted and suited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the guys wearing by the way? I've kind of put on a lot of weight lately.

Luke is wearing a tux! And I think lots of the men are coming booted and suited "

Yes, I'll be dressed up. Well my own take on it. It's not a kilt and DM's night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the guys wearing by the way? I've kind of put on a lot of weight lately.

the cakes looked amazing though lol

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Nervous. But, then again i'm always a bit nervy in new surroundings and with new people.

I just don't have a mask sorted. May just be without.

Just make your own. I have.

Jason hockey masks and Mike Myers Hallowe'en masks are NOT. ALLOWED!

But they told me it gets you fizzing at the bung hole

Are you sure that's something you want to happen though?

Will it burn holes in my socks?"

Quite possibly

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

There is a fine line, if any, between nerves and excitement - most of it is interpretation. Nervousness can be calmed in may ways, largely I think the best are doing those things that relax you. Yoga, meditation etc are excellent, though you can gain similar benefits from good relaxation and healthy breathing exercises. Plenty of slower, deeper breathing, out count for twice as long as in breaths. Freeing your mind of any negative anxieties, such as imagining negative stuff happening - notice any thoughts arising, smile and stop them in their tracks. Ensure you focus on your strengths and qualities, and not the opposite. Do some exercise too, as you will be focusing on your exercise and not upcoming stuff. Eat well, avoid some caffeine if possible. And lots of rest and good sleep. Hope you have a fabulous time!

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I do

and you're right its part of the fun, the expectation of meeting new people. You'll be fine Hottie

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Currently I might be wearing a bed sheet and claiming I thought it was a toga party.

I need to dig through my wardrobe this weekend at some point and see if I have anything vaguely suitable I can fit into.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"There is a fine line, if any, between nerves and excitement - most of it is interpretation. Nervousness can be calmed in may ways, largely I think the best are doing those things that relax you. Yoga, meditation etc are excellent, though you can gain similar benefits from good relaxation and healthy breathing exercises. Plenty of slower, deeper breathing, out count for twice as long as in breaths. Freeing your mind of any negative anxieties, such as imagining negative stuff happening - notice any thoughts arising, smile and stop them in their tracks. Ensure you focus on your strengths and qualities, and not the opposite. Do some exercise too, as you will be focusing on your exercise and not upcoming stuff. Eat well, avoid some caffeine if possible. And lots of rest and good sleep. Hope you have a fabulous time! "

Avoiding Caffeine is impossible in my house. It's what keeps me alive x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I'm looking forward to meeting you

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.

It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I also apologise in advance. As I will be wearing a mask I will not be wearing my glasses, which means I won't be able to see you unless I get really close. (Really really close if you're a nice young man!)"

I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Well I'm looking forward to meeting you

Indeed

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.

It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken."

You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well I'm looking forward to meeting you

Indeed

Like-wise Bambi. You might be the only person I meet

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.

It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken.

You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum

What will you do if I'm not wearing any?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.

It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken.

You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum

What will you do if I'm not wearing any?

Get a smelly finger I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hahahaha

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.

It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken.

You'll remember me. I'll give you a clue by pulling your knickers out of your bum

What will you do if I'm not wearing any?

Get a smelly finger I guess

Put the burger down first, eh? I don't want to be explaining that one in A&E!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night "

Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night

Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly."

Borrow Ryan's cardboard, scissors and stuff and fashion one around your glasses. Make the glasses an integral part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night

Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly."

I guess I'm going to be looking silly

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

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I will have to wear my glasses otherwise I'll be blind all night

Wearing glasses under masks is impossible, and wearing glasses over masks just looks silly.

Borrow Ryan's cardboard, scissors and stuff and fashion one around your glasses. Make the glasses an integral part."

Now that's a thought

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

That's why I got a mask on a stick instead of a mask on elastic x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23

My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)

Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit

I'm not saying a word about what I have spent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23

My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)

Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit

I'm not saying a word about what I have spent

Oh blimey don't start adding up what you've spent...!!!

Just think of it as an investment ~ dress, heels & lingerie all can worn again on another night out ( with a different set of friends obvs! )

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23

My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)

Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit

I'm not saying a word about what I have spent

Oh blimey don't start adding up what you've spent...!!!

Just think of it as an investment ~ dress, heels & lingerie all can worn again on another night out ( with a different set of friends obvs! )

Exactly, and spent over a few months not that noticeable

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.

I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I apologise in advance that I probably won't recognise any of you and almost certainly won't be able to place you if I do.

It's not personal, my ability to remember and recognise faces is a bit broken."

You don't have to recognise anyone - we are wearing masks.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"My mask was £1.47 and new dress £23

My mask was £4 odd and my dress was a Tenner (which was alterations as I already had it)

Let's not start adding up the underwear or the shoes that's when it gets a bit

I'm not saying a word about what I have spent

Oh blimey don't start adding up what you've spent...!!!

Just think of it as an investment ~ dress, heels & lingerie all can worn again on another night out ( with a different set of friends obvs! )

Exactly, and spent over a few months not that noticeable

The last minute skirt I have just bought was only a fiver. There are sale bargains out there right now.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.

I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.

I'm not sure if she is

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.

I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.

I'm not sure if she is

She's still on the list.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I don't get nervous, in fact I'm almost freakishly confident!

So if there are any nervous nellies out there come to me and I'll hold your hand

(please note: offer only applies to fit, boy totty and reciprocity is expected

)

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Your best mate partner in crime is attending isn't she? As long as bags are not left behind and we keep poking you with a sharp stick all should be well.

I get nervous, but usually about finding the place and then settling into my look for the occasion. Once I am happy with me then the nerves disappear.

I'm not sure if she is

Maybe.

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over a year ago

"I don't get nervous, in fact I'm almost freakishly confident!

So if there are any nervous nellies out there come to me and I'll hold your hand

(please note: offer only applies to fit, boy totty and reciprocity is expected

Can I be an exception to the rule and get a hand hold? Pooping my pants! lol

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Can I be an exception to the rule and get a hand hold? Pooping my pants! lol

You can hold my hand if you recognise me with my mask on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I be an exception to the rule and get a hand hold? Pooping my pants! lol

You can hold my hand if you recognise me with my mask on

I'm sure you'll catch my eye somehow...

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over a year ago

"I don't get nervous, in fact I'm almost freakishly confident!

So if there are any nervous nellies out there come to me and I'll hold your hand

(please note: offer only applies to fit, boy totty and reciprocity is expected

Oh crap! Grrr

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Ok so now my problem isn't nerves it's my devil child who has decided sleep is for the week.

So if anyone was planning on bringing me a birthday present a can of red bull would be great

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over a year ago

"Ok so now my problem isn't nerves it's my devil child who has decided sleep is for the week.

So if anyone was planning on bringing me a birthday present a can of red bull would be great

You can nap on the journey up there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my first social this year, and was absolutely bricking it. Although I knew a few from the chat rooms it was very daunting. but the time it was nearly over I had settled down and started to enjoy it. More socials planned for this year!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get nervous every time, I think it adds to the excitement. When I stop getting nervous I will stop swinging

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

Don't you hate it when on the Saturday it's all 'this time next week

' then 24 hours later it's 'this time next week

' tiredness, prob slightly hungover and on my way home to a 3 year old who won't understand either!! Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keepin fingers crossed here that Mrs N's recent run of almost daily migraine attacks disappear sharpish. We've been looking forward to this for ages

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"Keepin fingers crossed here that Mrs N's recent run of almost daily migraine attacks disappear sharpish. We've been looking forward to this for ages

Fingers crossed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't decide on shoes now.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I can't decide on shoes now.

Carpet slippers, go for the relaxed look

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"I can't decide on shoes now.

Heels??

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I can't decide on shoes now.

You're worse than a woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I can't decide on shoes now.

You're worse than a woman

Black suede? Tan? Or dark brown?

Giz a helping hand.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"I can't decide on shoes now.

You're worse than a woman

Black suede? Tan? Or dark brown?

Giz a helping hand.

Are you going in a suit and black tie? If so none of them lol

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over a year ago

"I can't decide on shoes now.

You're worse than a woman

Black suede? Tan? Or dark brown?

Giz a helping hand.

I like dark brown shoes but it does depend on what you are wearing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok? "

Not sure on the clubs dress code re:jeans.. Let me check the website x

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?

Not sure on the clubs dress code re:jeans.. Let me check the website x "

It says 'we expect gents to be a smart as possible, trousers, shirt and a tie' so even if you don't wanna wear the full monty i would say no jeans x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok? "

Sorry no jeans allowed at this event

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problem

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok? "

You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.

Talking of garters...

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over a year ago

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?

You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.

Talking of garters..."

Lucy has a lovely new flogger that needs testing out!!

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over a year ago

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?

You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.

Talking of garters..."

I promise no jeans

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?

You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.

Talking of garters...

I promise no jeans

Opt for your Calvin's, a dickie and a mask. You'll fit right in.

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over a year ago

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?

You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.

Talking of garters...

I promise no jeans

Opt for your Calvin's, a dickie and a mask. You'll fit right in.

Oh I'll have my Calvins on. You can have a peek if you can find me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do I have to wear a suit?! Will smart jeans, shoes, shirt and tie be ok?

You'd better be nervous if you're wearing jeans. Lucy (and I) will have your guts for garters.

Talking of garters...

I promise no jeans

Opt for your Calvin's, a dickie and a mask. You'll fit right in.

Oh I'll have my Calvins on. You can have a peek if you can find me

I'll find you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope so.

I may need a name badge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am am just meet one time and my english is not very good is soo hard for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hope so.

I may need a name badge "

There isn't name badges, you will be given a few name cards to give out

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"Yes I am am just meet one time and my english is not very good is soo hard for me

The nerves will go and you'll enjoy yourselves.

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over a year ago

"I hope so.

I may need a name badge

There isn't name badges, you will be given a few name cards to give out

Oh that's great idea. I will certainly keep an eye out for you though

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over a year ago

"Yes I am am just meet one time and my english is not very good is soo hard for me

The nerves will go and you'll enjoy yourselves.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Yes I am am just meet one time and my english is not very good is soo hard for me

The nerves will go and you'll enjoy yourselves.

You're not on the list for the social you know that don't you? You never got back to me after you asked where the club was.

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

No nerves for me.... so far anyway..

Can't wait

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

Wear what you like to that one

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

And it's 2.30-6 xx

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

Wear what you like to that one

Thank fook for that

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

And it's 2.30-6 xx "

Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

And it's 2.30-6 xx

Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol

He's the chauffeur then? Good man!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

And it's 2.30-6 xx

Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol

He's the chauffeur then? Good man! "

I know lol driving Miss daisy and I'm bringing all my black and silver jewellery xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When does the main social start by the way? I need to start planning my trip up.

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over a year ago

"I hope so.

I may need a name badge

There isn't name badges, you will be given a few name cards to give out

Oh that's great idea. I will certainly keep an eye out for you though

You won't be able to miss me

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over a year ago

"When does the main social start by the way? I need to start planning my trip up.

8 pm pops

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By *issHottieBottie OP Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"When does the main social start by the way? I need to start planning my trip up.

Opens at 8 pops x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"When does the main social start by the way? I need to start planning my trip up.

4am pops

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

And it's 2.30-6 xx

Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol

He's the chauffeur then? Good man!

I know lol driving Miss daisy and I'm bringing all my black and silver jewellery xx "

Bring a cooler bag with your jewellery Miss Daisy, need to keep the beers on ice.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Are we allowed to wear jeans to the pre social social between 2 and 4pm? Did'nt really wanna put trousers on for that, was just going to go smart casual?

I'm sorted for the evening main social and there will be no jeans being worn then.

And it's 2.30-6 xx

Lol he will need a drink he is stuck with me for 2 hours lol

He's the chauffeur then? Good man!

I know lol driving Miss daisy and I'm bringing all my black and silver jewellery xx

Bring a cooler bag with your jewellery Miss Daisy, need to keep the beers on ice.

Yes Jeeves I can do that

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Gemma and I will be getting there not long after 9 all being well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's been suggest I go topless so people recognise me. I may be tempted after a while so look out for the tattoo x

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Yes I am am just meet one time and my english is not very good is soo hard for me

The nerves will go and you'll enjoy yourselves.

You're not on the list for the social you know that don't you? You never got back to me after you asked where the club was. "

I'm not on the list for the pre-social social either. I didn't know what to do because I don't know what time I'll be able to get there. I dithered and then forgot. Oops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im excited now iv got transport, hotel, outfit and mask sorted

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