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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right?

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By *prite128Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

an unconditional and genuine apology tha clearly demonstrates you've understood what you did wrong and the impact it had on the person.

i say unconditional as its up to the recipient as to whether they wish to accept the apology or not and i should also be big enough to accept the consequences of my actions, including them staying mad at me.

hard stuff

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Try and give an honest explanation about why you think it happened.

Acknowledge your part in it.

Express regret.

Hope to move on.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right? "

im quite lucky.ive never got to say sorry.because im always right.

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right? "

Sorry, i don't understand the question?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right?

im quite lucky.ive never got to say sorry.because im always right. "

Why am I so not surprised, Mr Saucy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right?

Sorry, i don't understand the question?"

Just for you lol - in the unlikely event you might have been wrong about somebody and upset them - how do you make up, put things right between you and the other person whom you may have inadvertently upset.

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By *aucy3Couple
over a year ago

glasgow


"is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right?

im quite lucky.ive never got to say sorry.because im always right.

Why am I so not surprised, Mr Saucy "

did the always right bit, give me away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hold my hands up,admit I was wrong and apologise.

No point in doing otherwise. R

XXXX

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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Talk it through, let both sides put their point across, discuss, hope that you both see where the other is coming from. Be gracious in making and/or accepting an apology. Works for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right?

im quite lucky.ive never got to say sorry.because im always right.

Why am I so not surprised, Mr Saucy

did the always right bit, give me away. "

Just a wee bit lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)

Some people don't have the balls to turn up to utter the word though. I always find that strange if a little amusing

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By *lumsy colinMan
over a year ago

basingstoke

i just blame a cat

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"is the hardest word they say

What do you do when you know you were wrong about something or somebody?

How do you put things right?

Sorry, i don't understand the question?

Just for you lol - in the unlikely event you might have been wrong about somebody and upset them - how do you make up, put things right between you and the other person whom you may have inadvertently upset."

Inadvertently? Mine are always full on.

Your question supposes the injured party knows?

In that case, as SDM said, be honest, admit it, sincere and full apology, possibly in writing too, and move on. If bridges are burnt, don't rebuild, build more.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

Some things run to deep and no matter what is said an apology no matter how heartfelt would never be accepted.

At that point let go and get on with your life

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, Mushroom and Petillante - you are really saying - sometimes it is simple best to move on rather than to rebuild?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

There again, there are circumstances where you are definitely in the wrong but no apology is due , or sought.

Sometimes life is just like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

Some things run to deep and no matter what is said an apology no matter how heartfelt would never be accepted.

At that point let go and get on with your life"

Funny thats what a lot of cheating partners say as well.

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

Some things run to deep and no matter what is said an apology no matter how heartfelt would never be accepted.

At that point let go and get on with your life"

yep your so right there ...its not worth worrying about

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"So, Mushroom and Petillante - you are really saying - sometimes it is simple best to move on rather than to rebuild?"

Not always no. Sometimes though the damage is done and no rebuilding is allowed.

And even with the benefit of hindsight, i reckon a number of the wrongs would still be done.

What is wrong to one party is not always wrong to another.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"So, Mushroom and Petillante - you are really saying - sometimes it is simple best to move on rather than to rebuild?"

Yes, no point living in the past, only makes you bitter and twisted

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

Some things run to deep and no matter what is said an apology no matter how heartfelt would never be accepted.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Funny thats what a lot of cheating partners say as well."

???

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life"

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

Some things run to deep and no matter what is said an apology no matter how heartfelt would never be accepted.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Funny thats what a lot of cheating partners say as well.

???"

Cheaters always avoid an apology too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So, Mushroom and Petillante - you are really saying - sometimes it is simple best to move on rather than to rebuild?

Yes, no point living in the past, only makes you bitter and twisted"

You are quite right - i guess it is about personalities - I dont hold grudges, I simply cant as I feel it is a waste of energy and it would be costing MY energy so I rather forgive and forget

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

Some things run to deep and no matter what is said an apology no matter how heartfelt would never be accepted.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Funny thats what a lot of cheating partners say as well.

???

Cheaters always avoid an apology too!"

So do cowards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow."

here s a hankie

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie"

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies"

ooops did not hit the right spot...;-)

Shall we let mushroom have a glass of you know what for his you know which?

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

It would be good if threads didn't get so much bitching on them.

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

ooops did not hit the right spot...;-)

Shall we let mushroom have a glass of you know what for his you know which?"

oh definately, see sorry isn't hard to say lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

ooops did not hit the right spot...;-)

Shall we let mushroom have a glass of you know what for his you know which?

oh definately, see sorry isn't hard to say lol"

I am still "thinking" sorry over the last episode

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I am still "thinking" sorry over the last episode "

Whatever do you mean lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am still "thinking" sorry over the last episode

Whatever do you mean lol"

Some you know what reaches (and cleans) parts others can't

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I am still "thinking" sorry over the last episode

Whatever do you mean lol

Some you know what reaches (and cleans) parts others can't"

Sorry I'll ketchup with you eventually

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie"

got a sheet?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies"

no need to apolgise lol my mistake, twice over lol lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

no need to apolgise lol my mistake, twice over lol lol"

a man admitting... to making a mistake - I am ... lost for words lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

no need to apolgise lol my mistake, twice over lol lol

a man admitting... to making a mistake - I am ... lost for words lol "

LOL That'll be a first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

no need to apolgise lol my mistake, twice over lol lol

a man admitting... to making a mistake - I am ... lost for words lol

LOL That'll be a first "

Do you think he is regretting his statement or considering a new approach?

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

no need to apolgise lol my mistake, twice over lol lol

a man admitting... to making a mistake - I am ... lost for words lol "

how long have you got?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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"I've also find that some people don't deserve an apology.

At that point let go and get on with your life

Jeezuz , i was scared there for a minute. I read that last line as wife.

Wipes brow.

here s a hankie

have a drink calm your nerves, my apologies

no need to apolgise lol my mistake, twice over lol lol

a man admitting... to making a mistake - I am ... lost for words lol

LOL That'll be a first

Do you think he is regretting his statement or considering a new approach?"

Or regreting considering a new approach

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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how long have you got?"

How long do you need

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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how long have you got?

How long do you need "

He is a man - he is more intelligent - by definition - we must surrender now!Assuming position!

What is the pose of a surrenderer?

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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how long have you got?

How long do you need

He is a man - he is more intelligent - by definition - we must surrender now!Assuming position!

What is the pose of a surrenderer?"

I'm worried have you been out in the sun too much, you are rambling woman

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

how long have you got?

How long do you need

He is a man - he is more intelligent - by definition - we must surrender now!Assuming position!

What is the pose of a surrenderer?"

i'm reflecting on hands and knees

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

how long have you got?

How long do you need

He is a man - he is more intelligent - by definition - we must surrender now!Assuming position!

What is the pose of a surrenderer?

I'm worried have you been out in the sun too much, you are rambling woman"

a naked rambler? can cross my garden any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im wrong i will apologise if im not it will be a cold day in hell before i will say sorry!! xx

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"

how long have you got?

How long do you need "

would you like the Top 40, Top 60 or the Billboard Hot 100 of my mistakes. lol

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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how long have you got?

How long do you need

would you like the Top 40, Top 60 or the Billboard Hot 100 of my mistakes. lol"

Aww I'm a good listener x

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/06/10 23:50:53]"

Difficult one - if member of family has been admitted to hospital his mind would have been on other things I guess. Not much comfort to you being the one let down, though. Maybe he as not able to text while in hospital?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly trying to remember when I was wrong: hmmmmmm...nah, can't recall!

As for saying sor...sor...sor...can't even type the word!

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By *leasureDomeMan
over a year ago

all over the place


"Honestly trying to remember when I was wrong: hmmmmmm...nah, can't recall!

As for saying sor...sor...sor...can't even type the word! "

lmao

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

I was let down badly by someone I thought was a friend this weekend and I wish they thought I was worth a proper apology but he thinks it easier to walk away. Unfortunately these situation affect your mutual friends/play mates too. All because the wrong doer doesn't want to say sorry properly. Personally I hate unpleasantness and would prefer to clear the air.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 02/06/10 23:50:53]

Difficult one - if member of family has been admitted to hospital his mind would have been on other things I guess. Not much comfort to you being the one let down, though. Maybe he as not able to text while in hospital? "

iv done that once i had let a guy down twice, once with kiddo being poorly another time a family member in hospital luckily he understood and didnt hold a grudge! i think in a situation like that no one could be expected to text just for somethin as trivial as a meet i know when it happened to me, it was the furthest thing from my mind to text anyone x

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville


"[Removed by poster at 02/06/10 23:50:53]

Difficult one - if member of family has been admitted to hospital his mind would have been on other things I guess. Not much comfort to you being the one let down, though. Maybe he as not able to text while in hospital? "

yes I agree with you but he texted me a whole 24 hours later after the party. I texted him on the Thursday and he got back to me on Sunday at midnight. I suppose she could have been in hospital for days.

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By *iamondladyWoman
over a year ago

titsville

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I was let down badly by someone I thought was a friend this weekend and I wish they thought I was worth a proper apology but he thinks it easier to walk away. Unfortunately these situation affect your mutual friends/play mates too. All because the wrong doer doesn't want to say sorry properly. Personally I hate unpleasantness and would prefer to clear the air."

I had a "situation" with somebody last year, which left us not as friendly as we had been and it was a real shame as it could have been aired and sorted then. Luckily I met the person again earlier this year - I took the opportunity to mention how I felt and that I was sorry our friendship had cooled off as a result of one event.

It was amazing that it only took that statement to bring things back to what they had been before the EVENT - and I am so happy we have reconnected again.

My suggestion - try and clear the air - the swinging world is a small world and it is just nicer to be clear and at peace with people IMHO - best of luck xx

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"I was let down badly by someone I thought was a friend this weekend and I wish they thought I was worth a proper apology but he thinks it easier to walk away. Unfortunately these situation affect your mutual friends/play mates too. All because the wrong doer doesn't want to say sorry properly. Personally I hate unpleasantness and would prefer to clear the air."

I tend to go firstly to the person directly if I feel a problem is in the air.... the trouble is 'some' people still try and feed you a pile of bullshit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It is probably also about the need for people to tell fibs - and once yuou told one you have to continue the story - and that makes me wonder why people are doing this in the first place. Usually people tell lies/ fibs whatever you call it becuase they are in fear. In fear of being caught out, being told off, in fear of whatever the consequence.

In the swinging world, in theory there is no real need to lie though - is there?

Hence no need to feed bullshit?

Just an observation really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was let down badly by someone I thought was a friend this weekend and I wish they thought I was worth a proper apology but he thinks it easier to walk away. Unfortunately these situation affect your mutual friends/play mates too. All because the wrong doer doesn't want to say sorry properly. Personally I hate unpleasantness and would prefer to clear the air."

Honey...anyone who knows you...just cant believe how anyone would treat you..with such a lack of manners...absolutely his loss sweetie...

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I was let down badly by someone I thought was a friend this weekend and I wish they thought I was worth a proper apology but he thinks it easier to walk away. Unfortunately these situation affect your mutual friends/play mates too. All because the wrong doer doesn't want to say sorry properly. Personally I hate unpleasantness and would prefer to clear the air.

I tend to go firstly to the person directly if I feel a problem is in the air.... the trouble is 'some' people still try and feed you a pile of bullshit."
The swinging world is full of bullshit, just a matter of sorting through it.....gloves please!!!!

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