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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I always end up wondering that the person I met on fab is not what actually I had the notion of, apropos of what they tell about them. Is fab only about wham-bam thank you ma'am?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always end up wondering that the person I met on fab is not what actually I had the notion of, apropos of what they tell about them. Is fab only about wham-bam thank you ma'am? "

No, there's a huge social and friendship side to Fab. I've met some great people on here that I'm proud to call my friends.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I agree, there are some wonderful peeps on here.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"I always end up wondering that the person I met on fab is not what actually I had the notion of, apropos of what they tell about them. Is fab only about wham-bam thank you ma'am? "
No, it isn't, but you are right to be cautious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I've just been lucky but I've met some lovely people on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

like every aspect of life, there are those on here that are as honest as the day is long.

and there are those that will tell you mass to get their own way with you.

its up to YOU to decide for yourself which each person is and treat them accordingly.

personally, i treat everyone with suspicion until proven otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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personally, i treat everyone with suspicion until proven otherwise"

I think I should actually try this approach; not just silently commend those who do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"like every aspect of life, there are those on here that are as honest as the day is long.

and there are those that will tell you mass to get their own way with you.

its up to YOU to decide for yourself which each person is and treat them accordingly.

personally, i treat everyone with suspicion until proven otherwise"

OP, depends on what you're looking for. One person's idea of swinging is different to another's. Some people will say anything to get into your knickers. Some people are lovely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont trust anyone that much, think there are a lot of impresionable people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure where the sex is to found on the site lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont trust anyone that much, think there are a lot of impresionable people on here."

agreed

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm sorry to say that experience has taught us to be very wary of everyone we come in contact with from here. This does mean that the hundred percent trust worthy people are unfairly doubted which is a shame but it is so easy to create a false persona on the net.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me. If they can't be bothered to chat for a while then they are not worth my time. I trust no-one but just accept, but also have made some gr8 friends. Just not ones I tell my kids about hehehe.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not sure where the sex is to found on the site lol."

It lurks about and hides where you least expect to find it.

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By *isexmistressWoman
over a year ago

Prestwich

Met some lovely people off here but have had to block loads of aggressive,unpleasant,impatient and weird types also..

Realistically,trust is best given on merit,earnt over time .

There`s rush if here long term?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sorry to say that experience has taught us to be very wary of everyone we come in contact with from here. This does mean that the hundred percent trust worthy people are unfairly doubted which is a shame but it is so easy to create a false persona on the net.

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Yes easy to create a false persona on the net.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure where the sex is to found on the site lol.

It lurks about and hides where you least expect to find it."
Yes I guess you are right there as well x.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trust takes time to build....caution is very sensible

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Not sure where the sex is to found on the site lol.

It lurks about and hides where you least expect to find it.Yes I guess you are right there as well x."

It's the blooming finding it that's the problem though

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I'm sorry to say that experience has taught us to be very wary of everyone we come in contact with from here. This does mean that the hundred percent trust worthy people are unfairly doubted which is a shame but it is so easy to create a false persona on the net.

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I should qualify this by saying that we have met some very sound people who were and continue to be a pleasure to spend time with.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"i dont trust anyone that much, think there are a lot of impresionable people on here."

To a certain extent, that is true in any walk of life. Trust has to be built on friendship, which can take some time depending on the circumstances involved.

I have met some lovely people on here after nearly 8 years and some who were not particularly so, but I know those I can trust.

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

There's certainly some raving lunatics on here! As well as every other type of person.

However there's also some great ones to be friends with and even have sex with on occasion!

If we meet someone or a couple from here that are an exact fit for that which we look for we consider ourselves very, very lucky! We have found it much easier meeting in clubs face to face. Tended to be a shortcut to those that are genuine for us. Not always, but a lot of the time anyway

Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure where the sex is to found on the site lol.

It lurks about and hides where you least expect to find it.Yes I guess you are right there as well x.

It's the blooming finding it that's the problem though "
YEs it is lol search search and search and again

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

It is the internet, I don't trust anyone on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why on earth would anyone trust someone on the internet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why on earth would anyone trust someone on the internet? "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Take your time to filter your meets according to your rules. Have social meets prior to shag meets too - can deter the must have shag at any cost mob. Also get out and socialise, so it is not all internet based. You can judge others better in such forums.

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