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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Gorgeously toned bodies in skimpy outfits on the beaches or men topless around town centres or women in bikini tops n short skirts.

But part of me would think the reaction would soon change if it were large framed (dare i use the word fat) people wearing the same outfits.

Of course its down to an individual what they feel comfortable and confident wearing in public

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would probably get a different look than a guy with a 6 pack, but do I give a fuck - NO.

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland

As long as all genitals are covered up they arent breaking any laws so can be as daring as they want, although a bit of common sense should always prevail.

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

It works well over here... here being sunny cyprus

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Horses for courses that's what I say as said above as long as there are no bits on show that my kids might see then crack on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dress for the body you have, not the one you wish you had..... My grandmothers advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often cringe when I see short shorts or short skirts going up to the higher end of the plus size scale. Personally I won't wear anything shorter than 2 inches above my knees without leggings underneath as I wouldn't want to offend anyone with my lumpy thighs. Just makes me wonder who wears denim hotpants in a size 32?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

true a lot of people dislike fat people.

you have to wear what you feel like wearing though.

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Gorgeously toned bodies in skimpy outfits on the beaches or men topless around town centres or women in bikini tops n short skirts.

But part of me would think the reaction would soon change if it were large framed (dare i use the word fat) people wearing the same outfits.

Of course its down to an individual what they feel comfortable and confident wearing in public"

to be honest I get more of a bad reaction (from mainly guys) if I was walking around town with my top off than an average or overweight does.

ive had guys shouting over things like "stead head and juice monkey" a fair few times and things like "put ya top on ya poser, proper up ya own arse".

I'll only have my top off these days when im in my own garden or on holiday at a beach.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I see nothing wrong with it myself. People shouldn't be judgemental

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress for the body you have, not the one you wish you had..... My grandmothers advice x"

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Gorgeously toned bodies in skimpy outfits on the beaches or men topless around town centres or women in bikini tops n short skirts.

But part of me would think the reaction would soon change if it were large framed (dare i use the word fat) people wearing the same outfits.

Of course its down to an individual what they feel comfortable and confident wearing in public

to be honest I get more of a bad reaction (from mainly guys) if I was walking around town with my top off than an average or overweight does.

ive had guys shouting over things like "stead head and juice monkey" a fair few times and things like "put ya top on ya poser, proper up ya own arse".

I'll only have my top off these days when im in my own garden or on holiday at a beach.

"

Just goes to show. You really can't please all the people all the time.

Personally I think if they feel confident in it then why not? No matter what size or shape. It's only really their own opinion that matters in the end. Not mine a stranger to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress for the body you have, not the one you wish you had..... My grandmothers advice x "

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

Did anyone see the naturist documentary on telly a few months ago where a guy and a girl (both slim) went topless in a busy city centre to hand out leaflets for a naturist event. It was'nt long before the police arrived and told the woman to cover up and put a top on but they totally ignored the topless man as no one had complained about him?

The woman said it was sexual discrimination and if he is topless why can't i do it?

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I see nothing wrong with it myself. People shouldn't be judgemental "

Indeed.

What is it with the clothes and body fascisti? Women in Burkhas - wrong? Fat people in short/skimpy clothes - wrong?

We don't have laws inhibiting what we can wear in this country (bar covering up your genitals) so if someone wants to wear a clown-suit to do their weekly shop then that is their choice.

My only objection is topless in supermarkets and food shops as it makes me feel uneasy around the food I might want to eat.

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By *1ckeyMan
over a year ago

Camberley

I get strange looks wearing slippers to the local shops, bloody conformists!

I think people should wear what they feel comfortable in, and not dictate fashion to others!

If you don't like, look the other way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get strange looks wearing slippers to the local shops, bloody conformists!

I think people should wear what they feel comfortable in, and not dictate fashion to others!

If you don't like, look the other way"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gorgeously toned bodies in skimpy outfits on the beaches or men topless around town centres or women in bikini tops n short skirts.

But part of me would think the reaction would soon change if it were large framed (dare i use the word fat) people wearing the same outfits.

Of course its down to an individual what they feel comfortable and confident wearing in public"

No it doesn't matter what size someone is. Bigger people can do those things too. Of course I will point and laugh though only joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I often cringe when I see short shorts or short skirts going up to the higher end of the plus size scale. Personally I won't wear anything shorter than 2 inches above my knees without leggings underneath as I wouldn't want to offend anyone with my lumpy thighs. Just makes me wonder who wears denim hotpants in a size 32?! "

Ah would be great seeing a size 32 in hot pants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By x_red_x   Woman

just this minute! 

London

The way I see it, we'll use the big girl in a mini skirt example, do I think it looks nice? No.... But that's my problem not hers, as long as she is happy and confident then why shouldn't she wear what she wants. Good luck to 'em!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I long for the time when everyone feels comfortable with their bodies and others do not put people down. We should support nakedness and people wearing what they are comfortable in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm all for people should be able to wear what they comfortable in, but there is a thing called decorum. I work in a petrol station and I do feel it's not right for a man to come inside the kiosk topless in summer - good body or not. I don't want to see a stale sweaty, hairy chest in my workplace where we sell food and hot drinks, as well as petrol.

Sorry, but there is a time or place like on a beach or in their garden.

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for people should be able to wear what they comfortable in, but there is a thing called decorum. I work in a petrol station and I do feel it's not right for a man to come inside the kiosk topless in summer - good body or not. I don't want to see a stale sweaty, hairy chest in my workplace where we sell food and hot drinks, as well as petrol.

Sorry, but there is a time or place like on a beach or in their garden.

P"

When i ran pubs it was a simple rule, Male or Female you do not go to the bar barechested, Show off as much as you like outside but do not attempt the look at me in a family environment as a fuck of you posing prat may offend

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress for the body you have, not the one you wish you had..... My grandmothers advice x"

Exactly this. Everyone can be sexy but they should accentuate their own unique charm and not try chasing the tail of something they're just never gonna catch up with. A wise granny

Oh and btw...in your own house...you can dress just exactly how the fuck you want lol granny's advice simply doesn't apply there...I'm only talking about when you're out trying to dress to impress then granny's spot on the money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Gorgeously toned bodies in skimpy outfits on the beaches or men topless around town centres or women in bikini tops n short skirts.

But part of me would think the reaction would soon change if it were large framed (dare i use the word fat) people wearing the same outfits.

Of course its down to an individual what they feel comfortable and confident wearing in public

to be honest I get more of a bad reaction (from mainly guys) if I was walking around town with my top off than an average or overweight does.

ive had guys shouting over things like "stead head and juice monkey" a fair few times and things like "put ya top on ya poser, proper up ya own arse".

I'll only have my top off these days when im in my own garden or on holiday at a beach.

"

They're jealous I can see why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dress for the body you have, not the one you wish you had..... My grandmothers advice x"

Here fuckin' here! Gok Wan for prime minister.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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ive had guys shouting over things like "stead head and juice monkey" a fair few times and things like "put ya top on ya poser, proper up ya own arse".

"

Just seen your profile. Can't imagine why anyone would think you're a poser.

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