FabSwingers.com forum: blocked!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

for politely telling someone she looked gorgeous..a polite "not interested" would have been fine but maybe im just old school.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

..humm..funny reason too block, but hey we're all different..and guess that's what makes this fun?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought a polite "thanks" would have been nice?!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

site FAQs say noone is "owed" a reply.

She maybe blocks people she knows, people she doesn't like, and people she will never meet to save the mail. And not everyone takes a no thanks nicely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can tell me I'm gorgeous ...I won't block you lol xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

you are four letter drop dead gorgeous.xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So OK, for obvious reasons, we don't message many women, but do unsolicited 'ur gorgeous' messages from unknown and often unseen males generally go down that well ?

Or are they treated with a healthy sprinkle of cynicism ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got blocked from a single guy for saying "thanks for your message but no thanks to anything more"

At least we made the effort to answer his two word message lol

Think we probably had a lucky escape from meeting someone who said "we were being anal" for lettig him know we have said no in the past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guessing she didnt feel the same way about you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you hadn't read her profile and didn't fit a criteria, maybe she knows you, maybe she hit block accidentally. ..maybe a lot of thing's. ...hey Ho move on.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"So OK, for obvious reasons, we don't message many women, but do unsolicited 'ur gorgeous' messages from unknown and often unseen males generally go down that well ?

Or are they treated with a healthy sprinkle of cynicism ?"

Both with me

I know they're just trying it on but I always say thank you. Any further messages will probably go unanswered if they don't fit my requirements though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"you are four letter drop dead gorgeous.xx"

BLOCK !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its sad that you can't send a polite compliment to someone without them assuming you want to shag them!! I send compliments to guys a lot but doesn't necessarily mean I want to meet them, as with a fabbed pic.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

its probably a combination of me being newish to this and a little old school too, but lesson learned and like you say..move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair if I'd received that message, as a first message I would of done the same. Messages from random fellas saying you are gorgeous when you haven't shown them a face pic are insincere. Or maybe she didn't like your avatar pic.Either way at least you knew she wasn't intetested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some women just don't know how to take a compliment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"its probably a combination of me being newish to this and a little old school too, but lesson learned and like you say..move on."

The classy ones like old school

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For some it leads onto unwanted convos..when blocking really means 'thanks but no thanks'

If she replied saying 'thanks' would you have pursued her further?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"for politely telling someone she looked gorgeous..a polite "not interested" would have been fine but maybe im just old school."

Was that your sole intention? Or did you hope that it would lead to more? The lady in question has probably had experience of replying politely with a thank you only to be bombarded with requests to meet or rude response when she says she isn't interested. I'm sure that you wouldn't have done any of those things but blocking is probably the ladies way of protecting herself from those that do it's not personal

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

People should be allowed to block who they like without a thread being started on it.

Maybe just accept that some people will block you.

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