FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons for not showing Any verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why not show any veris at all if you have them? Those that do not show them please offer an explanation.

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show mine because they are so old lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe they like to keep who they meet as private - we usually show one or two thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Taste, privacy, choice..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don't want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would'nt want people knowing who I done what with,plus you'd know just how much of a slapper I been......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had instances in the past where women have openly admitted to not wanting to meet because I had too many veris so it can put done people off but everyone I have received goes on and if people have a hand up about me enjoying a lifestyle I have chosen then maybe it would of been doomed from the start lol!!!'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had proplems with another female because i met same guy as her. She made my life hell on here by contacting the guys who verified me and telling them a heap of lies about me. Hence now i hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a verification is appreciation ive a few lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've hidden them all when we aren't looking to meet. People tend to not contact us if they can't see any verifications that show we are a genuine couple.

As we are now looking to meet couples we have hidden our single male verifications.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

When people leave the site their verification text disappears. I also don't see the point of displaying what someone else may have said about me. If someone's really interested then I have the text saved although I can't see how nice things someone said about me add to my veracity as a person in any way, shape or form.

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Sometimes it's cos the person who gave them has left the site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's cos the person who gave them has left the site."

2 of mine left the site

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I've a few hidden, as the people who left them aren't officially bi and feel it would hurt their chances on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well i usualy assume its because they havnt got any or they have something to hide, dont want you to know who they have met.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because my life and who I meet is my business. I don't like the verification system so I don't use it.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

I show some to prove I meet etc, but too many seems ostentatious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've a few hidden, as the people who left them aren't officially bi and feel it would hurt their chances on here.

Are they still waiting for authorisation ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show some to prove I meet etc, but too many seems ostentatious. "

Looks like your bragging you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cos they all say I am crap in bed and have a small cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had proplems with another female because i met same guy as her. She made my life hell on here by contacting the guys who verified me and telling them a heap of lies about me. Hence now i hide them"

A guy will tell you to fuck off or insult you for getting knocked back, a woman will try to ruin your life for the same reason!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why won't you meet when you met xxxx?..

I see you also met xxxxx...

xxxx is interested in a meet and we wondered if you could .....

Why do you say you're not meeting couples when you met xx

If you believe most verification messages you're a fool.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because the people I met are so beautiful, it puts others off from meeting me because they feel they can't match up

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I show or hide them as I see fit because it's nobody else's business what they say, unless I decide to share them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've a few hidden, as the people who left them aren't officially bi and feel it would hurt their chances on here.

Hahaha is that what they told you Tim?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We show ours to try and show that I'm not the total arse my forum posts sometimes suggest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only show social meet veris as the others are between us and the involved party. Discretion. We do show our verification summary however. Just to add some of our veris social and otherwise - there are some folk that have left, so even then, not all can be shown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because my life and who I meet is my business. I don't like the verification system so I don't use it. "

mine show how much others know how much I don't like them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's cos the person who gave them has left the site.

2 of mine left the site"

Dozens of mine have left the site....was it something I said?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I only ever had one, I met her by accident, few months later she fucked off to Japan

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Sometimes it's cos the person who gave them has left the site.

2 of mine left the site

Dozens of mine have left the site....was it something I said?"

All of mine have. It's almost enough to make me paranoid. I'm the UNLOS inducing equivalent of a Typhoid Mary!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I've a few hidden, as the people who left them aren't officially bi and feel it would hurt their chances on here.

Are they still waiting for authorisation ?"

A letter from their mum

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Sometimes it's cos the person who gave them has left the site.

2 of mine left the site

Dozens of mine have left the site....was it something I said?

All of mine have. It's almost enough to make me paranoid. I'm the UNLOS inducing equivalent of a Typhoid Mary!"

I drove one to declare he was leaving just by sending my face pic a few days ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that. "

Oh-well, I guess I'll just have to respect your preference then ! .....

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

They met, got a veri and then for whatever reason they got blocked by the user. The green tick stays but the veri cannot be displayed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Judging by some other threads currently around it could be any of the following:

- man is bi

- person/ people do bareback

- person / people are Asian

- person needed a shit before a meet but couldn't because their property contravenes building regulations.

I'm sorry to bang on about this but

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't show my veris but if anyone I was thinking of meeting really wanted to see them they only have to ask

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't owe anybody an explanation for my personal preference.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

I have met a lot of people since I joined, 90% were from attending socials so not to play, just nice comments from lovely fabsters. Unfortunately you cannot currently 'veri by social' so displaying all of them may put people off.

My summary (only the cam person has left) , if I displayed it would say...

Verified by 77 people, newest Tuesday

29 fem. 41 men. 5 cpl. 2 tv/ts. By 98 meet. 1 cam.

How many guys would read all of them??? None. How many guys would think I'm an easy f*ck? All of them. How wrong they would be.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that. "

That's a bit like saying - What colours a strawberry? And please don't say red!

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By *ittle Miss InnocenceWoman
over a year ago

Suffolk UK

"I would'nt want people knowing who I done what with,plus you'd know just how much of a slapper I been......

Thats so funny cos you havent even got any verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would'nt want people knowing who I done what with,plus you'd know just how much of a slapper I been......

Thats so funny cos you havent even got any verifications

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much personal preference more just my choice

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"We show ours to try and show that I'm not the total arse my forum posts sometimes suggest

Haha!!! This just made me chuckle x

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"Sometimes it's cos the person who gave them has left the site.

2 of mine left the site

Dozens of mine have left the site....was it something I said?

All of mine have. It's almost enough to make me paranoid. I'm the UNLOS inducing equivalent of a Typhoid Mary!

I drove one to declare he was leaving just by sending my face pic a few days ago

No doubt he thought life couldn't get better than that.

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

"We show ours to try and show that I'm not the total arse my forum posts sometimes suggest

You don't say (very much tongue in cheek)

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

"Because my life and who I meet is my business. I don't like the verification system so I don't use it. "

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It is a complex thing, without one single reason that covers everyone. Noone is going to come on and state that they are now mortified that they once shagged particular individuals are they! So there will be an embarrassment factor too. Otherwise, Id be very concerned for people I have had meets with. Many of up want to know people are verified so we feel more confident meeting them. We dont usually want to know the full intimate sex life from a particular shag, as many read like horny fantasy takes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maibe they don't want their profile to be pages of verifications so allowing few to be shown lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes it's cos the person who gave them has left the site.

2 of mine left the site"

all of ours have now left the site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't as I was here a while ago and upset another lady (meet a guy who said he was only meeting her) to which she messaged every single person I meet and on my friends list saying I had stds and would only do bare back and was trying to get pregnant! She even went as far as messageing clubs I'd been too. Obviously not ture, but I've chosen to a very discreet this time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because my life and who I meet is my business. I don't like the verification system so I don't use it.

mine show how much others know how much I don't like them

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haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We show ours to try and show that I'm not the total arse my forum posts sometimes suggest

Ooo me too. No wait a minute ...... mine say ....oh bugger better hide them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have hidden mine for the time being but I do have verification summary and if anyone wants to see some of them, you only have to ask

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By *rforfunCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

We have asked people not to leave them as it is something we have shared with them and not anyone elise. We have one on to show we do meet and are real and that is it. X

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By *rforfunCouple
over a year ago

Bedford

We have asked people not to leave them as it is something we have shared with them and not anyone elise. We have one on to show we do meet and are real and that is it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People leave the site so does the veri summary.

The only other reason I wouldn't show one was if it was too graphic but I think the guys I meet know that's not my style so they leave one accordingly.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

"I would'nt want people knowing who I done what with,plus you'd know just how much of a slapper I been......

..that's me connie xx

will pm anyone who would like to meet us,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't shown mine as I like privacy. But I am happy to put they on display briefly if someone I want to meet really wants to see them.

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By *onnie and JohnCouple
over a year ago

andover

"I would'nt want people knowing who I done what with,plus you'd know just how much of a slapper I been......

..that's me connie xx

will pm anyone who would like to meet us,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I show a few recent ones so people know I am real and meet.

The social ones show I can be nice without getting my balls wet.

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"maybe they like to keep who they meet as private - we usually show one or two thats all "

This!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've decided to hide most of mine. I'm genuine and not here to waste mine or anyone elses time - no number of verifications is going to prove that.

Although sometimes those on my list/friend's list did end up getting abuse due to them meeting me. So, hid the friends list as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We keep ours hidden as someone who we had fallen out with caused us a lot of hassle

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I don't show play veris, so usually ask any meet not to bother writing one as it won't be displayed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had this problem too...not so long ago i deleted my old profile To stop it....but Having fun finding new men lol X

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We show ours to try and show that I'm not the total arse my forum posts sometimes suggest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't owe anybody an explanation for my personal preference. "

Cliché no. 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have asked people not to leave them as it is something we have shared with them and not anyone elise.

I need to remember that one for the next time I meet a minger lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm meeting a women at chams tonight I've met her 3 times before she says she doesn't show her veries because she doesn't want to

I've asked lol that's the reply I get.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that.

That's a bit like saying - What colours a strawberry? And please don't say red!"

Not really.

Please consider; If I asked "Why don't you jump off a 20 metre high wall onto concrete?" you could say "personal preference." The real reason is you would be badly injured or possibly killed.

It is the real reason I am hoping to get to not "my life; my choice" which is taken as read. Does that explain it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that.

That's a bit like saying - What colours a strawberry? And please don't say red!

Not really.

Please consider; If I asked "Why don't you jump off a 20 metre high wall onto concrete?" you could say "personal preference." The real reason is you would be badly injured or possibly killed.

It is the real reason I am hoping to get to not "my life; my choice" which is taken as read. Does that explain it?

My personal preference would be to not be killed or badly injured.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some have said they do not want to show them because some people may think they have met too many people and will pass them by.

So they are veri filtering with the aim of misleading future meets as to the true nature of their sexual character? Interesting.

Of course they have the right to privacy, do not want people knowing my business, etc etc. So please do not witter on about that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that.

That's a bit like saying - What colours a strawberry? And please don't say red!

Not really.

Please consider; If I asked "Why don't you jump off a 20 metre high wall onto concrete?" you could say "personal preference." The real reason is you would be badly injured or possibly killed.

It is the real reason I am hoping to get to not "my life; my choice" which is taken as read. Does that explain it?

My personal preference would be to not be killed or badly injured."

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't as I was here a while ago and upset another lady (meet a guy who said he was only meeting her) to which she messaged every single person I meet and on my friends list saying I had stds and would only do bare back and was trying to get pregnant! She even went as far as messageing clubs I'd been too. Obviously not ture, but I've chosen to a very discreet this time

That constitutes libel as it is deformation of character and is actionable. I trust she was thrown off the site? Did those people she contacted believe her?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"Some have said they do not want to show them because some people may think they have met too many people and will pass them by.

So they are veri filtering with the aim of misleading future meets as to the true nature of their sexual character? Interesting.

Of course they have the right to privacy, do not want people knowing my business, etc etc. So please do not witter on about that."

I think you maybe over analysing things a tad.

Its a well known fact people lie about their sexuasl prowess. Men triple their figure and women halve theirs lol

By your statement above we should also include details of any sexual partners outside of Fab so as not to mislead anybody lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some have said they do not want to show them because some people may think they have met too many people and will pass them by.

So they are veri filtering with the aim of misleading future meets as to the true nature of their sexual character? Interesting.

Of course they have the right to privacy, do not want people knowing my business, etc etc. So please do not witter on about that.

I think you maybe over analysing things a tad.

Its a well known fact people lie about their sexuasl prowess. Men triple their figure and women halve theirs lol

By your statement above we should also include details of any sexual partners outside of Fab so as not to mislead anybody lol"

Great idea! Our profile would be 30 pages longer at a stroke.

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Think the main reason is so others cant see who you have met...

Hard for a 'straight guy to explain meeting TV/TS's!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love my verifications I show all; Couple of people have left fab so lost theirs which is a shame. Dont see point of trying to hide anything its a swingers site lets be open and honest or car keys in the fruit bowl anyone?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same issue as pussygalore2.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some have said they do not want to show them because some people may think they have met too many people and will pass them by.

So they are veri filtering with the aim of misleading future meets as to the true nature of their sexual character? Interesting.

Of course they have the right to privacy, do not want people knowing my business, etc etc. So please do not witter on about that."

So what's the correct answer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I show or hide them as I see fit because it's nobody else's business what they say, unless I decide to share them."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't show play veris, so usually ask any meet not to bother writing one as it won't be displayed

How does that work if you meet someone socially and each of you thinks phwoar lets get it on! And therefore a social becomes a play one too?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some have said they do not want to show them because some people may think they have met too many people and will pass them by.

So they are veri filtering with the aim of misleading future meets as to the true nature of their sexual character? Interesting.

Of course they have the right to privacy, do not want people knowing my business, etc etc. So please do not witter on about that.

So what's the correct answer?"

I'd like to know that too as the OP doesn't appear to like any of the answers so far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be completely honest the ones I read more often than not put me off meeting people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the point in showing them the only people who read them are nosey people wanting to see who you have met you can show a summery now and lets face it people don't meet you based on who you have met so apart from satisfying the nosey fucks there is no reason to.

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By *ovely CummingsWoman
over a year ago

Peaky Nipples

Had this in the past. Not just with females. I also like my privacy. If someone I was interested in meeting wanted to see them, I'd show. Never been asked to though,

They are a tool to help but not the be all. I'm not a fan of profiles that just make reference to the verifications. Up to them though, I just tend to avoid as doesn't give me what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People have the option to run their profiles as they see fit. If they want to hide them then so be it, if they display them, fine. Just as some won't have any photos at all, some will display some but no face pics, others have all sorts of pics. People's reasons for not displaying their veri's are theirs and theirs alone and have nothing to do with me. If the way someone runs their profile is not to your liking then move on to the next.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's an option, I use it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm showing two now as proof I do meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too

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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

What she said .

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Why not show any veris at all if you have them? Those that do not show them please offer an explanation.

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that. "

Because I'm discreet and it's no one elses business.

Why do you want to know ?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

"We show ours to try and show that I'm not the total arse my forum posts sometimes suggest

Do you think it's worked?

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By *litheroevoyeurMan
over a year ago

Clitheroe

"Why not show any veris at all if you have them? Those that do not show them please offer an explanation.

We all know fab cliché no 1 - "personal preference" so please please don't say that. "

None of your business.

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

I only show social ones as it proves I am a socialable people who can act like a reasonable person in public without making an arse of myself....

the play ones.... as everyone else has said... none of your business.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some have said they do not want to show them because some people may think they have met too many people and will pass them by.

So they are veri filtering with the aim of misleading future meets as to the true nature of their sexual character? Interesting.

Of course they have the right to privacy, do not want people knowing my business, etc etc. So please do not witter on about that.

So what's the correct answer?

I'd like to know that too as the OP doesn't appear to like any of the answers so far

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over a year ago

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I know quite a few people use the veri's as a sort of snobbery filter. As in' you have slept with that person, my god they are a minger'.

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over a year ago

"Some have said they do not want to show them because some people may think they have met too many people and will pass them by.

So they are veri filtering with the aim of misleading future meets as to the true nature of their sexual character? Interesting.

Of course they have the right to privacy, do not want people knowing my business, etc etc. So please do not witter on about that.

So what's the correct answer?

I'd like to know that too as the OP doesn't appear to like any of the answers so far

OP here.

There is no correct answer. What is interesting are the reasons given for showing and not showing.

Personally I show mine. The reason is before I had one no one would pay any interest to me as I was not verified. I am also aware people have contacted those I have met and confirmed directly I am not an axe murderer. Some have even been complementary about me!

I am not into hiding the decisions I make in life so if someone says "I don't want to see you because you met with a fat person and you have low standards" I feel lucky to have avoided such an arrogant prig.

I have never been chased by a bunny boiler so cannot comment on that area. I did have the misfortune to meet a woman who wanted gifts before she met. I gave her a veri but she does not show it. Presumably because she is still working.

Thanks to all those that have commented.

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