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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

on channel 5 at mo have you experienced this would you report your child for hitting you

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I wondered if anyone was watching - it's been fairly disturbing seeing it.

http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/283511

I'd prefer to learn how to deal with them privately, rather than reporting them and myself to authorities. But if life was at risk, the police may be called.

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By *uby0000 OP   Woman
over a year ago

hertfordshire

my daughter has a mental health problem so I know what they are going through

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I can really understand the enormous demands if your child has mental health difficulties, though this show was a bit mixed, and think things were largely due to their strategies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little "

If you don't mind me asking , how old is he ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little

If you don't mind me asking , how old is he ?"

3

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little "
It was more of a shock show rather than help with strategies, imo. You probably would grasp the kind of basic advice they gave out. It was much like many of those channel 4 and 5 shows where they show stuff to get headlines. It was sad to watch, as the parents were very caring and loving but were having nightmares with them. They did add bits like managing sugar intake too. Hope it is worthwhile for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My mum would threaten to report me when i was a kid...to my dad!

That was enough for me to sit up straight and eat my greens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little It was more of a shock show rather than help with strategies, imo. You probably would grasp the kind of basic advice they gave out. It was much like many of those channel 4 and 5 shows where they show stuff to get headlines. It was sad to watch, as the parents were very caring and loving but were having nightmares with them. They did add bits like managing sugar intake too. Hope it is worthwhile for you "

Ah ok thanks

My son has a healthy diet of food amid drink so I can't even blame that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mum would threaten to report me when i was a kid...to my dad!

That was enough for me to sit up straight and eat my greens "

That's how it should be lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little

If you don't mind me asking , how old is he ?

3

"

That is very young to be showing violent tendencies to his mother. Hopefully it's just a phase and he'll grow out of it.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.

It clearly didn't help letting one of them play GTA... After watching it my 15 year old son said "Come on mum lets have a fight..."

My reply was "If you touch your mother, you will be picking your teeth out of the wall..."

He quietly went and did the dishwasher...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little

If you don't mind me asking , how old is he ?

3

"

Set the boundaries now x say no - not acceptable but give him an alternative x take a long look at yourself n check you are giving him a good role model x I'm sure it'll all be ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little

If you don't mind me asking , how old is he ?

3

Set the boundaries now x say no - not acceptable but give him an alternative x take a long look at yourself n check you are giving him a good role model x I'm sure it'll all be ok "

Yeah

I have tried talking

Tried walking away

Ignoring

Reasoning

Taking him out of the situation

You name it I have tried it

Some time he is ok

Others not

Hoping for some tips soon on other ways to deal with it

love him to bits

Even with my bruises lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It clearly didn't help letting one of them play GTA... After watching it my 15 year old son said "Come on mum lets have a fight..."

My reply was "If you touch your mother, you will be picking your teeth out of the wall..."

He quietly went and did the dishwasher... "

Usually I would've said that games always get scapegoated. But on this occasion, the mother shouldn't have bought it for him.

Also, on the video the kids sister recorded showed the father laughing off what looked to be a rather nasty attack by the child.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am going to watch this tomorrow as my son Is violent to me

But he is only little

If you don't mind me asking , how old is he ?

3

That is very young to be showing violent tendencies to his mother. Hopefully it's just a phase and he'll grow out of it. "

Am sure he will

Otherwise he will be a lonely adult with no belongings as I will of confiscated them all lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok x I can only go by my experience x I would say - you've hurt mummy x don't do it again x and follow through with punishments x such as not watch fav tv etc

She's 14 now n I'm a single parent x it's tough but you can do it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"on channel 5 at mo have you experienced this would you report your child for hitting you"

I would have them at the doctors to have them checked out. Though for some its genetic you only have to look at the parents to realise that.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"It clearly didn't help letting one of them play GTA... After watching it my 15 year old son said "Come on mum lets have a fight..."

My reply was "If you touch your mother, you will be picking your teeth out of the wall..."

He quietly went and did the dishwasher...

Usually I would've said that games always get scapegoated. But on this occasion, the mother shouldn't have bought it for him.

Also, on the video the kids sister recorded showed the father laughing off what looked to be a rather nasty attack by the child."

Totally agree. I think games do get too much stick, but there has to be a limit imposed by the parents...

The father sitting by and laughing was bang out of order... I don't normally think violence is the answer but if any of our children attacked Frisky like that, they would get a damn good slap...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just watched it and it did remind me of my son

No video games or sugar here though

I will work through it I am sure

He is only little

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"I just watched it and it did remind me of my son

No video games or sugar here though

I will work through it I am sure

He is only little "

Violence at a young age is quite unusual unless the child has witnessed violence towards the mother or women...

Has your son been in contact with someone who treats women badly/ disrespectfully ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just watched it and it did remind me of my son

No video games or sugar here though

I will work through it I am sure

He is only little

Violence at a young age is quite unusual unless the child has witnessed violence towards the mother or women...

Has your son been in contact with someone who treats women badly/ disrespectfully ?"

My ex was to me but I left him when my son was six months old so he has never seen it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never got to number 3 when i counted out loud to mine - once or twice i shouted do i have to - both worked - goodness knows what would happen at 3 or what i would have done if i had to - they just scarpered

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bad parenting. my son would never hit anyone.

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By *riskynriskyCouple
over a year ago

Essex.


"I just watched it and it did remind me of my son

No video games or sugar here though

I will work through it I am sure

He is only little

Violence at a young age is quite unusual unless the child has witnessed violence towards the mother or women...

Has your son been in contact with someone who treats women badly/ disrespectfully ?

My ex was to me but I left him when my son was six months old so he has never seen it

"

Does your son spend any time with his father?

Frisky's ex used to treat his mother and sisters like shit. When my step son came home he was very rude to Frisky...

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