FabSwingers.com forum: What defines you as a person?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I find that people tend to define who they are by the things they love, the values that are important to them, their sexual it and a whole host of other interesting things.

For me it would be my passion for film making.

My sometimes un PC sense of humour

And the fact I do my best to learn from my many mistakes.

So... I wonder what 3 things help define you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mum

Partner

Friend

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

My clan(family)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my daughter.. i live for her. xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Family

Work

Fun

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By *tillup4funMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

My Dogs

My personality

Being genuine

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By *cottishsexgoddessWoman
over a year ago

Glenrothes

My warm loving nature

Family

Friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mum

Partner

Friend

Mines quite odd really because up until last month, before I was made redundant, work played a big part of my life...

I guess I'd have answered differently then

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I have absolutely no idea what defines me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our action's and deeds define us. Everything else is just an act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My niceness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fit

Handsome

6pack

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mama

woman

spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fit

Handsome

6pack

TV watcher

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

My character I think, everything else is subject to change.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Some great answers.

I think the things we feel define us definitely influence our choices in our future which ultimately, those choices, build who we are.

Some fab (pun intended) answers.

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By *0hnnyBrav0Man
over a year ago

Great Wyrley

The cake I have to eat

The way I cut said cake

The way I eat cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids and my family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fit

Handsome

6pack

TV watcher

And yes tv watcher to lol

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By *igSuki81Man
over a year ago

Retirement Village

My mistakes

My lifes experiences

But above all else my child

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By *ittyticklerCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

My Integrity

Sense of humour

My clit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My self discipline

My love for my family

My loyalty to my friends

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

What I hope does:

My sense of mirth

Quickness

memory for useless facts

What my friends would say:

The arsehole trying to be funny all the time

The git who never shuts up

And the font of some boring facts

What my dad would say if alive:

the half-baked idiot getting in the way whilst he's trying to do something

the person responsible for using half his tin of engine oil to fix a bike

the idiot playing with lego noisily whilst he's on nights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My children. My eldest I struggle with daily, still. Compassion, and pateince, one of the demands of my job. My life has shaped me into the person i am today. The ability to smile when all I want to do is cry. Humour, my little boy. Danny for his understanding and patience when times have been bad. Ive come through the other side. And I am smiling.

I am me feisty, strong, and independent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My strength

My smile

My spirit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour, and, I don't like the term nice man. But I suppose I am, or a gentleman.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"I have absolutely no idea what defines me.

I'm glad you said that. I was reading the thread thinking I had no idea what defines me.

Is it important that we are defined?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Is it important that we are defined?"

I used to know an instructor at a gym who thought so.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm trying to change my definitions and yet remain true to my values.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, djing, the fact that I'm a badass and dress pretty well.

and my strong views about people being conformist.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And in real life I'm funny af.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find that people tend to define who they are by the things they love, the values that are important to them, their sexual it and a whole host of other interesting things.

For me it would be my passion for film making.

My sometimes un PC sense of humour

And the fact I do my best to learn from my many mistakes.

So... I wonder what 3 things help define you? "
doctor

Social worker

Care assistant

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Individualism ... egalitarianism ... creativity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being just me

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

It is not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have absolutely no idea what defines me.

I'm glad you said that. I was reading the thread thinking I had no idea what defines me.

Is it important that we are defined?"

I don't think it's important, I just think it's interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing I am not defined but I have been to the gym twice this week come back in 6 months

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"I have absolutely no idea what defines me.

I'm glad you said that. I was reading the thread thinking I had no idea what defines me.

Is it important that we are defined?"

I bloomin hope not or I'm up the creek

No I don't think it is important I think its limiting

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By *asey369Woman
over a year ago

London

My loyalty

My creativity

My kindness

Xxxx

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

My integraty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"my daughter.. i live for her. xx"

and me, my greatest achievement. When I was blessed with her I found out why I was on this earth

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I have absolutely no idea what defines me.

I'm glad you said that. I was reading the thread thinking I had no idea what defines me.

Is it important that we are defined?

I bloomin hope not or I'm up the creek

No I don't think it is important I think its limiting

Especially with just three things. I was just on the phone to a friend and his three words to define me were fearless, intelligent and kind. If we were in bed I am sure he would have three different words.

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