FabSwingers.com forum: Are You Hot.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?

Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

" Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?

Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know. "

I've got loads on mine!! Some I'm saving for a rainy day, some I've got my beady eye on, some are on the back burner!! But it's useful to have them all in one place and see their updates if I want, whereas friends updates are 'in your face' whether you like it or not (on a desktop).

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I had a few in Bristol when I was travelling there regularly but now I'm not, so will never meet them. As for the rest, the OP is right. I need to start making an effort to message the hotties that catch my eye.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope......anyone who takes my fancy I message...don't see the point in admiring from afar. Life is too short and I don't have time for messing about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many of the women on my hotlist haven't been online for weeks or longer, but as long as they haven't got single males blocked I always make some sort of attempt to message them - even after years of swinging, I still get nervous when messaging the ones I REALLY like (not that there's a huge number of them, but still).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

True. Nothing happens unless you act I guess. At least if you tried you know you need to move on and pick another hot list If it's not meant to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few on mine some I have chatted with and will move over to friends list and others I would like to chat with but haven't had the chance yet.

But as Frisky said its good to have them in one place to see whats going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only three on mine and they are friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The reason my hotlist only contains really hot young CD's and TV's .....

Is just makes it easier for me to hate them without having to put too much effort into it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought the hotlist was just for a page of eye candy

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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago

Galway

I add people to our hotlist so the Mr Mcjoy can easily find the profiles that have interested me when he logs on

Miss Mcjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use my hotlist quite a bit because I might see a profile I like, but know I can't meet for a few weeks so I kind of keep them on the reserves list till messaging would be of benefit.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I thought the hotlist was just for a page of eye candy"
It can be anything you want. I looked at mine and simply thought why keep a list of people I thought were sexually attractive with no intention to act. Maybe you're right it's just a place to store eye candy.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

I have 4 on mine. They are all people I message regularly and one or two that I really want to meet whenever I can get some time off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mine has a new addition

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Mine has a new addition

please no cheese on my thread lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have some in my hotlist but they are also friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine has a new addition

Thanks mate you will have me blushing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would settle for been on someones subs bench

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few on mine, some know they are on it already and some don't

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Have some in my hotlist but they are also friends

Same for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a few on our list, just plucking up the courage to say 'hello'. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's empty......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I am thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have possible meets on ours. Ones we chat to and some we like who we haven't chatted to yet but don't want to forget them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have some in my hotlist but they are also friends

Same for me

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Just checking . Nope im not you friend

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

One lesbean woman i put on first day.

She hasn't a clue who i am or ever spoke but too sentimental to drop her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have a few on mine that i am very interested in yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"One lesbean woman i put on first day.

She hasn't a clue who i am or ever spoke but too sentimental to drop her

J'adore les bean

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Have some in my hotlist but they are also friends

Same for me

Just checking . Nope im not you friend

You didn't poke me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine has a new addition

Thanks mate you will have me blushing

Just wait until i pluck up the courage to send that first message!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Mine has a new addition

please no cheese on my thread lol

You prefer ryhmes instead?

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"Have some in my hotlist but they are also friends

Same for me

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"Mine has a new addition

Thanks mate you will have me blushing

Just wait until i pluck up the courage to send that first message!

Are we witnessing the beginning of something deep here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have some in my hotlist but they are also friends

Same for me

Just checking . Nope im not you friend

You didn't poke me

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vi wish

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Often life's too busy to get meets arranged, stuff happens, so I have added the occasional users to my hot list. It's not a top priority to be arranged meets list, just others who've caught my attention at slightly the wrong time.

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I've got a hot list...one day I will pluck up the courage to message them...might need a few vodkas first tho...hic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone's nearly on my hotlist. Slowly accumulated over the years but i can't do anything about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never used it.

Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use hot list for potential meets and for some people who I find interesting even if I don't want to hook up with. Just find their enrollment in lifestyle interesting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use hot list for potential meets and for some people who I find interesting even if I don't want to hook up with. Just find their enrollment in lifestyle interesting."

Dan spell check... involvement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just add people I fancy and enjoy seeing there updates everyday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have quite a few on mine ~ it's my perving list mainly, contains men but also woman & couples I find interesting....

blimey I sound like a right ole stalker lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have quite a few on mine ~ it's my perving list mainly, contains men but also woman & couples I find interesting....

blimey I sound like a right ole stalker lol

Join the club

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By *ittyticklerCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Newbie ish here. What to we do please? Do we click on the hot tottie and put them in our own list.

Shame you don't come to Bristol anymore, Wyrdwoman ??

The Harlot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hot list hmmm

Consists of those I/we find yummy, but mainly, have yet to send a message. Some have moved across to friends... After the initial

Messages...

It's kind of a to do list! Or a hope to do list.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have quite a few on mine ~ it's my perving list mainly, contains men but also woman & couples I find interesting....

blimey I sound like a right ole stalker lol

^^^ Stalker

Be warned

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I've never used it.

Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though "

If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe for the benefit of those poor and despondent individuals feeling like they will have no luck,the site could have a box denoting the fact that you've been hot listed.

Assuming you will of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hot list hmmm

Consists of those I/we find yummy, but mainly, have yet to send a message. Some have moved across to friends... After the initial

Messages...

It's kind of a to do list! Or a hope to do list.

That's very efficient

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've never used it.

Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though

If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative.

Yeah it wow be good to see that actually. Who doesn't like an ego boost

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I have those I am chatting to with a view to meeting on my hotlist. They're not friends yet as that list is for those I have met and know I will meet again.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"I've never used it.

Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though

If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative.

Yeah it wow be good to see that actually. Who doesn't like an ego boost

But what if you're not on anyone's? Or you are and the number drops - you'd start thinking "well, what did I do there then to no longer be hot?" More trouble than it's worth I reckon!

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By *ucyfur77Woman
over a year ago

Pleasuretown

" Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?

Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know. "

why yes, of course. There are some gorgeous men and stunning ladies on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good point. The mystery if you ever "made it" one is a good thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have none on mine at the moment

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've never used it.

Be nice to know if I've ever featured on anyone's list though

If you could just find out how many hotlists you're on without knowing who it could either be a nice ego boost or completely deflating. The mystery is quite nice considering the alternative.

Yeah it wow be good to see that actually. Who doesn't like an ego boost

But what if you're not on anyone's? Or you are and the number drops - you'd start thinking "well, what did I do there then to no longer be hot?" More trouble than it's worth I reckon!"

or maybe you'll review your methods and profile and come out fighting

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I have a few, but it is mostly just for ease of dropping them a line

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for

mode or I might have restraining orders,,

others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon

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By *ittyticklerCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for

mode or I might have restraining orders,,

others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon

Not old enough? Are you under 18, naughty one? I'll tell your mum....

If you look at pictures, doesn't it show up on the "looked at me" bit of the admired ones account, so they can tell you've lusted after them so ardently.?

Sorry for all the Qs, but we are newish and still learning.

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By *igeiaWoman
over a year ago

Bristol

"As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for

mode or I might have restraining orders,,

others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon

Not old enough? Are you under 18, naughty one? I'll tell your mum....

If you look at pictures, doesn't it show up on the "looked at me" bit of the admired ones account, so they can tell you've lusted after them so ardently.?

Sorry for all the Qs, but we are newish and still learning."

Oh, you can stealth perv

by turning off the looked at me option in your privacy settings. People only ever know I've looked at them if I want them to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have a hot list but i have a lot of people sending me messages telling me they want to have sex, fuck knows why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one on my list at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there should be an option to choose to be informed if you've been added to someone's hotlist.

That way, if you want to know you can.

But the person who adds you won't know you know..

I think I'd like a feature like that.

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By *ittyticklerCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

"As I m not quiet Old enough yet to perve openly, there are some on my list who I enjoy looking at their pictures thank goodness for

mode or I might have restraining orders,,

others are those I m interested in and will be messaging soon

Not old enough? Are you under 18, naughty one? I'll tell your mum....

If you look at pictures, doesn't it show up on the "looked at me" bit of the admired ones account, so they can tell you've lusted after them so ardently.?

Sorry for all the Qs, but we are newish and still learning.

Oh, you can stealth perv

by turning off the looked at me option in your privacy settings. People only ever know I've looked at them if I want them to..."

Ahh, thanks. Funnily enough, I just looked at your profile because of your other thread. Very nice. The Mr likes your photos.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Mines full of status ranters. I'm easily amused.

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By *ctaviusStuntMan
over a year ago

plymouth

sometimes you cant do anything because of their preference settings. so i just enjoy the anticipation and hope they message me.

Ha and they call me a pesimist

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

" Do you have a hot list ? How long have those people been on it without you doing anything about contact ? If so why have one ?

Or maybe pluck up the courage and declare who they are in public. ..you never know. "

We use the hotlist for a few reasons....

Those that interest us but we haven't contacted yet.....or we have chatted too but not enough to make our friends list.

Those that live miles away but we like perving their pics.

Those who are always throwing strops as their rants and updates make us chuckle.

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