FabSwingers.com forum: Bisexual straight or gay

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi interested in people thoughts as to what puts us into the said groups I ask this as i have bisexual on my profile because I like to suck cocks and take anal but I do not like the idea of kissing a man and don't fancy men but am more likely to fantasise about sex with women while I mastebate does this make me curious

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By *renchbambi xWoman
over a year ago

Need to know basis

It makes you..you! With youir own desires, likes and dislikes.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I don't kiss guys, the stubble messes my foundation up

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Answer the following:

Is tangerine a

A: Fruit

B: Colour

C: Could be either.

A = Straight

B = Gay

C = Bi

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

"It makes you..you! With youir own desires, likes and dislikes."
well said

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

..its also double the fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't kiss guys, the stubble messes my foundation up

More than sperm does ?

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I don't kiss guys, the stubble messes my foundation up

More than sperm does ?"

A good facial can wreck it, but swallowing spunk seems to preserve it

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

It doesn't matter what you are as long as its fun and everyone enjoys it

Labels are for supermarkets not people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't kiss guys, the stubble messes my foundation up

More than sperm does ?

A good facial can wreck it, but swallowing spunk seems to preserve it

Another one to be filed under TinaTitz Top Tips.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't kiss guys, the stubble messes my foundation up

More than sperm does ?

A good facial can wreck it, but swallowing spunk seems to preserve it

Another one to be filed under TinaTitz Top Tips. "

TinaTitz is hilarious!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi interested in people thoughts as to what puts us into the said groups I ask this as i have bisexual on my profile because I like to suck cocks and take anal but I do not like the idea of kissing a man and don't fancy men but am more likely to fantasise about sex with women while I mastebate does this make me curious

Sounds like you are a bit past the curious stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You don't fancy them but still fuck them?

That makes you shallow

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By *plankyMan
over a year ago

Beeston

I don't understand why some have "bi curious" on their profiles for months. Seems to me that a few tries would prove to you whether you're Bi-

Unless the objective of the repeated experiments is to disprove it .....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've no idea. I don't know what goes on in peoples heads. I don't like it when men who describe themselves as straight want to meet me cos I'm bi and think I'm gonna suck their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi and love it. Simple really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im bi and love it. Simple really. Fuck men and woman

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Im bi and love it. Simple really. Fuck men and woman and sleep all night and fuck all day.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"I don't understand why some have "bi curious" on their profiles for months. Seems to me that a few tries would prove to you whether you're Bi-

Unless the objective of the repeated experiments is to disprove it ....."

Apparently some single guys don't get many frequent meets, so a description on a profile for months may just mean that he's been having to rely on self pleasuring, and hasn't touched/been touched by male or female.

The only reason I can see for labels is fab demanding one. Otherwise, just chill, explore what comes your way and just live and be happy as well as self-accepting.

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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago

Limavady

"You don't fancy them but still fuck them?

That makes you shallow"

No it doesn't.

I am the same but just enjoy having sex with guys. I don't fancy them at all. I am not alone and I am not shallow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It doesn't matter what you are as long as its fun and everyone enjoys it

Labels are for supermarkets not people

I can sort of see what you're getting at but at the same time labels on here can be important. If Mrs P was looking for a female liaison she wouldn't look at profiles of straight women. She would look at profiles of women that had labelled themselves as gay , Bi or at least Bi curious. I think labels on this site help a great deal.

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

I go through stages. At the minute I'm going through a cock stage. I love cock and can't get enough. Being with a woman doesn't really interest me right now.

However, I am always going to be bi-sexual because I fancy women, plain and simple, just because I don't want sex with them at the minute, doesn't change my natural make-up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You don't fancy them but still fuck them?

That makes you shallow

No it doesn't.

I am the same but just enjoy having sex with guys. I don't fancy them at all. I am not alone and I am not shallow."

If a male said that about a female they would be chastised and rightly so. Why should you be any different?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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you are definitely bi, I had my phase of that too... But I'm over it now. It was fun while it lasted.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

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. Might be ever so slightly bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think some guys do use 'bi-curious' as some sort of lesser bisexuality.

I think for some guys it helps convey they can be bi 'in the moment' and enjoy sex, but couldnt have a full male-on- male relationship, like some 'bisexual' men can.

its a necessary evil for a lot of people, but for some, it seems like worrying about labels is such a waste of energy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people obsess on labelling sexuality? The ancient Greeks, Romans and Egyptians treated all sexuality as normal our fucked up societies have to have these labels because the god-bothering nutters with their fictional beliefs need to impose control on the sane people.

Incidentally, sin in Spanish means without therefore anyone without sin is just without without.. !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people obsess on labelling sexuality? The ancient Greeks, Romans and Egyptians treated all sexuality as normal our fucked up societies have to have these labels because the god-bothering nutters with their fictional beliefs need to impose control on the sane people.

Incidentally, sin in Spanish means without therefore anyone without sin is just without without.. !"
weren't the ancient Greeks,Romans and Egyptians god bothering nutters too? Or is it ok as long as you believe in human sacrifice?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I don't kiss guys, the stubble messes my foundation up

oh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people obsess on labelling sexuality? !"

Because it makes it easier when seeking out someone for a sexual encounter. I label myself as straight so that filters me out out the gay or Bi guys search. Otherwise a lot of time wasting goes on.

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By *unsurreycouple1Couple
over a year ago

Surrey

Incidentally, sin in Spanish means without therefore anyone without sin is just without without.. !"

Well said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use the term het

exible..I like having sex with women but wouldn't want a relationship with one whereas I would with a guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea why there's a smiley face in that word lol so I'll split it..hetro flexible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the term het

exible..I like having sex with women but wouldn't want a relationship with one whereas I would with a guy. "

So are you not Bi-sexual?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the term het

exible..I like having sex with women but wouldn't want a relationship with one whereas I would with a guy.

So are you not Bi-sexual?"

No. To me bi sexual means you would have relationship with a man or woman equally as well as the physical side. I can live without sex with a woman but I couldn't a man.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why do people obsess on labelling sexuality? "

because this is a sexual act based site so the label is relevant and helpful, when ordering at a restaurant its less important to be labelled...

"Incidentally, sin in Spanish means without therefore anyone without sin is just without without.. !"

But sin is the English translation, from a Jewish folk tale written in Latin, so that is totally irrelevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I regard myself as a bisexual male as I enjoy sucking cock even though I prefer sex with women & have only been in relationships with women

Boner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the term het

exible..I like having sex with women but wouldn't want a relationship with one whereas I would with a guy. "

I like the term! Let's lobby for it to be added to the options!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the term het

exible..I like having sex with women but wouldn't want a relationship with one whereas I would with a guy.

I like the term! Let's lobby for it to be added to the options! "

Or lets treat this site as an NSA site, not a dating site and presume all questions are about sexual preferences not you ideal soul mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I use the term het

exible..I like having sex with women but wouldn't want a relationship with one whereas I would with a guy.

I like the term! Let's lobby for it to be added to the options!

Or lets treat this site as an NSA site, not a dating site and presume all questions are about sexual preferences not you ideal soul mate.

Hetro flexible does describe my sexual preference and has nothing to do with a relationship. I was just explaining why I use it and why I don't class myself as Bi.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I use the term het

exible..I like having sex with women but wouldn't want a relationship with one whereas I would with a guy.

I like the term! Let's lobby for it to be added to the options!

Or lets treat this site as an NSA site, not a dating site and presume all questions are about sexual preferences not you ideal soul mate.

Hetro flexible does describe my sexual preference and has nothing to do with a relationship. I was just explaining why I use it and why I don't class myself as Bi."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hetro flexible does describe my sexual preference and has nothing to do with a relationship. I was just explaining why I use it and why I don't class myself as Bi."

Not really a problem on your profile as you quantify it in the profile text, but many guys who love to suck cock, list themselves as straight and don't mention the bi-sexual tendencies until the meet, and then have the nerve to be shocked that the straight guy in the other couple doesn't particularly want him to suck his cock.

Or even worse from a personal perspective (as a couple) when women put they are Bi, but act like a rabbit in the headlights when L touches them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Hetro flexible does describe my sexual preference and has nothing to do with a relationship. I was just explaining why I use it and why I don't class myself as Bi.

Or even worse from a personal perspective (as a couple) when women put they are Bi, but act like a rabbit in the headlights when L touches them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So if you are invited round to a MF couples house and the sex is amazing and it involves close contact of simultaneous oral sex and double vaginal penetration is that bisexual activity one wonders?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight guys don't suck cocks.

Gay guys don't have sex with women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've labelled myself as bisexual cause I'm way past the curious stage, I don't fancy guys, never had, but enjoy havin sex with them, specially mf bi couples, they're so horny and you're getting the best of both worlds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight guys don't suck cocks.

Gay guys don't have sex with women."
Your profile suggests you enjoy DP. Is that not close proximity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight guys don't suck cocks.

Gay guys don't have sex with women.Your profile suggests you enjoy DP. Is that not close proximity?"

Erm yes. Not sure what point you are making here ?

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By *andyblokeMan
over a year ago

birmingham

"I don't understand why some have "bi curious" on their profiles for months. Seems to me that a few tries would prove to you whether you're Bi-

Unless the objective of the repeated experiments is to disprove it .....

The only reason I can see for labels is fab demanding one. Otherwise, just chill, explore what comes your way and just live and be happy as well as self-accepting."

spot on

totally agree chill, live and be tolerant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels appear to be very helpful to the guys who contact us wanting a bi meet.

If they have their profile correctly labelled that is helpful to us too

Those guys struggling to accept their sexuality and therefore not labelling themselves correctly or "straight", but asking to fuck mrNotts arse - find their labelling unhelpful when we tell them to do one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight guys don't suck cocks.

Gay guys don't have sex with women.Your profile suggests you enjoy DP. Is that not close proximity?

Erm yes. Not sure what point you are making here ?"
Is close proximity not viewed as bi sexual activity? Its a question nothing more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand why some have "bi curious" on their profiles for months. Seems to me that a few tries would prove to you whether you're Bi-

Unless the objective of the repeated experiments is to disprove it .....

The only reason I can see for labels is fab demanding one. Otherwise, just chill, explore what comes your way and just live and be happy as well as self-accepting.

spot on

totally agree chill, live and be tolerant. "

here here!!

everything seems to get objectified..I like some men, some I don't..I like some girls, some I don't.. same applies to TV's Its people I like that think above their appendages... and anyway, I kinda change my mind about what people put on their profiles... as long as you make the right approach, your sexuality is your business. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight guys don't suck cocks.

Gay guys don't have sex with women.Your profile suggests you enjoy DP. Is that not close proximity?

Erm yes. Not sure what point you are making here ?Is close proximity not viewed as bi sexual activity? Its a question nothing more!"

No I would say not. My first mmf were with two straight guys who dp'd me.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It doesn't matter what you are as long as its fun and everyone enjoys it

Labels are for supermarkets not people

Right...so I'll just contact any man and hope he's straight, sub and cross my fingers...now doesn't that sound daft? If people don't label themselves it makes it tricky to find like minded people!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"It doesn't matter what you are as long as its fun and everyone enjoys it

Labels are for supermarkets not people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By *tephanjMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I dont think you should be labelled within any group personally as i think s lot of us would go with the flow n do what they think suits at the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot wouldn't though.Im straight and that is the way it is staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Straight guys don't suck cocks.

Gay guys don't have sex with women.Your profile suggests you enjoy DP. Is that not close proximity?

Erm yes. Not sure what point you are making here ?Is close proximity not viewed as bi sexual activity? Its a question nothing more!"

No I don't think it does.

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Bi its double the fun xx

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