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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I am frequently amazed at the lack of awareness of some forum posters on what is basic sexual knowledge, these posters are typically in the 20 - 25 age group, and seem to know less than I did when I left school.

Given that I left school in the 70's has there been a retrograde step in school yard peer group sexual education? or is the internet to blame as usual.

These topics come up from time to time and I feel that those posters are really not on the right site, and forget it, but there has been two in the last 24 hours that are quite incredibly naive, so I thought I would put it in a thread and see what others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From my experience it's not just young people. Is it worse for older people who should know by now?

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I'm 35 soon and remember very little actual sex education from school. We all sniggered over some body part pictures in the biology books but I don't recall the actual teaching of it, I remember them teaching us about flowers and pollination though maybe they thought we could transfer that knowledge over to humans.

We did have a day when we were about 14/15 when a nurse showed us how to use condoms etc, we were all too busy laughing hysterically to pay much attention to the nice lady putting one on a cucumber though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As to them not being on the right site. There are plenty of people having sex on here who don't know their arse from their elbow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm 35 soon and remember very little actual sex education from school. We all sniggered over some body part pictures in the biology books but I don't recall the actual teaching of it, I remember them teaching us about flowers and pollination though maybe they thought we could transfer that knowledge over to humans.

We did have a day when we were about 14/15 when a nurse showed us how to use condoms etc, we were all too busy laughing hysterically to pay much attention to the nice lady putting one on a cucumber though. "

That all still goes on but students handle it better and it's not a cucumber now. They talk about relationships and homosexuality too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am frequently amazed at the lack of awareness of some forum posters on what is basic sexual knowledge, these posters are typically in the 20 - 25 age group, and seem to know less than I did when I left school.

Given that I left school in the 70's has there been a retrograde step in school yard peer group sexual education? or is the internet to blame as usual.

These topics come up from time to time and I feel that those posters are really not on the right site, and forget it, but there has been two in the last 24 hours that are quite incredibly naive, so I thought I would put it in a thread and see what others think. "

Agreed, I'm amazed at so many womens sexual immaturity on here, I think they need a good kick in the balls.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

The things I see on here that really concern me the most aren't always from the younger ones though.

Examples being.. I use condoms so I don't need to visit the gum clinic, having sex with pregnant ladies causes no possible danger to the unborn baby etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am frequently amazed at the lack of awareness of some forum posters on what is basic sexual knowledge, these posters are typically in the 20 - 25 age group, and seem to know less than I did when I left school.

Given that I left school in the 70's has there been a retrograde step in school yard peer group sexual education? or is the internet to blame as usual.

These topics come up from time to time and I feel that those posters are really not on the right site, and forget it, but there has been two in the last 24 hours that are quite incredibly naive, so I thought I would put it in a thread and see what others think.

Agreed, I'm amazed at so many womens sexual immaturity on here, I think they need a good kick in the balls."

Anyone touches my balls I'll 'ave em

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

I agree...

And may be I will not be popular for saying this but to be honest, I do not rely on the school or other people to teach my kids the basics of anything. It's 'my job' as a parent to teach them how to protect themselves sexually or not and also give them values and principles to live by. Then after that they can take their decisions to follow or not the advice.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Dont believe everything you read here or anywhere on the internet as real.

In other words it could be bullshit posts

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

have to agree, there is general innocence and then there is pure ignorance.

It has nothing to do with swinging, or 'learning about sex online'. It is more just a stupidity that is only realised once they are in a regrettable situation.

What is annoying, is the thought that they will probably blame it on swinging - such is their ignorance toward sex and their own regard for personal wellbeing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to agree, there is general innocence and then there is pure ignorance.

It has nothing to do with swinging, or 'learning about sex online'. It is more just a stupidity that is only realised once they are in a regrettable situation.

What is annoying, is the thought that they will probably blame it on swinging - such is their ignorance toward sex and their own regard for personal wellbeing. "

Blame it on swinging- how did you come to that conclusion?

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"As to them not being on the right site. There are plenty of people having sex on here who don't know their arse from their elbow "

I must confess to having a proper itchy elbow today.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree...

And may be I will not be popular for saying this but to be honest, I do not rely on the school or other people to teach my kids the basics of anything. It's 'my job' as a parent to teach them how to protect themselves sexually or not and also give them values and principles to live by. Then after that they can take their decisions to follow or not the advice."

Perhaps you have hit the answer,

perhaps the parents have abdicated responsibility so much there is no longer a pool of sufficiently educated people to discuss and share opinions / knowledge leaving the classroom as the only source.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"have to agree, there is general innocence and then there is pure ignorance.

It has nothing to do with swinging, or 'learning about sex online'. It is more just a stupidity that is only realised once they are in a regrettable situation.

What is annoying, is the thought that they will probably blame it on swinging - such is their ignorance toward sex and their own regard for personal wellbeing.

Blame it on swinging- how did you come to that conclusion? "

you realise is was a general statement not aimed at anyone in particular?

How am I supposed to answer that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"have to agree, there is general innocence and then there is pure ignorance.

It has nothing to do with swinging, or 'learning about sex online'. It is more just a stupidity that is only realised once they are in a regrettable situation.

What is annoying, is the thought that they will probably blame it on swinging - such is their ignorance toward sex and their own regard for personal wellbeing.

Blame it on swinging- how did you come to that conclusion?

you realise is was a general statement not aimed at anyone in particular?

How am I supposed to answer that? "

you could say why you say they would probably blame it on swinging. I don't see the correlation myself,I thought I was missing a point somewhere. I have a very tired brain today

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Perhaps we need a sex and relationships exam as part of the signing up process, score:-

Under 75% Go away and learn before attempting swinging.

75% - 85% Welcome to Fab, please follow this recommended reading list before creating your profile.

over 85% fancy a shag

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Im here to learn, its so much better than Biology in school.

Who wants to know how plants shag, boring.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im here to learn, its so much better than Biology in school.

Who wants to know how plants shag, boring."

Dunno, had some entertaining moments with cucumbers, aubergines and the like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

are there even that many posters who are that age range using the forums?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"are there even that many posters who are that age range using the forums?"

Probably not amongst the regulars, as I said it's normally one off ignorance but there were two threads in 24 hours caused me to comment. Also as has been pointed out there are some considerably older who really should know better who still display a lack of knowledge and understanding of basic human sexual activity & safety let alone swinging NSA whatever you want to call it levels of experimentation and associated risk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The things I see on here that really concern me the most aren't always from the younger ones though.

Examples being.. I use condoms so I don't need to visit the gum clinic, having sex with pregnant ladies causes no possible danger to the unborn baby etc"

it is ok to have sex when you are pregnant women who think it will harm the baby are the ones who worry too much.

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"The things I see on here that really concern me the most aren't always from the younger ones though.

Examples being.. I use condoms so I don't need to visit the gum clinic, having sex with pregnant ladies causes no possible danger to the unborn baby etc

it is ok to have sex when you are pregnant women who think it will harm the baby are the ones who worry too much."

Even so it aint nice is it, how would like being poked in the eye continually?

(yep, that old one)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The things I see on here that really concern me the most aren't always from the younger ones though.

Examples being.. I use condoms so I don't need to visit the gum clinic, having sex with pregnant ladies causes no possible danger to the unborn baby etc

it is ok to have sex when you are pregnant women who think it will harm the baby are the ones who worry too much.

Even so it aint nice is it, how would like being poked in the eye continually?

(yep, that old one)"

I had sex with my partner all the time i was pregnant, they used to say its good because if you feel good, then the baby feels good too.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Age has fuck all to do with it, the most sexually ignorant people I have seen on here are not in that age range at all.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Also knowing a lot about sexual acts etc...doesn't make you any better at shagging.

If you are talking relationships, most people on the forums are damaged by these in the past, or currently, so their age range varies also.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"The things I see on here that really concern me the most aren't always from the younger ones though.

Examples being.. I use condoms so I don't need to visit the gum clinic, having sex with pregnant ladies causes no possible danger to the unborn baby etc

it is ok to have sex when you are pregnant women who think it will harm the baby are the ones who worry too much.

Even so it aint nice is it, how would like being poked in the eye continually?

(yep, that old one)

I had sex with my partner all the time i was pregnant, they used to say its good because if you feel good, then the baby feels good too. "

Having sex with your regular partner while pregnant is a completely different thing to having sex with strangers for kicks.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"The things I see on here that really concern me the most aren't always from the younger ones though.

Examples being.. I use condoms so I don't need to visit the gum clinic, having sex with pregnant ladies causes no possible danger to the unborn baby etc

it is ok to have sex when you are pregnant women who think it will harm the baby are the ones who worry too much."

I rest my case. It's not about harming the baby, it's about passing std's through risky sex with unknown partners that can cause miscarriage and birth defects etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The things I see on here that really concern me the most aren't always from the younger ones though.

Examples being.. I use condoms so I don't need to visit the gum clinic, having sex with pregnant ladies causes no possible danger to the unborn baby etc

it is ok to have sex when you are pregnant women who think it will harm the baby are the ones who worry too much.

I rest my case. It's not about harming the baby, it's about passing std's through risky sex with unknown partners that can cause miscarriage and birth defects etc. "

I wasnt thinking you meant having sex with swingers, i thought you meant with a partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age has got fuck all to do with it people on here are here to have sex which ever shape or form so if they enjoy it the way they want let them get on with it that's the trouble with forums it just gives people a platform to criticise other users

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Also knowing a lot about sexual acts etc...doesn't make you any better at shagging.

If you are talking relationships, most people on the forums are damaged by these in the past, or currently, so their age range varies also."

Technical skill and knowledge alone does not make anyone better at shagging, it takes two or more to make that memorable, even then it also depends on many other factors.

I am talking about a general level of knowledge that would include knowledge about relationships, even those who have not experienced it have seen good bad and indifferent, and should know how to treat the subject based on the other persons view point (often ignoring the concept is quite appropriate)

Would be good if those involved in swinging had a general knowledge on sexual health matters, that clamidia is infectious and gay isn't would be nice...

No agenda against the 20' somethings just the two that sparked this post were in that age group, as others have been, I was wondering if the sex education system had become so single streamed that depth of knowledge is not what it used to be.

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