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"I would never postpone meeting someone so that I could meet someone else instead. That's just rude and there's no need for it at the end of the day. If I was that interested in football to want to watch the finals then I wouldn't have arranged a meet for that day/period anyway. If it was something amazing like a concert I've always wanted to see or Hubby springing a surprise weekend away etc then yes I probably would however I hope I would be sensitive enough to let the person down gently and diplomatically, fully explaining myself and expect to reap whatever consequences there were to be had." Thanks you saved me loads of typing as i agree Steve | |||
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"after reading a thread that was locked the other day, thought it was and interested topic so i have decided to split it into two.. and hope people are no so hot headed.... so ..... would you cancel a meet for a "better offer"..... in two different situations.... 1) dumping a meet for a better meet? 2) dumping a meet for another situation? i.e world cup final down the pub with mates/ concert/ actually going to the world cup final.... ect ect.... ..... and discuss........ " 1....No 2....No | |||
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"I think you ALLLLLLLLLL lie! Or just put what we are supposed to put cos you just can't admit it...... I'd LOVE to say no I wouldn't cancel on anyone. I've heard myself say it. I think it's abhorrent and evil. I'd do it. " lol granny We have cancelled a meet before now and had one cancelled on us, but it wasnt so we could go down the pub instead lol | |||
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"I think you ALLLLLLLLLL lie! Or just put what we are supposed to put cos you just can't admit it...... I'd LOVE to say no I wouldn't cancel on anyone. I've heard myself say it. I think it's abhorrent and evil. I'd do it. lol granny We have cancelled a meet before now and had one cancelled on us, but it wasnt so we could go down the pub instead lol" Ah but rugby he did say "dumping a meet for another situation?" the down the pub was an example, maybe a bad one, or thats how i read it anyway, can honestly think of many situations that could easily leed to us canceling a meet. | |||
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"after reading a thread that was locked the other day, thought it was and interested topic so i have decided to split it into two.. and hope people are no so hot headed.... so ..... would you cancel a meet for a "better offer"..... in two different situations.... 1) dumping a meet for a better meet? 2) dumping a meet for another situation? i.e world cup final down the pub with mates/ concert/ actually going to the world cup final.... ect ect.... ..... and discuss........ " It depends what you call dumping i guess. I tend to value my word so if i say i will do something it has to be a pretty good reason to change it. Reliability is a key thing to me. However i may talk to a potential meet with a view to re-arrange things. If not convenient then i would do what i originally agreed to. Saying that i tent to promise to meet with a view that if its not right i don't stay. Maybe if it was 7:30 meet and the England match started at 8pm i might be a little bias in thinking there was a lack of comparability there. Having said that would i arrange to meet up with matches already in my calender?... No | |||
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"I would say a no to Fabio's second question. His examples were trivia stuff for me. Playing red indians with a stranger wouldn't be an option for me and probablynot an option for the meet either...so that plus family I would say isn't trivial. " Hi Ruby (he says in a deep manley voice) xx | |||
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"spelling so that'll be a yes to no2 then " I would say a no to Fabio's second question. His examples were trivia stuff for me. Playing red indians with a stranger wouldn't be an option for me and probablynot an option for the meet either...so periods plus any family stuff, I would say isn't trivial. | |||
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"I would say a no to Fabio's second question. His examples were trivia stuff for me. Playing red indians with a stranger wouldn't be an option for me and probablynot an option for the meet either...so that plus family I would say isn't trivial. Hi Ruby (he says in a deep manley voice) xx " OMG swingyman with a manly voice, you answered me before I even posted, psychic or what !! | |||
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"Will try again as we were all out of sinc then lol Ok, will answer again. For periods turning upwhen they are not expected or due then yes, we would cancel For any family emergancy where our kids needed us, then yes, we would cancel....other than that, no." | |||
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" 1) dumping a meet for a better meet? 2) dumping a meet for another situation? i.e world cup final down the pub with mates/ concert/ actually going to the world cup final.... ect ect.... ..... and discuss........ " 1....no not at all 2....It would completely depend on the other situation,it would have to be pretty big and special to make me cancel,but I would hope that the meet would'nt mind too much if we rearranged,I would be gracious if it was the other way round.........as long as there was some notice | |||
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"the question was, dumping a meet for another situation? maybe i'm reading it wrong, i ignored the examples, he's a man " Pedantics pedantics !! But yes you are right he is a man . Ok my answer is ... 1. no 2. If our children ( adults really) needed us for some reason, or periods turning up when they shouldn't then we would cancel.......but we wouldn't cancel for anything trivia like to go the pub instead. How about that Dog? | |||
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"the question was, dumping a meet for another situation? maybe i'm reading it wrong, i ignored the examples, he's a man Pedantics pedantics !! But yes you are right he is a man . Ok my answer is ... 1. no 2. If our children ( adults really) needed us for some reason, or periods turning up when they shouldn't then we would cancel.......but we wouldn't cancel for anything trivia like to go the pub instead. How about that Dog? " well to me that answers yes as thats another situation nothing to do with being pedantic, just honestly couldnt see anyone saying NO to no2 and actually meaning it, because some situations are actually more important than swinging. | |||
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"okay..... let me clarify question 2.... lets take family out of it. people will always have situations where real life stuff will get in the way...... so if you knew you were going to be free... and someone said to you "look.... I know you like "x", I have a spare ticket for (insert event here)" do you cancel??? .... lets see morals now....... " In all honesty........... No | |||
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"the question was, dumping a meet for another situation? maybe i'm reading it wrong, i ignored the examples, he's a man Pedantics pedantics !! But yes you are right he is a man . Ok my answer is ... 1. no 2. If our children ( adults really) needed us for some reason, or periods turning up when they shouldn't then we would cancel.......but we wouldn't cancel for anything trivia like to go the pub instead. How about that Dog? well to me that answers yes as thats another situation nothing to do with being pedantic, just honestly couldnt see anyone saying NO to no2 and actually meaning it, because some situations are actually more important than swinging. " I know, I was being cheeky, but you are right, there are some reasons that are important that people would no doubt cancel for. x | |||
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"okay..... let me clarify question 2.... lets take family out of it. people will always have situations where real life stuff will get in the way...... so if you knew you were going to be free... and someone said to you "look.... I know you like "x", I have a spare ticket for (insert event here)" do you cancel??? .... lets see morals now....... " Still YES, more postpone than cancel though | |||
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"okay..... let me clarify question 2.... lets take family out of it. people will always have situations where real life stuff will get in the way...... so if you knew you were going to be free... and someone said to you "look.... I know you like "x", I have a spare ticket for (insert event here)" do you cancel??? .... lets see morals now....... " In all honesty...no | |||
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"okay..... let me clarify question 2.... lets take family out of it. people will always have situations where real life stuff will get in the way...... so if you knew you were going to be free... and someone said to you "look.... I know you like "x", I have a spare ticket for (insert event here)" do you cancel??? .... lets see morals now....... " NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x | |||
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" NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x " *Coughs* kop-out *coughs* | |||
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"after reading a thread that was locked the other day, thought it was and interested topic so i have decided to split it into two.. and hope people are no so hot headed.... so ..... would you cancel a meet for a "better offer"..... in two different situations.... 1) dumping a meet for a better meet? 2) dumping a meet for another situation? i.e world cup final down the pub with mates/ concert/ actually going to the world cup final.... ect ect.... ..... and discuss........ " No to both - would only cancel for a genuine emergency | |||
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" NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x *Coughs* kop-out *coughs* " What about you Fab what would you do? | |||
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" NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x *Coughs* kop-out *coughs* What about you Fab what would you do? " I'd be tempted to plead the 5th just for a laugh..... I am steadfast on 1, where I would never cancel a meet for another one... I think that is as low as it gets in swinging circles...... for 2..... it is hard where i don't think you could say no to everything.... for example if I know I have a meet planned and someone said "here fab, I have a plane ticket to south africa and a ticket for the world cup final!" I think it would be neigh on impossible to say no.... I suppose it is almost a way of finding everyone's price.... | |||
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" NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x *Coughs* kop-out *coughs* What about you Fab what would you do? " Nope not a cop out at all, there is a certain someone I have wanted to see live for years, but whenever tickets go on sale Im either skint or cant get a sitter for the time I need one for. Means Im still waiting and he no longer tours so Im prob never gonna see him live And yes Fabio what would you do?? spill all I wont tell a soul honest Shona x x x | |||
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"after reading a thread that was locked the other day, thought it was and interested topic so i have decided to split it into two.. and hope people are no so hot headed.... so ..... would you cancel a meet for a "better offer"..... in two different situations.... 1) dumping a meet for a better meet? 2) dumping a meet for another situation? i.e world cup final down the pub with mates/ concert/ actually going to the world cup final.... ect ect.... ..... and discuss........ " Sweetie, the original was my thread and I still would like to feel some guilt but I really don't, I just feel vilified! May I remind you all, IT WAS NOT A NO-SHOW, IT WAS 4 DAYS' NOTICE! lolol Get freaking over it!!! Would you turn up and fuck someone you know you have all summer to fuck if you feel so minded rather than an hour or 2 of someone who won't be there long? What sort of performance are you gonna give if you know you'd rather be elsewhere? And Fabio, thanks for your supportive pm, really appreciated sweetie and I hope we continue to be friends. But book in anyone on a World Cup match day? Even I'm not that silly!!! Love ya babe! xxx | |||
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"after reading a thread that was locked the other day, thought it was and interested topic so i have decided to split it into two.. and hope people are no so hot headed.... so ..... would you cancel a meet for a "better offer"..... in two different situations.... 1) dumping a meet for a better meet? 2) dumping a meet for another situation? i.e world cup final down the pub with mates/ concert/ actually going to the world cup final.... ect ect.... ..... and discuss........ Sweetie, the original was my thread and I still would like to feel some guilt but I really don't, I just feel vilified! May I remind you all, IT WAS NOT A NO-SHOW, IT WAS 4 DAYS' NOTICE! lolol Get freaking over it!!! Would you turn up and fuck someone you know you have all summer to fuck if you feel so minded rather than an hour or 2 of someone who won't be there long? What sort of performance are you gonna give if you know you'd rather be elsewhere? And Fabio, thanks for your supportive pm, really appreciated sweetie and I hope we continue to be friends. But book in anyone on a World Cup match day? Even I'm not that silly!!! Love ya babe! xxx " This thread isn't about you...and your aggresive attitude you really need to keep off these forums. | |||
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" NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x *Coughs* kop-out *coughs* What about you Fab what would you do? I'd be tempted to plead the 5th just for a laugh..... I am steadfast on 1, where I would never cancel a meet for another one... I think that is as low as it gets in swinging circles...... for 2..... it is hard where i don't think you could say no to everything.... for example if I know I have a meet planned and someone said "here fab, I have a plane ticket to south africa and a ticket for the world cup final!" I think it would be neigh on impossible to say no.... I suppose it is almost a way of finding everyone's price.... " You have a ticket for the world cup final!!! How much you selling for | |||
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"had it done to me...came down to who textfirst on he day apparently...which also (in his mind) was not time wasting...in fact, he suggested were-schedule and accused me of having attitude when i said no! i'd never do that to anyone...no matter what" I think this is the reason why I would never do it, because I wouldn't want to be the one on the other end....... | |||
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" NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x *Coughs* kop-out *coughs* What about you Fab what would you do? I'd be tempted to plead the 5th just for a laugh..... I am steadfast on 1, where I would never cancel a meet for another one... I think that is as low as it gets in swinging circles...... for 2..... it is hard where i don't think you could say no to everything.... for example if I know I have a meet planned and someone said "here fab, I have a plane ticket to south africa and a ticket for the world cup final!" I think it would be neigh on impossible to say no.... I suppose it is almost a way of finding everyone's price.... " I feel so cheap! You're talking cup final in South Africa I cancelled for an empty house, Corrie and a tub of Hagen Das! | |||
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" NO cos if I wanted to see whatever that badly I would have bought my own ticket Shona x x x *Coughs* kop-out *coughs* What about you Fab what would you do? I'd be tempted to plead the 5th just for a laugh..... I am steadfast on 1, where I would never cancel a meet for another one... I think that is as low as it gets in swinging circles...... for 2..... it is hard where i don't think you could say no to everything.... for example if I know I have a meet planned and someone said "here fab, I have a plane ticket to south africa and a ticket for the world cup final!" I think it would be neigh on impossible to say no.... I suppose it is almost a way of finding everyone's price.... I feel so cheap! You're talking cup final in South Africa I cancelled for an empty house, Corrie and a tub of Hagen Das! " hahaha! as long as it was a good flavour | |||
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" I feel so cheap! You're talking cup final in South Africa I cancelled for an empty house, Corrie and a tub of Hagen Das! " Offer me Hagen Das and I'll tell Brad and Angelina I'm too busy for them tomorrow! | |||
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