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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

hey all ive been on the site for nearly a month now and everytime i get chattin to a fem and seem to get on well. then when i ask for them to call me just to verify there female they start makin excuses or go offline. just wondering if there is any genuine people out there and if there is what im doing wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i was very genuine last time i look

soz 2 hear ur having probs its just

getting 2 chat 2 the right ppl tho xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are alot of sad men pretending to be single women, keep trying they are out there, we are meeting one on sat

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

It's difficult - why don't you just chat to the ones that have been picture verified? Steer clear of the ones who have been on for over a year and still not pic verified, there are lots of little pointers to the fakes! Good luck though as there are some lovely single ladies out there! Z

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

yes unfortunatly there are fakes and times wasters, they are across all catigories though be it cpls or single guys too. its happens to everyone one on the site however the geniune folks make it all worth while !!

maybe worth going in to chat if you dont already as lot of geniune fems will have cam on showing they are gen. as been said before look at verified people and verified photos verified .that will out lot of the fakes . also going to the socials too. you not only have a great laugh and night out but ppl see ur genuine and visa versa !!

i know its easy to get disheartend but brush off the fakes and time wasters at end of the day its their loss if they dont get to meet you !! xx keep the faith and youll find a playmate im sure x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its unfortunate that because access too this site is free it brings loads time wasters even cpls and men not just single girls and quiet a few single girl profiles are men just after pics ,even verified ones are somtimes fake over the yrs on here have caught loads out the only fool proof way is too go parties or local social gatherings and chat face too face before wasting time on msn or messages x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a lot of timewasters and fakes on here but i think most in the forums are gen and iam sure we will help you spot the fakes nicepair xoxox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why not insist on a phone call before taking things further, and state that on you’re profile, as for time wasters they are everywhere, but we only class time wasters as people who arrange to meet but never show, and not so much people who change their minds at any given time for reasons only they know. Good luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why not insist on a phone call before taking things further, and state that on you’re profile, as for time wasters they are everywhere, but we only class time wasters as people who arrange to meet but never show, and not so much people who change their minds at any given time for reasons only they know. Good luck. "

we would agree as an early female to female call is easy these days, and with cheep pay as you go sims your not compromising your main number if things do not go as you would have liked.

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay

Fake and Proud!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proud n Fake!! lol

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By *ushroom7Man
over a year ago

Bradford

Shake and Vac?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are also many "couples" on here who's female partner is never around.

They have a very intriguing profile but all you ever see on their webcam is the bloke tugging away. Whats the point.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"there are alot of sad men pretending to be single women, keep trying they are out there, we are meeting one on sat "

Does he know that you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are alot of sad men pretending to be single women, keep trying they are out there, we are meeting one on sat

Does he know that you know? "

dont know no! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Shake and Vac?

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Put the freshness back! lol

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By *ig badMan
over a year ago

Up North :-)


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Shake and Vac?

Put the freshness back! lol "

Do the shake and vac and put the freshness back

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By *atisfy janeWoman
over a year ago

Torquay


"There are also many "couples" on here who's female partner is never around.

They have a very intriguing profile but all you ever see on their webcam is the bloke tugging away. Whats the point."

The question is......how long do you watch the guy wank on cam before you decide it's unsavoury?...

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By *exeteraWoman
over a year ago

Bridgend


"It's difficult - why don't you just chat to the ones that have been picture verified? Steer clear of the ones who have been on for over a year and still not pic verified, there are lots of little pointers to the fakes! Good luck though as there are some lovely single ladies out there! Z"

I've been on here just over a year and not been photo verified but that doesn't mean I'm a fake or a time waster. Think my verifications prove quite the opposite.

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By *udereMan
over a year ago

haringey

an ongoing and never fully solved problem methinks

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton


"It's difficult - why don't you just chat to the ones that have been picture verified? Steer clear of the ones who have been on for over a year and still not pic verified, there are lots of little pointers to the fakes! Good luck though as there are some lovely single ladies out there! Z

I've been on here just over a year and not been photo verified but that doesn't mean I'm a fake or a time waster. Think my verifications prove quite the opposite. "

As I said there are very obvious pointers to spotting a fake - verifications pretty much take you out of that category by virtue of you having been verified in some way! Didn't want to lay out all the little things that fakes do as then they'd stop! Z

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"There are also many "couples" on here who's female partner is never around.

They have a very intriguing profile but all you ever see on their webcam is the bloke tugging away. Whats the point."

That one is a dead giveaway!

If they were a real couple the Mrs would be continually shouting at the fella to put his fucking cock away because it would put off any self-respecting woman / couple / (straight) man.

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By *obletonMan
over a year ago

A Home Among The Woodland Creatures


"hey all ive been on the site for nearly a month now and everytime i get chattin to a fem and seem to get on well. then when i ask for them to call me just to verify there female they start makin excuses or go offline. just wondering if there is any genuine people out there and if there is what im doing wrong!"

You're not doing anything wrong - you've just selected a category of meet that not only is very hard to come by, but seems to attract more than its fair share of fakes.

But dont worry, you'll develop a methodology for spotting the fakes and timewasters pretty quickly - and soon enough it will become like a spideysense and you'll be able to spot one right from the start (thats not to say that I havent been pleasantly surprised by one or two ladies that I suspected were way too good to be true).

For what its worth tho, you might be sending the wrong message to a girl looking to meet you one on one by posting pics of you with a guy and sucking on his cock

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