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Why do guys say they're solvent?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Glue,petrol.gas abusers stay well clear of that type

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

They might think it will tip the balance between getting a response and getting ignored.

Maybe they are suggesting that dinner will be on them?

I've never had a message like that on here.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that? "

because they believe that money attracts women, and it does attract some.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

They obviously don't want to get into sticky situations or at least if they do, they want to be able to get out of them

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By *himanMan
over a year ago

chichester

Im water based not solvent !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just want an excuse to get the lynx out again

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that? "

It's because they are twats, but a lot of women are materialistic and like guys with lots of money!

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By *icked weaselCouple
over a year ago

Near Edinburgh..

Solvent means = Skint...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look on the bright side, if they're solvent they may not have a greedy grasping ex in their baggage.

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Conversely, I wonder what the response would be if they said they didn't work and were claiming benefit?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you stated no poor men on your profile?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you stated no poor men on your profile? "

lol....no!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Have you stated no poor men on your profile? "

Being a notorious attracter of the unemployed type, maybe I should.

Bank balances that make Bill Gates feel inadequate only please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the ones claiming that they were / are : pilots or spend their time between here and Dubai. But either way just bragging about their social status.

No interest to me I'm afraid, it's the person and connection that counts.

The guy I have spent most time chatting to and met several times over the years is a factory worker.

In fact I think I'm more likely to hit delete on someone who tries to sell themself off their grand profession

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm flush. Who fancies a lunch?

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London


"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?

It's because they are twats, but a lot of women are materialistic and like guys with lots of money! "

Is it a lot? Pretty much every woman I know seems to have 'not being an arsehole' as their number one trait they look for.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I'm flush. Who fancies a lunch? "

Sweaty man at lunchtime?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means you can get high from sniffing them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm flush. Who fancies a lunch? "

Roll from Greggs?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I own my own company"

I don't care, I'm still not going to shag you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?

It's because they are twats, but a lot of women are materialistic and like guys with lots of money!

Is it a lot? Pretty much every woman I know seems to have 'not being an arsehole' as their number one trait they look for. "

Yeap that's pretty much at the top of my list to. Also not stinking of BO and looking like a tramp is pretty high to.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I once had one from a guy who was very big on sports cars with username, profile pic and clothing all showing a sports car.

I wasn't sure if I was meant to be meeting him or just a sports car.

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

A pic of a bike might have meant you were gonna get a good ride?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Solvent means busy means no time for sex

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"A pic of a bike might have meant you were gonna get a good ride? "

Very true

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Im guessing that they may not have had much luck and are just adding it to make them appear stable in the hope of being attractive enough overall. Some people still use fab as a bit like a dating site too, where solvent would be likely appropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Becuase in the normal dating scene, a guy is a more attractive long yerm partner to a woman (or so they believe) if he has a stable source of income. In the swinging world they actually just need to be reasonably attractive and be able to satisfy a girl. The haven't "got" the idea of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you know they are just after your pussey and not your purse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im water based not solvent !!"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that? "

They are hoping to attract the gold diggers. They wrongly assume a lot/most women are gold diggers and it will play a big part in whether you decide to meet them or not. They associate wealth with attractiveness and hope you do also.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't know ether.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I don't know ether."

Oh, you're a witty b'stard!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Open to all financial offers lmao ...

joke

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By *amamanMan
over a year ago

Inverness and around. ...

Well I'm solvent ....so where are all the solvent abusers ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it sounds good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had loads of emails from guys saying they're solvent....or that they've got a good job...why do they say that?

because they believe that money attracts women, and it does attract some."

It certainly does, usually the wrong sort.

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