FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies do we really know the people we meet on fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

totaly agree you never realy know people on here so always be wary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's dating, not swinging!

I would never bring a meet to my home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can meet "undesireables" anywhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until the court has decided if this man is guilty of involvement in such activities it would be unfair to pass comment on the validity of your concerns regards his alleged behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Surely dodgy people don't just hang around on fab?

You can meet these sorts in normal every day life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know"

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know"

Yep, I'm one of them

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Yep, I'm one of them

I can vouch for this *nods*

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men."

A woman has been charged in our area with child rape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Yep, I'm one of them

I can vouch for this *nods*"

im sure you can vouch for each other lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men."

and, not meaning to offend, but women are seemingly stupid enough to go along with them.

there are plenty of women that are locked up for child abuse, and most have said it was because of a man, so they are either stupid, or liars.

either way, not covered in glory

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I can be a bit dodgy at times...depends how high my heels are and how many vodkas I've had hehe

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We don't really know anyone we meet anywhere, this could have happened with someone from a club, bar etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Surely dodgy people don't just hang around on fab?

You can meet these sorts in normal every day life. "

I wouldn't bring anyone back to my house, whether someone off here or met elsewhere.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Yep, I'm one of them

I can vouch for this *nods*

im sure you can vouch for each other lol"

I'm not dodgy though. Completely sane, me.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Yep, I'm one of them

I can vouch for this *nods*

im sure you can vouch for each other lol

I'm not dodgy though. Completely sane, me.

Are you sure?

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Yep, I'm one of them

I can vouch for this *nods*

im sure you can vouch for each other lol

I'm not dodgy though. Completely sane, me.

Yeah, right

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

Sorry to leave it like youre all talking to yourselves but ive removed the OP - not really one for the forums Im afraid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men."

Wow for someone who thinks it's just men who are mostly Sex offenders, you don't seem to mind meeting strangers on a sex site, practice what you preach springs to mind

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You can meet dodgy people anywhere. Anywhere I am, anyway

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Sorry to leave it like youre all talking to yourselves but ive removed the OP - not really one for the forums Im afraid."

Eh, we usually end up ignoring the OP anyway

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest

"Sorry to leave it like youre all talking to yourselves but ive removed the OP - not really one for the forums Im afraid.

Eh, we usually end up ignoring the OP anyway

I know, thats why I left all the other posts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can meet dodgy people anywhere. Anywhere I am, anyway

You're normal. To me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry to leave it like youre all talking to yourselves but ive removed the OP - not really one for the forums Im afraid."

Based on this OP alone i agree!

Good call!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men.

Wow for someone who thinks it's just men who are mostly Sex offenders, you don't seem to mind meeting strangers on a sex site, practice what you preach springs to mind"

What's your point here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men.

Wow for someone who thinks it's just men who are mostly Sex offenders, you don't seem to mind meeting strangers on a sex site, practice what you preach springs to mind"

oh dear was it something i said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men.

A woman has been charged in our area with child rape."

Yes it does happen but its usualy men.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men.

A woman has been charged in our area with child rape.

Yes it does happen but its usualy men."

It does seem to more often be men I agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can meet dodgy people anywhere. Anywhere I am, anyway

You're normal. To me anyway.

I'm normal too!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some you really cant trust on here

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Yes it does happen but its usualy men.

It does seem to more often be men I agree. "

Yeah the nutty women are too busy trying to fuck up the guy's life, plotting how to get a pair of their knickers in his pocket for another woman to find, stalking them across the internet and carefully removing the top of a Pukka pie to replace the filling with dog food... just because he's showing no sign of commitment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Safety aside, don't put too much trust in a stranger then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes it does happen but its usualy men.

It does seem to more often be men I agree.

Are they realy

not quite the same thing as being a sex offender is it though.

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Yes it does happen but its usualy men.

It does seem to more often be men I agree.

Have you been reading my stalking diary Polo?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Yes it does happen but its usualy men.

It does seem to more often be men I agree.

Blimey, what a waste of a Pukka Pie!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Safety aside, don't put too much trust in a stranger then?"

Watch 'strangers on a train' by Alfred Hitchcock

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"You can meet dodgy people anywhere. Anywhere I am, anyway

You're normal. To me anyway.

I'm normal too!!!!

Odds Bodkins!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"totaly agree you never realy know people on here so always be wary."

Of course we don't know them.

Um...that it?

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

reading a book without the opening chapter is err different..

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Surely dodgy people don't just hang around on fab?

You can meet these sorts in normal every day life. "

I think they would be attracted to sites like this though for obvious reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't see the OP, but my vague answer would be that no, we don't 'know' the people we meet on here, but then how much do they know about us? I'm very vague about details from my real life with most meets as I don't need the two to be combined...one email to the boss was enough thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"is it only the ladies that need to be careful, or can blokes be careful too?

just wondering.

im sure there are some dodgy birds on here too ya know

Agree, but sex offenders are usualy men.

A woman has been charged in our area with child rape.

Yes it does happen but its usualy men."

Statistics are very sketchy because female abusers are so rarely reported by adults. Or the abuse is considered acceptable because the victim is a male and therefore should have been up for it.

They do make up the majority of people who abuse children though

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Where did this thread spring from, is it in reference to another thread, was there a context?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You can meet dodgy people anywhere. Anywhere I am, anyway

You're normal. To me anyway.

I'm normal too!!!!

Odds Bodkins!

I don't give anyone the needle !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not knowing the original post but you do what you need to do to feel safe that goes for everyone not just the ladies.

I always message off here, get to know someoen as much as I can & trust my instincts.

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By *andWCouple
over a year ago

Pontypridd

Obviously not read the OP, you cannot possibly know the people you meet on here, some people find they don't even everything about people they have spent years married to.

However we do feel the majority of the people we meet with we have a rough idea, we are FB friends with a lot of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Changing my mind set, go for what you need.

Always have long chats,and of course public place first.

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, everyone i've met. Socially and privately have made my journey on fab, FAB!

Think i have made some fab sexy kinky friends. But, that's how i'm using the site - not looking to fuck around you see.

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