FabSwingers.com forum: Profiles and honesty

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have put on our profile what we are looking for, yet we get messages from people we are not interested in yet claim they are what we are seeking, they argue the point but their profile stays the same. We read profiles of those who contact us before replying to them so why the f*ck do they argue about their own profile?

How deep does our block pot have to be to get what we seek?

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

they put it on by mistake and don't know how to change it ...

so they are actually 56 and not 36

and the 9 inch is 9 cm

they misunderstood and are bi-lingual and not bi-sexual

and they are only single on Thursday night between 7pm and 10pm when the wife is at bingo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile is less than thirty words - it hardly goes into granular detail.

Perhaps the key is to be more specific in your profile to achieve better results?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet couples but I read your profile and I assume the female half wants some fun too? So where is the information about her and you need more information too. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You've a one line profile that says nothing, if I was looking for a couple to play with I would pass you by so I can see why people try it on. Just because you have put a tick in a few boxes and looking for mf, m etc and an age preference doesn't mean that people will see that as set in stone simply because you need to elaborate in the waffle bit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but your profile has that "single guy on couple profile hoping for better luck" feel about it. How can you say your a couple and text says your a guy? If your profile is that confused you cant blame messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry but your profile has that "single guy on couple profile hoping for better luck" feel about it. How can you say your a couple and text says your a guy? If your profile is that confused you cant blame messages"

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Never really understood not being honest on a profile...

It does not matter if its a single guy pretending to be a couple, a bi guy pretending to be straight or a straight guy pretending to be bi.

The lie will be found out, so why not be honest from the start?

Just my opinion...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never really understood not being honest on a profile...

It does not matter if its a single guy pretending to be a couple, a bi guy pretending to be straight or a straight guy pretending to be bi.

The lie will be found out, so why not be honest from the start?

Just my opinion..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH put this on here on my behalf and here is why he put it on here because of those that have contacted me!

""""We have put on our profile what we are looking for, yet we get messages from people we are not interested in yet claim they are what we are seeking, they argue the point but their profile stays the same. We read profiles of those who contact us before replying to them so why the f*ck do they argue about their own profile?

How deep does our block pot have to be to get what we seek?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest your profile wasn't really worth reading!

It's a one liner!!

And as others have said it does come across as a male profile.

It's much easier to fill in your profile a bit more and use your filters to block those that you don't want contact with.

Than to rant about unwanted attention

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Why do you have 2 couples profiles....that's confusing!! Just have one good one lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why have you got 2 couples profiles?

Comfuddled now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is called choice of the individual he can pick from his and she can pick from hers because as we have found you do get different people contacting one but not the other. The profile for me on here is :

"I am the lady of the couple, I am looking for fun times with another bi guy (me + hubby+ 1) in threesome situations or maybe to watch two guys make out.

Rules = Non smokers only. If you have straight on your profile, please be honest otherwise I am not interested, sorry."

If you can improve on this please advise me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is some bullshit

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"It is called choice of the individual he can pick from his and she can pick from hers because as we have found you do get different people contacting one but not the other. The profile for me on here is :

"I am the lady of the couple, I am looking for fun times with another bi guy (me + hubby+ 1) in threesome situations or maybe to watch two guys make out.

Rules = Non smokers only. If you have straight on your profile, please be honest otherwise I am not interested, sorry."

If you can improve on this please advise me!"

Why can't you pick together off one profile? What if he picks someone you don't like?

As for improvements....there are many!! Expand on you, what you like, how you like it, expand on who you are looking for. If your current generic option isn't working then try being more specific

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is some bullshit

And I am now confuseddotcom x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I find having 2 profiles for the same couple misleading.

As a couple surely you should pick together?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have put on our profile what we are looking for, yet we get messages from people we are not interested in yet claim they are what we are seeking, they argue the point but their profile stays the same. We read profiles of those who contact us before replying to them so why the f*ck do they argue about their own profile?

How deep does our block pot have to be to get what we seek?"

Just go with it, block and move on...nothing changes, some people are the way they are.

I'm too sunburnt to say anymore.....

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