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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is a difficult one but bear with me. Can someone explain to me how some sites can say on one hand, this site is for fun only and people should not charge a fee for sexual favours. Yet allow people under a club name make money providing sexual opportunity.

My reason to ask is. If l as a dom male wish to playout a kink scenario say as a pimp and organise a gangbang or slave auction for my female partner ( slave ) and ask for money or a fee from the many single guys who reply to the post. I would probably get warned about it and possibly banned.

Yet you read about people on sites with club names doing exactly that.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Nope.

The clubs already exist and people pay for an ENTRANCE not for sex.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You could use monopoly money.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry I've lost you

Are you asking why it's ok for clubs to advertise their entrance fees?

Or implying others are using the club name to obtain money?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sorry I've lost you

Are you asking why it's ok for clubs to advertise their entrance fees?

Or implying others are using the club name to obtain money? "

Think he means the first question

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you could lay on a buffet and charge them for that.

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By *az_1976Man
over a year ago

Peterborough/Huntingdon

The club charge for entry, not for sex. Equally an escort charges for company, not sex (well that's what they tell the coppers anyway)

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

Sex for money is guaranteed ie if someone is paying for sex with a woman at a gangbang.

Sex at clubs is not guaranteed and you are only paying to enter the club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And what if the host/hostess of such a club charges entry and then has sex with those who have paid the entrance charge, Is that equivalent to having sex for money?

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia


"This is a difficult one but bear with me. Can someone explain to me how some sites can say on one hand, this site is for fun only and people should not charge a fee for sexual favours. Yet allow people under a club name make money providing sexual opportunity.

My reason to ask is. If l as a dom male wish to playout a kink scenario say as a pimp and organise a gangbang or slave auction for my female partner ( slave ) and ask for money or a fee from the many single guys who reply to the post. I would probably get warned about it and possibly banned.

Yet you read about people on sites with club names doing exactly that. "
then why not arrange a meet like this at a club? Spose also if you were arranging such a meet would it be for yours and all concerned fun ? Or would you be doing to cash in on any payment you may require or intend to charge?

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

There are at least a couple of clubs in the Midlands to my knowledge that have paid girls to entertain the guests (maybe both male and female) so I get the poster's point of view. Doesn't mean I agree with paying for sex at either venue but it is double standards

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks to all who responded to the question.

I and her like many others enjoy playing within the sexual kink aspect of D's though as mentioned in our profile we arn't swingers and we are not really social butterflies. So " fun " is not an appropiate word we use in our play. Btw l and het hate the word play. We live a lifestyle.

When l take her out, for her to consensually give up her submission to me, say by placing her naked bound and gagged in the boot of my car to go shopping. It's not for " fun " or " play " it's serious on many levels.

Many thanks for taking the time to read and offer an opinion. Adam

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all who responded to the question.

I and her like many others enjoy playing within the sexual kink aspect of D's though as mentioned in our profile we arn't swingers and we are not really social butterflies. So " fun " is not an appropiate word we use in our play. Btw l and het hate the word play. We live a lifestyle.

When l take her out, for her to consensually give up her submission to me, say by placing her naked bound and gagged in the boot of my car to go shopping. It's not for " fun " or " play " it's serious on many levels.

Many thanks for taking the time to read and offer an opinion. Adam"

I dont see what this has to do with your original question

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all who responded to the question.

I and her like many others enjoy playing within the sexual kink aspect of D's though as mentioned in our profile we arn't swingers and we are not really social butterflies. So " fun " is not an appropiate word we use in our play. Btw l and het hate the word play. We live a lifestyle.

When l take her out, for her to consensually give up her submission to me, say by placing her naked bound and gagged in the boot of my car to go shopping. It's not for " fun " or " play " it's serious on many levels.

Many thanks for taking the time to read and offer an opinion. Adam

I dont see what this has to do with your original question

Gimp"

Seems very condescending to me. A post to infer they are much more serious and important than any of us mere swingers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all who responded to the question.

I and her like many others enjoy playing within the sexual kink aspect of D's though as mentioned in our profile we arn't swingers and we are not really social butterflies. So " fun " is not an appropiate word we use in our play. Btw l and het hate the word play. We live a lifestyle.

When l take her out, for her to consensually give up her submission to me, say by placing her naked bound and gagged in the boot of my car to go shopping. It's not for " fun " or " play " it's serious on many levels.

Many thanks for taking the time to read and offer an opinion. Adam

I dont see what this has to do with your original question

Gimp

Seems very condescending to me. A post to infer they are much more serious and important than any of us mere swingers. "

Ah right, Probably why i didnt get it then because i'm in it only to enjoy myself not gain a Doctorate

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thanks to all who responded to the question.

I and her like many others enjoy playing within the sexual kink aspect of D's though as mentioned in our profile we arn't swingers and we are not really social butterflies. So " fun " is not an appropiate word we use in our play. Btw l and het hate the word play. We live a lifestyle.

When l take her out, for her to consensually give up her submission to me, say by placing her naked bound and gagged in the boot of my car to go shopping. It's not for " fun " or " play " it's serious on many levels.

Many thanks for taking the time to read and offer an opinion. Adam

I dont see what this has to do with your original question

Gimp

Seems very condescending to me. A post to infer they are much more serious and important than any of us mere swingers.

Ah right, Probably why i didnt get it then because i'm in it only to enjoy myself not gain a Doctorate

Gimp"

In it to enjoy your self ! sounds selfish to me but then l am not into insulting people, unless it's humiliation play a person wishes. Peoples personal kink is no more important then anyone elses. The rules and protocols of bdsm are just different to swinging in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all who responded to the question.

I and her like many others enjoy playing within the sexual kink aspect of D's though as mentioned in our profile we arn't swingers and we are not really social butterflies. So " fun " is not an appropiate word we use in our play. Btw l and het hate the word play. We live a lifestyle.

When l take her out, for her to consensually give up her submission to me, say by placing her naked bound and gagged in the boot of my car to go shopping. It's not for " fun " or " play " it's serious on many levels.

Many thanks for taking the time to read and offer an opinion. Adam

I dont see what this has to do with your original question

Gimp

Seems very condescending to me. A post to infer they are much more serious and important than any of us mere swingers.

Ah right, Probably why i didnt get it then because i'm in it only to enjoy myself not gain a Doctorate

Gimp

In it to enjoy your self ! sounds selfish to me but then l am not into insulting people, unless it's humiliation play a person wishes. Peoples personal kink is no more important then anyone elses. The rules and protocols of bdsm are just different to swinging in my opinion."

Of course it is selfish, I am a Human being and we are all selfish to some degree, Why should i do something that i am going to get no pleasure from.

As for Rules i would laugh at anyone that tried to tell me i had to do things or act in a certain way with a consenting partner and i certainly wouldnt read some Rulebook that sets sexual lifestyles in Stone.

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is a difficult one but bear with me. Can someone explain to me how some sites can say on one hand, this site is for fun only and people should not charge a fee for sexual favours. Yet allow people under a club name make money providing sexual opportunity.

My reason to ask is. If l as a dom male wish to playout a kink scenario say as a pimp and organise a gangbang or slave auction for my female partner ( slave ) and ask for money or a fee from the many single guys who reply to the post. I would probably get warned about it and possibly banned.

Yet you read about people on sites with club names doing exactly that. "

If you wish to 'play out' a scenario then you would return the money afterwards. If you kept the money then that would become illegal.

As a dom you should know setting up a scene should consider perspective, that is as long as the sub thinks she's being sold or that strangers are paying you to have sex with her then you've achieved the illusion.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks to all who responded to the question.

I and her like many others enjoy playing within the sexual kink aspect of D's though as mentioned in our profile we arn't swingers and we are not really social butterflies. So " fun " is not an appropiate word we use in our play. Btw l and het hate the word play. We live a lifestyle.

When l take her out, for her to consensually give up her submission to me, say by placing her naked bound and gagged in the boot of my car to go shopping. It's not for " fun " or " play " it's serious on many levels.

Many thanks for taking the time to read and offer an opinion. Adam

I dont see what this has to do with your original question

Gimp"

Nope, neither do I. If being tied up and gagged in a boot isn't fun then why do it?! It is play. She is not being kidnapped or abducted, it is role play. You may set up a scene where the kidnappers play the role but you return to normal (whatever normal may be for you) life afterwards.

crystal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clubs have running costs. Although they are ultimately a business and there to make money they charge because they can't do it for free. If you want a gang bang to see your partner get used then you should pay for the room. If it's a woman you don't know then everyone should pay equally to cover the cost of the room

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