FabSwingers.com forum: Help me plan this...

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So...Bishop is out of state for a few days and I am missing him terribly. I am thinking of some surprises for him when he comes back. I want to make a sexual bucket list for us...help me think of some ideas.

Interesting places?

Positions?

Partners?

Anything really.

Thanks!

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

What has been on his wish list?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

He want a MFF. Working on that one.

Here is what I have so far...just some ideas to keep things interesting...mild so far.

Setting the mood

- by candlelight

- to music

- massage for him

- massage for her

- extended forplay

Around the house

- kitchen floor

- kitchen table

- stairs

- kids’ playset

- front porch

- shower

- top bunk

ooh la la

- be his slave

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"He want a MFF. Working on that one.

Here is what I have so far...just some ideas to keep things interesting...mild so far.

Setting the mood

- by candlelight

- to music

- massage for him

- massage for her

- extended forplay

Around the house

- kitchen floor

- kitchen table

- stairs

- kids’ playset

- front porch

- shower

- top bunk

ooh la la

- be his slave

That's sounding romantic. Is that the mood you want or do you want to shake things up a bit and make it dirtier? More intense?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Both...I am a little OCD. I'm going to make him a book and categorize it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Setting the mood

- by candlelight

- to music

- massage for him

- massage for her

- extended forplay

- during a thunder storm

Around the house

- kitchen floor

- kitchen table

- stairs

- kids’ playset

- front porch

- shower

- top bunk

ooh la la

- be his slave

- be her slave

- make a video

- take pictures

- Use toys

- chocolate syrup and whipped cream

Tease

- no panties in a sundress

- Road head

- have him watch her play

- have him watch her play on skype

- have her watch him play

- have her watch him play on skype

Outdoors

- in a tent

- under the stars

- skinny dipping

- in the car

- on a balcony

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Maybe start dirty and move onto just the two of you and romance then. Instead of foreplay make it the teasing afterplay.

Greet him with a surprise under your clothes or dressed as a present that he has to unwrap. Use the ribbons to tie him to a chair and then give him a lap dance where he can't touch and you you make him think you will touch him before pulling away.

Bring on the other woman (if you manage to find someone and she is willing) to take over the dance as you use your hands on him before pulling away and running your hands over her.

I'll leave the rest for others.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

Where are you meeting him?

Home or elsewhere?

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Maybe bring on some cuckold fun, if you feel it is right. Or design some quests, with rewards.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'll be meeting him at the airport, but I will have my boys with me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

"I'll be meeting him at the airport, but I will have my boys with me."

Then have the surprise under your clothes and whisper a clue when you give him his welcome home kiss.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Don't break the kids play set...you will have upset kids and trying to explain how it broke would be interesting lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll be meeting him at the airport, but I will have my boys with me.

Then have the surprise under your clothes and whisper a clue when you give him his welcome home kiss.

Good plan...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't break the kids play set...you will have upset kids and trying to explain how it broke would be interesting lol

It is huge and wooden...an elephant couldn't break that thing.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Setting the mood

- by candlelight

- to music

- massage for him

- massage for her

- extended forplay

- during a thunder storm

Around the house

- kitchen floor

- kitchen table

- stairs

- kids’ playset

- front porch

- shower

- top bunk

ooh la la

- be his slave

- be her slave

- make a video

- take pictures

- Use toys

- chocolate syrup and whipped cream

Tease

- no panties in a sundress

- Road head

- have him watch her play

- have him watch her play on skype

- have her watch him play

- have her watch him play on skype

Outdoors

- in a tent

- under the stars

- skinny dipping

- in the car

- on a balcony

The more the merrier

- Threesome with 2 women

- Threesome with 2 men

- Couples play

- Cam play with another couple

Other

- wake her with oral

- wake him with oral

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Don't break the kids play set...you will have upset kids and trying to explain how it broke would be interesting lol

It is huge and wooden...an elephant couldn't break that thing."

Haha ok

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

"I'll be meeting him at the airport, but I will have my boys with me.

Then have the surprise under your clothes and whisper a clue when you give him his welcome home kiss.

Lingerie under clothes, no knickers, open legs to show him whilst driving home, a toy inserted somewhere. Perhaps, if you have it, one of those electric eggs and hand him the control for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'll be meeting him at the airport, but I will have my boys with me.

Then have the surprise under your clothes and whisper a clue when you give him his welcome home kiss.

Lingerie under clothes, no knickers, open legs to show him whilst driving home, a toy inserted somewhere. Perhaps, if you have it, one of those electric eggs and hand him the control for it.

I may do a sundress with no panties...and let him know on the way home...because we'll be dropping them off with their dad on the way home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm trying to think in your 'romantic' way...but pushing the boat out a little further

So first you've gotta let the kids stay with their grandparents or something. Then arrange a beautiful candlelit dinner at home, with a big table cloth draped over the table...but have it be served by an absolutely stunning woman dressed somewhat provocatively. You may need to hire a stripper to do this. Nothing too provocative...because sex should only be suggested/implied not made obvious. As she serves she bends over and you can see her cleavage from the front and her gorgeous ass in a short skirt from behind. Unbeknownst to your hubby you've arranged this with her and each time she does her 'show' you touch him up under the table, making him hard, winking at him, and making silent signals about how sexy she is. Then, at some point, you slip under that long table cloth (remember that? lol) and start giving him a blow job. Whilst you're doing that your sexy maid comes back in and starts to collect the plates and stuff, again bending over provocatively. She starts up a conversation with your hubby, asking where you are, how the meal is so far etc. Your hubby still thinks she's just an ordinary maid and tries acting normally as you blow him under the table, pretending to her that you've gone off to 'powder your nose'

Only later...in bed...you can reveal to him that the whole thing was a set up for him...a naughty role play treat. There you go....that's something a bit romantic but also downright kinky...hope you like it

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Don't break the kids play set...you will have upset kids and trying to explain how it broke would be interesting lol

It is huge and wooden...an elephant couldn't break that thing."

Why would you want to have a kids playset in your sexual ideas?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't break the kids play set...you will have upset kids and trying to explain how it broke would be interesting lol

It is huge and wooden...an elephant couldn't break that thing.

Why would you want to have a kids playset in your sexual ideas?"

Because it has a fort. Don't judge me. Lol.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"Don't break the kids play set...you will have upset kids and trying to explain how it broke would be interesting lol

It is huge and wooden...an elephant couldn't break that thing.

Why would you want to have a kids playset in your sexual ideas?

Because it has a fort. Don't judge me. Lol.

I am...I find it inappropriate.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

"Don't break the kids play set...you will have upset kids and trying to explain how it broke would be interesting lol

It is huge and wooden...an elephant couldn't break that thing.

Why would you want to have a kids playset in your sexual ideas?

Because it has a fort. Don't judge me. Lol.

I am...I find it inappropriate."

Me too! Sorry OP but there must be enough stuff around your house without getting down to it on something that belongs to your kids.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

To each his own, I guess. My wonderful sons are intelligent, compassionate, well-rounded, respectful, creative little men so apparently, I have done a great job so far. So...if you must judge...judge away. Any non-judgemental people want to help with the original question? I have until Monday afternoon to get this done for him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No judgment from me BishopsQueen

I think it would be weird if you felt sexual around your kiddies stuff...and maybe that's what the previous two posters are getting at. However, I don't get the sense that this is where you're coming from. But, to be honest, you haven't given us enough info about what makes you tick for me to make any kind of informed opinion on you....and quite rightly so...that stuff's private and none of our business

It's always a risk you take on the web, however, sharing a little info with a lot of people will always lead a few to leap to some big assumptions. I think I understand why the previous two posters made those assumptions...but I think they were probably misjudged

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No judgment from me BishopsQueen

Well, thank you. Ah, yeah. It has nothing to do with it belonging to the kids. It has more to do with it's OUTSIDE and fun. Yeah...I am a teacher...I have 2 sons and Bishop's son. I very rarely care what people say/think about me. So I am not really offended...more entertained that people judge so easily.

BUT, back to working on the surprise for Bishop. I have worn the kiddos out today with summer activities and they are napping. I want to get as much done as I can before they wake up again.

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By *adybee77Woman
over a year ago

MAMOBA, miles and miles of bugger all (Aberdeenshire)

no judgements here either, but I find the kids toys and the top bunk worrying.

I would never do anything in my weeman's bedroom/space/toys. Even before we moved in here, my other half suggested christening my new flat (we don't live together) but I would not do anything in my weemans room - even when it was a brand new house, with nothing in it.

Each to their own I guess, but if you put it out in an online forum, then you will get judged.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like I said, that's okay. LOL...my kids' top bunk is too close to the ceiling (and too cluttered with stuffed animals) for anything fun. However, there is a rental cabin near here with bunks.

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