FabSwingers.com forum: Not happy !!!!

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just had a text message off a guy ive been seeing a few times informing me he hasnt been honest with me and that he has a girlfriend,she has seen our text messages and he has told her that its just been sex texting and that she now has my number and if she trys calling me would i lie for him ive had three missed calls off a unknown number so probably her , I am mad cos he has lied .so do i ignore and block ? has this happened to anyone else x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it depends how much you like him, people on here lie about all sorts of things, maybe just block him and change your mobile number.

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By *oom18Couple
over a year ago

Rotherham

Block the lying toe rag,unless you want to get involved in someone elses domestics.

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By *issHottieBottieWoman
over a year ago

Kent

I wouldn't lie for him if it were me.

She's probably angry and you'll get the blame and there's no way id get an earful off someone for something that wasn't my fault and then lie for him.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Block his number and unknown numbers, don't have any further contact with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just had a text message off a guy ive been seeing a few times informing me he hasnt been honest with me and that he has a girlfriend,she has seen our text messages and he has told her that its just been sex texting and that she now has my number and if she trys calling me would i lie for him ive had three missed calls off a unknown number so probably her , I am mad cos he has lied .so do i ignore and block ? has this happened to anyone else x"

At least he was honest about it to you...in the end! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

god no i dont want to get involved i hate lyers and now feeling bad for her it was only fun with him no feelings what so ever x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just had this happened to me last sunday ...block and move on ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could end up dodgy..... Your both the innocent parties considering he's lied but big decision wether to be a bitch and tell her honestly or not...... Good luck whatever you decide to do x xxx

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

can you block the number from your phone .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depending on the phone you use. You can block numbers that are not in your phone book.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why would you want to speak to him ?

Why would you want to speak to her ?

You know the answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Block his number and unknown numbers, don't have any further contact with him "
yes im going to just feel such a idiot x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and block them both. You don't owe him anything and entering into dialogue with her is a bad idea...let him clean up his own mess...

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Sorry I had overlooked the possibility that you might like being lied to by someone who is also lying to their partner and being asked to be a liar too and getting him off the hook so that he can continue lying to her and you ...and anyone else.....

If that is so ....accept my apologies and get right in there with the lies .

Dogs n fleas n all that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Depending on the phone you use. You can block numbers that are not in your phone book. "
just looking now im on samsung so i think i can reject the calls dont know about blocking x

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you didn't ever accommodate him did you? she could be banging on your door soon if you did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prob just tell him I'm not willing to lie for him, then block him... Let him stew on what I'm gonna do. Don't think I'd answer the phone to her though either as I don't want to get involved, however chances are she'll not stop trying and may use friends phones. If I were to end up answering the phone to her, whether by accident or because of persistence, I wouldn't lie for him, but would make it clear that as soon as I found out about her, he was history. I don't agree with a previous poster though that being honest with her is being a bitch as if I were her if want to know the truth and not be lied to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

I know I shouldn't but

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

He's willingly lied to you, so should face the consequences. I'd answer the with-held number and if it is his girlfriend tell her the truth then hang up. He deserves everything he gets! If you stay silent he'll get away with it and probably move onto another unsuspecting lady to do the same thing all over again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block, ignore and change your phone number. Get a pay as you go phone for fab meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would totally ignore and block if can.i wouldnt see the bloke again.plebty more fish in the sea who dont bring u drama

if you answer your just get abuse as she will be angry.and it probably wouldn't stop there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

I know I shouldn't but

I actually think that's a good reply, I think I would do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He's willingly lied to you, so should face the consequences. I'd answer the with-held number and if it is his girlfriend tell her the truth then hang up. He deserves everything he gets! If you stay silent he'll get away with it and probably move onto another unsuspecting lady to do the same thing all over again."

Yes maybe he should get what he deserves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get him to come over one last time, film that shit & post it on FB so his Gf can see what type of swine he really is

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

I know I shouldn't but

I actually think that's a good reply, I think I would do that

Naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

I know I shouldn't but

I actually think that's a good reply, I think I would do that

Naughty

when she calls ask her how long they have been together then add another year on and say we have been together that long, we got engaged this year and was looking to buy a house together so its you whos cheating with my boyfriend, but you can have him now I know what he's doing I don't want him, then hang up

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

No ! Just ignore.......

I've had a horrible thought ...... What if ...... WHAT IF...... they both get off on pretending she doesn't know..... and they get even more off on her phoning up to demand to know what the sex was like.....ewwwwwwwwww

Block the phone. Lock the doors and if you accomodated him ....... board up the windows....

failing that .......moooooooove !!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sorry I had overlooked the possibility that you might like being lied to by someone who is also lying to their partner and being asked to be a liar too and getting him off the hook so that he can continue lying to her and you ...and anyone else.....

If that is so ....accept my apologies and get right in there with the lies .

Dogs n fleas n all that."
lol no i dont like been lied to ive blocked their numbers now im having no part of it ! at all just feel sorry for her now x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

hahahahah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Get him to come over one last time, film that shit & post it on FB so his Gf can see what type of swine he really is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this happen to me a couple years except it was his wife.

I chose to tell the truth even to the point of saying if I had know first I may well have meet him anyway but that she would never have found out because I would never have text him in first place.

She cried I cried , she was glad I told truth and I changed my outlook and ways.

After call blocked never heard from them again.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

If that is so ....accept my apologies and get right in there with the lies .

Dogs n fleas n all that. lol no i dont like been lied to ive blocked their numbers now im having no part of it ! at all just feel sorry for her now x"

Good move

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No ! Just ignore.......

Block the phone. Lock the doors and if you accomodated him ....... board up the windows....

failing that .......moooooooove !!"
lol youve cheered me up ...i didnt accomodate he works up here during the week and stays in hotels im just going to move on and ignore x

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

Now you've sorted it, have a nice fish finger sandwich and a cup of tea.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

"Now you've sorted it, have a nice fish finger sandwich and a cup of tea. "

Ryan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

(m) Don't lie for him. He lied to you in the first place which doesn't make him a trustworthy person. Why lie for a lier. If he lied to you about that, what else is he lying about. You can always answer the phone to her, & explain that he lied to you. He deserves what he gets for being a cheat. You're not sychic, so how could you know. Any upset he has caused his girlfriend/wife is not your fault.

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

just out of curiosity, did you meet him on fab? if not, does he know you swing? honesty has to be a 2 wayb street, if you met him here then surely its nsa sex? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just answer and say you weren't told about her, and the rest is between the two of them to resolve as you shouldn't face any wrath or stress over the matter. Then move on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just out of curiosity, did you meet him on fab? if not, does he know you swing? honesty has to be a 2 wayb street, if you met him here then surely its nsa sex? Z

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....yes i met him on here was seeing him regular when he was working up here when he stayed in hotels so there was never anything personal in his room that would indicate he was in a relationship ...he then said he was closing his account becsuse he only ever met me lol ? i thought nothing of it i was having fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

" Just answer and say you weren't told about her, and the rest is between the two of them to resolve as you shouldn't face any wrath or stress over the matter. Then move on "
lol im not going to stress over it decided to block .laugh it off and move on x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block him, no matter how much I liked someone, lying to me is sooo not on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Block him, no matter how much I liked someone, lying to me is sooo not on

this

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I think I'd be rather unhappy about it all. Essentially, though, as the good people of Fab Land have pointed out, it isn't your problem and this is one you can walk away from.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think I'd be rather unhappy about it all. Essentially, though, as the good people of Fab Land have pointed out, it isn't your problem and this is one you can walk away from.

Well said Tina like always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

Then ask if she wants a threesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get it on with her and have a threesome...or just an FF...leaving himout in the cold

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

Then ask if she wants a threesome."

I swear we are separated at birth...fancy a shag? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

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naughty but funny lol

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

Don't know how he has the balls to lie to you and then expect you to save his bacon lol !

As this shows, despite cheats professing ..oh they'll never get found out.clearly they do lol!

Leave him to the drama he's created .just use this as a learn for future and enjoy your fun .x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once had similar, was having dinner with a man I'd met through a dating site and his wife phoned my mobile ....... I told him it was for him passed him my mobile then left the table to get my coat.

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By *wiftieeMan
over a year ago

near Glasgow

" Depending on the phone you use. You can block numbers that are not in your phone book. just looking now im on samsung so i think i can reject the calls dont know about blocking x"

If your handset or SP doesn't let you block numbers, as you have a Samsung you're obviously on Android. So just download one of the number blocking apps, a friend has done this and it works fine, blocks texts and calls.

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Once had similar, was having dinner with a man I'd met through a dating site and his wife phoned my mobile ....... I told him it was for him passed him my mobile then left the table to get my coat.

Did'nt you ask for your mobile phone back 1st?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had similar, was having dinner with a man I'd met through a dating site and his wife phoned my mobile ....... I told him it was for him passed him my mobile then left the table to get my coat.

Did'nt you ask for your mobile phone back 1st?

Collected it after getting my coat ..... was most upset at missing my pudding though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What Plank leaves sex text on thier phoen? what a twat!! I would block him for being an IDIOT!

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Once had similar, was having dinner with a man I'd met through a dating site and his wife phoned my mobile ....... I told him it was for him passed him my mobile then left the table to get my coat.

Did'nt you ask for your mobile phone back 1st?

Collected it after getting my coat ..... was most upset at missing my pudding though. "

Should've ordered sponge pudding and custard and tipped it over his head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Once had similar, was having dinner with a man I'd met through a dating site and his wife phoned my mobile ....... I told him it was for him passed him my mobile then left the table to get my coat.

Did'nt you ask for your mobile phone back 1st?

Collected it after getting my coat ..... was most upset at missing my pudding though.

Should've ordered sponge pudding and custard and tipped it over his head.

I'd have defeated the purpose by licking it off him though.

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world

"No ! Just ignore.......

Block the phone. Lock the doors and if you accomodated him ....... board up the windows....

failing that .......moooooooove !!"

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Block his number and hers and respond to no other contact. Blank the lying arse. Cut him dead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, you should name and shame him! How many others he is doing that to! His poor other half not knowing either, bet she is mentally drained! Next time it rings, answer it start off with, 'I didn't know he was attached' and let rip!!! This isnt your fault!

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

You could always ask if you can have your strap-on attachment back, as last time he went home with it still inserted...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You could always ask if you can have your strap-on attachment back, as last time he went home with it still inserted...

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lmao xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

well thanks for the advise some made me laugh and tempted to do ..but ive decided to leave him a message before ive blocked him with the advice that he should man up confess and deal with it and that hes on his own no help from me !! with a ps .. that i saved his g/f number and should he try to contact me on here then i shall be sending her the pics of him i think that should teach himx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why in gods name would you lie for him when he lied to you . if it rings again answer it . politely tell her the full facts and that he never told you about her . then block and put it down to experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dump him

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Tell her he's your husband and what the fuck does she think she's doing breaking up your family?... etc... that should stop him asking anything like that again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text her back and tell her your his wife and what's she doing with him

Then ask if she wants a threesome.

I swear we are separated at birth...fancy a shag? x"

Like looking in a mirror.

Get yer kit off.

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