FabSwingers.com forum: explain please

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So this is not me by the way

BUT

why meet someone vanilla get married a few months ago and start cheating on her straight away?

am i missing something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

maybe ask him?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's a bit silly. Also very wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i guess some people dont take marriage that seriously, human beings are complicated though.

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By *atcherofmyballsMan
over a year ago

hereford

She stopped giving bj's

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By *oe_Steve_NWestCouple
over a year ago

Bolton

"So this is not me by the way

BUT

why meet someone vanilla get married a few months ago and start cheating on her straight away?

am i missing something?"

What does this have to do with you? Z

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So this is not me by the way

BUT

why meet someone vanilla get married a few months ago and start cheating on her straight away?

am i missing something?"

I haven't got a clue but then again I stopped judging people a long time ago.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Well those that are bothered will say cheating is cheating. What about you OP?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"So this is not me by the way

BUT

why meet someone vanilla get married a few months ago and start cheating on her straight away?

am i missing something?"

Because they can probably.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i met a young bloke once, ages ago who told me that he hadnt been married very long, i thought that maybe he married her just for something to do, or married her even though he wanted other women because he thought if he didnt he might not find anyone else to marry him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So this is not me by the way

BUT

why meet someone vanilla get married a few months ago and start cheating on her straight away?

am i missing something?

What does this have to do with you? Z"

nothing just find it hard he made a commitment ie marriage and hes allready fucking others and she has no clue

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well those that are bothered will say cheating is cheating. What about you OP?"

open relationships so much easier in my book

if you get married and after a few months cheat something is clearly wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everybody makes mistakes lol in this case both of them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i met a young bloke once, ages ago who told me that he hadnt been married very long, i thought that maybe he married her just for something to do, or married her even though he wanted other women because he thought if he didnt he might not find anyone else to marry him."

yeah ive saw this before (when you work in a male dominate environment, you hear and see lots of shit)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Everybody makes mistakes lol in this case both of them!"

shes besotted and no clue and i know as i saw her a few days ago.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Did he feel pressured I to getting married??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It seems he was to have his cake and eat it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Did he feel pressured I to getting married?? "

from what o saw no he wanted it more thn her!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's men for you...

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

"Did he feel pressured I to getting married??

from what o saw no he wanted it more thn her!!!

Maybe she is shit in the sack and he needs that side fulfilling....he may love her but does not feel sexually fulfilled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It seems he was to have his cake and eat it.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Well those that are bothered will say cheating is cheating. What about you OP?

open relationships so much easier in my book

if you get married and after a few months cheat something is clearly wrong

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What would you do in that position?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been seeing someone for 2 yrs. He got married a few months ago. Still seeing him. If it wasn't me, it would be someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What would you do in that position?"

Open relationship is what it is you can see fuck who u want

a committed relationship i wouldn't tolerate it

and im not perfect but least my ex knew i was on here meeting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Been seeing someone for 2 yrs. He got married a few months ago. Still seeing him. If it wasn't me, it would be someone else."

saddens me a little, but each to their own.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

no one can explain but him really.

she might know about it but doesnt want to talk about it with people outside of the relationship

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!"

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Maybe he wondered where her mouth had been.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!"

She sounds a bit foolish.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x"

you should always go back....to apologise lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

you should always go back....to apologise lol"

bollocks, i should be celebrating and i cant be arsed with it all so football and chill

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

dont relish your position in knowing OP but will you leave it as it is or will you tell her..?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

you should always go back....to apologise lol

bollocks, i should be celebrating and i cant be arsed with it all so football and chill"

celebrating what?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"dont relish your position in knowing OP but will you leave it as it is or will you tell her..?"

nope im saying shit, not my business

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

you should always go back....to apologise lol

bollocks, i should be celebrating and i cant be arsed with it all so football and chill

celebrating what?"

finlly been told in remission and i dont need a hysterectomy

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

you should always go back....to apologise lol

bollocks, i should be celebrating and i cant be arsed with it all so football and chill

celebrating what?

finlly been told in remission and i dont need a hysterectomy "

super news!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

and im sober LOLOLOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

you should always go back....to apologise lol

bollocks, i should be celebrating and i cant be arsed with it all so football and chill

celebrating what?

finlly been told in remission and i dont need a hysterectomy

super news!!!!

That is AWESOME news

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

you should always go back....to apologise lol

bollocks, i should be celebrating and i cant be arsed with it all so football and chill

celebrating what?

finlly been told in remission and i dont need a hysterectomy

super news!!!!

That is AWESOME news

aww thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i wish that was the case

she was with us tuesday girls night out and all she could do was gush and praise him about how shes snagged a faithful guy and she would kill herself if he went off with anyone else

and for once i didnt open my gob!

but she is hardly going to admit just 3 months in that she picked a shit one is she?

but well done on not opening your gob lol

i havent gone back to the pub lol

lets put it that way x

you should always go back....to apologise lol

bollocks, i should be celebrating and i cant be arsed with it all so football and chill

celebrating what?

finlly been told in remission and i dont need a hysterectomy "

That's fabulous news

and to answer your question ~ I have no idea why in a new relationship anyone would do that.

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