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When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?

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By *irtysnapper OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an 18 pack. Am I fat?

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

When she has two tits at the back aswell?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who cares. Bbws are hot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Half a stone on top of the Michelin man I'd say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss..."

Its been discussed to death!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean blokes are square then

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By *irtysnapper OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

That assumes I've been here for ages and seen all the dicsussions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I cant fit in my spaceship anymore

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the 8 becomes 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can just tell.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We already had this thread few weeks ago.. men will never say the truth basically to sum it up lol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Proberly when your not a size eight

Her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every persons views as to what is fat probably differ greatly so I guess the same will apply here.

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan
over a year ago

aberdeenshire

When did 5 inches become VWE?

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By *awg1974Man
over a year ago

Drawda

Usually....it is just after you've cum in/on/over it and just before you decide you're not going there ever again....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic. "

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the 8 becomes 0 "

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By *irtysnapper OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x"

That's refreshing. Lots of blokes like fat women. It's not fooling anyone when people pretend they're something they're not, as someone said earlier, the pics will tell the real story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just wish there was a "fat" option when setting up a profile. I'm not keen on euphemisms. Yeah, I'm fat - but I have enough body confidence to know that fat isn't the only think I have to offer.

Not to your taste? Then walk on by - but by having the option to tell it like it is, it might mean I don't have to sift through so many messages telling me I'm disgusting/revolting, etc., etc.

(Ta for the opinion: I know *just* the place you can put it...)

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

when a bloke cant bend over to do his shoe laces without panting..?

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x"

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I just wish there was a "fat" option when setting up a profile. I'm not keen on euphemisms. Yeah, I'm fat - but I have enough body confidence to know that fat isn't the only think I have to offer.

Not to your taste? Then walk on by - but by having the option to tell it like it is, it might mean I don't have to sift through so many messages telling me I'm disgusting/revolting, etc., etc.

(Ta for the opinion: I know *just* the place you can put it...) "

I have met many revolting thin people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"when a bloke cant bend over to do his shoe laces without panting..?"

Or if he can't even see his shoelaces without the use of strategically placed mirrors

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By *rystal denisonWoman
over a year ago

trowbridge

I dunno maybe its the way I have been brought up but I think to me calling someone fat is rude, curvy bbw ect sure there names that come with a bit of sexy , but fat and the way its been put across by the poster well it just come across like curvy is ok but well when your fat you are just revolting and as someone who has struggled with her weight thro out the years I personally find it offensive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?"

Subtitle:- "A pie to far"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative. "

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x"

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the person, iv seen some girls that look large at 10, and some others that look trim at 10 -12 too. So it's hard to say.

But generally speaking fat girls hide themselves behind this 'curvy' mask, Kelly brook is curvy. Dawn French isn't

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By *3rial Thr1LL3rMan
over a year ago

aberdeenshire


"When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange "

Flange

What is curvy anyway, it's a pretty non descriptive term. A double decker bus has curves but I wouldn't describe it as curvy. Things should be clearer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible."

Amen!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible.

Amen! "

I don't follow any mad diets I have 3 meals a day with correct portions and swim an gym 4-5 times a week I realized the only way to move it is exercise and for all I don't feel relaxed I the gym I'm starting to see results which pushes me harder.... Thank you for advice

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

When you find fungal infections under the folds of fat

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff


"When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange "

And squirt her with talc powder, ask her to fart so at least you know where to start the search.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible.

Amen!

I don't follow any mad diets I have 3 meals a day with correct portions and swim an gym 4-5 times a week I realized the only way to move it is exercise and for all I don't feel relaxed I the gym I'm starting to see results which pushes me harder.... Thank you for advice "

Exercise ftw. So many people just have no time to do exercise it seems but lots of time to think up excuses. Although I can vouch that at times motivation can be difficult.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?

When she knocks you back obviously

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Pirouettes across the thread wearing a pink tutu and humming swan lake... Like a fairy on a rock cake! va va vooooooooommmmmm!

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

If someone wants to describe themselves a certain way, you don't have to agree but they are doing no harm to anyone if the pics are on show for all to see.

I am not sure why the obsession with where the line is drawn.....if you think people are fat rather than curvy and you don't like fat people then avoiding is easily done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That assumes I've been here for ages and seen all the dicsussions."

Try the search box. Just a tip.

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By *ondering_yorkshiremanMan
over a year ago

Somewhere near NE Derbyshire/S Yorkshire/Nottinghamshire border

When the lady says it does!!!

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

I thought the answer was 8.25 pm but I'm guessing the OP wasn't after the exact time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat....with some curves

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By *hole Lotta RosieWoman
over a year ago

Deviant City

When you become the size I am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I eat any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You go around curves and over fat

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By *otsoSnowWhiteWoman
over a year ago

My Ice Castle! South Wales

I'm not being funny but has the fat,curvy,etc,etc been flogged to death! Haven't people got better things to discuss!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it depends on the person, iv seen some girls that look large at 10, and some others that look trim at 10 -12 too. So it's hard to say.

But generally speaking fat girls hide themselves behind this 'curvy' mask, Kelly brook is curvy. Dawn French isn't "

Large at size 10?????? My god are the women you meet all 3ft tall? There is no way on earth that an average sized women with a 32" bust is large.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?

When she knocks you back obviously "

been called fat by a few men I've turned down!

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By *imon_hydeMan
over a year ago

Stockport

When you're married...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look in the mirror sometimes and think I'm fat/curvy!

You see what you see. . Everyone's perception is different. You either like or dislike

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"When you find fungal infections under the folds of fat "

Ewww thats gross!

But it's helped with my diet - put me right off my dinner...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible.

Amen!

I don't follow any mad diets I have 3 meals a day with correct portions and swim an gym 4-5 times a week I realized the only way to move it is exercise and for all I don't feel relaxed I the gym I'm starting to see results which pushes me harder.... Thank you for advice

Exercise ftw. So many people just have no time to do exercise it seems but lots of time to think up excuses. Although I can vouch that at times motivation can be difficult. "

My sister was a size 10 back in 2007. A year later after giving birth to a 12lb baby her size went to 18-20. She started eating healthily and went to the gym 4 times a week. That was 2 years ago. She's now a size 10-12, skinnier than me! It took her a year to get down to the size she is today! Still goes to the gym

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"when a bloke cant bend over to do his shoe laces without panting..?

Or if he can't even see his shoelaces without the use of strategically placed mirrors "

Well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you have to roll her in flour n aim for the damp spot

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange "

That's what I was thinking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you find fungal infections under the folds of fat "

or the cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange

That's what I was thinking "

Did you check

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the belly is bigger than the boobs...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the belly is bigger than the boobs..."

Oh Bugger im a Blimp

Gimp

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

I see the op has not offered his thoughts on the subject.....

Fat doesn't have to be a negative word but many people see it as one. There are types of people for everyone. Worry not about those you don't like, just the ones you do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss...

Its been discussed to death!!"

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Discuss..."

No, thanks all the same.

I have paint to watch dry.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Actually most of the western world is fat, to a greater or lesser degree. I see the OP has only chosen average, not athletic or slim. Probably best to check out people's pics, make your own mind up about each individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?

When she knocks you back obviously "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If someone wants to describe themselves a certain way, you don't have to agree but they are doing no harm to anyone if the pics are on show for all to see.

I am not sure why the obsession with where the line is drawn.....if you think people are fat rather than curvy and you don't like fat people then avoiding is easily done.

"

You'd think...............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm wondering do the fat threads hide the mask of a skinny cock

Her

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By *oughnut and radoxWoman
over a year ago

Ashingdon

Check my pics and tell me

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

How easy is it just not to message fat people if they are not your thing...but it just makes me want to hit my head against a brick wall at the amount of threads regarding fat people, slim people etc...if people want to be fat allow them to be fat...some like me actually don't give a shit that they are fat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be great if they got rid of the body size tick box. Then people would have to find out for themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We already had this thread few weeks ago.. men will never say the truth basically to sum it up lol "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?

When she knocks you back obviously

been called fat by a few men I've turned down! "

me too

its funny how you can go from having a sexy figure to being a fat cow in the time it takes to say no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip: if you can pinch lots from your waist its not slim lol.

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Discuss...

No, thanks all the same.

I have paint to watch dry."

Well go and watch your paint and stop clogging up something you don't want to be a part of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange "

When you have to hoist his stomach up to find his cock

Why have the majority of derogatory answers been aimed towards females? Men get fat as well

(Just quoted this one as an example,not a dig at the poster)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange "

that tickled me

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By *rforfunCouple
over a year ago

Bedford


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible.

Amen!

I don't follow any mad diets I have 3 meals a day with correct portions and swim an gym 4-5 times a week I realized the only way to move it is exercise and for all I don't feel relaxed I the gym I'm starting to see results which pushes me harder.... Thank you for advice

Exercise ftw. So many people just have no time to do exercise it seems but lots of time to think up excuses. Although I can vouch that at times motivation can be difficult.

My sister was a size 10 back in 2007. A year later after giving birth to a 12lb baby her size went to 18-20. She started eating healthily and went to the gym 4 times a week. That was 2 years ago. She's now a size 10-12, skinnier than me! It took her a year to get down to the size she is today! Still goes to the gym"

Don't diet!!! I have five to six meals a day (I have picks of my body on our profile) I have had three children in the past six years, I exorcise a few times a week, if you want to lose weight you have to work for it and the only person that stops you is YOU! Don't make excuse's ie. time, dont know how. every one reading this can use the Internet it is full of workouts you can do at home with no cost. And as for being called skinny that's as bad as being called fat! Rant over.....

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By *ichaelangelaCouple
over a year ago

notts

well its a bit like this.

if your lips are a little curvy, and you tell someone they are fat, thats the point at which your lips get fat.

hope this helps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick with guys under 30 - ive found without exception - most guys 40-45 plus are " fattist " !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the hours glass looks more like an orangina bottle

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Discuss...

No, thanks all the same.

I have paint to watch dry.

Well go and watch your paint and stop clogging up something you don't want to be a part of. "

Says the one clogging up the thread further by bitching

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Curvy becomes fat when you insist on labels. Just look at someone, when you know their personality and decide if you like them- no labels needed at all. All definitions are subjective, we all differ and people deserve better than being shoe horned into a division.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

I'm fat. I am not putting myself down saying this, as I get told for describing myself as fat. I am also curvy. I don't have a waist as such but there is an indentation below the bust and I can use it to fake a waist.

Why don't we talk about fat men with skinny legs now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im fat im fat im in happy size and what? If im not your thing don't look at me.

Im active daily. Im not fat because I eat and dont look after myself.

I have only underactive thyroid from pregnancy.

It something change? Only body but my personality is still the same!

I have a lots of places for kiss for touch etc. Im happy and bubbly.

I don't need to discuss about that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got a 6pack .

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"I'm fat. I am not putting myself down saying this, as I get told for describing myself as fat. I am also curvy. I don't have a waist as such but there is an indentation below the bust and I can use it to fake a waist.

Why don't we talk about fat men with skinny legs now? "

Can we include saggy man boobs, hairy backs and pencil dicks?

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By *illwill69uMan
over a year ago

moston

Depends...

If it you a lot sooner than if its me...

What is that your saying about double standards?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely u see the woman that isnt curvy,slim and fat can be curvy.

I go to a party called 'curvy club' in London which is as popular as any organised party. It is a party for larger ladies and there admirers.it is the southeast version of chams bbw nights.they havent called it fat club as curvy is a nicer way to describe it.

if fab had a option for fat in its description not many ladys would use it, why should they we have a option for slim, they dont like being called skinny and thats not nice description either., then the forums would moan about people not doing proper descriptions.i wouldnt ever im large and here to attract my choice of meets why should I describe myself as fat I know I am and people see I am. There are plenty people I see athletic description and I wouldn't say Some are but my own opinion.the op asked a question about when curvy becomes fat, simple answer is in your own eye's, if you dont like walk past, if you do like then start chatting to them its not hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy becomes fat when you insist on labels. Just look at someone, when you know their personality and decide if you like them- no labels needed at all. All definitions are subjective, we all differ and people deserve better than being shoe horned into a division. "

Possibly the best response ever written on the subject.

I bow to your greatness Sophie .... at least I would but my humungous belly wont allow for it, so I guess you will have to settle for a polite knee dip instead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tip: if you can pinch lots from your waist its not slim lol."

Ah but there is an issue with that.

I'm a size 12 and going down to a 10 for some clothes but was a size 20 before so I do have a little extra flesh that if it was taken away would make me a size 10 easily. Now in your tip I would be fat. But I'm not.

Fat to me is when you know yourself you are. I knew I was fat. I just hid it very well with the right clothes and wearing really high heels to make me look taller than I was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you have to lift up her stomach to get to her flange

When you have to hoist his stomach up to find his cock

Why have the majority of derogatory answers been aimed towards females? Men get fat as well

(Just quoted this one as an example,not a dig at the poster)"

Cos men don't usually describe themselves as curvy too - but they do get fat. Men's option for curvy should be stocky. Admin please change men's curvy to stocky if possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When it's unattractive to the individual. Fat is an insult, curvy is a compliment. I like a full figured women, I even like girls whom some refer to as fat. To me it's curvy, I'm not keen on obese bodies and to me that's fat. Everyone will have their own view on what's fat and what's simply curvy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think fat people are curvy. Wobbly or round perhaps, but not curvy as in boobs out, waist in.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't think fat people are curvy. Wobbly or round perhaps, but not curvy as in boobs out, waist in."

I describe myself as three spheres: boobs, tummy and bum. There's a bit of in but it is still a big, fat sphere. It's just a teensy bit less big, fat sphere than the boob sphere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think fat people are curvy. Wobbly or round perhaps, but not curvy as in boobs out, waist in.

I describe myself as three spheres: boobs, tummy and bum. There's a bit of in but it is still a big, fat sphere. It's just a teensy bit less big, fat sphere than the boob sphere.

"

Spheres of influence

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound


"I don't think fat people are curvy. Wobbly or round perhaps, but not curvy as in boobs out, waist in.

I describe myself as three spheres: boobs, tummy and bum. There's a bit of in but it is still a big, fat sphere. It's just a teensy bit less big, fat sphere than the boob sphere.

Spheres of influence "

The boob sphere manages to do better in the influencing stakes than the others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some considerable influence I'll bet

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Discuss...

No, thanks all the same.

I have paint to watch dry.

Well go and watch your paint and stop clogging up something you don't want to be a part of.

Says the one clogging up the thread further by bitching "

Indeed I am. But I am not moaning about the thread. I am taking part and being part of a positive discussion as well as bitching about the bitchers. There are very very few threads which have not been covered in some way before. Therefore by the logic of those who moan, we should close the forum to new threads and simply search the old ones.

If this thread bores you, go look at something which does not bore you and stop belittling those who are engaging with the thread. It is not big and it is not clever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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when you change all the letters from one to the other

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Curvy becomes fat when you insist on labels. Just look at someone, when you know their personality and decide if you like them- no labels needed at all. All definitions are subjective, we all differ and people deserve better than being shoe horned into a division. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their personality won't alter their body shape though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When she has two tits at the back aswell?"

Pol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss..."

The official definition is when the curve folds back on it self and curve touches curve in a skin on skin way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be both too. I consider myself both. I dont like the term fat as everyone knows it has a bad connotation so honestly I would never pick that as a discriptive label in a profile meant to attract. If we must have labels then I prefer chubby, bbw, voluptuous, fluffy anything but fat lol. But one persons fat is another persons curvy. Been told I wasnt fat but in my eyes im chubby at the very least. It doesnt bother me at all what other peoples definition is though. Those who like and appreciate what they see will hopefully tell me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss..."

The morning after , when your beer goggles have fallen off

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk


"Discuss...

No, thanks all the same.

I have paint to watch dry.

Well go and watch your paint and stop clogging up something you don't want to be a part of.

Says the one clogging up the thread further by bitching

Indeed I am. But I am not moaning about the thread. I am taking part and being part of a positive discussion as well as bitching about the bitchers. There are very very few threads which have not been covered in some way before. Therefore by the logic of those who moan, we should close the forum to new threads and simply search the old ones.

If this thread bores you, go look at something which does not bore you and stop belittling those who are engaging with the thread. It is not big and it is not clever."

And yet you didn't feel the need to say this to anyone else who pointed out that this subject has been done to death or that it's boring, only to me. How interesting...

No is a perfectly reasonable response to an instruction to discuss something.

The whole 'if you don't agree with something, don't post' is bollocks because the point of a discussion is that people have various views. Nobody, not even you, can decree only people who agree with a thread on it can post.

It, as has been pointed out, has been done to death. Anyone with half a brain will know that there are a range of opinions without having to ask. So my answer, which is absolutely relevant to the OP is still no, I won't discuss it because it's boring.

I wouldn't have said any more than that without your response to me. So now there are 5 posts "clogging up the thread" (in your opinion) rather than just one (which did answer the OP, albeit in a way you don't like, which is tough). Fabulous achievement, well done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they start to sweat a little too much?

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

When you need to buy longer laces for your basque

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By *denlouWoman
over a year ago

bideford


"When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?

When she knocks you back obviously "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they start to sweat a little too much?"

Ah I see what you did there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When they start to sweat a little too much?

Ah I see what you did there "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the belly is bigger than the boobs...

Oh Bugger im a Blimp

Gimp"

All of this is offensive.

Sweat, fat discussions....how shallow!

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By *rtemisiaWoman
over a year ago

Norwich


"Usually....it is just after you've cum in/on/over it and just before you decide you're not going there ever again...."

Cum in on over 'IT'? I pity the woman who ever gets within a fat cat's whisker of your abundant charms.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I would consider myself fat as I'm carrying more weight than I'm comfortable with at a size 14/16. Some guys, who may prefer a more slender frame on a woman, would agree.

Others, however, have said I'm not. Strangely enough, I've never been called curvy.

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By *r Man.Man
over a year ago

London

When it becomes to much for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible.

Amen!

I don't follow any mad diets I have 3 meals a day with correct portions and swim an gym 4-5 times a week I realized the only way to move it is exercise and for all I don't feel relaxed I the gym I'm starting to see results which pushes me harder.... Thank you for advice

Exercise ftw. So many people just have no time to do exercise it seems but lots of time to think up excuses. Although I can vouch that at times motivation can be difficult.

My sister was a size 10 back in 2007. A year later after giving birth to a 12lb baby her size went to 18-20. She started eating healthily and went to the gym 4 times a week. That was 2 years ago. She's now a size 10-12, skinnier than me! It took her a year to get down to the size she is today! Still goes to the gym"

Bravo to your sister she must be so proud of herself x x x.

I've lost 46lbs since January and it's bloody hard work.... I personally feel the only way to move it is excercising x x x

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

When you break people bouncing on them?

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over a year ago

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over a year ago


"When you break people bouncing on them?"

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over a year ago


"It is in the eye of the beholder. Some people who are quite trim call themselves curvy because they may have large breasts. Some people who are just plain fat use curvy because quite understandably they do not want to describe themselves as fat. The best way to judge someone's size and any attractiveness therein is with your eyes. Not the words they choose to describe themselves by. I have met some rake like people who complain they are too fat and some rather copious people who do not see themselves as anything other than ultra slinky and chic.

That's very diplomatic ..... I'm a size 22 and am fat no ifs or buts about it my profile says large coz I wouldn't describe myself as fabulous as the next size up is x x x

Not everyone is as forthright as you are it seems. Like you I would just describe myself as I am as it does not bother me either way. Some people have pride and thus need euphemisms to maintain that pride. That is their perogative.

I don't like being fat....... I'm dieting and training mega hard to lose it but it's easier to gain than lose and now with weight coming off I've got lots of Hangy bits.... Who knows maybes when I reach my goal someone might have sympathy and contribute towards nips and tucks lol x x x x

Stop dieting. It makes you gain weight. Eat plenty healthy food and do plenty exercise is the ONLY way to lose weight healthily and for it to stay off. Dieting makes your body panic and absorb as much energy as possible.

Amen!

I don't follow any mad diets I have 3 meals a day with correct portions and swim an gym 4-5 times a week I realized the only way to move it is exercise and for all I don't feel relaxed I the gym I'm starting to see results which pushes me harder.... Thank you for advice

Exercise ftw. So many people just have no time to do exercise it seems but lots of time to think up excuses. Although I can vouch that at times motivation can be difficult.

My sister was a size 10 back in 2007. A year later after giving birth to a 12lb baby her size went to 18-20. She started eating healthily and went to the gym 4 times a week. That was 2 years ago. She's now a size 10-12, skinnier than me! It took her a year to get down to the size she is today! Still goes to the gym

Don't diet!!! I have five to six meals a day (I have picks of my body on our profile) I have had three children in the past six years, I exorcise a few times a week, if you want to lose weight you have to work for it and the only person that stops you is YOU! Don't make excuse's ie. time, dont know how. every one reading this can use the Internet it is full of workouts you can do at home with no cost. And as for being called skinny that's as bad as being called fat! Rant over..... "

Hear hear and well done to you

Silk

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I don't know when curvy becomes fat but fat becomes curvy at around the 7 pint mark!

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By *hoe_nixCouple
over a year ago

leeds

i don't see why it matters

i'm fat and get plenty of offers ... if you don't like fat don't offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss..."

Stupid question. I'm curvy because my waist is much smaller than my hips and boobs, but I'm a fat 14 because I'm overweight.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Discuss..."
When you gain weight? Seriously someone (female) who is a size 8 can be curvy, as well as someone who is a size 18, it used to mean having an hourglass figure in days gone by.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss...When you gain weight? Seriously someone (female) who is a size 8 can be curvy, as well as someone who is a size 18, it used to mean having an hourglass figure in days gone by."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Discuss...When you gain weight? Seriously someone (female) who is a size 8 can be curvy, as well as someone who is a size 18, it used to mean having an hourglass figure in days gone by."

I'd like a dress size smaller hour glass figure . My diet is decent and I exercise. The doctor's opinion on me being overweight - well you're approaching menopause

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have recently gone from a size 8 to a 12, reasons beyond my control. I believe in my head this isn't fat but do feel disgusting. However, anyone that's met or seen pics of me seem to think I look nice, but the other day I received a random message from some guy calling me obese (not seen pics BTW only one I had public of my very ample breasts). Am I wrong is 12 now obese?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently gone from a size 8 to a 12, reasons beyond my control. I believe in my head this isn't fat but do feel disgusting. However, anyone that's met or seen pics of me seem to think I look nice, but the other day I received a random message from some guy calling me obese (not seen pics BTW only one I had public of my very ample breasts). Am I wrong is 12 now obese?!? "

Check by the NHS bmi. It's doubtful unless you're 3 ft.

Obviously athletes and especially body builders are exempt due to muscle mass as opposed to excess fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently gone from a size 8 to a 12, reasons beyond my control. I believe in my head this isn't fat but do feel disgusting. However, anyone that's met or seen pics of me seem to think I look nice, but the other day I received a random message from some guy calling me obese (not seen pics BTW only one I had public of my very ample breasts). Am I wrong is 12 now obese?!?

Well medically I'm not I meant more from a general consensus of people.

Check by the NHS bmi. It's doubtful unless you're 3 ft.

Obviously athletes and especially body builders are exempt due to muscle mass as opposed to excess fat."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's when the concave bits become convex - or floppy

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Discuss...When you gain weight? Seriously someone (female) who is a size 8 can be curvy, as well as someone who is a size 18, it used to mean having an hourglass figure in days gone by."

this..

rubenesque mm mm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I dunno maybe its the way I have been brought up but I think to me calling someone fat is rude, curvy bbw ect sure there names that come with a bit of sexy , but fat and the way its been put across by the poster well it just come across like curvy is ok but well when your fat you are just revolting and as someone who has struggled with her weight thro out the years I personally find it offensive "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently gone from a size 8 to a 12, reasons beyond my control. I believe in my head this isn't fat but do feel disgusting. However, anyone that's met or seen pics of me seem to think I look nice, but the other day I received a random message from some guy calling me obese (not seen pics BTW only one I had public of my very ample breasts). Am I wrong is 12 now obese?!?

Well medically I'm not I meant more from a general consensus of people.

Check by the NHS bmi. It's doubtful unless you're 3 ft.

Obviously athletes and especially body builders are exempt due to muscle mass as opposed to excess fat."

Don't worry what others think unless it feeds your insecurity. If it does that, address your issues.

Many of us have had a "fat" blast from someone rejected. Ignore them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently gone from a size 8 to a 12, reasons beyond my control. I believe in my head this isn't fat but do feel disgusting. However, anyone that's met or seen pics of me seem to think I look nice, but the other day I received a random message from some guy calling me obese (not seen pics BTW only one I had public of my very ample breasts). Am I wrong is 12 now obese?!? "

12 is definately NOT obese!!!!! Find the block button nobody needs to take grief off anyone!!!! X x xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stating a fat person is fat isn't rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When does 'curvy' become 'fat'?

Somewhere between Nigella Lawson and Dawn French.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stating a fat person is fat isn't rude."

I don't think I am fat tho and I feel it would be rude if the person is not comfortable with that adjective

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stating a fat person is fat isn't rude.

I don't think I am fat tho and I feel it would be rude if the person is not comfortable with that adjective"

Didn't say you were, I've never met you.

It's not rude if it's a fact.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Stating a fat person is fat isn't rude.

I don't think I am fat tho and I feel it would be rude if the person is not comfortable with that adjective

Didn't say you were, I've never met you.

It's not rude if it's a fact."
Thats where the lines get blurry, some are and won't admit it to themselves and will take offence at the term, some are and will happily agree, either can take offence at any given time,so I can understand the caution.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Stating a fat person is fat isn't rude.

I don't think I am fat tho and I feel it would be rude if the person is not comfortable with that adjective"

It depends on intent. If the intent is to insult because of a judgemental attitude, then yes, it is rude. If it is merely information eg from a Doctor it is not, but it can still wound if the word is normally 'loaded'.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a 6pack ."

As you say in every fucking thread. Give it a rest mate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got a 6pack .

As you say in every fucking thread. Give it a rest mate. "

lol not with that!

I agree with the thing about fat as a description/insult etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are not fat, people are people, fat is something that people have it does not define them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the belly is bigger than the boobs...

Oh Bugger im a Blimp

Gimp

All of this is offensive.

Sweat, fat discussions....how shallow! "

Offensive

Really ?

I dont think i mentioned sweat and if my belly is bigger than my boobs its called honesty and i can live with it

Gimp

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skinny you can usually associate with a size. But curvy is to do with body shape so you could be skinny with curves or thicker with curves. Fatness is to do with how much body fat you have.

So skinny I'd think UK sizes 6-8 or 10 if you are tall.

Curvy is when you have a waist/hip ratio of around 0.65-0.75.

Fat is when you have 30%+ body fat.

But generally if you want to know what UK sizes are small, medium and large then according to retailers:

4-6 = extra small

8-10 = small

12-14 = medium

16-18 = large

20-22 = extra large

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skinny you can usually associate with a size. But curvy is to do with body shape so you could be skinny with curves or thicker with curves. Fatness is to do with how much body fat you have.

So skinny I'd think UK sizes 6-8 or 10 if you are tall.

Curvy is when you have a waist/hip ratio of around 0.65-0.75.

Fat is when you have 30%+ body fat.

But generally if you want to know what UK sizes are small, medium and large then according to retailers:

4-6 = extra small

8-10 = small

12-14 = medium

16-18 = large

20-22 = extra large

"

That may be true, but the average dress size in the UK is a 16. Go to France if you like slender women-their average dress size is a 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skinny you can usually associate with a size. But curvy is to do with body shape so you could be skinny with curves or thicker with curves. Fatness is to do with how much body fat you have.

So skinny I'd think UK sizes 6-8 or 10 if you are tall.

Curvy is when you have a waist/hip ratio of around 0.65-0.75.

Fat is when you have 30%+ body fat.

But generally if you want to know what UK sizes are small, medium and large then according to retailers:

4-6 = extra small

8-10 = small

12-14 = medium

16-18 = large

20-22 = extra large

That may be true, but the average dress size in the UK is a 16. Go to France if you like slender women-their average dress size is a 10. "

If I lived in France I would be huge. I hate their food but love their patisseries

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stating a fat person is fat isn't rude.

I don't think I am fat tho and I feel it would be rude if the person is not comfortable with that adjective

Didn't say you were, I've never met you.

It's not rude if it's a fact."

True, however there are much less offensive ways of stating it. Overweight for example. Factual but less of a loaded term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a description that bothers you do something about it.

If it isn't then there's no need to be offended.

I didn't know there was such a difference between the UK and France re. dress sizes - that's really shocking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's a description that bothers you do something about it.

If it isn't then there's no need to be offended.

I didn't know there was such a difference between the UK and France re. dress sizes - that's really shocking"

I have a friend who suffered from anorexia and she is offended when people call her skinny. I try to avoid calling people skinny or fat, preferring to use the terms slender, very slim, overweight or carrying some extra weight.

I wonder what the average clothes size is in the US for women? Yes, the UK is an overweight nation, but some of the USAs supersizers must bring their average up?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kind of hard to describe an anorexic as anything other than skinny.

As I said further up I agree there's a distinction between the intent as an insult and as a description - but in these types of discussions the former is very much fuelled by the defensive comments about the subject. Not by all - sometimes people are quite chilled/funny/honest about it and it can be fun instead of unpleasant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skinny you can usually associate with a size. But curvy is to do with body shape so you could be skinny with curves or thicker with curves. Fatness is to do with how much body fat you have.

So skinny I'd think UK sizes 6-8 or 10 if you are tall.

Curvy is when you have a waist/hip ratio of around 0.65-0.75.

Fat is when you have 30%+ body fat.

But generally if you want to know what UK sizes are small, medium and large then according to retailers:

4-6 = extra small

8-10 = small

12-14 = medium

16-18 = large

20-22 = extra large

"

There are plenty of places that call a 14 large. Maybe those clothes are made in France

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the belly is bigger than the boobs...

Oh Bugger im a Blimp

Gimp

All of this is offensive.

Sweat, fat discussions....how shallow!

Offensive

Really ?

I dont think i mentioned sweat and if my belly is bigger than my boobs its called honesty and i can live with it

Gimp "

To people and their shapes!

Including mine...

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By *harliesteveCouple
over a year ago

selly oak


"I just wish there was a "fat" option when setting up a profile. I'm not keen on euphemisms. Yeah, I'm fat - but I have enough body confidence to know that fat isn't the only think I have to offer.

Not to your taste? Then walk on by - but by having the option to tell it like it is, it might mean I don't have to sift through so many messages telling me I'm disgusting/revolting, etc., etc.

(Ta for the opinion: I know *just* the place you can put it...) "

I to am fat! And hate the polite terms ie cuddly big etc etc call a spade a spade but sadly no option

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a huge ass and boobs but a small waist hence why I describe myself as curvy. I used to be 6 stone and described by my peers as "fat" as nobody could see beyond my massive tits, especially as I'm so small! Looking down on me I must have just looked like a head on top of boobs!! Nobody bothered to look I had a tiny frame underneath them lol

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

My friend driving me to Kestrels says it's when the thighs stop the last couple of inches getting in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just wish there was a "fat" option when setting up a profile. I'm not keen on euphemisms. Yeah, I'm fat - but I have enough body confidence to know that fat isn't the only think I have to offer.

Not to your taste? Then walk on by - but by having the option to tell it like it is, it might mean I don't have to sift through so many messages telling me I'm disgusting/revolting, etc., etc.

(Ta for the opinion: I know *just* the place you can put it...)

I to am fat! And hate the polite terms ie cuddly big etc etc call a spade a spade but sadly no option "

You get insults like that?

That's horrible..sorry.

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By *irtysnapper OP   Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Wow, I wasn't expecting this many responses. Glad I sparked off a discussion, even though it's apparently been 'done to death.'

My opinion - and I think some others have said similar stuff - women of all sizes can be curvy, to me that means the shape goes in and out in the right places. J-Lo is curvy. She definitely ain't fat.

My issue is with fat people using other terms like 'curvy' because they find the word 'fat' offensive. Why would you find it offensive? Because it's true? And being fat is unhealthy too. Maybe if we weren't so worried about offending people, we wouldn't be catching up to America in the diabetes and obesity stakes.

If you like fat people, that's fine, each to their own. Same with skinny people. I don't personally find either to be attractive. Somewhere in the middle for me.

And if you're happy with being fat, really happy with it, then that's fine too. I just haven't met many people that are. Or many people of any size that are happy with how they look. Guess that's the society we live in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am by no means considered fat but I'd like to point out that you can be healthy and overweight as you can be slim and unhealthy. Yet people that are small are never judged on there health. My sister always was severely overweight and ate only dry crackers and apples and took laxitives and made herself sick to get to 9 stone. Everyone commended her for being so healthy! OP do you consider this healthy just coz she was then slimmer?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am by no means considered fat but I'd like to point out that you can be healthy and overweight as you can be slim and unhealthy. Yet people that are small are never judged on there health. My sister always was severely overweight and ate only dry crackers and apples and took laxitives and made herself sick to get to 9 stone. Everyone commended her for being so healthy! OP do you consider this healthy just coz she was then slimmer?"

I'm fitter now than when I was a 10/12 and weighed 8 stone.

You can't judge a book by it's cover.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My issue is with fat people using other terms like 'curvy' because they find the word 'fat' offensive. Why would you find it offensive? Because it's true? And being fat is unhealthy too. Maybe if we weren't so worried about offending people, we wouldn't be catching up to America in the diabetes and obesity stakes."

People don't like to be reminded they are fat as it promps them do try to do something about it and thats pretty hard for some. Its far easier to eat what you like use the curvy tag and feel accepted as they are.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Pirouettes back .... across the thread wearing same pink tutu and humming swan lake again.. Like a happy fairy on a yummy rock cake! va va vooooooooommmmmm!

wayheeeeeeyyyyyy! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you ever seen the programme supersize vs super skinny? The slimmer people are just as unhealthy and in some cases more so. They have malnutrition, hair / teeth loss, organ failure etc. Slim does not = healthy.

PS. Luckily I'm slim, beautiful and healthy lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When yer arse has its own gravitational pull...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am by no means considered fat but I'd like to point out that you can be healthy and overweight as you can be slim and unhealthy. Yet people that are small are never judged on there health. My sister always was severely overweight and ate only dry crackers and apples and took laxitives and made herself sick to get to 9 stone. Everyone commended her for being so healthy! OP do you consider this healthy just coz she was then slimmer?"

If that were true there would never have been concerns about eating disorders.

Your sister's method doesn't sound too bright but whether she was healthier after is impossible for anybody to judge on here.

What can't be considered healthy is to eat too much and do too little.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

My issue is with fat people using other terms like 'curvy' because they find the word 'fat' offensive. Why would you find it offensive? Because it's true? And being fat is unhealthy too. Maybe if we weren't so worried about offending people, we wouldn't be catching up to America in the diabetes and obesity stakes.

People don't like to be reminded they are fat as it promps them do try to do something about it and thats pretty hard for some. Its far easier to eat what you like use the curvy tag and feel accepted as they are. "

What a horrid generalisation.

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Lmfao so now its changed to the" being concerned about someones health" ... How considerate !! Gotta love these Forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have recently gone from a size 8 to a 12, reasons beyond my control. I believe in my head this isn't fat but do feel disgusting. However, anyone that's met or seen pics of me seem to think I look nice, but the other day I received a random message from some guy calling me obese (not seen pics BTW only one I had public of my very ample breasts). Am I wrong is 12 now obese?!? "

Do you really care what he said? You don't know him. Ignore it. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who cares. Bbws are hot. "

They are in this weather ! . With apologies to bbws

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