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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As a couple we get many messages from singe guys and couples. We don't very often message anyone 1st, so most of our mesages are inbound, but when we reply to couples (who messaged us 1st!) invariably we never hear from them again, but if we reply to a single guy, 99% of the time we get a reply.

Now we see loads of threads on here which don't give single guys the lickings of a dog, but at least they continue the dialogue - ok some of them turn out to be assholes, but they are in the minority.

What is it with couples ? Is it some kind of game they are playing or ar we just unfortunate

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"As a couple we get many messages from singe guys and couples. We don't very often message anyone 1st, so most of our mesages are inbound, but when we reply to couples (who messaged us 1st!) invariably we never hear from them again, but if we reply to a single guy, 99% of the time we get a reply.

Now we see loads of threads on here which don't give single guys the lickings of a dog, but at least they continue the dialogue - ok some of them turn out to be assholes, but they are in the minority.

What is it with couples ? Is it some kind of game they are playing or ar we just unfortunate "

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5

well you heard if here first

I'll shut up on this one

I get messages from cpls that DO NOT read my profile all the time

sighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

its the total opposite for us. I tried to set up a 3 some last week, and mailed 4 local single guys. Not one bothered to reply

We usually get a reply from couples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I try to answer every "first " mail regardless from whom I often get really lovely replies even when I have said"no, thanks" in my email. Many single guys are really appreicative of the the fact that I took the time to reply. Not saying everybody has to but it is just what I do.

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By *ebzStarWoman
over a year ago

Notting

Only ever had one ass hole who was rude and abusive.

Reported him and nothing got done.

He messaged me a while back - just to remind me he was still there.

Fortunately i have moved far away from the eeejit so i have NO worry about bumping into him in the street as he was threatening me with.

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Apart from that tho - i have had no problems with single males, fems OR couples.

Just the odd sarky reply when you say no thanks - but i find if ya dont rise to the bait - its usually end of.

No dialogue does not constitute and arguement

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By *ickmealloverWoman
over a year ago

a very plush appartment off junt 7 M5


"As I try to answer every "first " mail regardless from whom I often get really lovely replies even when I have said"no, thanks" in my email. Many single guys are really appreicative of the the fact that I took the time to reply. Not saying everybody has to but it is just what I do.

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I find the same

Most are just so pleased to get a reply

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By *im53Man
over a year ago

Boldon


"As I try to answer every "first " mail regardless from whom I often get really lovely replies even when I have said"no, thanks" in my email. Many single guys are really appreicative of the the fact that I took the time to reply. Not saying everybody has to but it is just what I do.

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I have to aggree there

it`s so nice when some one repies even to say no thanks at least we can then move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As I try to answer every "first " mail regardless from whom I often get really lovely replies even when I have said"no, thanks" in my email. Many single guys are really appreicative of the the fact that I took the time to reply. Not saying everybody has to but it is just what I do.

I have to aggree there

it`s so nice when some one repies even to say no thanks at least we can then move on "

The other point is - sometimes when single guys approach me/ us... we might not consider them at that moment in time but sometimes we do go back and consider them for another party a bit later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

perhaps it's just me then because if i tried responding with a polite 'no thanks' i used to gt the 'up your own arse single female' comment back...so i just don't now.

I respond if tghe email was so polite it's rude not to or if i may be interested....but the obvious one-liners and not read profile culprits, i dont bother responding to.

that said, they're are some thoroughly decent chaps on here what-ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we do get a lot of mail from single guys and even when we reply with sorry nothing doing we allways get a nice reply back mostly saying thanks for writing back most ppl dont.we dont write back to all of them just the ones that take the time to write more than 5 words.we still get cpls though that write to us without reading the full profile and then after email tennis on here they ask for a fem to fem chat on the phone .

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden


"As a couple we get many messages from singe guys and couples. We don't very often message anyone 1st, so most of our mesages are inbound, but when we reply to couples (who messaged us 1st!) invariably we never hear from them again, but if we reply to a single guy, 99% of the time we get a reply.

Now we see loads of threads on here which don't give single guys the lickings of a dog, but at least they continue the dialogue - ok some of them turn out to be assholes, but they are in the minority.

What is it with couples ? Is it some kind of game they are playing or ar we just unfortunate "

I think that there are loads of couples on here who love the thrill of the chase but don't want to get caught. They go away afterwards and have great sex between them, fantasising on what "could" happen

There are even profiles on here that say they don't want to meet anyone but just want to chat. Now as ever, each to their own, but this is a swingers site!

We have had most couples at least reply so can't say we have a problem, except in getting actual meets! We have had problems with single guys and we now don't meet new ones. I guess they would write back because if there is still a chance of a shag....

Try sending back a curt "not interested" reply and I'll bet you won't get such a good response when they realise that there is no chance.

Have to say though, the guys we are talking to here on Fab at the moment are great and never say never...

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