FabSwingers.com forum: Would you introduce family members to clubs or swinging????

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Might sound weird but we were in a club once and a "couple" came in but soon separated and the women later said during a chat the guy was her brother and that they go to clubs but separate. Then we heard of a women introducing her sister to a club. We ourselves wouldn't tell anyone about our lifestyle but each to there own. What do your guys feel about it?

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By *enithWoman
over a year ago

closer than you think

know of a brother and sister who go to Abfabs together but play separate.

Friends and family know of my lifestyle and if they wanted to go to a club with me then bring it on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No i wouldn't go to a club with a family member, if i ever went to a club and i saw a member of my family there i would leave, i couldn't imagine walking round in my underwear chatting up men with my brother there

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Personally I think it would be awkward but if it works for them Fairplay.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We travel 40+ miles out of our area in case of bumping into anyone. Not 100% guaranteed but less likely chance. Unfortunately some of the popular clubs are on our doorstep but never been

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know a mother and daughter who are currently both members of Well known club in West Brom...and yes I have played with both (but not at club). Have met another mother and daughter at Chams... Seems not to bother some people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well the mother and daughter one is common from what we've been told....

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

In one way it could just be brother making sure sis gets home ok.

Bit like taking a platonic friend. But yep too weird for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. I wouldn't, but my parents already know I meet for sex from the site lol x.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Many in my family are fairly open and relaxed about most things. It would depend on the club, whether play would be done in private only etc. If so, I dont see any reason not to, as we have done naturism before and would not be engaging in activity together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear god nooooo, no , nooooooo!

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Ye why not. It was my sis told me about this place an as far as I know shes on here somewhere. .....hi sis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no, no and definitely no. One thing that will happen. Hell will freeze first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I introduced my sister to fab, and also too chameleons..!!

We never play together or in same room....and we have very different taste in men so it works pretty well..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. I wouldn't, but my parents already know I meet for sex from the site lol x."

Tell them the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We travel 40+ miles out of our area in case of bumping into anyone. Not 100% guaranteed but less likely chance. Unfortunately some of the popular clubs are on our doorstep but never been

You probably have just as much chance of seeing someone you know, if not more, as a lot of people in your area could have the same in mind as you...!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry forgot to add her daughter is 20 so it's up to her really.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club"

My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is weird and no fooking chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club

My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here."

I do

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By *ire_bladeMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"It is weird and no fooking chance

Why is it weird ? No having a pop but don't get that. Like I said above my sis told me about fab becouse I left anther site id told her I was on. It's honesty in my eyes not weird

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

No not on our list of things that need doing ... At all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if a family member was at a club then i would want to leave, we only go to local clubs so I'm sure there's a chance but as already been said, most people tend to travel out of the area for clubs so we're probably safe using the one up the road

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think if a family member was at a club then i would want to leave, we only go to local clubs so I'm sure there's a chance but as already been said, most people tend to travel out of the area for clubs so we're probably safe using the one up the road

Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think."

Your probably right but I've already seem 2 colleagues there

It's too good a club not to go

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think.

Your probably right but I've already seem 2 colleagues there

It's too good a club not to go

Wish we could be do bold

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

*so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol but maybe that's exactly what the others think.

Your probably right but I've already seem 2 colleagues there

It's too good a club not to go

Wish we could be do bold

At the end of the day the way we see it is that if we see someone we know there, they've got to admit to others they were there to tell people they saw us

if that makes sense lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I would never introduce a family member to a club or go with them. I don't discuss my sex life or share any aspects of it with family.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here."

Speak for yourself: my age is correct.

As to the op...no and thrice no!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"No I would never introduce a family member to a club or go with them. I don't discuss my sex life or share any aspects of it with family.

Weirdo! What kind of swingers are you not sharing with all and sundry? Tut tut!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.

Speak for yourself: my age is correct.

As to the op...no and thrice no!"

I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club

My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here."

I do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is weird and no fooking chance

Why is it weird ? No having a pop but don't get that. Like I said above my sis told me about fab becouse I left anther site id told her I was on. It's honesty in my eyes not weird "

I don't discuss details of my sex life with my sister we just don't have that kind of relationship. So in my eyes it's weird. But if you do then fair enough I am not knocking you for it.

However the OP mentioned going to a club . How would you feel about that? Or playing in the same room as a sibling?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

My friend Mark (who is a ninja) takes his Grandma sometimes. She loves the ANEL.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club

My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.

I do

In cow years you are 295

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Might sound weird but we were in a club once and a "couple" came in but soon separated and the women later said during a chat the guy was her brother and that they go to clubs but separate. Then we heard of a women introducing her sister to a club. We ourselves wouldn't tell anyone about our lifestyle but each to there own. What do your guys feel about it?

Just wrong . . On so many levels.

I definitely wouldn't wanna see a family member 'at it'. . Or for them to see me

Couldn't think of anything worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your 36 and 35 your daughter would be underage unless you had her at 16 and 18 but even then too young for swingers club

My partner is slightly older then me, I don't want to give her age away but I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.

I do

In cow years you are 295

Oi ya cheeky feeker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No Way! I used to have a pub I could dance like a nutter to the bands, get embarrassingly d*unk and generally misbehave and have a lot of fun. Then I took my kids down for a gig and they liked it and use it often

now I have to behave like a dad, even the barmaids who used to flirt with me call me dad these days...

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.

Speak for yourself: my age is correct.

As to the op...no and thrice no!

I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not???"

For those that have seen my face pic they'd agree I could knock ten years (and some) of my age, but why would I? I am the age I am and not desperate to get under filters etc.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.

Speak for yourself: my age is correct.

As to the op...no and thrice no!

I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not???

For those that have seen my face pic they'd agree I could knock ten years (and some) of my age, but why would I? I am the age I am and not desperate to get under filters etc."

Who's desperate to get under filters????

If there's certain things I may not want to put up I won't. And to people we meet we would tell them so don't understand how it affects anyone else???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It is weird and no fooking chance

Why is it weird ? No having a pop but don't get that. Like I said above my sis told me about fab becouse I left anther site id told her I was on. It's honesty in my eyes not weird "

would you not feel a bit odd walking round a club and seeing your sister in her sexy undies having guys chatting chatting her up for a shag?

there are some things i don't need to see and from a family member that's one of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure nobody gives there real age on here.

Speak for yourself: my age is correct.

As to the op...no and thrice no!

I'm not on about knocking 10 years off, if you can know a couple of years off why not???"

Why do you need to knock years off at 35? Can't say I feel the need to at 45

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wrong . . On so many levels.

I definitely wouldn't wanna see a family member 'at it'. . Or for them to see me

Couldn't think of anything worse!"

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Strangely enough, was just chatting with my vanilla mates at the weekend about my next big birthday in a coupla years...said I was thinking about a party at a Manchester club and a couple of them said they'd fancy coming along with their partners to see what it was like...my sister and cousin are part of my circle of friends and I said I'd happily invite the non relations but not them (they didn't mention an interest anyway)...can't think of anything more awkward to be honest

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Because we can if we want too.

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