FabSwingers.com forum: How often should people meet?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)

So... how often do you think should people meet?

Daily...?

Weekly.. ?

Fortnightly... ?

Monthly...?

Annually.........?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Er...half your age, plus seven?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever they want to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as often as they can once they re in the mood

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By *hybuthornydanMan
over a year ago

grays

Well I would be greatfull to get any kind of meet but all I get is sorry you not what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been on fab for just over year now and I have worked out that on average, I meet every two weeks. So if others can follow suit, would be good for me. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Er...half your age, plus seven?"

My Fab age or my real age?

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

There is no rule on this...... you meet as often or as little as YOU want ...everyone has their own idea of what things should be and everyone is different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once a month at least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Er...half your age, plus seven?

My Fab age or my real age?

Definitely you Fab age otherwise it just wouldn't make sense!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When ever they want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As often as there life's will slow them. I am free most days but everyone else ain't so I am dictated to by others life's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Periodically.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever anyone wants or able to.i meet once weekly just maybe a few that day/night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would have thought the answer would be whenever they want to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever they want to. "

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.

Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.

Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike. "

Once again:

When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who are we to judge?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.

Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)

So... how often do you think should people meet?

Daily...?

Weekly.. ?

Fortnightly... ?

Monthly...?

Annually.........?

as and when they feel like meeting

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It goes on the individual lifestyle I guess, I wouldn't wanna meet every week. We meet just to add a little extra spice now & again isn't a must for us. Every individual is here for different reasons, each to their own.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.

Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.

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By *oulou45Woman
over a year ago

Bucks

"Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)

So... how often do you think should people meet?

Daily...?

Weekly.. ?

Fortnightly... ?

Monthly...?

Annually.........?

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when ever they want to lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.

Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.

Once again:

When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

Exactly how I feel

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Depends on what comes up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every Tuesday - otherwise you're a fake and a time waster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every Tuesday - otherwise you're a fake and a time waster."

Couples!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Every Tuesday - otherwise you're a fake and a time waster.

Couples!!!! "

eh?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.

It'll be Tuesday

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When your balls are about to explode or your cobwebs need blowing away

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

I would meet everyday if work, family time, energy levels allowed it

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.

It'll be Tuesday"

As in 'See you next Tuesday'?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"There is no rule on this...... you meet as often or as little as YOU want ...everyone has their own idea of what things should be and everyone is different

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

Not all the time but more than never. Maybe between three and ten?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.

It'll be Tuesday

As in 'See you next Tuesday'?

I think Fab should move to a system where you are sent a directive each week - 'You must meet xxx within 10 days or your membership will be terminated'

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By *ery curious maleMan
over a year ago

Bishop Auckland

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

A monkeys cunt lol great saying ??

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.

It'll be Tuesday

As in 'See you next Tuesday'?

I think Fab should move to a system where you are sent a directive each week - 'You must meet xxx within 10 days or your membership will be terminated'"

There's two Tuesdays in 10 days.

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By *imiUKMan
over a year ago

Hereford

Twelvety.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

I've changed my mind, less than 10.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone who doesn't meet once a day is a time waster

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

Funny question...ha ha ha ha ha ha.

How long is a piece of string??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people have meets so often i often think they should charge!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a meet this morning so will have another one when it's arranged. No idea when.

It'll be Tuesday

As in 'See you next Tuesday'?

I think Fab should move to a system where you are sent a directive each week - 'You must meet xxx within 10 days or your membership will be terminated'

There's two Tuesdays in 10 days.

I was allowing room for people to retain membership but still be called a time waster - these forums would die if there was nothing to moan about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually every weekend

thats twice a week

one on sat and one sunday shag

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By *ilk n SteelCouple
over a year ago

Croydon

As often as they want.

If you're a couple you probably have a sex life together, are you fucking daily, weekly. Do you just fuck, give each other head, handjobs, toys?

Do you have regular fbs you meet?

Do you arrange new meets?

And are they private meets?

Do you go to the clubs at weekends?

Or week nights?

What about days eg outdoors at Eurekas?

And do you arrange a club meet or do you like the thrill of pulling a new random couple who takes your eye ?

So it can be a little or a lot, depending on who, how and when

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

When the wind is from the East and a crow caws at Dawn.

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"Twelvety. "

I am guessing at twentyteen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say whenever you wanna meet lol I've only been on fab 3 weeks and have had 4 meets, 3 with same guy but it's up to each individual when they meet isn't it ?? X x

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Maybe we should all ( in somes opinion) have like and old fashioned dance card! Tick off each time we fuck? Lol .... People forget not all choose to show every verie! Or 'need' to show the world and their brother what they are doing 24/7 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe we should all ( in somes opinion) have like and old fashioned dance card! Tick off each time we fuck? Lol .... People forget not all choose to show every verie! Or 'need' to show the world and their brother what they are doing 24/7 lol

Just of late our card will be empty so that's fucked us up , we must be time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ooh a fuck card - nice idea. You could swipe it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might have 3 meets in a week then none for 3 weeks. No set rule....

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Just of late our card will be empty so that's fucked us up , we must be time wasters

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how very dare you be here... Off with your head!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's be realistic here.....if you're a single guy by all accounts it's never....you never get any replies. If you're a single female it's never.....because single guys are all time wasters, if you're a couple it's never because no one meets your long list of requirements!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.

Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.

Once again:

When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just of late our card will be empty so that's fucked us up , we must be time wasters

how very dare you be here... Off with your head!!!

At least now we have joined the majority ooooch bitchy

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By *andtsurreyCouple
over a year ago

Torbay

Double it and add 30.... oh no silly me - that's the weather!

I think a Fabs fuck loyalty card is a great idea... do we get a free shag if we get 10 stamps ?

We will stick to 'whenever we want' ta

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By *ent_LifeMan
over a year ago

East Malling

This is such a question for women and couples since i assume they are the ones who get a steady stream of meet possibilities

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

My only question(s):

Who determines how often anyone should meet?

Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)

What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"My only question(s):

Who determines how often anyone should meet?

Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)

What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough

naughty you is!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a month would be nice but fat chance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Seen some posts lately from people complaining that people are on here but not meeting. Possibly they are taking a break or too busy to arrange a meet at the moment. (How dare they!)

So... how often do you think should people meet?

Daily...?

Weekly.. ?

Fortnightly... ?

Monthly...?

Annually.........?

Women 3 times a day, Men Annually, that should quieten down the forums a bit

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"My only question(s):

Who determines how often anyone should meet?

Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)

What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough

naughty you is!

Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"Let's be realistic here.....if you're a single guy by all accounts it's never....you never get any replies. If you're a single female it's never.....because single guys are all time wasters, if you're a couple it's never because no one meets your long list of requirements!

Very good!

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"My only question(s):

Who determines how often anyone should meet?

Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)

What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough

naughty you is!

Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes

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' the actress said to the Bishop"! Lol

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

"My only question(s):

Who determines how often anyone should meet?

Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)

What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough

naughty you is!

Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes

' the actress said to the Bishop"! Lol

Sounds as bad as a catholic confessional, minus pews, plus alter

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"My only question(s):

Who determines how often anyone should meet?

Is this applicable to everyone? (singles, couples, married, unmarried, full time employ or unemployed?)

What is to be done with people that do not abide to this guideline? Shackle them to stocks and flog them? If so, I admit to not meeting enough

naughty you is!

Lol, I can sometimes go 3 meets in a month to nothing for a year, it cums and goes

' the actress said to the Bishop"! Lol

Sounds as bad as a catholic confessional, minus pews, plus alter

lol

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"I meet when I can which hasn't been too often lately due to work commitments.

Anyone got a problem with that can take a hike.

Once again:

When and how often I meet is down to me. Some people have a lives outside of fabs and some people would do well to remember that.

I do meet my fb every week though, but not been able to arrange additional meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no rule on this...... you meet as often or as little as YOU want ...everyone has their own idea of what things should be and everyone is different

True x I never follow rules anyway

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"ooh a fuck card - nice idea. You could swipe it."

BOGOF fucks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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Hello pleased To meet you...

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

So... how often do you think should people meet?

I don't.

I do have a few thoughts on those who have no interest whatsoever in the pursuit of no strings casual sex and are opposed to being in a swinging relationship posting about how others should do it.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

So... how often do you think should people meet?

I don't.

I do have a few thoughts on those who have no interest whatsoever in the pursuit of no strings casual sex and are opposed to being in a swinging relationship posting about how others should do it."

Hahaha, I once saw a couple in a club (who do not play with others as she can't stand the thought or her man playing with another woman) advising this couple how "playing with single men was detrimental to their marriage".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as often as I'd like... Damn that little thing called life getting in the way!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As and when it suits both parties.

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By *inkyKimblesWoman
over a year ago

Northants

Id say when the individual wants to,, I have been wondering how many is acceptable without people looking sideways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once a month but only when there is a full moon...owooooo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So... how often do you think should people meet?

I don't.

I do have a few thoughts on those who have no interest whatsoever in the pursuit of no strings casual sex and are opposed to being in a swinging relationship posting about how others should do it."

Hope you don't mean me.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

42?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

I meet when i feel like it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

Should? There's no should! ?

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

You have a great way with words Femme.

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By *an_WoodMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

Which made me remember that a monkey's cunt is running FIFA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

You have a great way with words Femme.

No she don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

You have a great way with words Femme.

No she don't "

You do

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

You have a great way with words Femme.

No she don't "

Well it made me laugh, lol, you've obviously got a bee in your bonnet about something?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

You have a great way with words Femme.

No she don't

Well it made me laugh, lol, you've obviously got a bee in your bonnet about something?

Lol no I don't. You think she has great way with words and I don't think she does. Simple as that.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"I hate being told what I should and shouldn't do with a passion. And to be honest I couldn't give a monkeys cunt what others do.

You have a great way with words Femme.

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It's nice to be appreciated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Whenever they want to. "

I think it's cool that some people just want to hang out on here...but I do think that giving people the advice that they should meet is the right advice...not for any other reason than that this is simply the best way to get into the scene. When they meet or how often they meet is totally up to them imo.

From our point of view it's been useful, even though we're not ready to swing yet, to chat with various people and get a feel for the scene. I've gone out on several socials as well. And so being on Fab and meeting people has helped bring us up to speed about how we'd like to proceed when we're ready to get cracking

Again...it's all about being open minded to the fact that everyone's got their reasons for doing what they're doing and someone might be the most genuine and cool couple but just needing to approach the scene in a way which is slightly different from you

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not answering that. I rarely have a private one to one meet. Am a bit picky in terms of who i meet - i need that 'click', the conversation flows, the cheeky banter, the gorgeous eyes and lips. When it happens, it happens. That's all i can say.

My meets so far have been the socials and parties. This was something i wanted to explore this year. So, i can finally tick that off.

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