FabSwingers.com forum: What has taken you a long time to calm down about?

By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

As you reach a "more mature age", there are more things in your life that have made your blood boil, kettled your swede, or even want to become wrist slasher of the year.

How long does it take before someone gets ya goat

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Depends if they know what buttons to push...if they do then it's pretty quickly

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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago

not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds)

I m pretty relaxed about most things, One sure thing is my doctors receptionists,

It used to be an Apple a day kept the Dr away now its the f****ng receptionist,!!

And breathe

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Depends if they know what buttons to push...if they do then it's pretty quickly "

See you are copping out now more than giving a definitive answer, but you are a woman and everybody knows that you can get away with this shit, so your answer is invalid I'm afraid

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I m pretty relaxed about most things, One sure thing is my doctors receptionists,

It used to be an Apple a day kept the Dr away now its the f****ng receptionist,!!

And breathe

It's good that ya learn how to chill bro, maybe yo should give her some of your special Apple iPod seed

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Depends if they know what buttons to push...if they do then it's pretty quickly

See you are copping out now more than giving a definitive answer, but you are a woman and everybody knows that you can get away with this shit, so your answer is invalid I'm afraid

It seems entirely reasonable to me to say that different things take different amounts of time to hack someone off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

shamefully it took me a year to stop feeling pissed off n hurt over a break up..

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"It seems entirely reasonable to me to say that different things take different amounts of time to hack someone off

I suppose so VV, but I was trying to find out what had hacked you off and then how long it had taken you to get over it I suppose.

Coffee

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"It seems entirely reasonable to me to say that different things take different amounts of time to hack someone off

I suppose so VV, but I was trying to find out what had hacked you off and then how long it had taken you to get over it I suppose.

Coffee

Being treated badly by men, either in relationships or play partners, fucks me off badly. It's happened twice and it took me years to get over it in each case.

The Council and a housing association in Hampshire, and the Council have made me borderline homicidal. I'm not quite over that yet. I'm definitely holding a grudge.

NPower have hacked me off but that's ongoing so I'm not over it yet.

My ex-boyfriend. I'm still holding a grudge there too.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Enough for now?

And yes please to coffee. Strong and black, no sugar. Ta.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I'm still holding a grudge against my ex after 8 years. He was a complete and utter turd though.

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Good job ya like it black cos ma milk's gone a tad on the lumpy side

*Nips off to shop....

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I'm still holding a grudge against my ex after 8 years. He was a complete and utter turd though."

I know where you're coming from, my ex is a sewer rat, maybe they could be in cahoots now

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

It has always taken a lot to get me wound up/angry. Only 2 people know exactly which buttons to press and can do it instantly

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By *adyGardenWoman
over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"I'm still holding a grudge against my ex after 8 years. He was a complete and utter turd though."

Me too after 8 years. The most manipulative man I have ever known. Such a charmer that says all yhe right things but you don't realise until you are living your life the way he wants you to. So slow and tactfully you just don't notice. Then one day you wake up and think......

What the hell has happened to all the things I wanted to do and be when I grew up. Where has my life gone

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'm too cheerful to hold grudges for more than 5 minutes. I can get hacked off, but it takes a lot and I'm over it quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It all depends on my mood really but I brush things of pretty easy, I try not to let things bother me for to long...

The only person that really makes me angrier than I can cope with is my ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over time I learn to live with things that may have upset me but I never forget . I think if a person cross me that's it really I never trust again .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Piss flaps make me furious. Call them something polite.

Grrrrrrr.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"Piss flaps make me furious. Call them something polite.

Grrrrrrr.

Oh put on a new record and stop trying to stir up shit.

I'm not biting at your playground "humour".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends if they know what buttons to push...if they do then it's pretty quickly "

Sorry

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

If someone you were in love with suddenly did a runner months after putting her name on the deeds to the house that your dad built and left to you. This was your only inheritance in life and you know she had both grandparents as well as parents with homes worth over 300k.

I sold my bungalow for 170k and ended up with less than 60k

I hold a grudge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pta and their constant fund raising...and all the smarmy parents. ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stress about little things , like getting lost .

As for break ups and stuff , what's for you won't go past. We live, we learn and make wiser decisions in future (well most folk do)

Loud chewing really fucks me off though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If someone you were in love with suddenly did a runner months after putting her name on the deeds to the house that your dad built and left to you. This was your only inheritance in life and you know she had both grandparents as well as parents with homes worth over 300k.

I sold my bungalow for 170k and ended up with less than 60k

I hold a grudge

That's why there's pre-nups.

Anyone who says otherwise is a silly billy. There's always that chance things can go poop.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

And using

and

and hugs does not change the intent of nasty posts made with the intention of causing a ruck.

Your posting history shows what you're like.

Hugs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sold my bungalow for 170k and ended up with less than 60k

I hold a grudge

shit....makes my pta gripe seem v insignificant

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

I've actually found that the older I get, the harder it is to piss me off - as I've learned better coping mechanisms and how to shrug it off before it starts.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

I sold my bungalow for 170k and ended up with less than 60k

I hold a grudge

I would too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And using

and

and hugs does not change the intent of nasty posts made with the intention of causing a ruck.

Your posting history shows what you're like.

Hugs

Mwah back at ya...............

Ps.love the fact you've wasted your time trawling my previous posts. Glenn Close????

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

"And using

and

and hugs does not change the intent of nasty posts made with the intention of causing a ruck.

Your posting history shows what you're like.

Hugs

Mwah back at ya...............

Ps.love the fact you've wasted your time trawling my previous posts. Glenn Close????"

Don't bring your disagreements onto another thread just to spoil it.

Can both of you ignor each other please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And using

and

and hugs does not change the intent of nasty posts made with the intention of causing a ruck.

Your posting history shows what you're like.

Hugs

Mwah back at ya...............

Ps.love the fact you've wasted your time trawling my previous posts. Glenn Close????"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm better about lots of things now I'm older....I've mellowed so much and so laid back I'm almost horizontal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I've got older I do find less people will get under my skin, I can't be bothered with the drama any more. But if anything happens with the kids my temper boils very quickly. Also a couple of people that have done us wrong in the past will never be forgotten and blood boils quickly if they are mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people wind me up and keep me.like it but most of the time it doesn't take me long to calm down it does reality depend on the person and what. Buttons they press

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Don't bring your disagreements onto another thread just to spoil it.

Can both of you ignor each other please."

Thank you Ruggers, this was supposed to be about people outside of Fab

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"That's why there's pre-nups.

Anyone who says otherwise is a silly billy. There's always that chance things can go poop. "

They say love is blind.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very patient in some respects but at other times I can go from zero to incandescent in fractions of a second. I don't hold grudges but if the behaviour persists and I can't influence it, I can be serously grumpy about it if I am unable to just cut the person out of my life. There is the odd person in my life for whom I've accumulated a lot of grey stamps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get embarrassed thinking how intolerant and indeed unforgiving the young Miss McGinty was. Everything was a huge drama and grudges would linger on and on for ages. Age has definitely mellowed me..and I no longer sweat the little things and try to take a more balanced view of the biggies. I don't see forgiveness as a weakness but rather a strength in this often cruel world. I can now see how deeply unhappy I used to make myself by focussing on the negative things. I may not be any wiser but im more aware...and indeed more contented....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get embarrassed thinking how intolerant and indeed unforgiving the young Miss McGinty was. Everything was a huge drama and grudges would linger on and on for ages. Age has definitely mellowed me..and I no longer sweat the little things and try to take a more balanced view of the biggies. I don't see forgiveness as a weakness but rather a strength in this often cruel world. I can now see how deeply unhappy I used to make myself by focussing on the negative things. I may not be any wiser but im more aware...and indeed more contented....

Nicely put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only person that tends to wind me up, is my eldest lad... I should let him make his own mistakes.. But he just keeps making the same ones over and over and I have to pick up the pieces. I absolutely, tore him to shreds last night. I feel awful now. He'd come home after a twelve hour shift, and was soaked to the skin... But I'm still livid. Arghhhh I'm normally so laid back. But I could kill right now.

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush

"The only person that tends to wind me up, is my eldest lad... I should let him make his own mistakes.. But he just keeps making the same ones over and over and I have to pick up the pieces. I absolutely, tore him to shreds last night. I feel awful now. He'd come home after a twelve hour shift, and was soaked to the skin... But I'm still livid. Arghhhh I'm normally so laid back. But I could kill right now.

Poor lad only wanted a towel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People don't affect me enough for me to hold a grudge. I might still have sad moments thinking about how things should have been. My ex got everything when we split up. I don't care. I have my children,I'm happy. He isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor lad only wanted a towel

TOWEL the only thing I would have done with a towel, would have been wrap it round his neck! It was only for the fact I couldn't reach! He avoided this pleasure!

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

You are quite correct, There are many things which have happened to me over the years that I have thought "let bygones be bygones", but sometimes even at my age there are thing which I know I will never be able to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People don't affect me enough for me to hold a grudge. I might still have sad moments thinking about how things should have been. My ex got everything when we split up. I don't care. I have my children,I'm happy. He isn't "

Ditto narna... My ex rents my house out... To his now partners daughter.

But I'm pretty content to be away... A content fool perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being told by my old fwb had slept with someone else. Told me the day after it happened.

The same guy telling me he was at home when he was 240 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am very short tempered these days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a long fuse high explosive type, takes a lot to annoy me, but even more to gain forgiveness.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"I am very short tempered these days "

My temper swings with my mood. Sometimes I have a very short fuse and at others I'm really chilled and nothing riles me. I don't always know where I am myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The big issues in life I have always coped with very well, love, sex, death, kids, unemployment etc. But get me on the subjects of homeopathy, faith healing, spiritualists, negative energy and all that shit and I turn apoplectic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditto narna... My ex rents my house out... To his now partners daughter.

But I'm pretty content to be away... A content fool perhaps

It's only money. I have my children's love he doesn't. That in itself doesn't make me happy but not my doing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The big issues in life I have always coped with very well, love, sex, death, kids, unemployment etc. But get me on the subjects of homeopathy, faith healing, spiritualists, negative energy and all that shit and I turn apoplectic."

Terry Pratchett in one of his books had an experienced witch with a younger witch doing a surgery, the advice given to a back pain sufferer was something like:-

cut down the old chestnut tree on the corner of my garden, take a saw and cut a plank from the centre of the trunk, place that plank under your mattress and your back pain will be cured in a few weeks.

After the patient had left the novice said "why did you advise that? surely any old door under the mattress would work equally well".

The explanation is wisdom trumps knowledge, the chestnut tree needs to be felled before it falls onto the witches garden, and the man will believe it is magic so will put up with the hard bed for the few days it takes to get used to it, then the board under the bed will fix the back.

So next time you feel apoplectic take a breath and look to see if the person is cured

and maybe they did some more good in a hidden angle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am feeling very uncomfortable about the lack of hats... well to be specific the OP's hat... doesn't feel right seeing him without it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So wisdom is using someones lack of knowledge without them realising it? Its positive but dishonest. Why not just give them the truth?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So wisdom is using someones lack of knowledge without them realising it? Its positive but dishonest. Why not just give them the truth?"

The truth would not achieve anything in some circumstances. Placebo's work, it's a proven fact, but only if the person taking it doesn't know it's a placebo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a short fuse. My little sister pisses me off the most though. She's a spoilt brat and thinks she doesn't get enough stuff from her rich dad...

Also, I get mad when somebody doesn't say please and thank you. Not naming any names *cough*hubby*cough*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But the point of new age medicine is that the practioners believe the bollocks they spout. They tell their 'patients' not to give up the conventional treatment (that hasnt yet worked), then claim that there 0.000001 Molar solution of daffodil pollen has cured them. If they were so convinced of the power of their crystals, chakras and deities then they could test their treatments properly. I would rather a sick person recieved a placebo from a doctor who can at least moniter their health, than Gillian McKieth telling them to eat twigs and not to worry about the hair and nail loss, its just their body detoxing and ridding itself of negative energy. These fuckwits are dangerous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

New thread started to prevent further hijacking... http://www.fabswingers.com/forum/lounge/281251#message_5246557

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"As you reach a "more mature age", there are more things in your life that have made your blood boil, kettled your swede, or even want to become wrist slasher of the year.

How long does it take before someone gets ya goat

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Depends on the person. I'm fiery, thought itwould subside with age, it hasn't much. I can hold a grudge for years.

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

"As you reach a "more mature age", there are more things in your life that have made your blood boil, kettled your swede, or even want to become wrist slasher of the year.

How long does it take before someone gets ya goat

Depends on the person. I'm fiery, thought itwould subside with age, it hasn't much. I can hold a grudge for years. "

How are you feeling about your fucking cunty neighbours today?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

VV My neighbours are quite entertaining, so they're ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Takes a lot to piss me off but when I blow there's no calming me down . If somebody makes my shit list there on it for life

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

I sold my bungalow for 170k and ended up with less than 60k

I hold a grudge

That's why there's pre-nups.

Anyone who says otherwise is a silly billy. There's always that chance things can go poop. "
Did not think pre-nups are legal in this country

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Right, ive had my lunch and calmed down now. Who's next?

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract

I get annoyed at everything lol genuinely believe people try to piss me off on purpose!

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"I am feeling very uncomfortable about the lack of hats... well to be specific the OP's hat... doesn't feel right seeing him without it.

It will be back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a different tract it took weeks to calm down after Man Utd sacked Moyes it was so upsetting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I thought was my friend continually slagging me off behind my back.

Meh just gotta move on i guess

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By *ce Winger OP Man
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Takes a lot to piss me off but when I blow there's no calming me down . If somebody makes my shit list there on it for life

^^^This

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

"Takes a lot to piss me off but when I blow there's no calming me down . If somebody makes my shit list there on it for life

^^^This

oh my! Same here! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Someone I thought was my friend continually slagging me off behind my back.

Meh just gotta move on i guess"

Lol if they are talking behind ur back I hope at least they are checking ur great ass out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Takes a lot to piss me off but when I blow there's no calming me down . If somebody makes my shit list there on it for life

^^^This

oh my! Same here! Lol

I like this, people stay on my shit list forever too.

Particularly those flighty, emotional people who take things out on you when others piss them off.

Fake people - the ones who tell you one thing and then do a complete u-turn when things don't suit them. Double standards.

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