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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think? "
Would'nt use the word romantic, but the rest still exists. Depends which private parties you go to.

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think? "

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked."
I disagree. Unfortunately the attitudes like that lead to elitist swinging, which we will have no part of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have no idea how it can be called romantic ! It would be a terrible shame & a big loss if there were no single men or women allowed xx

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked.I disagree. Unfortunately the attitudes like that lead to elitist swinging, which we will have no part of."

Disagree all you like. Doesn't make it less true.

Ever since single men arrived on the swinging scene, it has gone downhill under an avalanche of men who think they have a divine right to grope or jump on any woman in sight.

The same applies to dogging and clubs.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

As the OP was on about a few couple, clubs and dogging is irrelevant.

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love

All put your keys in a bowel, then pick one out, I always fookin picked my set of keys out.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked."

I think it adds variety and you don't have to meet single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have no idea how it can be called romantic ! It would be a terrible shame & a big loss if there were no single men or women allowed xx"

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By *dventuroususCouple
over a year ago

sunderland


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked.I disagree. Unfortunately the attitudes like that lead to elitist swinging, which we will have no part of.

Disagree all you like. Doesn't make it less true.

Ever since single men arrived on the swinging scene, it has gone downhill under an avalanche of men who think they have a divine right to grope or jump on any woman in sight.

The same applies to dogging and clubs."

agree and disagree with you on this, swinging needs singles, but theres been a massive influx of others like cheats, and those that dont understand what swinging is about and think by joining a website they are going to get easy sex on tap, without these single swingers would find it easier, but the genuine singles that do understand it tend to do alright anyway and manage to stand out from the rest, we find the easiest way is simply to meet who we want to meet and go where we want to go, and leave the others to do whatever it is they are doing, and we manage to enjoy ourselves, it really is that simple.

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl


"As the OP was on about a few couple, clubs and dogging is irrelevant. "

Clubs and dogging WERE an integral part of the swinging scene until guess what?

Need another guess?

Probably not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you only want to meet couples then you just go to events for couples don't you?

I mostly prefer events with (some) singles (not too many). I've found the couples nights a bit more difficult to socialise at and also I don't like the couples who are not couples - particularly the ones where it's obvious the man has removed his wedding ring for the night etc.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

There are too many rose tinted glasses in this thread. In the olden olden days swinging was very different and involved a large wooden club and a cave.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"All put your keys in a bowel, then pick one out, I always fookin picked my set of keys out. "

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Great days though, weren't they

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

What years are we talking about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nobody is ever picking a key out of my bowel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked."

but single women are welcome. Scene still fucked?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are too many rose tinted glasses in this thread. In the olden olden days swinging was very different and involved a large wooden club and a cave."

I thought it was a middle class activity in the 60s

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"All put your keys in a bowel, then pick one out, I always fookin picked my set of keys out. "

Keep your keys out of my bowel!

Aye, I remember the days when you had to pay for a contact mag subscription, work your way through ads that were 1" by 1", decipher the code words (O levels??), send a letter with SAE enclosed, all for a reply that never came.

Or the phones line, which I believe men were charged premium rates for, and you ended up working your way through 25 d*unk men just to get one that was worth a chat.

Sorry to all the couples that us meany singles came along to spoil it for you but, whoops, Fabswingers and the clubs don't seem to mind us joining in. As said above, if you don't like single men, don't meet them. And if you want a couples only party, arrange one!

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucke

but single women are welcome. Scene still fucked?"

Did we say anything like that? Just to clarify - SINGLES were allowed on the scene.

Okay?

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"All put your keys in a bowel, then pick one out, I always fookin picked my set of keys out. "

Sorry Bowl

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By *aravancoupleMan
over a year ago

A Secret Hideaway In the caravan of love


"Nobody is ever picking a key out of my bowel "

Sorry Bowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The internet happened

The porn revolution happened

The age of instant gratification happened.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"The age of instant gratification happened."

Where's my bloody instant gratification?

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden


"Nobody is ever picking a key out of my bowel "

*faps*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does that mean swinging should be for couples only

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts


"

Did we say anything like that? Just to clarify - SINGLES were allowed on the scene.

Okay?"

What's wrong with singles being 'allowed' on the scene?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The internet happened

The porn revolution happened

The age of instant gratification happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked.I disagree. Unfortunately the attitudes like that lead to elitist swinging, which we will have no part of.

Disagree all you like. Doesn't make it less true.

Ever since single men arrived on the swinging scene, it has gone downhill under an avalanche of men who think they have a divine right to grope or jump on any woman in sight.

The same applies to dogging and clubs."

So its wife swopping and not swinging? Or are they the same

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"

Did we say anything like that? Just to clarify - SINGLES were allowed on the scene.

Okay?

What's wrong with singles being 'allowed' on the scene? "

We are not worthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucke

but single women are welcome. Scene still fucked?

Did we say anything like that? Just to clarify - SINGLES were allowed on the scene.

Okay?"

but it was the single men who fucked it up

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucke

but single women are welcome. Scene still fucked?

Did we say anything like that? Just to clarify - SINGLES were allowed on the scene.

Okay?

but it was the single men who fucked it up"

No no no, it is the group that you are not. You gotta find someone to sneer at and feel superior to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All put your keys in a bowel, then pick one out, I always fookin picked my set of keys out. "

Is that a poo fetish thing how do you get the keys in the bowel swallowing would take too long I suppose they could go anally but keys are quite sharp and jagged. Ouch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucke

but single women are welcome. Scene still fucked?

Did we say anything like that? Just to clarify - SINGLES were allowed on the scene.

Okay?

but it was the single men who fucked it up

No no no, it is the group that you are not. You gotta find someone to sneer at and feel superior to."

I wouldn't sneer at anyone. I love all people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nobody is ever picking a key out of my bowel

*faps*"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whatever happened to old time swinging? It was romantic, erotic, exciting, sensual and very elegant. Half a dozen couples meeting socially, with the girls sharing the men and vice versa. Brilliant socially and brilliant sexually. Something's been lost. What do you think?

Single men were allowed on the scene.

Scene fucked.I disagree. Unfortunately the attitudes like that lead to elitist swinging, which we will have no part of.

Disagree all you like. Doesn't make it less true.

Ever since single men arrived on the swinging scene, it has gone downhill under an avalanche of men who think they have a divine right to grope or jump on any woman in sight.

The same applies to dogging and clubs."

Some male halves of couples are much more disrespectful, self righteous and disagreeable than single guys.

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