FabSwingers.com forum: Going for a meet

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Has anyone ever "dressed down" so to speak!

Just seen someone say "it's a sex site" so no jeans, tops and flat shoes required, if you turn up for a meet wearing them then you shouldn't be on this site.....

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By *erseyridersCouple
over a year ago

wallasey

dress as comfy as u feel ,,then if al goes ok u can change into wot ever takes ur fancy ,,,dnt let ppl rule u ,,gud luk ,hope u have fun n remember no means no ,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dress depending on the weather but I never dress down.

You can still be smart and casual.

Well I can anyway

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I didn't mean someone said it to me.....I dress to please me, no-one else!

I just can't believe the guy thought all women should be in short skirts, heels, stockings and have no underwear on when he meets them

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world

Its your meet !!! Wear what ever you like , let's be honest his not going to turn you down coz his not keen on your shoes !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't mean someone said it to me.....I dress to please me, no-one else!

I just can't believe the guy thought all women should be in short skirts, heels, stockings and have no underwear on when he meets them

That's the standard isn't it?? It's a sex site so you women are whore's by default and should dress accordingly !!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Has anyone ever "dressed down" so to speak!

Just seen someone say "it's a sex site" so no jeans, tops and flat shoes required, if you turn up for a meet wearing them then you shouldn't be on this site.....

I've been dressing myself for nearly 50 years. I never allow anyone to tell me how to dress. Anyone who demanded I wear certain things would find the meet cancelled.

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"Its your meet !!! Wear what ever you like , let's be honest his not going to turn you down coz his not keen on your shoes !!!

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Yeah he would if they were crocs or flip flops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I wouldn't feel sexy turning up to a meet wearing jeans and a t shirt. I like to make an effort and expect a guy to make some effort too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't mean someone said it to me.....I dress to please me, no-one else!

I just can't believe the guy thought all women should be in short skirts, heels, stockings and have no underwear on when he meets them

Wouldn't dream of going on a meet and not dressing up ... but then we don't do socials and usually play in clubs so it's a bit different to meeting at a pub or a coffee shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he can't get aroused without visual stimulation. I don't meet those men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own.

It'll all be coming off anyway!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with jeans and a sexy top!

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Maybe he can't get aroused without visual stimulation. I don't meet those men "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not sure.. never been to a meet lol.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"I just can't believe the guy thought all women should be in short skirts, heels, stockings and have no underwear on when he meets them

Mt Ruggers would say " and why not" to that

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By *iss Chievous1Woman
over a year ago

my world

"Its your meet !!! Wear what ever you like , let's be honest his not going to turn you down coz his not keen on your shoes !!!

Yeah he would if they were crocs or flip flops

No that's just you !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't mean someone said it to me.....I dress to please me, no-one else!

I just can't believe the guy thought all women should be in short skirts, heels, stockings and have no underwear on when he meets them

That's the standard isn't it?? It's a sex site so you women are whore's by default and should dress accordingly !!

That's me out then as I can't wear heels at the moment

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Pair of joggers, waterproof jacket and walking boots today...to be fair, the meet was in the woods (read treacherous bogland) for a bit of outdoor fun and it was pissing it down (I did have nice underwear on and had given my bits a quick wipe though)

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Has anyone ever "dressed down" so to speak!

Just seen someone say "it's a sex site" so no jeans, tops and flat shoes required, if you turn up for a meet wearing them then you shouldn't be on this site.....

I often meet people for sex who are just wearing towels or dressing gowns and all ready for sex and whatever I'm wearing can come off in minutes. I just wear jeans t shirt and trainers mainly. Same for social. People don't meet me for my clothes.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Pair of joggers, waterproof jacket and walking boots today...to be fair, the meet was in the woods (read treacherous bogland) for a bit of outdoor fun and it was pissing it down (I did have nice underwear on and had given my bits a quick wipe though)

Ya classy bint!

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By *londeCazWoman
over a year ago

Arse End of the Universe, Cumbria

Ya classy bint!

Sex on legs, me! Forgot to mention the thermal hiking socks

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"Personally I wouldn't feel sexy turning up to a meet wearing jeans and a t shirt. I like to make an effort and expect a guy to make some effort too "

What if its a £150 quid pair of Diesel jeans and a £50 quid Diesel designer T-shirt?

Its what i wear most of the time to go out to pubs and clubs, smart casual is what most of the younger generation prefer these days. I've never felt comfortable in a suit, and would only wear trousers/shirt with collar to a place if the dress code required it to gain entry. Only time i ever feel like wearing a shirt with a collar is for weddings and funerals.

A lot of swingers clubs could be putting the younger generation off attending with strict dress codes, if they were more relaxed about it like vanilla pubs and clubs they may get more people in?

It does put me off going to certain clubs if they have strict dress codes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wear what you like, if I get my way you wouldn't be dressed for long anyhow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever "dressed down" so to speak!

Just seen someone say "it's a sex site" so no jeans, tops and flat shoes required, if you turn up for a meet wearing them then you shouldn't be on this site.....

F**k that! It really annoys me when guys ask me what I'm going to wear

I'll wear whatever the f**k I want. Rant over, sorry I just find it so irritating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't feel sexy turning up to a meet wearing jeans and a t shirt. I like to make an effort and expect a guy to make some effort too

What if its a £150 quid pair of Diesel jeans and a £50 quid Diesel designer T-shirt?

A lot of swingers clubs could be putting the younger generation off attending with strict dress codes, if they were more relaxed about it like vanilla pubs and clubs they may get more people in?

It does put me off going to certain clubs if they have strict dress codes. "

I have no problem with a guy wearing jeans! But I wouldn't feel sexy is all I'm saying. If a guy turned up looking like he'd just finished work it really wouldn't do it for me. I guess it depends what sort of meet you're having too. Clubs I think why shouldn't you make an effort?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I wouldn't feel sexy turning up to a meet wearing jeans and a t shirt. I like to make an effort and expect a guy to make some effort too

What if its a £150 quid pair of Diesel jeans and a £50 quid Diesel designer T-shirt?

A lot of swingers clubs could be putting the younger generation off attending with strict dress codes, if they were more relaxed about it like vanilla pubs and clubs they may get more people in?

It does put me off going to certain clubs if they have strict dress codes.

And it doesn't have to be a suit to look smart....

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Jeans and t shirt is me making an effort

.and i dont judge women on their clothes,far from it. X

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley

"Personally I wouldn't feel sexy turning up to a meet wearing jeans and a t shirt. I like to make an effort and expect a guy to make some effort too "

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By *utumnWoman
over a year ago

leeds

I make it clear that I'm a jeans and T shirt girl on the phone before I arrange a social meet, if thats not what someone is looking for then that's fine.

I want to meet the real person I am going to share time with and vice versa.

Never had a knock back yet but have decided not to proceed with meets where the man has indicated how he wants me to dress, I dress for me , no one else!

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

"I make it clear that I'm a jeans and T shirt girl on the phone before I arrange a social meet, if thats not what someone is looking for then that's fine.

I want to meet the real person I am going to share time with and vice versa.

Never had a knock back yet but have decided not to proceed with meets where the man has indicated how he wants me to dress, I dress for me , no one else!"
if you're chatting me up its working..but lets swap face photos. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wear jeans and t shirt. I would never ask any potential meet to wear a certain piece of clothing, and neither would I adhere to there request.

You wear what your comfortable in.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

"Nothing wrong with jeans and a sexy top!"

I find that the most attractive to look at and to wear, it exudes confidence and promise.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs

"Wear what you like, if I get my way you wouldn't be dressed for long anyhow

Well exactly! I like dress up a bit for most new meets, but it's nice to see someone enough to know that they don't give a stuff about the clothes, it's just the you inside they want!

I've done socials in jods and boots before now too - no complaints were heard!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"Has anyone ever "dressed down" so to speak!

Just seen someone say "it's a sex site" so no jeans, tops and flat shoes required, if you turn up for a meet wearing them then you shouldn't be on this site.....

I always wear jeans and t-shits on meets, usually with trainer.

I rarely do social meets and the handful I have had, I cant really say I have ever put a shirt on - unless it involves a meal maybe

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I insist on glamming up for meets

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

"Has anyone ever "dressed down" so to speak!

Just seen someone say "it's a sex site" so no jeans, tops and flat shoes required, if you turn up for a meet wearing them then you shouldn't be on this site.....

I always wear jeans and t-shits on meets, usually with trainer.

I rarely do social meets and the handful I have had, I cant really say I have ever put a shirt on - unless it involves a meal maybe"

Fibs. All fibs. What about your Homer Simpson onsie??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe he can't get aroused without visual stimulation. I don't meet those men "

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Most of my first meets are during the day and jeans and top is standard depending on the weather. If I decide to play then I will make the effort on the second meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always like to dress up nice, even for a social meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has anyone ever "dressed down" so to speak!

Just seen someone say "it's a sex site" so no jeans, tops and flat shoes required, if you turn up for a meet wearing them then you shouldn't be on this site.....

i had that person look at me too lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've worn jeans and a nice top to quite a few of my socials

I wear what I like x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lucky ladies who can dress up

.. I dress in whatever I have. I dont have skirts or dresses and Im afraid very casual is my only option

i make that clear if Im meeting someone. If they dont like it they dont have to meet..but there is more to me than a bit of lace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i prefer my jeans. feel more comfortable in them. i do say in my profile that I'm not a girly girl. i've had guys ask me to wear my jods. what is it about jods????

i always wear nice undies though

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By *entaur_UKMan
over a year ago

Cannock

"i prefer my jeans. feel more comfortable in them. i do say in my profile that I'm not a girly girl. i've had guys ask me to wear my jods. what is it about jods????

i always wear nice undies though"

Women in Jods are incredibly sexy, i think its the Lady of the Manor, Posh girl horse rider type fantasy that does it, plus when the jods are tight fitting they show off a sexy ass very well.

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By *mmabluTV/TS
over a year ago

upton wirral

Some guys show up and they look a complete mass,I hate it as I have made the effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't mean someone said it to me.....I dress to please me, no-one else!

I just can't believe the guy thought all women should be in short skirts, heels, stockings and have no underwear on when he meets them

That's the standard isn't it?? It's a sex site so you women are whore's by default and should dress accordingly !!

I'm really hoping that's meant as sarcastically as it sounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always turn up showered shaved and smelling nice usually in a suit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Take me as you find me . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I didn't mean someone said it to me.....I dress to please me, no-one else!

I just can't believe the guy thought all women should be in short skirts, heels, stockings and have no underwear on when he meets them

That's the standard isn't it?? It's a sex site so you women are whore's by default and should dress accordingly !!

I'm really hoping that's meant as sarcastically as it sounds."

Noooooooo serious!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I make it clear that I'm a jeans and T shirt girl on the phone before I arrange a social meet, if thats not what someone is looking for then that's fine.

I want to meet the real person I am going to share time with and vice versa.

Never had a knock back yet but have decided not to proceed with meets where the man has indicated how he wants me to dress, I dress for me , no one else!"

That's me to a t

I will wear a dress if going to a club but that's about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear what I wanna wear... End of story. If it's somewhere public I don't think I'd feel comfortable without underwear to be honest, and seeing as I live in jeans in unlikely to wear anything else. It they don't like it I'm sure there are plenty of women dying to go to the local boozer in stockings, suspenders and little else... Honest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it not part of the meet in the sense of getting ready I used to love getting dressed up to get undressed if that makes sense x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it not part of the meet in the sense of getting ready I used to love getting dressed up to get undressed if that makes sense x"

It does. I actually find it very erotic to watch a woman get dressed for sex, heightens the anticipation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i prefer my jeans. feel more comfortable in them. i do say in my profile that I'm not a girly girl. i've had guys ask me to wear my jods. what is it about jods????

i always wear nice undies though

Women in Jods are incredibly sexy, i think its the Lady of the Manor, Posh girl horse rider type fantasy that does it, plus when the jods are tight fitting they show off a sexy ass very well.

well I'm definitely not posh!

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