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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London

Bereavement affects us in different ways. But i see that uncle Mick has a new partner within 11 weeks of the passing of his former girlfriend, isn't this a bit soon.

So my question is. How soon is too soon?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The day after

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Bereavement affects us in different ways. But i see that uncle Mick has a new partner within 11 weeks of the passing of his former girlfriend, isn't this a bit soon.

So my question is. How soon is too soon?"
Depends on the individual.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Bereavement affects us in different ways. But i see that uncle Mick has a new partner within 11 weeks of the passing of his former girlfriend, isn't this a bit soon.

So my question is. How soon is too soon?Depends on the individual."

...And the relationship/connection he had with his former gf.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Bereavement affects us in different ways. But i see that uncle Mick has a new partner within 11 weeks of the passing of his former girlfriend, isn't this a bit soon.

So my question is. How soon is too soon?Depends on the individual.

...And the relationship/connection he had with his former gf."

So to me with what your saying, it shows she wasn't all that to him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The day after"

The day before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the person feels they are ready is soon enough. Having a new partner doesn't take away any of the feelings you had for your deceased one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 weeks is a long time and when you get to his age you havnt got time to waste, life is for the living.

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By *awty MaxWoman
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"Bereavement affects us in different ways. But i see that uncle Mick has a new partner within 11 weeks of the passing of his former girlfriend, isn't this a bit soon.

So my question is. How soon is too soon?Depends on the individual.

...And the relationship/connection he had with his former gf.

So to me with what your saying, it shows she wasn't all that to him"

Not what am saying, am French so, I will illustrate with an example, before my friend died, she said to her partner that she wanted him to be happy and not mourn for a long time, etc... People have judge him when he started seeing someone else, saying it was too soon.

Only him and I knew that he had had this conversation with her.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"11 weeks is a long time and when you get to his age you havnt got time to waste, life is for the living."

so if you have a partner and your on death door, and you come across a booking that shows he's arranged a fortnight in butlins Bognor for singles (not swingers) for when you've gone.

That would be ok. I know its a bit far fetched, but as you said life is for living

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

It would brighten up most funerals if whilst the padre was doing his ashes to ashes, dust to dust stuff, you can hear the widow being fucked over a gravestone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It would brighten up most funerals if whilst the padre was doing his ashes to ashes, dust to dust stuff, you can hear the widow being fucked over a gravestone "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"11 weeks is a long time and when you get to his age you havnt got time to waste, life is for the living.

so if you have a partner and your on death door, and you come across a booking that shows he's arranged a fortnight in butlins Bognor for singles (not swingers) for when you've gone.

That would be ok. I know its a bit far fetched, but as you said life is for living"

Well why not, better than moping about being miserable.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Bereavement affects us in different ways. But i see that uncle Mick has a new partner within 11 weeks of the passing of his former girlfriend, isn't this a bit soon.

So my question is. How soon is too soon?Depends on the individual.

...And the relationship/connection he had with his former gf.

So to me with what your saying, it shows she wasn't all that to him

Not what am saying, am French so, I will illustrate with an example, before my friend died, she said to her partner that she wanted him to be happy and not mourn for a long time, etc... People have judge him when he started seeing someone else, saying it was too soon.

Only him and I knew that he had had this conversation with her. "

I myself if i had a partner, i would want them to move on and be happy. That's not an issue for me. For me when i was in love that one time when we split i was still in love.

So for me personally i didn't want or needed a replacement. Sex maybe, that's different.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"It would brighten up most funerals if whilst the padre was doing his ashes to ashes, dust to dust stuff, you can hear the widow being fucked over a gravestone "

lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Uncle Mick is who???

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

I am not sure it is anyone's business other than the person involved how soon they start seeing someone.

Personally if I the plane I am about to get on lands on it's nose at 300mph, I would want Lu to be free to do whatever with whoever whenever she felt like it. Much like she can do today.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Uncle Mick is who???"

I presume Mick Jager

Anyone who thought he would be in mourning for months clearly has no idea who he is lol

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By *rinking-in-laCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"I am not sure it is anyone's business other than the person involved how soon they start seeing someone.

Personally if I the plane I am about to get on lands on it's nose at 300mph, I would want Lu to be free to do whatever with whoever whenever she felt like it. Much like she can do today. "

Thinking more about it, if my plane makes like a dart, I would probably be too consumed with how fucking shit a time I was having as the seat in front of me got ever closer to my innards to actually give it a minute's thought. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Uncle Mick is who???

I presume Mick Jager

Anyone who thought he would be in mourning for months clearly has no idea who he is lol"

Cheers...I did a fab search in case it was someone well known like a forumiite lol!

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Uncle Mick is who???"

Doh!!!

lol

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By *bony in IvoryCouple
over a year ago

Black&White Utopia

Don't really think there is a right or wrong time. Is a very individual thing and one of those times its hard to say how you feel till you go thro stuff yourself. Every person will react differently. As onlookers do also to situations like this ... Life is very short, live it before its lost. Don't mean the person who has died is forgotton and never exsisted. Some people just need companionship, old age can be a lonely place for many.

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By *r Man. OP   Man
over a year ago

London


"Don't really think there is a right or wrong time. Is a very individual thing and one of those times its hard to say how you feel till you go thro stuff yourself. Every person will react differently. As onlookers do also to situations like this ... Life is very short, live it before its lost. Don't mean the person who has died is forgotton and never exsisted. Some people just need companionship, old age can be a lonely place for many.

"

Maybe i just a soppy old romantic who hasn't got a clue.

Never mind!

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire

Mick jagger is quite rightly allowed to do whatever he wants.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe Uncle Mick cannot function properly without someone by his side ... he might have less feeling for the new person than he did for the person now passed on

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

Maybe he hates to be alone for any period it's well known he has a love for women...

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Mick jagger is quite rightly allowed to do whatever he wants. "

that's quite possibly the first time i have ever agreed with you!!!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"Mick jagger is quite rightly allowed to do whatever he wants.

that's quite possibly the first time i have ever agreed with you!!! "

Holds on to evie before she faints with shock

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By *ee VianteWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in North Norfolk

Grief is weird. And very individual. If that's where he is at the moment then that's where he is.

There are worse ways to deal with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all have different ways of dealing with grief and let go and move on at different rates. I hope that Mick and his new partner are very happy together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anything ever happened to me, all I would want is for crystal to continue to live her life to the full and not waste it mourning for me. As for how long before she 'moved on' that would be for her and her alone to decide when it was the right time.

Mick Jagger should do what he feels is right. There is no right and wrong. He doesn't really need to answer to tabloid hacks looking for a story or those that buy in to their reporting.

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By *ScotsmanMan
over a year ago

ayrshire


"Mick jagger is quite rightly allowed to do whatever he wants.

that's quite possibly the first time i have ever agreed with you!!! "
. .its your loss x x X

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I agree with many others, moving on with your life is no disrespect to the partner who has died no matter what the time frame.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If Mick Jagger does have a girlfriend his personal life is none of our business.

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