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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

woke up to numerous texts from the girlfriend of a guy that i meet off here ....been seeing him for few months ...been to his most times ....cant work out if im annoyed or feeling guilty

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

oh dear...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eek, that doesn't sound like something you would want to wake up too!

What did she say? (And, what's your number ?!

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon

I wouldn't feel annoyed at her for sending you texts after all it's her boyfriend...personally I'd be annoyed with myself for getting involved in drama...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did you know he had a GF?

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By *nigmatic1Woman
over a year ago

A seaside town near you!

I'd be quite shocked! She must have gone thro his phone and you might get a few more nasty texts!

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By *ensualNorthantsMan
over a year ago

Northampton

not your fault

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"I wouldn't feel annoyed at her for sending you texts after all it's her boyfriend...personally I'd be annoyed with myself for getting involved in drama..."

Or do I take it you never knew he had a girlfriend?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Did you know he had a GF? "

This ^^^^

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I suspect his day is going much, much worse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

he told me he was single ....nothing in the house that shows he has a gf .....

was a shock as i was away for the weekend visiting my best mate

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"I suspect his day is going much, much worse. "

which if he has been caught he probably deserves..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"he told me he was single ....nothing in the house that shows he has a gf .....

was a shock as i was away for the weekend visiting my best mate "

Well I wouldn't be annoyed at her, she obviously suspected something that made her go through his phone!

I should imagine he is having much worse day than you! And an even worse one for the GF

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Imo - even if you knew he had a gf you wasn't the attached one - he was.

It's his problem to sort out - not yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would just say to her you didn't know and too him I would say f### you.

Plenty of more fish in the Fab Sea that aren't cretins x

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"he told me he was single ....nothing in the house that shows he has a gf .....

was a shock as i was away for the weekend visiting my best mate

Well I wouldn't be annoyed at her, she obviously suspected something that made her go through his phone!

I should imagine he is having much worse day than you! And an even worse one for the GF "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

if i knew he had a gf i wouldnt have started anything with him ....

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"if i knew he had a gf i wouldnt have started anything with him ...."

If you can block her number and if he contacts you again tell him to jog the fuck on...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not on here to break up any relationship ...my main focus in my children and am only looking for mutual fun that benefits both of us xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"if i knew he had a gf i wouldnt have started anything with him ...."

Don't feel annoyed or guilty then. I'd feel a little bit upset that he duped you but as has been said block him. Maybe text her and explain that you didn't know about her.

If you didn't know it's not your fault.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "

If you can, block her number he can answer any questions she may have.

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By *isscheekychopsWoman
over a year ago

The land of grey peas and bacon


"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "

Best thing you can do and take it from my experience is to ignore the texts and ignore him...you will get dragged into something that won't have a pretty ending

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "

Best option is not to get any further involved then you already are. Just hold your head high and walk away. Yes it's frustrating, upsetting and makes you angry but if you get any more involved it'll just make it worse!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear about your day....., just move on and let it go and don't give it a second thought.

Enjoy your wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "

You owe no loyalty to him or any explanation to her.

If it makes you feel better answer her questions honestly. If you'd rather have nothing to do with it block or ignore.

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By *a-ra-ra-boom-de-ayCouple
over a year ago

Wish it was the Algarve! Aberdeenshire


"she been texting me more during the day ....wants to know how long its been going on ....where/how i meet him ....did i know about her .....i feel for her been in her position "

Text him & tell him to sort it out its his bloody mess, your not in the wrong! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I would text her saying

I got into a sexual relationship with him from a swingers site. You had no idea he had a gf. He said he was single.

You do not want a relationship.

Any issues are with him not me.

Now please I do not want to hear from either of you ever again, this is between you and him to sort.

I am blocking both your numbers and cutting all ties to him

Goodbye and dump the fucker.

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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago

Titz Towers, North Notts

I'd just refer her to him and block her number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jools xi have a sister just like you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Jools xi have a sister just like you x "

But it's sound advice x

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Personally I would text her saying

I got into a sexual relationship with him from a swingers site. You had no idea he had a gf. He said he was single.

You do not want a relationship.

Any issues are with him not me.

Now please I do not want to hear from either of you ever again, this is between you and him to sort.

I am blocking both your numbers and cutting all ties to him

"

Yes I think I would do something like this, help the poor girl out, clear my name, then leave them to it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have ....but do feel sorry for her

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I'd be quite shocked! She must have gone thro his phone and you might get a few more nasty texts! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

started to finally chill ....going to put this day behind me and start afresh in the morning

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