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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

tat can happen quite a bit! i think until u see t hen u have a pic built up in ur head what they look like! thenwhen u do actually see em they look t otallyyyyyy different lol can be dissapointing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is s big part of why were here...i din't think it's shallow to be honest about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, you are shallow, but so am I xD its not a bad thing!x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no "

Thats happened to me too! It's not shallow because you need that initial attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That has happened to me this week. It's a horrible feeling especially as we were talking and getting on so well. I do think it's shallow BUT if he is not up to your taste then that's your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no "
No not at all . I tend to send my face pic soon after we start chatting . There is nothing worse then chatting to someone for a long time and really getting on and talking about meeting . Then you swap face pics and it suddenly goes to one or two messages then eventually none

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That has happened to me this week. It's a horrible feeling especially as we were talking and getting on so well. I do think it's shallow BUT if he is not up to your taste then that's your choice. "

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By *oo hotCouple
over a year ago

North West


"Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no "

Quite correct. You should not make compromises. Your body, your choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yep. that's why i like a face pic early on. no disappointments. i can chat to anyone but if i don't find you attractive it ain't gonna happen. no point lying about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why I ask for a face pic with initial message as I do need to be attracted to the person. You're not shallow x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no No not at all . I tend to send my face pic soon after we start chatting . There is nothing worse then chatting to someone for a long time and really getting on and talking about meeting . Then you swap face pics and it suddenly goes to one or two messages then eventually none "

I know ..feel bad sometimes but I gotta fancy someone in order to sleep with them xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"tat can happen quite a bit! i think until u see t hen u have a pic built up in ur head what they look like! thenwhen u do actually see em they look t otallyyyyyy different lol can be dissapointing "

Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no "

No, that isn't shallow, it's perfectly normal.

Physical attraction is normally the initial attraction, - it's he cyber world that's a little arse over tit, that's all!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well if you're shallow so am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lots of shallowness

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well if you're shallow so am I "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at the end of the day everyones tastes are different and u just gotta go with ur heart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no No not at all . I tend to send my face pic soon after we start chatting . There is nothing worse then chatting to someone for a long time and really getting on and talking about meeting . Then you swap face pics and it suddenly goes to one or two messages then eventually none

I know ..feel bad sometimes but I gotta fancy someone in order to sleep with them xx "
vOf course you do . We all do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep. that's why i like a face pic early on. no disappointments. i can chat to anyone but if i don't find you attractive it ain't gonna happen. no point lying about it"

I have face pics on my profile and state I won't reply if no face pic is returned, its only polite to send one if none on your profile I think. No time is then wasted chatting if there's no attraction. Call it shallow but few would sleep with someone they're not attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yep. that's why i like a face pic early on. no disappointments. i can chat to anyone but if i don't find you attractive it ain't gonna happen. no point lying about it

I have face pics on my profile and state I won't reply if no face pic is returned, its only polite to send one if none on your profile I think. No time is then wasted chatting if there's no attraction. Call it shallow but few would sleep with someone they're not attracted to. "
can i see ur pic

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By *iverpool LoverMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"Ok..just wondering who feels like this too...

Chatting to someone for a while and it feels good .get on well...then you swap pics and its an instant no no No not at all . I tend to send my face pic soon after we start chatting . There is nothing worse then chatting to someone for a long time and really getting on and talking about meeting . Then you swap face pics and it suddenly goes to one or two messages then eventually none

I know ..feel bad sometimes but I gotta fancy someone in order to sleep with them xx vOf course you do . We all do "

you would be surprised at the amount of guys that are happy to sleep with somone even without any attraction.

The ones part of the any holes a goal gang.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends if its just about a guys looks and ypu only fuck him cos of that as you want othets to know your fucking good looking guys then yes it is shallow.

If the guys an ogre then no.

To be honest bev has fucked guys she wouldnt normally date as their looks wetent what she likes, however after chatting their personality and humour she was happy to meet and fuck and she enjoyed them after all its a one off and shes not going to marry them so why not. A great looking guy could be a crap fuck and wheres the enjoyment there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I ask for a face pic with initial message as I do need to be attracted to the person. You're not shallow x"

That's a bit cheeky, - I just tried to perv at your pics but your profile is hidden!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's good to swap pics early on, let's be honest, you've got to fancy someone to want to fuck them, on that level, I'm shallow too, suspect most are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That's why I ask for a face pic with initial message as I do need to be attracted to the person. You're not shallow x"

This x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

can i see ur picture missie before i say hello

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